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ireneidiva:
Why?

ireneidiva:
Of course. You should love and respect your husband. Kneeling to serve him is plain stupid.

holyboii:
Can it play in firmware 3.63 for the vita ?

ireneidiva:
I have never seen a woman kneel to serve a man. I will feel deeply ashamed if i see such.

engwari:
STAPPLOCOCCUS MAKE YOU INFERTILE FOR LIFE
THE ABOVE ARTE STILL MANEGABLE

otunbadan:
Na small shit dey cause craw craw....that mind the stupid idi.ot forming "if you meet me personally".... he thinks this is computer village where he will do anyhow n get away with it

MissWrite:
Both. You earn respect by giving it; and not necessarily because you're "all that". If you treat people decently, you can expect to be treated decently as well. That's how respect is reciprocal. This is true within the context of marriage too.

If a husband has regard for his wife, she'll respect his position. Some men misunderstand the position - "head of the family". They assume it naturally has to be a dictatorship and not a democracy. They think it's about taking unilateral decisions and having the wife jump whenever they say "froggy", as though she were nothing but his personal slave. Such a wife might fear her husband; but she would not respect him. In the old days, a wife might stay in line because she was financially dependent on the man. The moment he lost his edge though, the wife would reciprocate the full value for his treatment of her. And he would think it's because the money's gone. Sure. But it's also because he did not give her respect to start with.

On the other hand, a husband who treats his wife like a person, has conversations with her, recognizing that she isn't just some airhead, genuinely considers her opinions (without discounting them because they come from a woman, or because they don't come from him) and then reserves the right to make the final call; a man who sees when it might be unreasonable to ask his wife to make his favorite meal because she's had a long day at work, instead of insisting that she should have known that his needs came first, and if she can't handle both work hours and domestic "duty", she should quit work; etc.......such a man earns his wife's respect because he gave it to her first.

GloriaNinja:
THAT BUTT IS PUMPED, NOT NATURAL, HER ASS WAS FLAT AS MY SLIPPERS BEFORE.

omojeesu:
What about teaching and preaching about the end times?

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Lomprico2:
'Its' can be accepted in place of "it's" Using 'an' for a non vowel is a totally wrong. You can not even use it vocally.

Lomprico2:
Fuckoff

IamGoke:
This lady got it all ah swear!!!

Ladyhippolyta88:
Let me start with your second question I don't go with such my mother said if you want partnership then be partners in everything even if it means being partners in crime.I believe what belongs to my husband belongs to me and what belongs to me belongs to my husband.Back to the first question a lot of women contribute to the home some are even breadwinners but they don't make noise about what they do.Any woman who wants equality or partnership and practices any of what you said is either ready for a master slave relationship or is just busy practicing double standard.If I am contributing to our home be it financially or otherwise I must be involved but if anywoman is not contributing towards anything such kind of woman should not come and start dragging equality in the home.I don't support that at all.

koolaid87:
Maybe 1997

Prosperity ti take over

Ladyhippolyta88:
Nor be joke I am serious.

Ladyhippolyta88:
My honest opinion who says there can't be two captains in a ship one of them could be an assistant we even have co-pilots in a plane and besides two heads are better than one.Well to be honest I hate it when someone wants to control me if you want to tell me something just be polite and stop trying to control me because I would revolt.If I am in a situation where my husband does not have listening ears and I have tried to no avail and I am not happy I am out.This life is too short to be living in sadness,In this time and age when everybody wants to prove themselves surely everyone would want to take charge including me so in order to back me down convince me I know how to listen.I believe a lot of people especially women want partnership and would not settle for less.The marriage of my parents have been egalitarian and sometimes daddy would make a major decision and sometimes it would be mommy,till today I wonder who is heading who.Every couple has what would work for them so I don't believe it should be the standard of one person look for what would work for your relationship it could be understanding or communication etc.So it is not reserved for one gender alone because in some families the wife makes the final decision and outsiders don't know but when they are partners all these story would not come up because it is a level playing field.

asuustrike2009:
Prosperity messages has reduced bro. Sunday schools, women meetings, youth convention, men meetings e.t.c takes care of that aspect. Although some churches preach it as a sermon.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I was looking at your profile and I saw this post.The thing is this in modern times you earn respect and it would not be given automatically to you because of your gender.Some women find it hard to respect a man because they do almost everything men do now unlike those days when men were the sole providers and the society seemed to favour them.Now times have changed and this is the 21st century where the campaign for gender equality and feminism has started I don't care whether people call it devil's whatever I am proud to be in a time where such a movement started so instead of men trying to see women as whom they are superior to or above it is high time such men begin to see their wives as their partners,best friends,confidant and practice an egalitarian relationship.Seriously no woman in this time and age would settle for a master-slave relationship.

SmallmebigGod:
Would have answered you, but it seems you have got a made up mind already and only expecting a particular kind of answer. Soon am sure people that will give you your desired answers are coming. Till then, lemme co.e and be going

petra1:
Don't be a church critic

Ladyhippolyta88:
Well I do know that some churches have departments that deal on issues like this.I can say that every third Sunday of the month MFM regions connect to prayer city where they discuss and address issues like this it is called "Happy home".