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When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by LosVikingos: 4:10pm On May 27, 2019
I was on facebook few minutes ago when I saw the post of a lady that doesnt believe in building up with a poor man. Her post was inspired by another post that buttresses her belief.

Here is what she actually posted.

"When I say I will not marry a poor/broke man, I do NOT say it with any atom of guilt. Even though it makes so many poor men suffer some episodes of poverty-induced seizures.

This is a South African man who spoke the unpopular truth about what many African man have in their heads.. as it's played out in reality a lot of the times.

Show me one Nigerian man who remained loyal to the woman who was with him when he was broke/poor and did so for at least 10-years after he saw wealth; and I will show you 10 men who became disloyal.

It's after they make the money they will realize that that woman who suffered with them is too fat, too dark, too tall, has k-leg, doesn't dress well, tie wrapper too much, smells like nigiri, nags a lot, or not beautiful enough for their new status.

Woe betide you if you trust the loyalty of a poor man.

Dear ladies,
You CANNOT earn a man's loyalty by staying with him while he is broke/poor.
Men are loyal to who they want to be loyal to.

I do NOT believe in building with a poor man. I only want to build with a man who has already gone far in his building.

You and your parents MUST have built yourself to a certain minimum before I would look your way.

In Africa, women who aspire to marry wealthy men are made to feel guilty for that. And that's a cultural bullshit if you ask me.

Money and connections are two of my top seven boxes for choosing a husband.

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Oh... they said "marry for love", huh? I will.

I'm surroundings myself with rich people so that I can fall in love with one of them. �

*-*

Someone will come into this post and throw me that overused line of "If you want to marry a rich man, you must be rich." Tah! Sharrap!

Who made that law?

I'm broke but I will still marry a rich man.

It's NOT me that will build with a man so that he will use OUR MONEY to date and/or marry another woman.''

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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Deepfeel(m): 5:25pm On May 27, 2019
Good luck to her grin

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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by dingbang(m): 5:29pm On May 27, 2019
Las las you will buy ring for yaself like tonto grin

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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by jeff1607(m): 5:35pm On May 27, 2019
it is good going for nice things and all

but what if the same man looses the source of his income months into the marriage will you leave?

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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by LosVikingos: 5:42pm On May 27, 2019
jeff1607:
it is good going for nice things and all

but what if the same man looses the source of his income months into the marriage will you leave?

Deep

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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Preshy561(f): 5:50pm On May 27, 2019
jeff1607:
it is good going for nice things and all

but what if the same man looses the source of his income months into the marriage will you leave?
A sensible man shouldn't have one source of income.

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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by 2buffagain(m): 5:52pm On May 27, 2019
This works for her in Africa.

In the West, rich men of this generation marry rich women so that she doesn't take advantage of their foolish laws here that make it so that any bum female can just come and sit on your lap for some time and all of a sudden has a legal claim to 60 percent of your wealth.

Women here must have something to lose in order to marry a young rich man....some sort of skin in the game.

Gold diggers can only succeed with old rich men.

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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by jeff1607(m): 5:58pm On May 27, 2019
Preshy561:

A sensible man shouldn't have one source of income.


you still don't get it

when the main source of income that rakes in more money than before stops you would understand that the side income won't be enough to maintain that particular lifestyle they are known to live.

check out people who reside in posh areas, when they are sacked (it's not like they don't have other businesses) you begin to notice changes; cars aren't used as before, schools of the kids are changed, no hanging out as before etc but during this time side hustle is just keeping them afloat but they want to still live large so no one laughs at them.

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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Heroclitus(m): 7:29pm On May 27, 2019
I do not know what is right and neither do I know what is wrong,but this I am very sure of...


that its very good and beneficial to marry within ones financial status cause with that ,building a financially buoyant family is within range



May I never date nor Marry a Lady that doesn't own a car when I have one

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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by LosVikingos: 7:47pm On May 27, 2019
Heroclitus:
I do not know what is right and neither do I know what is wrong,but this I am very sure of...


that its very good and beneficial to marry within ones financial status cause with that ,building a financially buoyant family is within range



May I never date nor Marry a Lady that doesn't own a car when I have one


hmmmm
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Richardonald(m): 9:17pm On May 27, 2019
the funny part is the girl is talking as if there are still millions of men ready to get marry with a girl that has noting to offer than sex in marriage... for this 21st century guys wan settle 4 gals that has something doing or earning... she may be happy that there are rich men around her, not knowing they are there just to use her to their satisfaction and dump her.

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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by naijacentric(m): 11:04pm On May 27, 2019
Dats why african woman are the least attractive women on earth. Mammonic bitches!!!

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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by CaptainMitch: 11:47pm On May 27, 2019
Fine girl you no dey let your dp stay long
Preshy561:

A sensible man shouldn't have one source of income.
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by landmark86: 11:50pm On May 27, 2019
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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Preshy561(f): 1:32am On May 28, 2019
CaptainMitch:
Fine girl you no dey let your dp stay long
Which dp again?
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by CaptainMitch: 6:37am On May 28, 2019
The fine dp I saw on your profile 2days ago
Preshy561:

Which dp again?
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Preshy561(f): 6:38am On May 28, 2019
CaptainMitch:
The fine dp I saw on your profile 2days ago
Lol. The one that wasn't showing a face
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by CaptainMitch: 6:44am On May 28, 2019
Yeah you resemble one of my new girlfriend, she yellow and fine like you
Preshy561:

Lol. The one that wasn't showing a face
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Preshy561(f): 6:46am On May 28, 2019
CaptainMitch:
Yeah you resemble one of my new girlfriend, she yellow and fine like you
Lools. grin grin
Happy you finally got a fine lady.
Wish you guys well smiley
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by CaptainMitch: 6:50am On May 28, 2019
I have 2 official girls, one is stunningly beautiful and the other one is super intelligent, both of them make me happy cheesy

Preshy561:

Lools. grin grin
Happy you finally got a fine lady.
Wish you guys well smiley
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Preshy561(f): 6:56am On May 28, 2019
CaptainMitch:
I have 2 official girls, one is stunningly beautiful and the other one is super intelligent, both of them make me happy cheesy

Lol. You can't be serious.

Make the intelligent one catch you one day. grin
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by don4real18(m): 7:02am On May 28, 2019
Preshy561:

A sensible man shouldn't have one source of income.
Stop talking like a child. What if his other sources of income doesn't generate much? Do you think it's everyone that has multiple sources of income? A sensible man bla bla bla

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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Preshy561(f): 7:04am On May 28, 2019
don4real18:

Stop talking like a child. What if his other sources of income doesn't generate much? Do you think it's everyone that has multiple sources of income? A sensible man bla bla bla
Are you Okay?
Don't quote me again to rant like a mad man, I'm serious.
Bye
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by don4real18(m): 7:10am On May 28, 2019
Preshy561:

Are you Okay?
Don't quote me again to rant like a mad man, I'm serious.
Bye
Just because I asked you to stop speaking like a child due to your premature level of reasoning, I have been tagged as one that is ranting like a mad man. I wouldn't want to mention you anymore so forget I ever did.

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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Preshy561(f): 7:10am On May 28, 2019
don4real18:

Just because I asked you to stop speaking like a child due to your premature level of reasoning, I have been tagged as one that is ranting like a mad man. I wouldn't want to mention you anymore so forget I ever did.
Just shut up.
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by don4real18(m): 7:13am On May 28, 2019
Preshy561:

Just shut up.
So says a disrespectful little girl. You need to learn manners and I will be glad to teach you if you want me to...

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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Preshy561(f): 7:15am On May 28, 2019
don4real18:

So says a disrespectful little girl. You need to learn manners and I will be glad to teach you if you want me to...
You clearly don't know your mate atall.
But, I will forgive you this morning cos I wouldn't let your busy body ruin my day.
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by CaptainMitch: 7:17am On May 28, 2019
One woman is not enough for any man, how your ends?

Preshy561:

Lol. You can't be serious.

Make the intelligent one catch you one day. grin
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Preshy561(f): 7:18am On May 28, 2019
CaptainMitch:
One woman is not enough for any man, how your ends?

No let those abj babes pour you hot water o. You are precious to me abeg.
Here is cool, been raining like everyday.
How's yours?
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by CaptainMitch: 7:24am On May 28, 2019
We dey fine girl na only hunger dey beat me once in a while cry rains never fully start here, Enjoy your day
Preshy561:

No let those abj babes pour you hot water o. You are precious to me abeg.
Here is cool, been raining like everyday.
How's yours?

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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Tallesty1(m): 7:40am On May 28, 2019
Preshy561:

A sensible man shouldn't have one source of income.
Ten sources of income can close down if the gods are on your case. We have seen people go from hero to something below zero.




Now enough of a man's income. How about a sensible woman? I bet she's the one that only dates rich men.

Thing is, only poor people complain about dating broke men. I will explain this. Men don't need maintainance like women do. If you are making your own money as a woman, you won't mind dating a broke guy who have little somethings going on for him that he uses to keep body and soul together.

I am not talking about broke and lazy people. Those ones are different. They're the ones that depend on a woman's money to look good and impress people that don't care. They're pathetic

A broke man may not have cars, houses and and all but he still pays bills when due. He is not living the good life but he's not starving either so I don't see why a woman who has money will find it hard to stay with him. If he is broke but intelligent and has bright ideas then marry him and set him up. Men do it all the time and heaven is still in its place.

But you can't because you don't have anything to give him. You're broke and indirectly in need of help but your pride wouldn't let you beg so you decide to get married instead.

We know all that.

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