HUSBAND SCARCITY!!!
This may not be the best time for
me to write on this because of
misinterpretations, but I can no
longer resist the push. "Husband
Scarcity" has become one of the
challenges faced by many young girls
today. If you go to prayer houses,
majority of the intentions are prayer
for a life partner. And this calls for
concern. Casting our minds back to
the time of our mothers and
grandmothers, was there
really much of a "Husband Scarcity"
problem? Or, maybe there were
more men than women then, or
there was an adequate corresponding
numbers of both genders. I don't
think so. Maybe then, the women
had values and were prepared to
build a
home and not park into a built home.
Then, once a young man comes of
age and can at least feed himself and
his wife, he goes out in search of a
wife and the woman really
appreciates him and helps him to
build a future. What am I really
trying to say? We created what we
now see as "Husband Scarcity" for
ourselves. Today, the reverse is the
case. Ask an average girl to define
her dream husband; you get things
like "he has to be tall, handsome,
fair, and rich, own a house at least,
and be presentable" and then she
adds "God fearing" in order not to
sound so worldly. Then, check the
number of girls around you and the
number of men that meet that
standard, and you will see the
problem. You hear girls say, "I
cannot suffer in my father's house
and then go and start suffering with
a man." What a wonderful dream!
What if from the beginning, you have
everything you want and there is no
suffering, and later in the marriage,
the table turns around, then comes
suffering? Will you run away? No one
prays for suffering, but it is good to
start small and end big, than start
big and end small. The problem is
that the description majority of girls
give of their ideal man is virtually
the same. When 50 girls want the
same kind of man and the man that
fits what they want is just 1 man,
and the man can only pick one.
Then, what becomes of 49 others?
They simply start lamenting of
"Husband Scarcity". Another irony of
our time is that it is hard, due to the
face of our economy to find a man
who is of marriage age who
possesses all
those things these ladies want,
legally (except those involved in
Internet fraud); even the number of
those in Internet fraud is not enough
to match all those searching for
already made husbands.
If you look around, majority of the
ladies of substance, of good value
and virtue, who are ready to build a
home with a man who has prospects,
are married and not complaining of
husband scarcity. The easiest way to
find a husband now, is to change
your view of who a husband is. A
husband is that man God made and
then saw that it may be hard for him
to really actualize his purpose for
making him, without a help mate and
then made the woman and gave to
him, and he felt complete and
fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A
POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM.
It is a mission of building the family
of God here on earth. For those who
see marriage as a way out of
poverty, it is a way into bondage.
Women are HOME BUILDERS, not
HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE
A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY.
Where he is today, may only be a
route to where God has destined him
to be tomorrow. Another truth is that
YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST
MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION.
Join in alleviating "husband
scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT
VALUES. I am not saying that you
should pick anyone that comes your
way and talks of marriage, not all
men are husband materials. What I
am saying is that you should stop
setting your standard on material
acquisitions or
physical appearances. Look beyond
the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN
WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS
OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE
IS MADE UP OF. And that which he
is made of is, most times, not seen
with the physical eyes, only its
effects can be seen. Marriage is a
permanent thing. Whatever is seen is
temporal and that which is not seen
is permanent. Relax and go to God in
prayer. God did not just make Eve
for making sake; He made her for
Adam's need..

Instead of me to marry a poor man, I would rather snatch another woman's husband and become wife no 2.
There is nothing pretty in poverty and management.
Women just dey dull.

OP nice write up, but unfortunately you are preaching or trying to communicate to a female generation of "block heads/air heads".

kilode100:
Instead of me to marry a poor man, I would rather snatch another woman's husband and become wife no 2.
There is nothing pretty in poverty and management.
Women just dey dull.

Really?


Plz stop praying 4 dt rather pray 4 ur own.

Utchgirl:




Really?


Plz stop praying 4 dt rather pray 4 ur own.

The end result is having it abi?
Forget the methods.

Right. But the opposite se.x will not admit it. Proud creatures. There are thousands of them in my church. praying for husband.

kilode100:
Instead of me to marry a poor man, I would rather snatch another woman's husband and become wife no 2.
There is nothing pretty in poverty and management.
Women just dey dull.

When the wife number 1 outsmart u and jaz you with juju. I have seen many girls die or run mentally ill due to this.

A woman who suffered (Poverty) with her man to make it in life. After making it, you come from nowhere to be wife number 2 to enjioy what you didnt work for.

Its not only men that are wicked, women are far more wicked.

You sleep with another woman's husband, when you get married and your husband fck little girls, please dont complain. Just buy him enough condom.

proxillin:


When the wife number 1 outsmart u and jaz you with juju. I have seen many girls die or run mentally ill due to this.

A woman who suffered (Poverty) with her man to make it in life. After making it, you come from nowhere to be wife number 2 to enjioy what you didnt work for.

Its not only men that are wicked, women are far more wicked.

You sleep with another woman's husband, when you get married and your husband fck little girls, please dont complain. Just buy him enough condom.

Gbam

@kilode
You think wife no 1 will sit and watch besides geez this is the most unintelligent statement ave heard from a woman. Snatch another husband. What happens when the same is done to you. If he can get tired of wife1 what makes you an exception

proxillin:


When the wife number 1 outsmart u and jaz you with juju. I have seen many girls die or run mentally ill due to this.

A woman who suffered (Poverty) with her man to make it in life. After making it, you come from nowhere to be wife number 2 to enjioy what you didnt work for.

Its not only men that are wicked, women are far more wicked.

You sleep with another woman's husband, when you get married and your husband fck little girls, please dont complain. Just buy him enough condom.

Complain about what?
No complaints where there is cash...
He is free to knack every knackable.

As for juju, Honey dear , give me a break biko.

kilode100:



Complain about what?
No complaints where there is cash...
[size=18pt]He is free to knack every knackable.[/size]

As for juju, Honey dear , give me a break biko.

I think I like you.

So I can marry you as wife figure (wife position) and carry girls.

A woman of my dream. First of her kind.

proxillin:


I think I like you.

So I can marry you as wife figure (wife position) and carry girls.

A woman of my dream. First of her kind.

Even her signature tells me everything I need to know about her. Have fun guys.

Which reminds me I have an aunt married to Fashawe the popular one and he had other wives, they were rich as in mega rich, but for some weird reason things have turned upside down for them. Obviously it seems the guy moved on to his other wives or wasn't making money as before. You know how people think money always going to rain all their lives. Money is never permanent today you have it tomorrow you don't. Just wanted to state that out for peeps here.

kilode100:
Instead of me to marry a poor man, I would rather snatch another woman's husband and become wife no 2.
There is nothing pretty in poverty and management.
Women just dey dull.

If u re actually the one on ur profile, den u ve given verdict to ur case already. Why would u dream of husband not to talk of 1st wife? U re already settling for 2nd wife. Good for u and ur physique . Best of luck. If u know wat I mean.

chigoizie7:



If u re actually the one on ur profile, den u ve given verdict to ur case already. Why would u dream of husband not to talk of 1st wife? U re already settling for 2nd wife. Good for u and ur physique . Best of luck. If u know wat I mean.

Poor man on da lose

kilode100:



Poor man on da lose

Look @ dis fugly/ugly orobo who has already concluded within her that no sensible man(even a stupid man sef) will ever take her as a 1st wife, perhaps relegating herself to the post of a 2nd wife if @ all she will ever be in such a position, sweetheart, u re just a demented old slowpoke.

See her mouth life rich man, keep dreaming, don't go and look for something to do with your misreable life so as to elevate ur wretched state of life. Keep looking for rich husbands, akwuna kobo kobo.


Ur talks are allowed, I ve always known how wretched people talk. Keep it up once more.













One more thing.












#quotemeanddieAsap.

proxillin:


When the wife number 1 outsmart u and jaz you with juju. I have seen many girls die or run mentally ill due to this.

A woman who suffered (Poverty) with her man to make it in life. After making it, you come from nowhere to be wife number 2 to enjioy what you didnt work for.

Its not only men that are wicked, women are far more wicked.

You sleep with another woman's husband, when you get married and your husband fck little girls, please dont complain. Just buy him enough condom.

You self dey disturb yourself, na guy dey operate that account

chigoizie7:




Look @ dis fugly/ugly orobo who has already concluded within her that no sensible man(even a stupid man sef) will ever take her as a 1st wife, perhaps relegating herself to the post of a 2nd wife if @ all she will ever be in such a position, sweetheart, u re just a demented old slowpoke.

See her mouth life rich man, keep dreaming, don't go and look for something to do with your misreable life so as to elevate ur wretched state of life. Keep looking for rich husbands, akwuna kobo kobo.


Ur talks are allowed, I ve always known how wretched people talk. Keep it up once more.













One more thing.












#quotemeanddieAsap.

Poor man

stephenqueen:

You self dey disturb yourself, na guy dey operate that account

Serious?
Add up, send 1k glo and I will surprise you... But of course you no get 1k.


Poor man

kilode100:



Serious?
Add up, send 1k glo and I will surprise you... But of course you no get 1k.


Poor man

Ebuka make thunder fire you , you wan cum dey maga people for here and you think say I knw go no say na you
Ebuka na wetin your brother wey dey lagos dey do be this ooo wey make dem burn am , you see how he take shorten his life.You self wan follow hin foot step ba .Chai you be bastard oooo, no go hustle, dey here dey find maga
No worry I go helep you find work

Cc: kingtom
Alberto2k

stephenqueen:



Ebuka make thunder fire you , you wan cum dey maga people for here and you think say I knw go no say na you
Ebuka na wetin your brother wey dey lagos dey do be this ooo wey make dem burn am , you see how he take shorten his life.You self wan follow hin foot step ba .Chai you be bastard oooo, no go hustle, dey here dey find maga
No worry I go helep you find work

Cc: kingtom
Alberto2k

See how's he shouting because of ordinary 1k
Poverty na bastard.

kilode100:



See how's he shouting because of ordinary 1k
Poverty na bastard.

If you are not in poverty, you would'nt be begging for 1k airtime
Ebuka make I free you small,na only sex starved idiots go fall for your trap
Go and sin no more

stephenqueen:

If you are not in poverty, you would'nt be begging for 1k airtime
Ebuka make I free you small,na only sex starved idiots go fall for your trap
Go and sin no more

Begging?
You go school at all?
You want to chat with me for free?
I be your family member?

kilode100:



Begging?
You go school at all?
You want to chat with me for free?
I be your family member?

Ebuka make thunder fire you , who wan chat with you
I no be gay na, it's obvious you are a guy...
Na only idióts go fall for your trap.You better go find work do, dey here dey find maga.mad boi

stephenqueen:



Ebuka make thunder fire you , who wan chat with you
I no be gay na, it's obvious you are a guy...
Na only idióts go fall for your trap.You better go find work do, dey here dey find maga.mad boi

He says he's not gay
Queen stephen, how far ?

They are always the first to say they ain't gay.
Queenie stephy, I believe you.

kilode100:
Instead of me to marry a poor man, I would rather snatch another woman's husband and become wife no 2.
There is nothing pretty in poverty and management.
Women just dey dull.

my dear u harsh oh

pcguru1:
Which reminds me I have an aunt married to Fashawe the popular one and he had other wives, they were rich as in mega rich, but for some weird reason things have turned upside down for them. Obviously it seems the guy moved on to his other wives or wasn't making money as before. You know how people think money always going to rain all their lives. Money is never permanent today you have it tomorrow you don't. Just wanted to state that out for peeps here.

Haven't you heard of divorce?!.....
It doesn't ve to be for better for WOR......

[quote author=kilode100 post=34702940]


[s]He says he's not gay
Queen stephen, how far ?

They are always the first to say they ain't gay.
Queenie stephy, I believe you. [/quote[/s]]
Ebuka your papa, bring your sisters for me make I lash them
Poor boi

kilode100:
Instead of me to marry a poor man, I would rather snatch another woman's husband and become wife no 2.
There is nothing pretty in poverty and management.
Women just dey dull.

continue

[quote author=stephenqueen post=34717489][/quote]


Queen stephen, lash who?
Gaylord

As a result of...

COPY AND PASTE

kilode100:



I'm a gaylord

Yes you are, dumbass

There is absolutely no reason why you should not want a great life.


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