SEX IS THE EASY PART..FINDING SOMEONE WHO LOVE YOU FOR REAL..,NOW THATS THE HARD PART. Love,love,love,...such an easy word,a word so frequently used that its meaning has been watered down. Used by all and understood by very few people,the writer inclusive. Sex,sex,sex....sex comes to the mind of everybody...yea i said that...everybody's mind once in a while...and thats nt a sin or a crime itself,but allowing the thought to stay in ur mind the moment it comes or the constant feeding of the thoughts. Then thats when you need Jesus. That been stated...am writin this article from a circular point of view... Sex is easy...yea..i said that...i will explain. In this 21st century,everything has turned its way upside down. Lesbianism, homosexualism are now seen as normal in some part of the world. The issue of sex has been swallowed in this ugly trend of things turning upside down. God created sex as a means of procreation and consumation of love between married couples. It was a means of a total expression of love between those bound in a holy matrimony. But in our days,that has lost its sense or meaning. In this days..sex is so easy that in a relationship,it is the easiest part that is done. No one is interested in puttin an effort anymore..why?? Becos its d easiest part, the part that is done over with in minutes. Working on a relationship is the hard part.. Why go for the hard part if you can do the easiest part very soon...and then d easiest part becomes a determining factor if the hard part would be pursued. A gal should value her dignity far ahead of anything. She should only give that part of her out to someone who is deserving of it. Buh what do we see in this 21st century.? A lady meets a "promising" man and she wants to keep him. Instead of working on been someone that someone else wuld love to keep. Instead of gettin good morals and things that would make her an assest,she tries to use the very one thing God gave to all d women in this world to trap a man. Thats crazy...thats stupidity to the highest degree. Truth is, if a man doesnt love you, nothing wuld make him stay...absolutely nothing. Buh in the infinitesimallity of their thinking, they choose to give the ultimate sacrifice of love as a pawn in a chess game.. She throws it away as the first card in the game...and ofcourse he doesnt stay at the end of the day. What a world we have found ourselves. No one wants to work on a relationship...the guy is interested in d sex and if he doesn't get it from her..., he seeks for it outside and ofcourse gets it...i mean sex is the easy part. Becos for every one decent girl out there been strong and determined not to sell herself cheap, there are 10 whores ready to give it for free. And at the end of the day,its a fight she cannot win. So She is under continual pressure and maybe succumbs finaly inorder not to lose him and still loses him at the end of the day.. Its a twisted world where no one wins. No one is ready to put in the effort it takes to build a relationship...some people say its too hard. Yeah....they are right...its too hard. It takes a consious decision and a strong emotional investment to make a relationship work. A decision to wake up every mrng and decide to still love someone and work on it ...no matter the obvious flaws. Its hard to do...very hard.. But does it mean we shuldnt try? ..not at all. Does it mean it cant be worth it...sometimes its worth it. At least our parents are obvious examples. Its 21st century....and d most sacred component of a relationship has become the most bastardised. The most sacred is now been given away so easily. Before you could get anyone to love you and sex was d hard part ..it was a proof of love. An act that consumates an eternal love after the long walk down the aisle. Buh now...sex can be gotten immediately after the hello. Ladies are under immense pressure. And most of them tend to succumb Buh one thing is certain...sex cant make him stay if he wants to leave. And if he wants to stay..really loves you to want to stay....the lack of sex wont make him leave. It cant be either ways... If pple could work on relationships with the same vigour they find sex...there will be less divorce in the world. And in d worse of the worst...pple tend to marry becos of the sex and then after a little time..they get tired. And they fall apart. I think if love is worked on and relationships are built with time..marriages wukd last longer. We might tend to disagree,buh the truth is the old way of getting married. Where sex is seen as sacred and the couple have a long courtship and grow into love before eventually marrying is still d best shot. Our parents and grand parents were witnesses of that...and of course u see them celebrating silver and golden jubilees.. Buh on our case. It will take a miracle nt to be in each other's throat after 3years. Simply becos,we hv lost track of our priorities. The cart have been placed before the horse This is a circular article..so am in no way an advocate for whether pple shuld hv sex or not...that should be a decision that doesnt concern me Strictly none of my business. The whole idea shuld be based on... Dnt be that girl..that tries to use sex to make him stay...he wont. Dont be that girl that gives it to whosoever asks for it. Dont be that girl that succumbs whn she is not ready. Dont be that girl... Becos you deserve better. In this 21st century..sex is easy..very easy Finding someone who loves you for you....now thats d hard part.. And from where am standing.....that shuld be the priority...the rest comes later.

Your heart determines who you will love

Kk

Op it kind of too long you would have just summarized it.

grad2012:
Op it kind of too long you would have just summarized it.

it's an article that's y it's long