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A close family friend shared this with me and needs advice on what to do.

I have been happily married to my husband for 9 years. To be sincere, he has been a very caring husband though emotional. The emotional aspect is what is about to tear our union apart.

I gave birth to our first child through CS. Infact, my husband almost killed himself with worry because he cant stand the pains I went through and every other thing associated with it.

We prayed that it never happen again, then, I became pregnant again. We prayed fervently that I would deliver safely myself without operation but it was not as planned. I had the second CS. It was hectic, my husband's emotional state did not help matters too. He cant even stay at the hospital with me. He sent two of his friends over. It was later I heard that he used overdose of a particular sleeping tablet and urged his friends to wake him up after I delivered. To God be the glory, I delivered a bouncing baby.


After the naming ceremony, he sat me down that he is not interested in having babies again because he is always traumatised any time he hears about CS. So we agreed to do family planning, we did it and all was well. After few years, I discovered I was pregnant again.

My husband begged me to abort it but I insisted I am not going to abort my baby. He lied to me when I was 8 months gone that he was going on a business trip. He was not around all through my third ordeal but God has been so faithful to me. He came back after delivery and celebrated it. It was splendid.

About two months later, my husband sat me down and dropped the bombshell. He said he cannot afford to leave me or the children again. He said he is not ready to take chances again. So therefore, he has prepared his mind to castrate himself since family planning as failed him.


I couldn't believe my ears

Matured advice please.

The sole reason why naija girls consider marriage is money.

Naira must be equal to dollar by fire by force. #emefieleconomics

Welcome development.



Make I go dust my certificate.



If only I can get a million naira as loan, my story go change. No more finding of jobs up and down.



Good initiative once again.

Repair kwanu

Abeg, na to forget the road oh.


The road immediately turns to a home for domestic animals.

Like seriously, It will take forever.

I did not expect less from boko haram but one thing I dont understand is why would any sane person still remain in that place despite series of attacks and unrest Na by force to live for ur papa state

As if den say NCC go share me if den collect fine finish.

Few minutes ago


Instead of u to organise search party around, u run come Nairaland.

Okay, we don hear.

Abi na we go provide another shoe for una

Dont forget to open another thread if you later find your shoes.

IamDejman:
I'm sticking with my belief

Sure...

I dont have any problem with that.

IamDejman:
Does juju work?
What you believe affects you!

you never jam





@OP, juju na sure banker for naija politics.


Okija shrine comes to mind

Tell them oh!






Greedy things....

OP, if you become president son or daughter shey u no go rock the one wey pass this one Even Tubaba dey rock 1million naira shoe.


Forget all those publicity stunt.


Integrity, does not mean you Cant make legitimate money and rock your life.

modath:
What is "media prosecution"

Is there no due process, laws & it's inner workings So once someone is arrested, the person shouldn't be given fair trial & should be locked away & keys thrown away immediately!!!

All of John Wayne Gacy, Dennis L Rader & Aileen Wuornos still managed to get fair trials despite their guilt being a sure thing...

Law is not MORALITY!! PROOF is key.

Time is also a factor @modath. The president has got no time.

Oh my!


This viviangist is just too selfish, dont ask me why.



Well, hope no live was last


May we all see 2016 and beyond, amen.

Enough of media prosecution. What is FG waiting for now. Activate jail mode sharperly jare.

Kunle don meet him waterloo. Good for him, I no pity am one bit.

This also serves as lesson to other naive young ladies.

Kingtim:
i haven't done any of the listed thing up there. But i kinda agree with the first commenter. I'm living by grace. And i know it.

Sure, agree whatever.

OP, dont mind the witches and wizard thing. Dreams are nothing but imaginations in our sub-consciousness.

Now look at this...

1. Have you been watching action films lately?

2. Have you been playing shooting games lately?

3. Did you have encounter with a soldier lately?

4. What were your thoughts before going to bed?

5. Do you live in boko haram territory? (just kidding)

Search your mind and answer these questions. Also, think deeply what you've been through lately but I tell you "nothing do you"

Some have shoes but have no legs, some have no legs but have shoes. We have shoes and have legs, glory be to the oh Lawd.

So you have two cars

We have heard

Next



#badbelle

Blues got to stand up... If truly the conspiracy theory against mou is true.




Mou, still the greatest.

Yeye girl

Naija police brains need reset.

If you fall for this, u need a brain reset.

Oga's mistress again!!!

make them return most if not all the loot and kill them slowly.

This thing should be free most especially for nairalanders, Oga Jarus take note.


BTW, the lunch? Na akpu n vegetables with assorted meat shey?

RIP man

as long as both are interested....


well, one day on, one day off is better like Nigeria's power supply.

so we have been waiting on a drunk's promise ... chai!! daris goduoooo...