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This is a common mistake by most people. is it BIRTHDAY or BIRTHDATE?

grad2012:
Op it kind of too long you would have just summarized it.

it's an article that's y it's long

SEX IS THE EASY PART..FINDING SOMEONE WHO LOVE YOU FOR REAL..,NOW THATS THE HARD PART. Love,love,love,...such an easy word,a word so frequently used that its meaning has been watered down. Used by all and understood by very few people,the writer inclusive. Sex,sex,sex....sex comes to the mind of everybody...yea i said that...everybody's mind once in a while...and thats nt a sin or a crime itself,but allowing the thought to stay in ur mind the moment it comes or the constant feeding of the thoughts. Then thats when you need Jesus. That been stated...am writin this article from a circular point of view... Sex is easy...yea..i said that...i will explain. In this 21st century,everything has turned its way upside down. Lesbianism, homosexualism are now seen as normal in some part of the world. The issue of sex has been swallowed in this ugly trend of things turning upside down. God created sex as a means of procreation and consumation of love between married couples. It was a means of a total expression of love between those bound in a holy matrimony. But in our days,that has lost its sense or meaning. In this days..sex is so easy that in a relationship,it is the easiest part that is done. No one is interested in puttin an effort anymore..why?? Becos its d easiest part, the part that is done over with in minutes. Working on a relationship is the hard part.. Why go for the hard part if you can do the easiest part very soon...and then d easiest part becomes a determining factor if the hard part would be pursued. A gal should value her dignity far ahead of anything. She should only give that part of her out to someone who is deserving of it. Buh what do we see in this 21st century.? A lady meets a "promising" man and she wants to keep him. Instead of working on been someone that someone else wuld love to keep. Instead of gettin good morals and things that would make her an assest,she tries to use the very one thing God gave to all d women in this world to trap a man. Thats crazy...thats stupidity to the highest degree. Truth is, if a man doesnt love you, nothing wuld make him stay...absolutely nothing. Buh in the infinitesimallity of their thinking, they choose to give the ultimate sacrifice of love as a pawn in a chess game.. She throws it away as the first card in the game...and ofcourse he doesnt stay at the end of the day. What a world we have found ourselves. No one wants to work on a relationship...the guy is interested in d sex and if he doesn't get it from her..., he seeks for it outside and ofcourse gets it...i mean sex is the easy part. Becos for every one decent girl out there been strong and determined not to sell herself cheap, there are 10 whores ready to give it for free. And at the end of the day,its a fight she cannot win. So She is under continual pressure and maybe succumbs finaly inorder not to lose him and still loses him at the end of the day.. Its a twisted world where no one wins. No one is ready to put in the effort it takes to build a relationship...some people say its too hard. Yeah....they are right...its too hard. It takes a consious decision and a strong emotional investment to make a relationship work. A decision to wake up every mrng and decide to still love someone and work on it ...no matter the obvious flaws. Its hard to do...very hard.. But does it mean we shuldnt try? ..not at all. Does it mean it cant be worth it...sometimes its worth it. At least our parents are obvious examples. Its 21st century....and d most sacred component of a relationship has become the most bastardised. The most sacred is now been given away so easily. Before you could get anyone to love you and sex was d hard part ..it was a proof of love. An act that consumates an eternal love after the long walk down the aisle. Buh now...sex can be gotten immediately after the hello. Ladies are under immense pressure. And most of them tend to succumb Buh one thing is certain...sex cant make him stay if he wants to leave. And if he wants to stay..really loves you to want to stay....the lack of sex wont make him leave. It cant be either ways... If pple could work on relationships with the same vigour they find sex...there will be less divorce in the world. And in d worse of the worst...pple tend to marry becos of the sex and then after a little time..they get tired. And they fall apart. I think if love is worked on and relationships are built with time..marriages wukd last longer. We might tend to disagree,buh the truth is the old way of getting married. Where sex is seen as sacred and the couple have a long courtship and grow into love before eventually marrying is still d best shot. Our parents and grand parents were witnesses of that...and of course u see them celebrating silver and golden jubilees.. Buh on our case. It will take a miracle nt to be in each other's throat after 3years. Simply becos,we hv lost track of our priorities. The cart have been placed before the horse This is a circular article..so am in no way an advocate for whether pple shuld hv sex or not...that should be a decision that doesnt concern me Strictly none of my business. The whole idea shuld be based on... Dnt be that girl..that tries to use sex to make him stay...he wont. Dont be that girl that gives it to whosoever asks for it. Dont be that girl that succumbs whn she is not ready. Dont be that girl... Becos you deserve better. In this 21st century..sex is easy..very easy Finding someone who loves you for you....now thats d hard part.. And from where am standing.....that shuld be the priority...the rest comes later. #jhuzcoyle

SEX IS THE EASY PART..FINDING SOMEONE WHO LOVE YOU FOR REAL..,NOW THATS THE HARD PART. Love,love,love,...such an easy word,a word so frequently used that its meaning has been watered down. Used by all and understood by very few people,the writer inclusive. Sex,sex,sex....sex comes to the mind of everybody...yea i said that...everybody's mind once in a while...and thats nt a sin or a crime itself,but allowing the thought to stay in ur mind the moment it comes or the constant feeding of the thoughts. Then thats when you need Jesus. That been stated...am writin this article from a circular point of view... Sex is easy...yea..i said that...i will explain. In this 21st century,everything has turned its way upside down. Lesbianism, homosexualism are now seen as normal in some part of the world. The issue of sex has been swallowed in this ugly trend of things turning upside down. God created sex as a means of procreation and consumation of love between married couples. It was a means of a total expression of love between those bound in a holy matrimony. But in our days,that has lost its sense or meaning. In this days..sex is so easy that in a relationship,it is the easiest part that is done. No one is interested in puttin an effort anymore..why?? Becos its d easiest part, the part that is done over with in minutes. Working on a relationship is the hard part.. Why go for the hard part if you can do the easiest part very soon...and then d easiest part becomes a determining factor if the hard part would be pursued. A gal should value her dignity far ahead of anything. She should only give that part of her out to someone who is deserving of it. Buh what do we see in this 21st century.? A lady meets a "promising" man and she wants to keep him. Instead of working on been someone that someone else wuld love to keep. Instead of gettin good morals and things that would make her an assest,she tries to use the very one thing God gave to all d women in this world to trap a man. Thats crazy...thats stupidity to the highest degree. Truth is, if a man doesnt love you, nothing wuld make him stay...absolutely nothing. Buh in the infinitesimallity of their thinking, they choose to give the ultimate sacrifice of love as a pawn in a chess game.. She throws it away as the first card in the game...and ofcourse he doesnt stay at the end of the day. What a world we have found ourselves. No one wants to work on a relationship...the guy is interested in d sex and if he doesn't get it from her..., he seeks for it outside and ofcourse gets it...i mean sex is the easy part. Becos for every one decent girl out there been strong and determined not to sell herself cheap, there are 10 whores ready to give it for free. And at the end of the day,its a fight she cannot win. So She is under continual pressure and maybe succumbs finaly inorder not to lose him and still loses him at the end of the day.. Its a twisted world where no one wins. No one is ready to put in the effort it takes to build a relationship...some people say its too hard. Yeah....they are right...its too hard. It takes a consious decision and a strong emotional investment to make a relationship work. A decision to wake up every mrng and decide to still love someone and work on it ...no matter the obvious flaws. Its hard to do...very hard.. But does it mean we shuldnt try? ..not at all. Does it mean it cant be worth it...sometimes its worth it. At least our parents are obvious examples. Its 21st century....and d most sacred component of a relationship has become the most bastardised. The most sacred is now been given away so easily. Before you could get anyone to love you and sex was d hard part ..it was a proof of love. An act that consumates an eternal love after the long walk down the aisle. Buh now...sex can be gotten immediately after the hello. Ladies are under immense pressure. And most of them tend to succumb Buh one thing is certain...sex cant make him stay if he wants to leave. And if he wants to stay..really loves you to want to stay....the lack of sex wont make him leave. It cant be either ways... If pple could work on relationships with the same vigour they find sex...there will be less divorce in the world. And in d worse of the worst...pple tend to marry becos of the sex and then after a little time..they get tired. And they fall apart. I think if love is worked on and relationships are built with time..marriages wukd last longer. We might tend to disagree,buh the truth is the old way of getting married. Where sex is seen as sacred and the couple have a long courtship and grow into love before eventually marrying is still d best shot. Our parents and grand parents were witnesses of that...and of course u see them celebrating silver and golden jubilees.. Buh on our case. It will take a miracle nt to be in each other's throat after 3years. Simply becos,we hv lost track of our priorities. The cart have been placed before the horse This is a circular article..so am in no way an advocate for whether pple shuld hv sex or not...that should be a decision that doesnt concern me Strictly none of my business. The whole idea shuld be based on... Dnt be that girl..that tries to use sex to make him stay...he wont. Dont be that girl that gives it to whosoever asks for it. Dont be that girl that succumbs whn she is not ready. Dont be that girl... Becos you deserve better. In this 21st century..sex is easy..very easy Finding someone who loves you for you....now thats d hard part.. And from where am standing.....that shuld be the priority...the rest comes later.

HUSBAND SCARCITY!!!
This may not be the best time for
me to write on this because of
misinterpretations, but I can no
longer resist the push. "Husband
Scarcity" has become one of the
challenges faced by many young girls
today. If you go to prayer houses,
majority of the intentions are prayer
for a life partner. And this calls for
concern. Casting our minds back to
the time of our mothers and
grandmothers, was there
really much of a "Husband Scarcity"
problem? Or, maybe there were
more men than women then, or
there was an adequate corresponding
numbers of both genders. I don't
think so. Maybe then, the women
had values and were prepared to
build a
home and not park into a built home.
Then, once a young man comes of
age and can at least feed himself and
his wife, he goes out in search of a
wife and the woman really
appreciates him and helps him to
build a future. What am I really
trying to say? We created what we
now see as "Husband Scarcity" for
ourselves. Today, the reverse is the
case. Ask an average girl to define
her dream husband; you get things
like "he has to be tall, handsome,
fair, and rich, own a house at least,
and be presentable" and then she
adds "God fearing" in order not to
sound so worldly. Then, check the
number of girls around you and the
number of men that meet that
standard, and you will see the
problem. You hear girls say, "I
cannot suffer in my father's house
and then go and start suffering with
a man." What a wonderful dream!
What if from the beginning, you have
everything you want and there is no
suffering, and later in the marriage,
the table turns around, then comes
suffering? Will you run away? No one
prays for suffering, but it is good to
start small and end big, than start
big and end small. The problem is
that the description majority of girls
give of their ideal man is virtually
the same. When 50 girls want the
same kind of man and the man that
fits what they want is just 1 man,
and the man can only pick one.
Then, what becomes of 49 others?
They simply start lamenting of
"Husband Scarcity". Another irony of
our time is that it is hard, due to the
face of our economy to find a man
who is of marriage age who
possesses all
those things these ladies want,
legally (except those involved in
Internet fraud); even the number of
those in Internet fraud is not enough
to match all those searching for
already made husbands.
If you look around, majority of the
ladies of substance, of good value
and virtue, who are ready to build a
home with a man who has prospects,
are married and not complaining of
husband scarcity. The easiest way to
find a husband now, is to change
your view of who a husband is. A
husband is that man God made and
then saw that it may be hard for him
to really actualize his purpose for
making him, without a help mate and
then made the woman and gave to
him, and he felt complete and
fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A
POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM.
It is a mission of building the family
of God here on earth. For those who
see marriage as a way out of
poverty, it is a way into bondage.
Women are HOME BUILDERS, not
HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE
A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY.
Where he is today, may only be a
route to where God has destined him
to be tomorrow. Another truth is that
YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST
MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION.
Join in alleviating "husband
scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT
VALUES. I am not saying that you
should pick anyone that comes your
way and talks of marriage, not all
men are husband materials. What I
am saying is that you should stop
setting your standard on material
acquisitions or
physical appearances. Look beyond
the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN
WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS
OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE
IS MADE UP OF. And that which he
is made of is, most times, not seen
with the physical eyes, only its
effects can be seen. Marriage is a
permanent thing. Whatever is seen is
temporal and that which is not seen
is permanent. Relax and go to God in
prayer. God did not just make Eve
for making sake; He made her for
Adam's need..

– “…creation of social welfare scheme…will eject
$7.575b from the treasury annually. Where President
Buhari hopes to get the money still remains a
mystery…”
– “Free meal for each child per day at N200 per meal
will cost Nigeria N14.4b. Where will N14.4b nutrition
money emanate from?”
– “Empirically, the APC success in the presidential poll
is positively correlated with the mindless promises
they’ve made”.
During 2015 electoral campaign, the APC made a
number of promises, both attainable and
unattainable, to attract the voters. Thisday newspaper
compiled a total of 35 promises, and the mind-
blowing ones were:
– Creation of social welfare scheme that will provide
25m poorest and most vulnerable citizens with at least
N5,000 per month, help to enroll their children in
schools and promote family stability.
– One free meal per day including fruits for the
children attending public primary schools.
– Creation of 3 million jobs per annum.
– Naira to dollar equalization.
– Eradication of “state of origin” category by
replacing it with “state of residence” category to
enhance national unity.
I have issues with these promises for a number of
reasons. Firstly, creation of social welfare scheme for
providing 25m citizens with N5,000 every month will
eject $7.575b from the treasury annually. Where
President Buhari hopes to get the money still remains
a mystery to most of us as the fall in oil prices has
turned this lofty plan into a mirage. Surprisingly,
Buhari made the promise when the oil was selling below
$50. Workers on the payroll of about twenty Nigerian
states cannot receive their salaries, and the country’s
treasury is bleeding red ink. Any addition to the
recurrent government expenditure will be suicidal.
Secondly, according to the UNICEF, children under 15
account for about 45% of the Nigerian growing
population. This entails that 72m children (45% of the
the total 160 million Nigerians) attend primary schools
at the moment provided the Almagiri children in the
north, the Agbero kids in the west and the street
hawkers in the southeast also get enrolled. Free meal
for each child per day at N200 per meal will cost
Nigeria N14.4b. Another illusion, you may say. Where
will N14.4b nutrition money emanate from? If this
figure is imbedded into the national budget, Nigeria
will spend N4.32t just to feed the children excluding
the 10% traditional kickback demanded by civil
servants. I wonder, do you still remember how much is
our national budget?
Thirdly, the APC did not specify how the promised 3m
jobs would be created. I don’t believe that the
federal, state and local governments will bear the
burden because most ministries and agencies are
overstaffed, and their budgets are limited. Have we
fallen victims of the APC cruel hoax?
Redenomination of naira is a welcome move. It will
discourage capital flight, brain drain, curb inflation
and stabilize our national currency. Many countries
including Brazil, Argentina, Russia and Ghana have
done it before and achieved positive results. However,
the APC should not be oblivious of the forces that
stopped Prof Soludo from pursuing this policy. The
consequences of unemployment on the foreign
exchange market should be taken into account. I am
not a pessimist, but I doubt President Buhari will
pursue the policies that may hurt the Fulani who are
majorly into dollar for naira exchange business.
Empirically, the APC success in the presidential poll is
positively correlated with the mindless promises they’ve
made. This is because the bargaining power of the
electorate are votes. Thomas Hobbes impliedly noted
that by voting people surrender their inalienable right
to govern in exchange for good governance as
captured in the campaign manifestoes.

everything we guys do is not just good enough. Buh guess what? we can't stop *in Mickey Cyrus voice* ;Deverything we guys do is not just good enough. Buh guess what? we can't stop *in Mickey Cyrus voice*

who dem hep?

hmmmm. mastery in kissing

I don't go clubbing wit bae ;DI don't go clubbing wit bae