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After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by jhydebaba(m): 4:15pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
A close family friend shared this with me and needs advice on what to do.
Matured advice please. |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by doublewisdom: 4:18pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
The juju hold the man well. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by emorse(m): 4:20pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
Why did the family planning fail? What can be done to correct it? Those are the questions you should be asking. If you castrate yourself, you'll just die when she gets pregnant with her fourth child - by another man of course. |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by xreal: 4:22pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
Castrate ? when him no be goat or dog. there are better and temporary measures to take abeg. *modified* 1 Like |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by Nobody: 4:25pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
it is left to the woman to understand the man. there should be a long time family planning and the woman should not let mistake lead to another pregnancy. the man should not castrate himself. all he needs is self control |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by chronos: 4:25pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
This is a very dicey situation...but my advise is that he thinks this over to avoid making a gargantuan leap into untested waters. By castration, he's talking about vasectomy though Cc lalasticlala 3 Likes |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by wilybebsy(m): 4:27pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
Mtcheeeeew madness 1 Like |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by Ayoemrys(m): 4:29pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
crazy man was that the best option,afterall he can put on 3 condom at dsame time,and you the wife can put yours whenever you want to have sex,or can go over to the phamacy n order for drug that wu reduse his sperm strenght, |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by Cutehector(m): 4:29pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
Maybe he is afraid u will die during childbirth and he doesnt wana lose u... Wow three childbirths through CS a d you are alive and hearty, a miracle tho... 1 Like |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by Chidoks(f): 4:29pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
I don't understand his pain. Is he allowed into the theater during the operation OR does his pocket feel pain while they are cutting you up? |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by dominique(f): 4:34pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
He should go for a vasectomy instead of castrating himself. 6 Likes |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by Nobody: 4:36pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
emorse: Exactly. There are plenty of other very safe family planning methods. Google is their friend. Also tell the husband that a CS is a routine procedure that is considered relatively safe nowadays and nothing to hyperventilate over. |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by Nobody: 4:41pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
What happened to Vasectomy? |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by Nobody: 4:42pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
Cutehector: What is the wow factor there? How many people did you hear that CS killed? Mortality during childbirth would arise, CS or nah_ it's just grace. @OP, your husband is just being a drama king, he wouldn't castrate himself, he isn't a dog. No doctor would even do that as a birth control measure. There are various male birth control measures, he should try vasectomy. There is a reversible one, though I don't even see why he should wanna reverse it, 3kids is enough in this economic dispensation. 6 Likes |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by Cutehector(m): 4:50pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie:karchisbarbie, i said maybe he is afraid dat somth bad will happen to his wife... The man may not be knowledgeable abt ceasarean section... Pls try to understand smth befor commenting.. The doctor should have enlightened the man dat cs is actually very safe and he shouldnt get all worried abt it.. |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by craleonic: 4:52pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
The whole thing makes no sense. Someone is lying here. 1 Like |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by byvan03: 4:53pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
Which one is castrate again? He should go for a vasectomy. 1 Like |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by Nobody: 4:55pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
Cutehector: You said he is afraid something would happen to the wife, then went on to wow that she is alive and hearty, even called it a "miracle", pregnancy and childbirth itself is a miracle. I asked and I am still asking "how many people do you know that CS killed? You need the understanding more dear. CS isn't a death sentence, so stop wowing... maybe you should have typed this comment of yours first. I can imagine the husband coming to you for advice, then you shout "wow, and she is still alive and hearty?" wtf' 6 Likes |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by Nobody: 4:59pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
Madam should tie her tubes and oga should do a vasectomy . .that way they are doubly sure that there wont be any accidental pregnancy. 3 Likes |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by bennyrazz: 5:03pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
laughing @ the word castrate is your friend a dog? vasectomy should have been the right word. Also laughing at him absconding from the hospital when his wife wants to put to bed. I mean what kind of a man runs away like that 2 Likes |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by eyinjuege: 5:06pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
I guess by castration he meant vasectomy right? Vasectomy is actually a short safe procedure, and highly effective too. I support the motion, provided you guys are done with having children. 7 Likes |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by olayinkajnr(m): 5:08pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
emorse: Lmao... The bolded got me laughing |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by farous(m): 8:34am On Dec 29, 2015 |
Why castrating...,when his di:ck is affected in d process and can't even stand erect again,u will come here complaining and looking for outside to get satisfaction.Believe me or not but I want to tell u that in my marriage of years now,we have never use condom,yet we make love when we want,we have kids n none of d pregnacies was by chance.We have never use contraceptives.All I do is WITHDRAWAL METHOD and are now used to it.I am d driver and knows when to pull out n pour out no matter how d pleassure.It has been working for us without any single mistake recorded. |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by ifyalways(f): 8:53am On Dec 29, 2015 |
Vasectomy I know but which one be castration 2 Likes |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by cococandy(f): 9:19am On Dec 29, 2015 |
byvan03:That's what I was about to ask too. Castrate ke I guess the man probably means vasectomy but she's seeing it as castration. 2 Likes |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by SAMBARRY: 9:37am On Dec 29, 2015 |
Liesssss Which man will decide to do vasectomy when that part of their body IS the most important part and they don't joke with it So because of cs he wants to do vasectomy. Please he should not do vasectomy let him kuku remove everything this way |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by damiso(f): 10:21am On Dec 29, 2015 |
I guess he actually meant vasectomy. Castration harsh naa Its actually a safe birth control method but like Tubal Ligation i.e. tying of tubes or female surgical sterilization its not very popular among black people. Even if a person has 6 children there is that belief that something can still happen and you might need one more I remember my mum almost having a fit when I mentioned that I was actually considering it( tying my tubes) Its a decision that needs to be taken with a clear head though so maybe you both need a little more time to think it through. |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by byvan03: 10:27am On Dec 29, 2015 |
cococandy: That's very likely, the lady misunderstood the man . She should be happy her husband doesn't mind being the nipped one . 4 Likes |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by Creamish(f): 2:55pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: LOLz @bolde.d! Maternal mortality happens with any form of delivery. It's only by the grace of God that one comes out alive. There is no "WOW" moment when CS is done 3 times biko. @OP.. Advise your friend's husband to go for some counselling. What he suffers from is an anxiety based on ignorance. There are family planning techniques that are sure to work. Please go to a certified hospital/clinic for proper counselling. 1 Like |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by JustHere2Observ(f): 3:07pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Vasectomy is a form of family planning, if he wants it then fine. Happy to hear some men don't think family planning is only for the woman. Support your husband and if you don't agree with him, look for another option. There is a wide variety of family planning out there. 2 Likes |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by cococandy(f): 4:32pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
byvan03:Exactly. Many men (especially African men) wouldn't agree to that because it's not very popular among us and also sounds emasculating to them. 1 Like |
Re: After The Third CS, My Husband Wants To Castrate Himself. by cococandy(f): 4:34pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Lol. I didn't even read yours before I typed mine. E go hard to see an African dude willing to consider vasectomy at a relatively young age. And you're right he's not considering this with a clear head. Just out of fear. damiso: |
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