Romance › Re: Every Man Should Be Able To Do This With Their Lady... by jaywhoco(m): 4:42am On Feb 18, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Every Man Should Be Able To Do This With Their Lady... by jaywhoco(m): 7:34pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
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Celebrities › Re: Gabriel Afolayan Supports 2Face Idibia Led Protest With A Hilarious Photo by jaywhoco(m): 4:59pm On Feb 02, 2017 |
#I stand for God's kingdom |
Politics › Re: We Promised Change And It Has Come - Lai Mohammed by jaywhoco(m): 3:32pm On Feb 02, 2017 |
'People never do evil so happily and thoroughly as when they do it from moral conviction' blaise pascal |
Webmasters › Re: Mark Zuckerberg Shares Number Of ACTIVE Users On Facebook, Whatsapp, Instagram by jaywhoco(m): 10:41am On Feb 02, 2017 |
Ferdyboss: See money flowing in like no body's business.
Zucky is a real entrepreneur with the third eye for the future. Always updating his platforms and thinking ahead of mean men. Kudos.... what's seun doing? |
Events › Re: Kenyan Couple Wed Dressed In T-shirts (Photos) by jaywhoco(m): 2:37pm On Jan 27, 2017 |
And they may live happy and never part till death...but some others...make I no talk. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Rat Is Tied Up And Publicly Shamed For 'stealing Rice' In China by jaywhoco(m): 8:53am On Jan 24, 2017 |
olaolulazio: We need to tie up all our past president, governors, senators, house of rep members, ministers and all Buhari's cabinet member this way. what about Buhari? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Barack Obama's Presidency In Fascinating Photos By Pete Souza. by jaywhoco(m): 6:35pm On Jan 20, 2017 |
Great thread... The pictures cascaded as verses...absolute poetry, what you just gifted us. |
Politics › Re: Photos From Military Accidental Jet Strike At IDP Camp In Borno by jaywhoco(m): 10:20pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
not much of life is fair... |
Romance › Re: He Held Her Two Oranges Very Tight And Licked One First Before The (pics) by jaywhoco(m): 11:36pm On Jan 14, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: What First Impression Do People Usually Get Wrong About You? by jaywhoco(m): 7:13am On Jan 12, 2017 |
harriet412: Hahaha, u did. its not dah kind of worm o I know. Was just teasing u. |
Romance › Re: What First Impression Do People Usually Get Wrong About You? by jaywhoco(m): 11:03pm On Jan 11, 2017 |
harriet412: mbok, what is ekolo  ekolo as in utung ...- hope I got d spelling correct"lol |
Romance › Re: What First Impression Do People Usually Get Wrong About You? by jaywhoco(m): 9:18pm On Jan 11, 2017 |
harriet412: They'll be like..... She's a book worm  worm as in 'ekolo,? .... |
Literature › Re: Who Are Your Most Memorable Novel Characters? by jaywhoco(m): 10:04am On Jan 11, 2017*. Modified: 10:27am On Jan 11, 2017 |
Graham wessit, 4th earl of mortmarche... Strong, tentative and venturesome. Lives in the moment and tries the necessary just to survive however seen by many as a rake and always up to no good. Very 'kind' character but stupendously misunderstood. From the novel black silk by Judith ivory.
Patrick lanigan...great guy who sought the strangest of escape from the many impending tragedies. He showed truly 'that a man got to do what he got to do'... A capitalist kind of robin hood. Still his exploits appealed to me. Great story. Very didactic... From the partner by john Grisham. Still sad about that ending.
read hundreds of works sha 1 Like |
Travel › Re: Airport Official Catches Man Packaged As Yam Inside A Carton (video) by jaywhoco(m): 10:14pm On Jan 09, 2017 |
RIPEnglish: This is Humans trafficking, the people involve should be putted in jailed. jesu! Putted? |
Travel › Re: Truck Falls On Ojuelegba Bridge Again Due To Brake Failure by jaywhoco(m): 8:55pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
sammychimex: Kudos to the LRU for prompt response. It shows Nigeria is getting there cos it can only get Better. taa. Lagos not nigeria joor |
Family › Re: Because I Am A Woman! by jaywhoco(m): 11:59pm On Jan 04, 2017 |
elitejosef: #copied#
I AM A WOMAN!!! -
So what? I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.
I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.
Because I am a woman, I don't have a right to be angry. So, the degree of my innocence is directly proportional to the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality.....
Because I am a woman, my husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that ''it is in their nature to cheat, I should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him"
I cheat, and I am called a LovePeddler, I have committed an abomination, I have no right to look elsewhere for the love and emotional support I lack at home, I am an irresponsible mother.
So I am sent packing, from the home we both built, with all my earthly possessions stuffed into a tiny box on my head. I am henceforth forbidden from seeing my two older children, I'm lucky to be allowed to go with my little one still suckling on my left breast. Three years later, the little one is tagged a bastard. Now, my new name is "after-three", because I am a woman.
He is 28 and runs a company. He's tagged wonderful, hardworking, focused, career oriented, successful at a very young age.
I am 28 and I run a company " Hmmmm, she is not even married, unserious, can not order her priorities right, a hustler, loves money, let her go and get a husband oh" And I wonder if being successful has anything to do with a person's gender.
Because I am a woman, I am not allowed to have wits or be a prodigy, I cannot be financially buoyant, professionally successful or be treated with respect without a man beside me.
Then I am tagged a generous leg opener, "a runs girl". They never see the possibility that I actually had to go through ups and downs to get to where I am. Because I am a woman.
A man looses his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing, he's being praised and congratulated for moving on, afterall life is for the living.
A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after 4yrs, "ahhh! so early? Are u sure she wasn't sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband. She's a witch! " Because she's a woman.
Because I am a woman, this post will be considered controversial, and everyone will try to correct me. But don't forget, that I am a woman and it does not make me less human!!! Happy new year. should be 'loses'... |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Online Records 67 Percent Decline In Job Applications - Guardian by jaywhoco(m): 12:28pm On Jan 04, 2017 |
[quote author=MrPresident1 post=52521031]No one knows the exact day that Jesus Christ will come back, but the Bible gives us the reference period when all things MUST be concluded including the establishment of the kingdom of God here on earth.
In the Book of Daniel 2:44, we are told that Christ will come during the days of trying to mix iron and clay. Now the incoming rulers of iron have said that they will not have anything to do with clay when they come in, and Daniel tells us that it is in the days of trying to mix iron and clay that the kingdom of Christ will be set up.
The days of trying to mix iron and clay ends on the 20th of January 2017
Let us all prepare to receive our Messiah, Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ in our watchfulness and sobriety. He will be here on or before Tuesday 20th of January 2017[/quote) should sango talk about things like these? Perhaps you should talk about mixing thunder and iron. Loool |
Career › Re: Akwa Ibom Man Who Sells Doughnut Helped By A Nigerian Lawyer, Effiong by jaywhoco(m): 7:00pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
ayindejimmy: You're derailing the post.
It's about humanity not tribe.
All tribes have beggars some have way more...there are no beggars in akwa-ibom |
Politics › Re: Rehabilitation, Reconstruction And Expansion of Lagos-Ibadan Expressway (Photos) by jaywhoco(m): 11:33pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Origin Of Christmas, Santa Claus, Christmas Presents, Christmas Tree by jaywhoco(m): 11:49am On Dec 25, 2016 |
You can not keep a fool from his folly... Homer |
Sports › Re: Carlos Tevez Marries Venesa Mansilla (Photos) by jaywhoco(m): 8:25pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
Nice suit. Love is beautiful. It makes life more
Life's only true essence |
Travel › Re: New Great Shorts Of Eko-atlantic by jaywhoco(m): 10:57pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
Zuzer: They're Lebanese Nigerians yea. they have nigerian passports |
Travel › Re: New Great Shorts Of Eko-atlantic by jaywhoco(m): 4:39pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
googlepikins: Lebanese billionaires that started banana island. They own eko Atlantic city. chagoury |
Travel › Re: New Great Shorts Of Eko-atlantic by jaywhoco(m): 4:37pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
googlepikins: chagoris brothers are doing wonders in Lagos state, like they did in banana island. So where haters wan from come. chagoury |
Crime › Re: Girl Who Was Kidnapped After Her Mum Was Shot Dead In Ikorodu, Has Been Found by jaywhoco(m): 1:50pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
Let your kingdom come o Jehovah |
Pets › Re: A Curvy Woman And Her Pet Cat Cooking (Photo) by jaywhoco(m): 7:04pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
Fortunate cat |
Politics › Re: Ahmed Indimi In A Private Jet With Other Nigerian Bilionaire Children (Pic) by jaywhoco(m): 1:27pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
Oil money... |
Education › Re: Nigerians React To 2016 GCE Results Released By WAEC by jaywhoco(m): 11:56am On Dec 19, 2016 |
Teniolasmart: I have been calling my cousin since yesterday about his result and he has refuse to pick my call....................................
I sha hope it not what am thinking he failed in flying colours...lol |
Celebrities › Re: Ibinabo Fiberesima & Her Sons At Installation Of Her Dad As Chief In Okrika by jaywhoco(m): 10:34pm On Dec 18, 2016 |
Is she still a star actress? |
Science/Technology › Re: The Moon Landing Conspiracy. Truth Or Hoax by jaywhoco(m): 8:31pm On Dec 12, 2016 |
'This is one great leap for a man, one giant leap for mankind' ...Neil Armstrong from the sea of tranquility...Apollo 11. My first exciting science story. Papa told me all. I was just 7 |
Culture › Re: Feminism: Operationally Contradictory? by jaywhoco(m): 2:54pm On Dec 12, 2016 |
Spot on Ohibenemma: Many years ago, the afro beat crooner, the late Fela Anikulapo Kuti sang about the emerging “modern” African lady. In the lyrics, he stated that : “she wan siddon for table before anybody…she wan take piece of meat before anybody…” and so on. Today, many years after, we see this at play in our society. It has been on for long, but its proponents are closer home than ever. They call themselves FEMINISTS.
I have listened to the arguments by Feminists over the years and have reached the simple conclusion that it is a very flawed subject. I have asked myself many times, and will ask again: what exactly do feminists want?
A Christian, I will draw my creation story from that handed down to us in the Holy Bible, which tells of how the man was first created, and the woman created FROM him to be a help meet for him. Now, this in no way prescribes a particular pattern of inordinate overlordship, but it does clearly state a hierarchy. This fact is alluded to in other chapters of the Bible, opening up the debate of who is actually superior between the male and female genders. I will attempt to answer that question. None. What was created was a partnership, not a feudalist set-up. However, it was a partnership with a hierarchy. Well, that’s not the focus of this write-up.
I have listened to and read speeches by modern day feminists, including our very own award winning writer, Chimamanda Adichie, and laughed. Not because I despise them or what they stand for, but because their claims are filled with operational contradictions. They claim to desire an equal standing by women with men, but operationally desire maintenance of the status quo. But isn’t it laughable that women would want an equality that can hardly be sustained by their biological set-ups? What about those hormonal factors that men don’t experience? What happens to the physical protuberances and monthly visits? I have observed these and laughed even more.
But, aside the mirth, I have observed that against their claims, the feminists do not even desire an equal standing with men; what they actually want is for the men with which they are equal to accord them special privileges because they are women. What segregation could be greater than this? They want the man to do some of the cooking at home, yet they want him to open the car door for them. They want some reservations made for them in government, reservations they will enjoy not because of their abilities, but because they are women! They want to get into male dominated jobs, not because they are physically suited to such, but because they want some representation to hype their ego! I think these people are actually chauvinists in disguise.
I was reading a commentary on the just concluded American elections, and the writer was trying so hard to decry Donald Trump’s victory on the basis of an opportunity lost to the American people to show that they were progressively minded. Since when did progressiveness have to do with some compulsion in favouring particular candidates on account of their sex rather than ability? That hardly sounds progressive to me. Sacrificing competence on the altar of gender, I think, it is actually a schism of sorts – and mediocre!
I remember back then, as a student of political sociology, we learnt that Hobbes’ contention for the formation of government was because, without and prior to it, man was brutish, lawless and life was short. Isn’t this the Almighty’s reason for the different characteristics and responsibilities assigned the two genders? Women, have been known in the course of history (in their place BESIDE THE MAN), to control world leaders even from the comfort of their bedrooms; they have caused men to act in highly benevolent ways just as well as they’ve inspired outrightly irrational reactions. Paupers have been made kings and kings have been brought to their knees, amongst others. Now, stimulated by feminist inspired gender strife, the females have gone into competition with the males, yet when they are decisively trumped, they cry discrimination and play the victim. On one hand, they want to be provided an equal playing ground, yet when they come short, they decry the males for being chauvinistic. Aren’t there areas where the females have a comparative advantage? Would feminists not view advising them to focus on those areas as gender discrimination I know they would.
In our studies of industrial relations, it was contended that one of the veritable ways to achieve specialization was by division of labour; would our modern societies not be helped to function better if each is allowed to develop along the lines of comparative strength? That way, macho ladies can be drafted to the frontlines while sissies (men) can be assigned kitchen duties. Under such arrangement, it wouldn’t be a bother to have a gender percentage of 96/4%, depending on the task, and none would cry discrimination. Also, undue contention would be eliminated and the sexes would function in harmonious symbiosis.
Feminists should know this fact; males and females aren’t created equal; they are rather set up to complement one another. A G-Wagon may be so expensive, but that doesn’t make the bulldozer less of a vehicle in its own right; they are created for different purposes. Only a fool would, however, guide his G-Wagon to go on head-on with a bulldozer. The story would likely be told by others. Let the sexes be; their outcomes were by design and not accident. Be the best IN YOUR PLACE!
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