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StephenP:
It is no secret to us that you women love bad boys, yet you women deny, deny, deny.

nope you're wrong

women don't like men that r too soft i must say,because they don't want someone dey can easily intimidate or pounce on, but at d same time they don't want the harsh men or d bad boys/men,rather they want men that r inbtw

the most annoying part is some guys would just approach d lady for d first time and start yanning rubbish like

from d very first day i saw u ,i knew you're d right person for me

ever since i saw u ,ive lost my sleep(as if its d babes business)

some will just walk up to d babe and say "i love u" d very first day

some will say wtout u my life wouldnt have been complete

i can die for u



and so on,please all them ladies out there any guy that yans this rubbish i permit u to throw him into the nearest ocean,rubbish

TOH:
I see what debo is syaing but I still maintain you don't have to be an egomaniac to differniate yourself from the pack. True most girls don't like te blithering idiot with the corny Brian McKnight lines but if you are cool enough that she's already enjoying yoru company, you wouldnt need the "let me act like a jerk" facade.

and what about the case where she plainly didnt like your bloody face? Is she still the "loser"?

Jenny,why are you waiting for them to admit it. You can always tell a bitter rejected dude when he says crap like "who the hell wanted to talk to you anyway! Ashewo!! I was just pitying you!" blah blah 

my dear u r right jare,u can always tell a rejected dude wen he replies like dat,its not d babes fault for rejecting him naaaa   he just did not play his card well   dats y i said he needs to grow up a lil

noetic:
u did not have not have to be rude to make a point. . . . .  u have a lot of growin up to do

now whos been rude here   does saying d truth mean one is rude?i only repeated what david said ,so grow up abeg


yeah i have a lot of growing up to do ,nobody knows it all,we all learn and grow up everyday,because like i said nobody knows it all

so u seee u also have a lot growing up to do

noetic:
and in the case the girl was only attemptin to play hard to get, and because of her initial refusal, u decided to back off. is her ego not hurt?

didnt u c d above?

i give u a couple more years,like david said some of them used to think like u wen they were ur age

hard to get or no hard to get for d girl to even stress d guy in d first place and not give him a positive answer is enough to hurt him

noetic:
and in the case the girl was only attemptin to play hard to get, and because of her initial refusal, u decided to back off. is her ego not hurt?

we are all different. I don't c a girl as an asset or as sth so special like we tend to make it seem.
based on who I am, no girl gets to know me n wants to leave.
I m just too much of an asset. this is my subconscious mind. . . .  . . and as such I c a girl who turns down my hand of "fellowship" as d looser.

what ego man?was she d one that approached u first?


@debosky

u guys should be truthful for once ,we women r not asking for too much r we?no we r not,all we r saying is that u men/bois should drop that pride and admit to the fact that it hurts a mans ego when a woman refuses him,that is d simple truth,there r no two ways about it

StephenP:
Naw . . . he'll easily fix it with some alcohol.

d key word here is hurt,y should he soak himself in alcohol if his ego is not hurt,tell me

he should just waka as if nothing happened naw,why d alcohol?

u guys should just be truthful to urselves for once

_{all liars will go to hell}

noetic:
u guys make it sound as if a girl is one great asset to behold. . . . . .  . . and yet we treat em as 

I can't and have never gone out my way to get a girl.

if i ask a girl out or even asks for her number, and she refuses. na who loose, me or she?

na she loose.

if only d guys will be truthful to themselves for once ,we all know that when a girl refuses a guy ,it hurts his ego no doubt

lady bam:
@ poster.

one advise to your friend: tell her not to go back to the guy,simple.whether,he is the one at fault or not,marriage is not worth the risk.PEROID.especially, not when you can avoid it

and to your question?
Actually,most guys are faithful.


but majority are unfaithful,and you know why?

because, they are too weak to resist temptation, that is why they will always blame the ladies.

and to all the guys,; we ladies don't always have to be the ones saying NO. i think,its high time you guys realized that most of the powers, according to human creation, belongs to you.you guys seriously need to grow up.we are just helpers, or what is that word you people always call us, errrrrr, yeah, the weaker sex

sweetie uve said it all

TOH:
cocky + funny will get her to give you the number in the first place. Not you giving your[b] yeye MTN number.[/b]

ann marien:
thanks so much u guys, ibkaye, jek_kad, mesmerize, HR.hotness, gamine, nana,  guess i'm not so weird afterall,

u r welcome sweetie

dreeldee:
don't start with me o 

start ke ,my dear im not starting anything oooo   ,but its d truth u men wont let them babes rest even wen she does not want to talk to u ,even some married women dey suffer dis one too

Mesmerize:
Olodo, it means they keep talking to you like you want to listen!
Men! They ask stupid questions "do you want to talk? you dnt want to talk? why can't I have your number? I like the way you look, and walk". . like that. .

u can say that again my dear

ifyalways what  dposter said is d truth,so many igbos refuse to marry from some kind of states ,and yes some marry too from other states but d mentalities of those that refuse to marry must change,some imo's and abia's don't even want to hear d name anambra not to talk of marrying there,and some anambarians don't even want to near umuahia reason is because d umuahias r wise,now d umuahias don't want to go to mbaise and enugu reason is because they r too conny and tricky ,now some of the abia's dont want to go to umuaka in imo state reason is because they r more of jazz pple,ndie ogwu,my eldest sister married an anambra man ulu n'nemu luru onye delta ,yes there r some of them that marry because they don't care,its all about love but there r some that have sworn never to marry from other states

Irontriz:
men! i'm serious oo. don't be crackin up like this

who's saying u aint serious?have given u my number,just call me

davidylan:
this works with club/bar chics. Real women out there wont call you no matter how much they are dying inside to. You're the man, do the stepping up . . . if i were a woman i wont take you seriously. It cuts across as a man who is not likely the type to take any form of responsibility seriously.

you're right u know

poster my number is

+419419 419 419

i will be expecting ur call,God bless u as u call

ikamefa:
heheheheheheh!  

abeg how?  

my sister im a very stubborn person,so any guy that wants to be cool wt me will receive a knock from me on d road or wherever we meet

im not saying i like guys that r too harsh no way,but i mean a man that is inbtw,

i only fell for d first man that intimidated politely because i met my match  

@topic

with polite intimidation

two months is too much,abi u be mumu   two months u dey diaa dey uffer while d babe dey enjoy wt another guy   u berra wake up from dat deep slumber of urs and face reality

cold:
Mr Stereo,your narration of what happened between you to may not be entirely accurate.If u didn't want to go all d way y did u get started in d 1st place, abeg tell us d tru gist.& by d way what do u mean by "i love her so much"after a few mths,only fools rush in.You're just infatuated.

i agree wt all except that,the fact that he tried to rush in(dats if he did) does not make him a fool,we r all human beings and when d emotional tension is high a guy/woman can loose control but it does not mean they r fools,a few months is better dan a few days

StephenP:
Not valid enough? She reading medicine in school so it's easy for her to know which drug that will make him unconscious. LOL

lmao but u see we r acting on wat d poster told us,and not wat we r imagining or wat we think if she drugged the guy let d poster tell us but until then we just have to act on d story given to us

noetic:
i second the concurtion. . . . .  . . . . 

i third d concurtioning

StephenP:
No . . . the story could have gone like this:

So he was there like a good man waiting for his girlfriend to come home. The cousin saw him looking all groomed and loyal and decided that she must have him on that day. So she tried to seduce him but he resists her advances. Then she brought a bottle of coke and offered it to him. Unknown to this poor fella the bottle was drugged and it knocked him out. When he opened his eyes, he aw his girlfriend's cousin bouncing on top of him and as soon as he held her butt to pull her away, his girlfriend walked on him. Thus, making it look like he was having sex with her.

nollywood sweetie dis story of urs will really make u rich if u take it to nollywood


not valid enough

WHY CANT GUYS BE FAITHFUL  @pataki

jaquan:
@tope
u wont understand.
a ladies fart brings out the romantic side of me.

lmao oh gawdddd

StephenP:
I don't see anyone except iice blaming the cousin. I think the cousin is also at fault for having sex with her cousin's boyfriend.

no body is disputing that fact stephen

but wtout that guys bleeping manliness d cousin wouldnt have been hammered,d tool for d hammering and shagging came from d guy ,so both of them r just plain stupid

Pataki:
C'mon, the brother was just simply obeying a tenderly request tendered by the lady.

In as much as, he did not forcefully have sex with the lady, I will rather be of the opinion that the lady came tempting poor chap.

She deserves to be flogged.

some temptations should be overcomed to avoid trouble in d future,if adam had overcomed d temptation of d fresh apple when eve gave it to him,this world would have been a better place,or don't u think so?


i know d babe is at fault,but u men should stop blaming d women all d time,d guy even sleeping wt his babes cousin is so stupid no matter what,im very sure if d babes mother had opened her legs he would have gone in to