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egorov:
Hello everyone, my name is Olayinka, I am the founder of Phronesis Dogs, a registered dog breeding company in Ibadan. We have over 6years of active experience. We offer numerous services to our ever expanding customers.
We have bred numerous dogs of different breeds both for our kennel and our customers as well. We have an office in Ibadan and right now we have 7 adult dogs and 3puppies.
We currently need someone to invest in our business for mutual benefits and gains. We are aspiring to stock our kennel with two dogs with pedigree details.
We also want to establish a veterinary hospital(standard but low budget)

Details of these projections will be made available for potential investors.

Contact us
Phronesisdogs@gmail.com
08066030632
09020552054.

God bless.

which of the breeds would you like to focus on?

egorov:
I have a friend who needs a serious relationship.

Her profile
25years
Slim
A bit fair
Pretty
Works in a bank(contract)
Christian
Yoruba from osun state
Lives in Ibadan.


If you're interested whtsapp me on 08066030632. WhatsApp only pls.

Such guy must have a verifiable source of income
Must be a Christian
Not less than 28years and not More than 30
He should be ready to settle down

does she like dogs?

frankmoney:
If MMM should come back , Nigerians will still invest thier money

mmm is back but do so at your own risk

kullozone:
Oga, as a married man you can't do shii with 40k/month. Foodstuffs and school fee don down the money, not to talk of saving and investing.

40k nor reach, if you try am suffer go involve oh

foodstuffs?
as one already pointed out your locale plays a big role,

I would have loved to explain in steps but can't type all here, but bro it's very possible, you can't have all you want but you can have all you need, also the type of wife you have is also taken into consideration.

you can't live in posh areas, you plan in long term, you eat well so illness doesn't take a toll on you, sometimes it can be frustrating but you can pull through.

got some colleagues that earn above 150k and yet they live in face me I face you yet no savings, some have already being paid for this month the money is almost finished,they are looking forward to i.o.u on the 15th, no plans nothing. they live life as it is, thinking it will always remain so. it's not easy earn such small amount but it's possible.

Eze2000:
About 2 years ago, as part of my work, I had to run a 6-month experiment of sorts on Facebook. I set up an account with the picture of a lovely, tall, curvy lady. with mixed Indian and Spanish blood. I set up the account through a US channel and so it was visible only to American and Europeans (the facebook you open from Nigeria is not the same American's use)

Within a week, I got over 200 friend requests. All men. I picked only Americans and within a month I had over 1,000 friends from all works of life including the US Military. The DMs came in a rush. Some wanted friendship, other sex, even marriage. some even wanted my nude photos and other my worn and dirty underwear (pant and bra). There those that just sent me photos of private parts direct! Trust me when I say some of these perverts where very respectable men who talking nicely in public. There was one from UTAH who was prepared to pay $400 for any 4 sets of my pants I had worn steadily without washing for no less than a week. He begged for days.

Trust me, if I had the merchandise I would have sent it for the cash alone. Now can you say I asked for favors online

In truth, I have been in this girl's shoes long ago. I first noticed her plight some weeks back when I blundered onto one of her trends but never spoke up until she was pinned to the wall by one of her tormentors and was forced to disgrace him by showing a screenshot of her Nairaland private email notifications... Lolz... what a crowd and the fool was right in there!

You have no idea what it means to be a lovely lady online but I do and that is just one reason I sympathize with her and try to protect her sometimes. My advice to her now would be to go off social media permanently, however, her friends have already given that advice and at the end of the day, the final decision is hers to make.

As for the internet not forgetting, you are correct, but then what has she got to hide or regret? Facing down armies of taunting sex-starved males? That is strength and intelligence, pure and raw. As for chastity and asking favors... show me where she even hinted at such and I will owe you a favor.


this is an online forum,she came here for a reason you don't know, people come to learn ,sell, buy etc here ,

I started studying psychology as a hobby and then it grew. I read people like books and its fun. The girl you are trying to give a bad name is not a bad person and she came here for fun nothing more, not even to learn. The speed and regularity with which she opens trends should have told you a lot. It's what the smart OP is saying. You just don't see that because you are blinded by anger. Go look in her last trend. You will see a regular moniker called sweetcum with a two digit number. Now that's a skilled sexual predator for you there and she's stark naked in her DP to prove it. This same predator has calling this girl all kind of names for two days!

I'm single, sir, too many lovely ladies with big hips and boobs but empty brains have walked through my life, but I hope to settle down this year. If this girl was not too young for my status, I would have gone for her just for that intelligence and character alone. Yes, sir, me, yours truly and I've seen all she does here. This is the Cee-c (BB-naija) type, Love or hate them, they are rare gems and it takes a lot of intelligence and personality to control them. The man who can is a winner!


Just leave the girl be or you can join the queue of those she insults. The choice is yours.


One last thing.
Brutality can be physical or verbal. In your case, it was verbal. Never attack a man's honor or his family.

Hopefully, this reply answers and satisfies you question.

you haven't answered any

have you had any dealings with her to know her kind of person to vouch for her?

where did I say she asked for favours ( I said do you know if she has ever asked for favors from people who dm her)

do you really understand what it means to attacks a man's honor? like seriously ( what makes a man a man?)

where did you see me attacking one's family (do you understand what it means to attack another person's family?)

you can never understand what it means to be in a woman shoes being a man concerning how they think in relation to the opposite sex ( you need to understand the level of id(psychology) they are at that time)

psychology goes with guidance and counseling, those who read mental health would understand .

say she is called out for extortion can you come out like this physically for her?

the same attention women get from guys online is the same attention other guys also get unwarranted attention from the opposite sex.

it's easy defending online but in person not too sure

say and stick to what you can defend unless she is related to you one way or the other

can you tell if she enjoys or gets validation from the attention she gets by all she says or do? some ladies put their semi nudes just for popularity and validation but will still claim being violated by men just to bask in the euphoria of being in top demand by all.

take it or leave it all posts you made 10years ago on Facebook ,when you see the app remind of what you wrote , would you say you liked them all?

type here that you you 100 percent vouch for her and if by chance she is involved in anything that involves crime and all , that you would stand physically in her defence.( if you think deep, you would understand the gravity of your response to my last paragraph)

Eze2000:
I got 2 mentions from this trend and one comes from you unintentionally when you quoted the girl you are attacking. And now I find this.

Man, you are being brutal and for no reason.

In Britain, the saying goes, "Ladies first"
In Africa here we say "Ladies Last"

The OP is an honorable friend of mine, who for some time now has been trying to call guys to order over the way they attack a girl who just seeks fun. That is an honorable act by many sophisticated standards but you don't even understand.

What doe the definition of a gentleman bring to your mind? A gentleman will defend a lady anywhere. This guy has been that but because of it you are insulting him in the worst kind of way possible. This is one of the reasons I try to avoid chatting on NL, particularly in Romance section. Insults that are uncalled for

The girl you are quarreling with is not really insulting or stupid but an intelligent lady catching fun and reacting to insults she gets openly and privately. Many of those you see insulting her with bitterness have been trying to connect and have sex with her for a long time. Just go through her trends and you will see them dropping their numbers and sending DMs.

There is even one that stalks her everywhere using the same pattern to get her attention. We are talking a fully grown man in his 30s at least. He comes in, picks comments like yours and replies "She's dirty and brainless...blah...blah...blah" Then you would reply in the affirmative and she'll come and insult both of you all over again. Hence, a trend that spans several pages.


What a wonderful place this world will be without insults, wickedness or deceit.

do you really understand the word brutal mean?

do you understand what the internet does to one who seeks validation and attention online?

have you met her one on one or tranasct anything with her to vouch for her?

hope you also remember the internet never forgets, in 5 years can, would she be proud of the unnecessary attention she is bringing to herself?

I understand the fun part but there are time people get their hands burnt when they don't know when to draw the line.


how sure or would I say certain are you that she hasn't asked for favours or met with the numerous guys in her dm? bro you aren't with her 247.

this is an online forum,she came here for a reason you don't know, people come to learn ,sell, buy etc here ,

do u know where she is right now?

Adaibeku:
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She will give you multiple' terrible' nightmares ,

I heard she does that for fun ...

hope she has it in abundance , I have been having issues with my alarm,

Amatarasha:
What is honour ? Eze2000 dis one dosent know wat is honour at Age 45...

seems it is attention you seek, go to poultry with food in hand and definitely you get that which thou seeketh

dia4iam:
As expected.This op being especially lucky to have a partner in success sailing the stormy waters with him. Talk about marriage goals lol.

yes oo

Amatarasha:
Just pray i dont remember u ,
u suppose to be scared of me already
, because i will so much hurt u , ask him
he gave me so disrespect b4 ,now he is my great friend ...do you ask him y?

hurt me ?

you are a learner

dia4iam:
I completely agree with you with a little addition. Secret101; Saving alone does not make a difference. It is stacking the cash and re-investing that makes the money grow wings.

I concur , but it isn't easy

a lot of sacrifices and self denials would be done

bigpriik:
I knew you were very sensible when you joined Nl but follow follow don cloud you little brain.

use your real moniker and you would be taken serious

you dial *556#

ImaIma1:
When someone says marrying on that kind of salary is not advisable, they will say we are materialistic.

Imagine if a child is involved. You will know that it's not about being prudent or being a wife material.

Meanwhile, on this forum, a guy has been urged on to get married on a 40k salary. You guys should tell yourself the truth and stop hiding under "a good woman will manage"

This is real life, real expenses.

it is possible, if one can't manage a small amount , when a larger sum comes he or she will say the same story.

some guys earn 200k monthly but can't boast of any savings and yet they complain it's too small

chinchonglee:
Hw is she d one catering for u wen u earn 60k monthly..

Wetin u dey use ur 60k do?


Wen i said i rather remain single for life dan get married wit a 60k income u pple thought i woz joking baa.

people are doing great things with that same amount and you are here complaining.

hope reality doesn't hit you hard when you start using pension to pay school fees

Amatarasha:
You are just jealous of him ,u know u can neva reach his fame n skills...

He knows wat i possesses ,he knows i gat d power 2 b....... If i like

you say ?

he knows what you possess? are you an evil spirit?


got the power to be what? or can you turn water to wine?


sister reassess yourself

A man created a topic to gain attention and for what?

and he still has either a sister, brother or a relative who needs this kind of support.


Have you no honour?

Ewww

Tallesty1:
The reality my dear is that there are couple who started with virtually nothing and today they have many things while there are some who started with many things, lost is all and worked hard hand in hand to get back everything. This is reality.

I am not saying that everyone stays when things get bad for the man, you and op have role models, I know but they're the minority.
Sure, when the woman has no reasonable source of income which is what I am on about. I have seen men who lost their jobs and joined their wives in their business until they got back to their feet. This too is reality.

Life doesn't end after a lost of job, marriage too doesn't end but that is if you married a woman with a source of income.
Hardly do people separate because the man lost his job. I am not saying it doesn't happen but is rare. Not having a job doesn't make one automatically useless... You know that. In my previous comment, I exempted lazy men from the people I am talking about.

Few things that will make you leave a man who lost his job...

1. You don't have one yourself.

2. He's very lazy.

3. Money is the reason you're with him.

4. He has nothing else to contribute apart from the money.
Nobody loves you unconditionally, not even God so we are not asking for unconditional love.
If a woman is not performing her duties, tell me what man will endure and stay? As a man who desires to get married it is mandatory for you to have multiple sources of income to maintain the role of a provider. No excuses must be made. If not, then stay single forever. Nobody is begging you to to get married, but the role of a husband is to provide. The last line is very funny because you sounded like your idea of how marriage works is same with everyone else.


I am done with this.

bro she is a lost cause, Don't know why you are bothering yourself, she is still a student , she doesn't earn or work

ask her what she does for a living and watch her attack you and beating around the bush. Ask her for a business plan or any business that can yield 5k a month with strong points( location, tools, etc) and see her fumble.

Preshy561:
A sensible man shouldn't have one source of income.

you still don't get it

when the main source of income that rakes in more money than before stops you would understand that the side income won't be enough to maintain that particular lifestyle they are known to live.

check out people who reside in posh areas, when they are sacked (it's not like they don't have other businesses) you begin to notice changes; cars aren't used as before, schools of the kids are changed, no hanging out as before etc but during this time side hustle is just keeping them afloat but they want to still live large so no one laughs at them.

it is good going for nice things and all

but what if the same man looses the source of his income months into the marriage will you leave?

this lady is resilient

nicepoker101:
Na you give me clue o

no be me o

nicepoker101:
I hope you are not referring to 2baba

Na you talk am o

records are meant to be broken

LiveByNight:
I have a Nintendo switch for you , if you hack it it plays all rims from black and white game boy to the GameCube

not a switch , I meant the old Nintendo Gameboy

I need a Nintendo Gameboy ( colored or black and white) or gameboy advance handheld

if you have one kindly quote me with your phone number and I will call or send a message on WhatsApp

if only other men of God can learn from this man and the Catholic

use the private jets to go to places where gospel is needed and that is what the missionaries of old did