Education › Re: FUTMINNA 2015/2016 ASPIRANTS THREAD by Jerryolumide(m): 6:52pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
pelumi001: Check your mail... For those that need the D.E past question!! You mean direct entry, please give me the details abeg. |
Education › Re: FUTMINNA 2015/2016 ASPIRANTS THREAD by Jerryolumide(m): 6:49pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Jerryolumide(m): 3:00pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
icedbeatz: bro that's called out smarting a smart ass, do you think the guy would have got the truth if he didn't make her think that there won't be any negativity. Niggas gotta be use their reasoning when dealing with relationship issues. True though |
Romance › Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Jerryolumide(m): 7:47am On Jul 01, 2015 |
icedbeatz: bro pls check this out, how many promises have you broken? Hahahahahaha what she did is a hard pill to swallow for any man except wimps. Still not an excuse boss, he shouldn't have tricked her with his promise |
Romance › Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Jerryolumide(m): 10:49pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
TK0907: I'm into a relationship which is 4yrs old and the lady is someone that i loved so so much and i even introduced her to my parent as the girl i intend to marry and from the way she treats me also, i have this deep feeling that she even loves me more than how i love her but few months ago, I just wish to tease her and i ask her if she has slept with another guy since we started dating and sincerely, i was expecting her to be angry for even asking her such question but to my surprise after asking her several time and promising her not to use it to react to her, she eventually told me that she slept with somone else and her excuse was that it was due to the fact that we actually parted for like 7months which was due to my NYSC program which the distance was far for her to pay me visit. To cut d story short.
I still love her but their is this second thought that comes to mind once in a while what if work has to take me away from her for some months when we get married, hope there will not be a repeat of such? Pls i need a serious minded person to contribute cos the trust i have for her was not like before anymore. But you promised not to use it against her, or in your words "promised not to use it to react to her", remember    ?? |
Politics › Re: Governor El-rufia Enjoying Iftar by Jerryolumide(m): 10:36pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
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Music/Radio › Re: Why Your Children Should Avoid Davido's Video "Fans Mi"- Vanguard Newspaper by Jerryolumide(m): 1:51pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
[size=45pt]After reading your post I decided to go watch the video on youtube (first time I'm listening to the song), it sounds like a song from an upcoming musician!!!!!![/size] |
Music/Radio › Re: Why Your Children Should Avoid Davido's Video "Fans Mi"- Vanguard Newspaper by Jerryolumide(m): 1:34pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
dejt4u: By Tofarati Ige
Have you watched popstar, David Adeleke aka Davido’s latest video, ‘Fans Mi’ featuring American rapper, Meek Mill?
Then you will agree that no child under the age of 18 should see it. Even though music videos have since been reduced to nothing more than scantily-dressed ladies shaking their butts, and the glorification of drunkenness, Davido’s video pushes the boundary of decency.
From the first view, one’s eyes are assailed by lots of cash displayed on a table with several types of guns. As if that is not bad enough, nearly naked girls are spotted dancing raunchily in almost every scene of the video.
The story-line of the video is worse. Davido tries to seal a deal with a drug dealer to supply cocaine while the dealer hands him cases of dollars for the transaction. Davido then goes back to his mansion where he can be seen aided by the brassieres-and-panties flaunting ladies preparing the cocaine. It is not until the end of the video that we get to see that the cocaine Davido delivered to the drug dealer was only semovita (a local Nigerian food).
We must ask though: what is he trying to teach his fans who are largely made up of impressionable youths? That it is okay to engage in the sale of illicit drugs to make money? Or that guns are now suddenly ‘cool’ toys to have?
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/06/why-your-children-should-avoid-davidos-video-fans-mi/ When we say no too secular musics some people will say we are too religious, but most times it doesn't always end with religion but the un-moral stuffs in these musics. Most musicials don't care about the impact their music have on others, all that matters is the fame and money #LetsBeWise |
Celebrities › Re: Korede Bello Performs In Church Again [PICS] by Jerryolumide(m): 9:17pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
elijah2u: there u are, i have seen many grandpa and youngpa who bear the name bello even there are some pastors that bears that name and dey ar xtians. mind u if u go to north particularly kaduna south and even nasarawa u wil find some people who bear muslim names and yet they ar xtians same to yoruba country It's called Arabic names Oga mi |
Events › Re: Pastor And Family Poisoned In Abia, Buried Amid Tears (Photo) by Jerryolumide(m): 7:10am On Jun 16, 2015 |
HeartRobber: Wicked world.
I cover me and my family with the blood of Jesus, amen.
And, amen. So did the pastor |
Christianity Etc › Re: Has Anyone Seen God Face-to-face? by Jerryolumide(m): 9:16am On Jun 13, 2015 |
Rilwayne001: Lol.
What do you mean by "flesh and bone" ??
According to Genesis 32:22-32, Jacob didn't just saw God face-to-face, Jacob wrestles with God. smh Do you read Bible at all? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Has Anyone Seen God Face-to-face? by Jerryolumide(m): 9:15am On Jun 13, 2015 |
Rilwayne001: So, what do you have to say about the verse I quoted? especially that of Timothy which says "whom no one HAS SEEN or CAN SEE.
Also in Exodus, YHWH himself said "you cannot see my face, for no one may see me and LIVE."
Is this some sort of contradiction or what? remember Moses saw YHWH face to face.
Who do we believe now Moses didn't!!! Read your Bible wella, God only showed Moses his back not his face |
Politics › Re: Gov. El-rufai Appoints Two Yoruba Men Into His Cabinet by Jerryolumide(m): 10:00pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
fulanimafia: You are beginning to sound Ibo, Yoruba's are not known for chest-beating.
How can a LOCAL GOVERNMENT in Kaduna have up to 60% of Yorubas?
Let's just celebrate this novel act in peace and humility bro. I just dey watch the guy, I've lived all my life in Kaduna state. The guy dey over hype facts!!! |
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Education › Re: 2015/2016 Kaduna State University Kaduna Kaduna State POST UTME FORM.... by Jerryolumide(m): 6:32am On Jun 10, 2015 |
Drolamicheal4: 2015/2016 Kaduna State University Kaduna Kaduna State POST UTME FORM,PRE-DEGREE,POST GRADUATE IS CURRENTLY ON SALE CALL 07038089562. Why not post information on how to get it here? |
Crime › Re: Wife Kills Hubby For Allegedly Keeping Late Night In Kaduna by Jerryolumide(m): 11:31pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
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Music/Radio › Re: See A Music Video I Shot/edited Using A Samsung S4 Phone by Jerryolumide(m): 9:13pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
oluamid: Why? I actually think the rap was okay. How many of the so call 'cats' actually rap? True |
Music/Radio › Re: See A Music Video I Shot/edited Using A Samsung S4 Phone by Jerryolumide(m): 9:13pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
mrkings84: He needs encouragement for improvement and not discouragement. Don't be a candle quencher!!! noted |
Music/Radio › Re: See A Music Video I Shot/edited Using A Samsung S4 Phone by Jerryolumide(m): 6:47am On Jun 05, 2015 |
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Culture › Re: Weird Facts From Around The World by Jerryolumide(m): 9:24pm On Jun 01, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Aisha Buhari’s Inauguration Wristwatch Cost £34,500 (N10, 453,000)-BreakingTimes by Jerryolumide(m): 7:19pm On Jun 01, 2015 |
dealslip: Ogini? What does the watch do apart from indicating time. Maybe the watch fit tell when Jesus dey come |
Nairaland General › Re: See What Fuel Scarcity And No Light Has Turned My Apartment Into (photo) by Jerryolumide(m): 6:55am On May 26, 2015 |
Pope22: It seems am the only person who is using generator under this fuel scarcity in my area now because the way people bring their phones to my apartment now is getting out of hand despite the fact that I extend the light to all my neigbours. Normally, whenever there is no light in my area, people usually come to my apartment to charge their phones but this time around, I can't see space in my apartment as the number of people trooping in to charge their phones is becoming alarming. I now check my door every minute to accept phone and plug and its really becoming tiring. If this fuel scarcity continues like this for few days more, I guess I shuld employ an assistance to help out because as am typing this, more people are coming. The photo is just one section out of 3 sections in my apartment where I plug people's phones.
Its really unfortunate that I have no other option than to be doing that. See
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Politics › Re: Official Portrait Of Buhari As He Drops General Title From May 29 by Jerryolumide(m): 7:12am On May 18, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Buhari Has No Problem Shaking Hands With Females (photos) by Jerryolumide(m): 7:05am On May 18, 2015 |
OkuDiOver1: Even my muslim neigbour has refused to shake me cos its against his religion but he wouldnt mind hugging me,guess hugging women is not against their religion. Na them sabi nice one there mr .Buhari *checks profile picture* *runs back to thread* JESUS!!!! *Goes back to be sure* Damn, if that's you on your profile picture, I'll hug you even if have Ebola |
Family › Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Jerryolumide(m): 7:46am On May 16, 2015 |
aflyingbird: u didn't give ur wife d chance to explain , she said she could explain but u shunned her. u saw her phone n immediately jumped to d conclusion dat she was having an affair, u left her mother's house n told her not to come back into urs .
ur MIL didn't do anything wrong . pple's native language is always going to be their default language , esp when with family members , meaning dat is wat came natural to her . u cud hv nicely asked her to speak english , i'm sure she wud've done dat but again u got up angrily .
ur problem is dat u jump to conclusions too soon without giving pple d chance to explain their side of d story . d same thing u did to ur wife is what u did to ur MIL. u need to learn to be more patient n hear what pple hv to say Are you saying all this because you're a woman  I'm sure the guy ain't he kid he sure knows When his wife is having an affair or not |
Phones › Re: Pls Help Me Ooo I Bought And Iphone5 And I Cant Open It by Jerryolumide(m): 9:35pm On May 15, 2015 |
onatisi: Bros there is nothing u can do unless the guy opens it for u. Iphones with icloud locked cannot be opened unless u get the real password and details You can unlock it o, a friend(not really my friend) of mine stole 2 and brought to school with same problem. All you do is change the firmware |
Politics › Re: Troops Rescue Additional 234 Women, Children by Jerryolumide(m): 8:17am On May 02, 2015 |
Good job. Right thing at the wrong time |
Crime › Re: How The 4 Nigerians Condemned In Indonesia Will Be Killed by Jerryolumide(m): 10:35am On Apr 28, 2015 |
englishmart: Indonesia is an Islamic country. Islam is peaceful, yet they Don't value the lives of humans Boko Haram is also peaceful |
Christianity Etc › Re: 5 Ways Nigerian Churches Drive Youths Away by Jerryolumide(m): 10:28am On Apr 27, 2015 |
FLAWLES: > Your dp is really flawless |
Christianity Etc › Re: 5 Ways Nigerian Churches Drive Youths Away by Jerryolumide(m): 7:31am On Apr 26, 2015 |
FLAWLES: I swear down>this s so onPoint Like decimal |
Christianity Etc › Re: 5 Ways Nigerian Churches Drive Youths Away by Jerryolumide(m): 7:31am On Apr 26, 2015 |
kentochi: Today is my daughter's 1 year birthday. Can some one wish her happy birthday am sooo happy. wish her the best life has to offer |
Christianity Etc › Re: 5 Ways Nigerian Churches Drive Youths Away by Jerryolumide(m): 7:30am On Apr 26, 2015 |
AllNaijaBlogger: Anyone that has had to take care of teenagers or young people in general knows that it is a very tedious task that requires patience and understanding. If a parent or guardian can’t relate to young people in terms of the prevalent youth culture at the time, the parent/guardian would face a great deal of frustration in directing most youths towards a moral path in life. What compounds this issue is that the internet and modern mass media have given young people so much information and opportunities such that parent/guardians can not keep up with their (the youth) thinking.
This is also a problem for many churches as they are not keeping up with the needs of the youth of today. To lose the interest of the youth is to lose the future of the church and below, are five ways churches of today in Nigeria tend to drive these youths away from the house of God-
1) Ageism (adultism) and disrespect towards younger people by church staff From experience, I can say comfortably that Nigerian culture permeates Nigerian churches, and deeply rooted within Nigerian culture is adultocracy, in which the respect of the elderly and adults are prioritised sometimes at the expense of the youth. For instance, when waiting to see a pastor or reverend father, young people are made to wait for long periods with no information while an elderly person would be given a swift service- the older person would be told how long he or she is to wait and also be told about the whereabouts of the pastor/priest.
Another instance is where ushers in the church shout at younger people when directing them to seat or move in the church hall but will be calm when they are directing older people. I have even seen it twice where a church staff member was shouting and embarrassing a teenage couple about "fornication" just because the couple were flirting in the church premises after the church service.
As someone that has been to many churches of different denominations with various friends in those different churches, I can say that such behaviour is endemic and it needs to be changed. Young people too have rights and feelings. The discriminatory treatment turns the youth off from coming to church.
2) Lack of relevant preaching to youths Youth problems are far beyond "respect your parents and teachers". There are important moral issues facing the youth such as; sex, porn addiction, on the internet, bullying at school, abuse from adults, anti-social behaviours and so on. This is where churches need a good youth pastor who can relate to such youth problems.
Many churches prefer to speak against pre-marital sex to teens and young people but they forget that the young people are more interested in how to approach the opposite sex or the person that they have a crush on. A good youth preacher would explain to the youth how to create a God-fearing relationship with their close friends or partners, rather than just spouting the usual anti-pre-marital sex doctrine. Also, when preaching to youth, Nigerian churches fail to use terms that the young people will understand. For instance, using a young musician like Wizkid to explain the problems with a materialistic life would be more relevant to youth than explaining it with plain theology.
3) Lack of youth programmes Many churches have little or no youth programmes that would interest the young people in the church. Even the ones that do have very boring programmes- they consider "choir and drama" to be everything young people need. Personally, I never could sing or act as a youth and so, I didn't really enjoy the youth programme in my church. There are other things that could engage the interest of the youth in church such as trips to religious sites/places and creative classes. Some churches have good youth programmes, I know of a few that have football matches among their youth,which is also a good idea.
4) Refusal to deal with "internet questions" There are a lot of facts and also nonsense on the internet. It is inevitable that young people will pick up strange things on the internet and will want clarification on such things. For instance, I remember a teenager asking a pastor about the Church of England's acceptance of gay priests- the pastor just concluded that the issue is beyond the teen's understanding. The teenager probably read it on the internet and was wondering if it was possible on the internet. The issue here is that pastors or priests should be ready for such controversial questions from the youth as they have curious minds at that age and are still learning. Dismissing their questions will only drive them to find questions elsewhere. Furthermore, not answering religious questions that pertain to the church makes it seem as if the church has something to hide.
5) Resistance to technology Some churches frown upon the use of Ipads or tablets to read bible passages. Some churches that have multi-million dollar buildings prefer to use televisions to broadcast educational material to youth members instead of multi-functional projectors. Some churches do not have a functional website that provides information on church activities. Times are changing and churches need to adapt. The youth are becoming more dependent on technology and there is a need to engage them on that level.
http://allnaijablog.com/5-ways-nigerian-churches-drive-youths-away Mine reason I had to leave the church my mum attends to another. I'm so shocked when adults in the church start judging the youths by there looks very annoying or never talking about what affects us or how to fix it only talking about What we didn't do right |