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We thank and appreciate all that that took their time to call or pray and help in anyway. She is getting better now but its not easy but good bless you guys

Please don't let me down father lord.

Help please I don't have any alternative

My wife is seriously sick � i might lose the baby please this is my first born help a brother from another mother please. my world is crumbling I need 20k to take her to hospital and get her suppliers please for the love of humanity.
06379 04547

Gtb

John Smith.

my wife is seriously sick and passing through some complications.
I come to you as a man in trouble please help me donate anything to help me get her and the baby in stable condition please. My world will crumble if I lose her, this is my first child.
20k can save her please brothers
063 790 4547 guarantee trust bank

John Smith.

brownemmanuel43:
If u want to know my age, bring your sister to confirm my age

use your mother to know your age

Mindlog:
So both of you did not have savings enough to buy even a flask?

Wishing your baby a healthy entry into the world.

don't worry about that God is in control am just curious and it' natural to happen to me as its my first child.

frozen70:
Don't worry, you will meet up, next you will use condom

use a condom for a wife I legally married? I respect you alot but I don't expect this from you

Ejizzymoi:
Congratulations..! It is a great blessing and a wonderful experience.!

thank you ma

SanctifiedSista:
Congratulations in advance..to become a father is the easiest job on this earth..all u need is direction from the Holy Spirit. HE is an excellent teacher and guide, u can see the work he did on OYEDEPO and his children..not even one of them giving him headache
Ask HIM today and not human being, HE will answer u and show u stuff
For naming ceremony,u cant spend anything less than 5000. Minimum 5 people..with garden egg, groundnut, soft drinks, bottle water ,maybe boiled corn..u and ur wife wear white clothing..take pictures on your phone

wow thanks much.

brownemmanuel43:
If en hard them, Mak them transfer it to the man as simple as ABC.
This is for men that hv tolerance not all men.
Personally i hate it when a woman wants to turn me around I doubt if I can take that.

how old are you?

frozen70:
Are you worried about how to provide for the child

Or you are excited about being a father

both you see not a single item even flask I never buy for the baby

Melancholy:
And God is making a way for you already in Jesus name. Claim it!

ameen

Uyi168:
Nigerians do their deeds and think about the consequences later..


I'm happy for you. Just make sure there is steady source of income..

E get why.

na so oo dear

doggedfighter:
May luck smile on you.

May your journey be smooth.

amen sweet sister you're the best. Thanks for wishing me well

doggedfighter:
Shouldn't getting a job be a priority?

Instead of your many questions?

getting a job is not easy I submit cv to the any job opportunity I hear of I am currently hunting for job seriously. But time has already catch up with me

Teaveapoet:
Nothing much
Just give your wife more attention
More exercise
More food
Reduce sex
And pray for safe delivery

well said, that's exactly what I do
Am always at her service

doggedfighter:
Aren't you supposed to be looking for work?

yes I am

As most Pregnant women experience a variety of emotions and life changes. Also most first-time dads have their own feelings and concerns to deal with, too.

I feel shocked, panicked, overwhelmed, scared. Emotional and happy � too but,
I feel like am just not ready

Am I alone?

Will this will require a major adjustment?

This is a great blessing to me but am scared especially I don't have any saving or functional work yet.

How do you feel being a dad during your time?

How where you able to buy the most necessary and important things for the baby?

How did you take care of your child naming ceremony?

How much did you spent?

And how do you feel being a father?

Do you know that certain things you do when your wife is pregnant actually contributes to state of health of the mother and unborn child?

Listen, it bothers me a lot when I see men showing no concern to their pregnant wife or fail to adjust to some temporary changes!!!
It's just 9 months, not like it's forever. Pregnancy is not bought in the market, neither is it a software downloaded from the internet. It's a seed planted by us men and is germinating. There has to be a carrier of that seed while it grows, and women have been given the responsibility to carry it.
Pregnancy is preparation to welcome
a new member into the family.
Pregnancy is a
journey fun filled, amazing etc.
Women differ in body changes. Although Pregnancy makes women do certain things in common.
■Once in a while she would nag

■Once in a while she would request for things unimaginable e.g she wants to eat okro and bread

■Once in a while she would get so lazy to make you your meals


■Once in a while she would want to stretch her legs on your laps. Please pardon her... carrying the baby ain't easy.
Her needs may be unsatisfiable at times.
The first Tri_mester of the journey can be so annoying. Like I say women differ from each other during pregnancy.

●While most women are busy vomiting.

●Most of them sleep like water leaf, they sleep off anywhere with the slightest chance even in the kitchen.

●While most women have fever.

●Most women be looking cranky and dry like Dustin powder.

●While most women add up weight.

●Most women appear like burnt offerings.

●Some even go round with White handkerchief spitting in it.
ALL THESE ARE STILL OUR WORK.....

Please tolerate this, it's beautiful afterwards.
Her attitude becomes annoying, most times you cant stand her. But I get annoyed when I see men like me neglect their pregnant wife. She's not an abomination, neither is she a curse. I must say, it's not an easy journey for all.
The last Tri_mester is when we need to be extra patient, loving, enduring and understanding.

NOTE...


1) Always observe your wife's feet while pregnant, it swells often. Please give her a basin of water to soak her leg once in a while, it's one of the best treat women enjoy during pregnancy.

2) Ask her regularly how she feels and how the baby is. She's the carrier so she feels him/her move.

3) Tell her how beautiful she looks during pregnancy e.g " Honey see as the pregnancy make you fine, I will be impregnating you every month ooo" or even "is it my child that makes you fresh like this pass normal" Even if she has grown bigger in size cause of the pregnancy, celebrate her.

4) Don't be upset if she ever wakes you up by 2am to help massage her feet. We need to feel little of her discomfort and pain. She shouldn't carry it alone, it's our baby,we need to carry it together. (I don't mean physical carriage though).

5) No rule book stopped sex during pregnancy, in short it's the best sef.... do it. It's not like the vagina stopped working during pregnancy. o boy continue the work that brings the pregnancy.

6) Don't be ashamed to take her out. Take her out once in a while to those lovie dovie places you used to go together. #They_love_it ...

Most times I wonder what crosses the heart of men when they see their pregnant wives. Carrying a child for 9 months isn't easy.

I urge all men to get closer to their spouses during pregnancy because that's one of the times she needs you most.
A big shout out to all men who fully stand
by their wives during pregnancy.
God bless you all. women after delivery ask forgiveness from your husband for been with you at the time of need because is not easy .

My wife is pregnant also I look forward to you all wishing me well and make it remarkable.

andyblinks05:
Then I guess you need a surgery

jezz am now scared

andyblinks05:
nobi solution he dey find?

he for just respect himself and keep quit instead of showing stupidity.

Vitamin17:
Excessive licking of the lips contributes to dry and chapped lips.. exposure to sun causes the lips to dry too.. infact many factors can make the lips to dry ie weather and so on.. do you know even some disease causes the lips to dry irrespective of what you apply? Other causes of dry mouth include dehydration, salivary gland diseases, diabetes, smoking, chewing tobacco, hormonal imbalances etc.. am suspecting xerostomia.. I would suggest you go consult a physician for lucid and proper diagnosis..

am really worried but I don't smoke.

andyblinks05:
When last did you kiss?

yesterday but it still the same even if I stay a month without kissing.

I have been wondering and battling this dry lips for a very long long time now.

I drink much water � to the point that I urinate alot at night.

I use wet lips but still not working.

I try as much as possible to eat enough vegetables and fruits but still the same.

My skin looks very healthy and smooth but I don't know why my lips is always dry and it pains and kind of peal off.

Please any one know what is the cause of this?

What is wrong with me?

How can I take care of this?.

Nonexistent:
They don fucck this one silly on her first visit that she is now worried if he still values her. Someone remind her that the voter is no longer a beautiful bride to the politician after he don win election.

must you be always stupid?

Not every thing you see on nairaland is related to the OP.

Jashub:
The woman is cheap. In fact, her value at that point in time is the equivalent of a harlot

remember it's not rape and both are adults.

Pardon any gargon you come across,

So sometime in life you may get attracted to each other easily and it may lead to going down on the first date or visit.

It happens and its very common.

The question is: does having intimacy with your partner on your first visit to his home as a lady means you are cheap?