Christianity Etc › Re: Which Nigeria Church Do These 3 Ladies Attend? (photo) by jeff1607(m): 11:45am On Jan 07, 2018 |
Iyawo jesu |
Celebrities › Re: Nude Photo Of Kim Kardashian That Is Tearing The Internet Apart by jeff1607(m): 11:10am On Jan 07, 2018 |
IamGoke: This lady got it all ah swear!!! Plastic you mean |
Family › Re: Should Respect Be Earned Or Given In A Relationship Or Marriage? by jeff1607(op): 10:22am On Jan 07, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Let me start with your second question I don't go with such my mother said if you want partnership then be partners in everything even if it means being partners in crime.I believe what belongs to my husband belongs to me and what belongs to me belongs to my husband.Back to the first question a lot of women contribute to the home some are even breadwinners but they don't make noise about what they do.Any woman who wants equality or partnership and practices any of what you said is either ready for a master slave relationship or is just busy practicing double standard.If I am contributing to our home be it financially or otherwise I must be involved but if anywoman is not contributing towards anything such kind of woman should not come and start dragging equality in the home.I don't support that at all. Thanks plenty |
Christianity Etc › Re: When Last Did Your Pastor Preach About Issues On Family Values And Marriage? by jeff1607(op): 10:16am On Jan 07, 2018 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Church Using POS To Collect Tithes And Offerings. Right Or Wrong? (Picture) by jeff1607(m): 10:15am On Jan 07, 2018 |
I guess it's to make it easier to collect donations and the sorts without stress for both receiver and contributor, one isn't forced to part with his/her money.
My issue is this, charges are made on the issuance of such and it isn't termed a business venture, once collected the receiver can do as he/she pleases with the funds yet taxes aren't paid |
Family › Re: Should Respect Be Earned Or Given In A Relationship Or Marriage? by jeff1607(op): 9:41am On Jan 07, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Nor be joke I am serious. Well understood, what about a scenario like this; the lady wants to be treated as an equal but when it comes to putting as much effort as the man in making plans that would take them to the next level or contributing in saving a situation which demands time, money and abit of stress and she demands financial gratification or some sort of payment before doing anything, what do you make of this situation? Secondly what's your opinion on this phrase ladies tend to unknowingly use in either a marriage or relationship " your money is ours but my money is mine alone " |
Family › Re: Should Respect Be Earned Or Given In A Relationship Or Marriage? by jeff1607(op): 9:31am On Jan 07, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: My honest opinion who says there can't be two captains in a ship one of them could be an assistant we even have co-pilots in a plane and besides two heads are better than one.Well to be honest I hate it when someone wants to control me if you want to tell me something just be polite and stop trying to control me because I would revolt.If I am in a situation where my husband does not have listening ears and I have tried to no avail and I am not happy I am out.This life is too short to be living in sadness,In this time and age when everybody wants to prove themselves surely everyone would want to take charge including me so in order to back me down convince me I know how to listen.I believe a lot of people especially women want partnership and would not settle for less.The marriage of my parents have been egalitarian and sometimes daddy would make a major decision and sometimes it would be mommy,till today I wonder who is heading who.Every couple has what would work for them so I don't believe it should be the standard of one person look for what would work for your relationship it could be understanding or communication etc.So it is not reserved for one gender alone because in some families the wife makes the final decision and outsiders don't know but when they are partners all these story would not come up because it is a level playing field. Madam, this one strong oo |
Technology Market › Re: Eliascomm55 (resolved) by jeff1607(m): 9:26am On Jan 07, 2018 |
Why is this phrase common with guys that claim they make or do bigger deals yet they only talk and not give the so called small sum
"I have done deals worth millions, common ***naira and you are disturbing me"
One can't satisfy all customers, sometimes errors are made but humility and sticking to your word makes you a bigger person. |
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Christianity Etc › Re: When Last Did Your Pastor Preach About Issues On Family Values And Marriage? by jeff1607(op): 4:30am On Jan 07, 2018 |
asuustrike2009: Prosperity messages has reduced bro. Sunday schools, women meetings, youth convention, men meetings e.t.c takes care of that aspect. Although some churches preach it as a sermon. Didn't understand the last sentence |
Family › Re: Should Respect Be Earned Or Given In A Relationship Or Marriage? by jeff1607(op): 4:28am On Jan 07, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: I was looking at your profile and I saw this post.The thing is this in modern times you earn respect and it would not be given automatically to you because of your gender.Some women find it hard to respect a man because they do almost everything men do now unlike those days when men were the sole providers and the society seemed to favour them.Now times have changed and this is the 21st century where the campaign for gender equality and feminism has started I don't care whether people call it devil's whatever I am proud to be in a time where such a movement started so instead of men trying to see women as whom they are superior to or above it is high time such men begin to see their wives as their partners,best friends,confidant and practice an egalitarian relationship.Seriously no woman in this time and age would settle for a master-slave relationship. Looking at my profile? Hope I never commit? What you just stated here is really an eye-opener, but as you already know there can't be two captains in a ship, everyone now wants to take charge and no one wants to compromise? If you were in such a situation, how would you remedy it, since no one wants to compromise? Walking away or staying put? |
Christianity Etc › Re: When Last Did Your Pastor Preach About Issues On Family Values And Marriage? by jeff1607(op): 9:09pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
SmallmebigGod: Would have answered you, but it seems you have got a made up mind already and only expecting a particular kind of answer. Soon am sure people that will give you your desired answers are coming. Till then, lemme co.e and be going  Someone mentioned MFM dedicating a day for such meaning I learnt something new. My mind ain't made up on anything, we learn everyday |
Christianity Etc › Re: When Last Did Your Pastor Preach About Issues On Family Values And Marriage? by jeff1607(op): 9:07pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
petra1: Don't be a church critic I only asked a question and didn't criticize any church |
Christianity Etc › Re: When Last Did Your Pastor Preach About Issues On Family Values And Marriage? by jeff1607(op): 7:57pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Well I do know that some churches have departments that deal on issues like this.I can say that every third Sunday of the month MFM regions connect to prayer city where they discuss and address issues like this it is called "Happy home". That's good to hear |
Romance › Re: Lady Wows In Body Paint Photoshoot by jeff1607(m): 7:51pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
Right bigger than the left |
Christianity Etc › When Last Did Your Pastor Preach About Issues On Family Values And Marriage? by jeff1607(op): 7:48pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
We hear of prosperity and the likes, gone are they days when a Sunday would be set aside to talk about issues concerning family values, how parents should handle a situation in the home and marriage , especially for young intending couples. |
Family › Re: My Fiancee Finds It Difficult To Serve Me Food.. What Should I Do? by jeff1607(m): 7:40pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
Never marry a woman who sees you as an equal
If only pastors can take out a Sunday and address the youths on family values and stuffs
When we see our mothers kneel to serve our fathers don't tell me you didn't feel that pride that your father is a strong willed man? |
Gaming › Re: Sell Ur Ps Vita Game Card To Me by jeff1607(m): 11:50am On Jan 06, 2018 |
holyboii: Lol am just 21 dawg Just shot yourself in the leg |
Gaming › Re: Sell Ur Ps Vita Game Card To Me by jeff1607(m): 9:37am On Jan 06, 2018 |
holyboii: Who cares if you used 1 million to buy data? You don enjoy am pass am give person u daydo like small pikin And funny enough u are older than me There's something they call negotiating, when you wanna buy something you negotiate and the manner of approach really matters. I ve sold some for far less even 1,500 sometimes I give the cards for free as long as the receiver is happy and appreciates it. Grow up |
Romance › Re: Guys!!! Here Is How To Touch A Woman And Make Her Scream In Bed (photos) by jeff1607(m): 6:58am On Jan 06, 2018 |
FUN KINI? |
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Romance › Re: Lady Sleeps With Guy Twice To Pay 250k Debt She Owed. Then Threatens Him by jeff1607(m): 6:54am On Jan 06, 2018 |
It is finished |
Gaming › Re: Sell Ur Ps Vita Game Card To Me by jeff1607(m): 10:04pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
holyboii: You go old When I was buying each vita card for 11k where were you? When I was buying data downloading vita games, staying all night, where were you, yet I give for free If you got nothing to say or not interested go mop sea. |
Technology Market › Re: Few Months Used Chilling Fridge With Freezer For Sale @ 18k SOLD SOLD by jeff1607(m): 8:13am On Jan 05, 2018 |
BlessMySoul: The Fridge is in top notch working conditon. Takes average of 5-10 minutes to chill and 20-30 minutes to freeze. Call or Whatsapp 09022321077 for immediate sells.
N.B I Can Send This Fridge To Anywhere You Are In Nigeria With Cheap Transport. Where I reside, different lorries and luxury buses leave everyday for the 36 states in Nigeria. This is for those that think location is a barrier. As for those that think "I may be a fraud"... Well, I can't convince you on that. But a trial will convince you. Like I said earlier, the product is in top working condition.
The number is still 09022321077. If you are not ready to buy, don't bother calling or texting me. Is it pay on delivery or before delivery Very much interested |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: What Do You Want To Achieve In 2018 by jeff1607(m): 2:21pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Save more, rest more, invest less, finish all projects and find a partner |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Serious Advice Needed Please: by jeff1607(m): 2:15pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
Anything that gives you peace of mind
Look or think of whose opinion matters 20years from now |
Romance › Re: Describe Your First Love In One Word by jeff1607(m): 1:30pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
PARASITE |
Romance › Re: What Are The Non-verbal Signs That A Girl Needs Sex. by jeff1607(m): 10:14am On Jan 04, 2018 |
You mean when she is on heat abi?
Animals especially the males can detect when a female is on heat same goes for insects but why are humans different even the lady won't even know sef |
Politics › Re: 5 Nigerian Companies Bigger And Richer Than Lagos and Ogun State by jeff1607(m): 10:11am On Jan 04, 2018 |
What is delta-igbo?
it's either you're deltan or igbo
You can't claim a boundary as a tribe na |
Jokes Etc › Re: Factipedia from freshstuffs by jeff1607(m): 9:39am On Jan 03, 2018 |
Cool |
Romance › Re: Signs That Tell She Doesn't Love You by jeff1607(m): 7:11am On Jan 03, 2018 |
When she doesn't care or ask about your future ( plans, savings etc)
She refers you as a third party ( envisions her future partner right in ur face)
She offers no form of sacrifice to make u happy
She is more interested in what she removes from your bank account than the funds that go in.
When relationship becomes one sided or parasitic
Sit and take a look at your life and see if she has made any contributions ( not financially only) or helped you overcome a problem
When she doesn't ve u in her prayers and plans
Relationship is a give and take thing (it shouldn't be one sided) not all ladies are the same. We got the good, the bad and the one wey no even try at all |
Romance › Re: Strange Ways Most Girls Behave That Has Got To Stop. Counter-thread! by jeff1607(m): 7:00am On Jan 03, 2018 |
NaoSlay: That's why it would be up to the man that as he is making his money let his 'wise' game be soaring so as not to make foolish decisions. Correct |