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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Preshy561(f): 7:44am On May 28, 2019 |
Tallesty1:Yes, I'm broke and my husband will provide 100%. How's that your headache? |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by lalasticlala(m): 8:51am On May 28, 2019 |
LosVikingos: Pls kindly add the link to the source, screenshot will be good too. Thanks |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by lereinter(m): 9:07am On May 28, 2019 |
Good goal Some people goal is to travel abroad Work towards your goal |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by ImaIma1(f): 9:22am On May 28, 2019 |
It's good to know what you want and go for it. A friend of.mine(a guy) always surrounded himself with rich guys...now he is in their league. Why do some guys on this forum feel hurt when a girl mentions rich guys. Are you guys planning to be broke for.life? You guys defend being broke like it's your heritage |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Safiaa(f): 9:28am On May 28, 2019 |
It’s very rare to come across a lady who is doing absolutely nothing with her life, not a Nigerian babe I’m sorry. Whether it’s school, work, a trade, a business, most Nigerian women have something going on even if it’s small. Stop being ridiculous please, it’s rare to see a Nigerian babe just sitting at home doing absolutely nothing with her life. It’s even more common with men. Richardonald: 1 Like |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Safiaa(f): 9:44am On May 28, 2019 |
My problem with you men is that why do you have a problem when women have certain criteria’s they want to stick to? When a man is looking for a wife he has 101 things that his future wife must have. He doesn’t look for an incomplete building to build from scratch. No he finds the woman that he desires and he marries that. You want a God fearing, good cook beautiful submissive wife that will cater to your needs. Are you going to marry the complete opposite of this? If a woman wants a man with money that is her prerogative, she doesn’t have to be shamed for what she desires. She doesn’t have to build a man up to be the man she wants, that’s not her job. Some men desire virginity which a lot of women do not have, are they shamed for it? Let’s stop shaming women for what they desire. Tallesty1: 1 Like |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Safiaa(f): 9:48am On May 28, 2019 |
Then go and get more sources of income that generate income and stop making fuckingg excuses. You’re a man. The men that have multiple sources of income that sustain them, do they have two heads? They use their time wisely, educate yourself, and stop wasting time.?8if you want to be the head of the home and the provider you can’t sit around making excuses, life doesn’t work like that. don4real18: 1 Like |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by MyGeneration(m): 9:49am On May 28, 2019 |
This girl would be disappointed. Some of those guys u think are rich are actually broke guys packaging. Some of them dress up nice go to fast food, bars and clubs in GRA and high brow areas to just buy bottle water or smirn off ice, or they and there friends would contribute and buy one pizza or fish. Then u see them and believe they are rich. Even those guys self dae find maga gf. Babe u will be disappointed. 3 Likes |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:55am On May 28, 2019 |
LosVikingos:Good luck
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Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by don4real18(m): 10:35am On May 28, 2019 |
Safiaa:Blah, blah, blah... Tell that to the male folks in your life and quit mentioning me 1 Like |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Safiaa(f): 10:49am On May 28, 2019 |
I’m living good love. But if you’re so triggered by what a woman wants in her life, you’re clearly paranoid because you don’t fit into the standard. Booo hooo don4real18: 3 Likes |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Nobody: 10:54am On May 28, 2019 |
Gold diggers are getting bolder by the day... Guys, be careful of them... 4 Likes |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Nobody: 10:57am On May 28, 2019 |
Preshy561:A sensible man can not lose all his money to challenges too... Because he is a Dangote or Adeleke... Woe unto that man if his parasite wife has nothing to offer as soon as he become broke... 2 Likes |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Nobody: 11:03am On May 28, 2019 |
Preshy561:cc: CaptainMitch |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by CaptainMitch: 11:06am On May 28, 2019 |
Why the mention Sir? eni4real: |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Tallesty1(m): 11:06am On May 28, 2019 |
Safiaa: |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Nobody: 11:08am On May 28, 2019 |
Safiaa:Men desires do not connote "Gold digging" tho!!! Gold digging is when you are poor but you are shaming poor guys but become a mumu for rich guys. As if you can't be rich by working hard yourself!! 1 Like |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Tallesty1(m): 11:10am On May 28, 2019 |
Safiaa:Dear Saff, you can include the demons and angels in the list of people you have problem with. I honestly don't care. I also have no problems with whatever criteria a woman wishes to stick to as long as it doesn't directly or indirectly affect us. It's ok to set standards. It is very ok not to date or even greet broke people. I am cool with all that but that won't stop me from posting what is right for those who wish to know. For your information, I don't pay attention to to "f" or "m" beside people's username. I reply you when I feel you're not making sense or when I want to appreciate your comment. Same rule applies offline. I only notice a woman's breasts when I am aroused. What I see when I look around me are human beings not male and female. I only notice their genders when I have to and at the right time. This might help you to understand that I didn't reply the lady because of her choices but because she doesn't want face the consequences that comes with the choice she made. Someone clearly pointed out to her that a rich man can lose everything and then asked her what she would do in that situation and she said "A sensible man must have more than one stream of income" She clearly placed the financial responsibility of a family squarely on men's shoulders. In essence, a man who doesn't have stable dual stream of income is unworthy of a woman's love and if eventually she loses everything he has then the woman should just leave. Read beyond what's written. If you don't see the folly in that then I probably shouldn't be replying you. Now talking about shaming women because of their desires. I just have a question to ask you. What do women do when men post that they want a virgin? Do they(women) keep quiet and allow them to their desires? Clap and drum support for them? Do they not attack them and their parents, gods and village people? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Nobody: 11:14am On May 28, 2019 |
CaptainMitch:Your friend desire a husband that will provide 100% of her need eventhough she claim to be poor!!! You know her better than. Is she serious about that?? |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by CaptainMitch: 11:19am On May 28, 2019 |
She's an engineer, you think a lady would study engineering to become a housewife? eni4real: 1 Like |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by don4real18(m): 11:34am On May 28, 2019 |
Safiaa:It's good if you are living good. Fit what standard? I laugh at women like you who wait for men to do what they can do for themselves. Continue looking for rich men that fit your standard while other women out there make groundbreaking records. |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by respect80(m): 11:45am On May 28, 2019 |
Continue with this mentality and it will get to a time when reality will dawn on you and you will start advertising yourself on OLX, JUMIA and ALIXPRESS 2 Likes |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Safiaa(f): 12:02pm On May 28, 2019 |
Wake up and face reality mr man. Nobody is going to stay with someone who is not performing their duties or benefiting them the way they want. This is not a Cinderella story this is life, And this goes for both genders. Once a man becomes jobless, with no income coming in for a long time, It is very rare to see a woman stand by him without getting frustrated. That frustration will turn into resentment which will later lead to separation. The only person that will love you unconditionally with no benefits attached is your mother and that’s the truth. If a woman is not performing her duties, tell me what man will endure and stay? As a man who desires to get married it is mandatory for you to have multiple sources of income to maintain the role of a provider. No excuses must be made. If not, then stay single forever. Nobody is begging you to to get married, but the role of a husband is to provide. Tallesty1: 3 Likes |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Safiaa(f): 12:08pm On May 28, 2019 |
What stops you from cooking yourself? What stops you from being domestic yourself? What stops you from being a virgin? Men look for qualities in women that they don’t have themselves, nobody cares. If a woman is broke and she wants a rich guy, she has every right to do that. We all want someone who can fill in the missing blanks in our lives, so stop being ridiculous. Who no like better tin? The better tin only becomes a problem when it’s the woman asking for it abi? Oga please go and sit down. eni4real: 2 Likes |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by morley411(m): 12:50pm On May 28, 2019 |
Goat what abt paul of psquare,s wife |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Tallesty1(m): 2:20pm On May 28, 2019 |
Safiaa:The reality my dear is that there are couple who started with virtually nothing and today they have many things while there are some who started with many things, lost is all and worked hard hand in hand to get back everything. This is reality. I am not saying that everyone stays when things get bad for the man, you and op have role models, I know but they're the minority. Safiaa:Sure, when the woman has no reasonable source of income which is what I am on about. I have seen men who lost their jobs and joined their wives in their business until they got back to their feet. This too is reality. Life doesn't end after a lost of job, marriage too doesn't end but that is if you married a woman with a source of income. Safiaa:Hardly do people separate because the man lost his job. I am not saying it doesn't happen but is rare. Not having a job doesn't make one automatically useless... You know that. In my previous comment, I exempted lazy men from the people I am talking about. Few things that will make you leave a man who lost his job... 1. You don't have one yourself. 2. He's very lazy. 3. Money is the reason you're with him. 4. He has nothing else to contribute apart from the money. Safiaa:Nobody loves you unconditionally, not even God so we are not asking for unconditional love. [/quote] Safiaa:The last line is very funny because you sounded like your idea of how marriage works is same with everyone else. I am done with this. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Nobody: 2:38pm On May 28, 2019 |
Safiaa:What stops you from cooking yourself? What stops you from being domestic yourself? What stops you from being a virgin? What are you talking about? I cook for myself as a bachelor. I can not cook for the whole family(of mine) for life. That is the reason why Wife/mothers do that for the family. Is that different in your family. Why are you so theoretical?? How can you compare virginity in women with abstinence or whatever terms you may want to use for men refraining from Sex. So, if I never had Sex before Marriage, it means I already don't need a virgin in a woman? How does all this make me to feed off the hard earned money of the woman Gold digging is gold digging. When you are poor but you are looking for a buoyant guy to alleviate your poverty while you are shaming fellow poor guys... What you are doing Is gold digging... God forbid If the man become broke due to financial or health challenges, what would you do Stop supporting gold digging and parasitism!!!!!! |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Nobody: 2:41pm On May 28, 2019 |
CaptainMitch:Thank you for this information. She must be kidding.. |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Safiaa(f): 2:43pm On May 28, 2019 |
You’re justifying my point. At the end of it all, the man must still end up being the provider and he must maintain that role for the relationship to work. Even if you start off with nothing, there must be significant progress in 5 years, most women will not wait wait wait until you amount to something in life, especially not in this generation when they’re too many options. If you like write epistle for me, if you want to be a husband you must be the provider and you must look for ways to maintain that role if you want to keep that respect and integrity in your household. Nobody is going to love you and pet you if you’re not doing your role properly, this is Africa. Even if the woman has her own income, she cannot play the role of the husband and wife for too long without getting frustrated, it’s just not going to work. You don’t know the hell that these husbands are facing in their households all because the woman has become the breadwinner, do not think because your wife has income you can fall back on that when things get hard. Prepare for the worst when you’re at the top, and invest in multiple streams of income. Nobody is going to pity a jobless man. Tallesty1: |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Safiaa(f): 3:03pm On May 28, 2019 |
eni4real:You cook for yourself, but you cannot cook for the whole family for life. Me too I make my own money but I cannot make money to take care of my whole family for life. That is why the husband/father is there to do it for the family. Why can’t you understand that ? eni4real:You don’t get it. Men seek for qualities in women that they do not possess themselves, almost like filling in a void. If you are not a virgin, why seek a virgin? In the same breath that men ask women why they are looking for a rich man when they are not rich themselves. It’s all hypocritical and I just believe everybody should please themselves. Who no like better tin? eni4real:You call it goldigging, I call it standards. The same way you shame women who don’t fit into your standards of beauty, modesty and intelligence, is the same way women shame guys who don’t fit into their financial preference. Heck, you are even shaming women for wanting rich men (goldiggers), yet you are the same guy complaining about women shaming poor guys. Are you not a hypocrite? eni4real:It is not gold digging, it’s a preference. The same way every single man on this planet has a preference. You are just mad because you do not fit into the ideal preference that the majority of women desire, get a grip please. |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by Nobody: 3:08pm On May 28, 2019 |
Safiaa:Let's use your family as a case study. I am sure your dad provide for the family but your mum support. She is not a gold digger Your mum cook, but your father also help once in a while They produce intelligent Children with good job security That is most likely the family which you grow up!! So why trying to change the narrative?? Why being theoretical?? Why supporting gold digging and parasitism?? 1 Like |
Re: When I Say I Will Not Marry A Poor Man I Mean It - Lady Claims by jeff1607(m): 4:05pm On May 28, 2019 |
Tallesty1: bro she is a lost cause, Don't know why you are bothering yourself, she is still a student , she doesn't earn or work ask her what she does for a living and watch her attack you and beating around the bush. Ask her for a business plan or any business that can yield 5k a month with strong points( location, tools, etc) and see her fumble. 1 Like 1 Share |
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