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Adun27:
Our relationship is 8yrs now, we dated for 6 years before she officially leaving with me
I am not legally married to her right now because of personal reasons. She had cheated on me in 2019( that's the only one I know ), I didn't take it too serious we are both in the University but different schools, that shit happens in school. The main issue is this.. " lately a male colleague has been calling her, I told her 3 weeks ago that I don't like it and whatever he wants to tell her can wait for the next working day, she flare up that night and left the sitting room , normally we go to bed together any time I get done working, she went to bed that night with that anger, I never raised a fight with her. She roses early the next day and bath, bath our only son too, she left for work very early, she had never gone to work that time before, she got to work and in some hours I receive some messages on Whatsapp , he's apologizing that he calling my wife, I never replied him ( She claimed that the guy noticed her face and came to ask thats why she told him, meanwhile I never even fought her, their office are next to each other as she claimed)
Now after my woman and the guy knows that, some days ago the guy called my woman just to ask why she didn't come to work, he asked how her husband is doing too and that was the conversation I could here because she put it on loud speaker. After that I checked my woman's phone when she didn't know, I found out that the Guy is still calling her , I also saw that my woman still calling him too though not everyday, I asked her why she had ridiculed me so much , after going to report me to the guy about this calling, you are calling him and he is still calling you, don't you and the guy knows that it's dangerous for your relationship? , She flared up again I have had sex with my woman only 7 times in 3 months, she keeps saying she doesn't want to get pregnant soon and I should go buy condom , we haven't been using condom since we started 8 years ago( she got pregnant recently and we had to abort it because our son is only 11 months)
She does how's chores perfectly and also support me financially only when I don't have, I'm the Man of my house."
What's happening here ?
Please only married people

merits:
me am on my way going seff.

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

Sweetplum:
So... I v gotten my answers. You are here to bash women cos of the mistakes of others. But men are to be absolved of blames if they misbehave. You and your likes are deluded.
You can never get the best out of a woman and the women you ll get ll never be to your satisfaction.

LanreTjakes:
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So who has deflowered the the ones with no hymen?
Who will Marry those with broken hymen?

sihamey:
@bolded virginity is not for one gender, as you 're planning to marry Virginia make sure you, yourself is a virgin to balance the equation

ObaKlaz:
She's short and underaged. We for 'harvest' her, but her father is dangerous.

DonroxyII:
Weak Ass Niggers and cry cry babies ....

If someone format her head to break her hymen ...

You can reformat the same head and install your own Operating System(OS) ..

Remove Windows and Put Linux ...

But if you no sabi no mean say you go dey rant , look for Good Tech ... Dem dey fix and Unfix anything!

Sweetplum:
Which one is overbanged again?
You listed some ladies and you v a point.
J missed not here to encourage losing virginity. But some women v offered their husbands more than virginity and they werent married as virgin.
So... For a man like you to demand woman's virginity, are you a virgin?
How pure are you sexually?

advanceDNA:
U couldnt even see that i was typing and it was a mistake it was submitted....i ddnt even know......but u had to rush to insult me for no reason.... ur insult did nothing to me...it only showed the kind of person u are

LotaTee:
I don't know why I thought I'd get a rational, sensible and straight to the point reply. Disappointing.

RedpillAnalyst:
False equivalency maam.

A matured man who is a virgin has no respect from anybody not even from a virgin girl. It communicates lake of value.

A virgin woman is equivalent to a super rich man.

Both of them are rare and in high demand.

Case in point Regina Daniels and that aged senator.

Poor sapa ridden men(albeit good guys) are like girls with known high mileage and body counts. Nobody wants to have serious commitment with them.

Majority of men are poor, women don't like that.

Majority of women are low level prostitutes, men don't like that.

Men =/= Women

LotaTee:
Are you a virgin yourself?

Prettygirl200:
Dm you for what? That's a long time story,m good now I don't need to dm a talkative.

Sweetplum:
And them no born you well to misbehave in the marriage after seeing the hymen

Prettygirl200:
Guys am heart broken I am honestly i am. Have been in the relationship with this guy for six months now, I trusted him I gave him my heart. His ex squandered everything he had with him and left him when he was broke, she went back to the street as she is into hookups and all I entered his life and things started growing again, whenever he has she will come back once he is broke she will run away.
I have been faithful to him, just yesterday his friend called me secretly to tell me she came back for over one week they have been living together and he has been having sex with her, I couldn't control my tears as I found it hard to believe.This morning I decided to go there as early as 7am only for me to see my bf with his ex cuddling I felt a sharp pain in my heart and it felt as if I should just die ,this was a girl that humilated and abandoned him for another guy, Have been crying as i felt dejected I don't deserve this my ex who took my virginity cheated on me, now it's repeating itself?? Am too young for this kind of strong heartbreak somebody should come nd hold me pls am down!!!!

GOFRONT:
From your previous thread down to this new thread, I observe the following:

* The lady was a U.S returnee.
* You are 30 or 30+ while she is 7yrs older
* Her U.S based Exboyfriend is back in town
You ve even met them sitted very close to each other in her boutique shop
* Her Ex bf lurking around alone like a stubborn fly is a Redflag
* Yet you have chosen to gnash your teeth in pain, looking for a way to get her pregnant.
*You ve been callin callin and she not picking up your calls, pls dont disturb them, she is in da aza room receiving a good Vitamin D from her U.S Exboyfriend.
*Okay, Op, if you eventually get her pregnant, how are you even sure you are the true owner of the pregnancy considering her Ex is still around the corner?
* Be like say Paternity fraud never do you strong tin abi??
* Is this lady even a Virgin at all??........
* @jeromestarks, come and talk to this guy oo

Sweetvie:
Lol... No, am not saying it abt look. And am not ote$ or cuppy so the case is different
Which chance are you insinuating sef
If one chance miss, we will create another.

Sweetvie:
Lol... You got me laughing really hard
That will never happen... I got good market value
Am good looking, got good work (medical), good attitude and personality and am pretty doing okay financially so...

Prettygirl200:
This guy why do you always sound bitter? Are you this jobless?

Sweetvie:
No, I know this
I mean, what are guys gonna give up for women on that ( for being a virgin )

Sweetvie:
Lmao.... Wtf!
No
That can't happen
This baby girl is a beauty

Sweetvie:
Lol... I don't even know what to type. What of guys then?

Sweetvie:
Haaa... How many guys want marry me for Nland
This baby girl is still a baby!
Not ready for marriage

Sweetvie:
Hmm... I don't know much about her mom coz her mom and dad are divorced.

Sweetvie:
Hmm... I feel you
Sex education really matters.
What of peer group influence coz I think that's what influence most girls/guys nowadays even with a good parenting n the environment really matters also. There's this friend, we left home for uni, after few months this babe change... Like, the change was so fast that I was surprised coz she came from a decent home, they don't miss church... Her dad even have position in church. What do you say abt that? Lack of proper parenting?