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nkwuocha:
Inviting over is the best sef
But for someone who hasnt got clean shirt, i wonder how bedsheets go be, before AKIKI( Termites)finish person pikin

Termite keh? Na bedbug go end person pikin.

MartinsD12:
What am saying is nothing bad in the girl paying for the date too since it's only 2k the guy has

But people calling the girl feminist is my worry here. And the ungrateful op called the girl glutton.

Bigii:
How BIG is 10k??


Abeg no disgrace us the real men

Going with 10k does not mean he will even spend the whole 10k sef.

MartinsD12:
Didn't see where the guy said he is cheap guy and lives cheap he knows him well OK

Lol..... That's what we are trying to trash out here. He should change his mentality or better still, since he is poor, he should be inviting girls to his house rather than going out on a date. And I am sure, cus he lives cheap and he is cheap, he will only offer pure water to his guests who come visiting.

MartinsD12:
No go marry dummy, dey their dey form Don wey u no be all this online rants if I check u wella you probably a student managing your life, dating women up and down will not help you and I doubt if you have kobo self because empty brain makes the loudest noise, guy use 2k go date na crime, you self go borrow impress women minister of women wrapper affairs aka feminist advocates I hope you grab wetin feminism mean olosho

Lol..... U have been calling me names. Lwkmd because I know who I am. E pain you say we dey cast you and your partner in crime. Stingy boys association of Nigeria.
Las las, na person go still chop that money. If he wasn't trying to impress the girl, why did he borrow his Friend's shirt to wear? He would have wore those his dirty clothes like that nah.

Acidosis:
You're a low life. Even if 2k is all you want to spend, you don't go out with exact figure. What if something terrible hits you on the road? Gonna turn yourself to a street beggar?

I have no business with your date but please quit this calculative attitude of yours. How can you wake up to start summing up N100 + N200 + N50 change and then go out with that same and exact figure?

My brother..... Sense will not kill you.

MartinsD12:
Living within your income it's not stingy I guess you go and study your economics and financial management well, what's the essence of going on a date eeh, does it put food on your table no, all man must cut him cloth according to him size no go do because you Wan feel among that is nonsense OK, girls way see dating as an avenue of milking guys dry them no go see me and my guy OK, you see that 2k put am for business make more money OK, dating is frivolity its arrant nonsense its being abused by the ladies who think guys owe them everything hell no, deal with it. My guy wise.

To the point of borrowing a shirt? Common!!! Can't you see this guy has problems? Its non of my business how he manages his finance okay. But I just deduced from this guy's post that he has a poverty mentality and he needs to get rid of that.
So why calling the girl a glutton?

nkwuocha:
There is so many thing wrong with this guy and truth be told, the lady is way above this guy in ALL facets of life, both in intelligence and otherwise.It would be unwise to date this guy if i were to be the lady.There are so many flaws i noticed already and trust me, an independent intelligent woman wont be happy wirh such man no matter how she loves him.She'd snap some day.My observations

*The guy is dirty.A working class guy should always have is shirts clean and ready.Infact, those with fewer shirts but have clean mindsets always look smart.
*He is" poor" both in cash and mentality
*He is weak in taking decision
*Very pessimistic to life. He said he lives cheap and is cheap!Is he Ok?!Who thinks like that?
*How on eartg will you borrow a shirt to go on date when you have your own?How much does it cost to buy local starch and Key soap?100 naira local atarch can take 20 shirts!!!

The guy na dirrty, stingy and very local minded schmuch.

Sense kill you there bros.
You have said it all.
I only pity and blame those supporting him. That shows we have a lot of men out there who are worst than this guy. A working class guy who borrows a shirt for a date is talking about a ruined reputation because a lady paid the bills on their first date? What reputation does that one have? So he is not worried about his ruined reputation for borrowing a shirt from his friend right? The problem here is not the guy but his friends around him who do not tell him the truth.

MartinsD12:
You are the one that doesn't understand what feminism is, your type go leave your mama for village dey suffer go dey follow woman about, you go dey drink garri while the girl dey chop suya, I pity your life, f up mehn, stay real to yourself if you don't like it f out of my page, dummy fake being

You and that nigger will make a perfect friend. Stingy dudes all over. No wonder, you all stingy niggers can't take responsibilities. Your stinginess no get part two, u stingy sote come stingy to yourself. Next time advise your friend not to put 2k in his wallet while going on a date.

MartinsD12:
You are the one that doesn't understand what feminism is, your type go leave your mama for village dey suffer go dey follow woman about, you go dey drink garri while the girl dey chop suya, I pity your life, f up mehn, stay real to yourself if you don't like it f out of my page, dummy fake being

Lol.... You have not explained to me what feminism is all about but rather you took it personal. I don't womanize but I know what it means to take responsibilities as a man. Na your type go save money for bank go allow your family members dey die of hunger and will be walking wretched in the streets because you are so stingy. Don't worry, when you die, las las na people go still chop that money wey you dey save.

nkwuocha:
You're a big embarassment.Mehn!Your mentality is too archaic.How in the world will you go out on a date with 2k?then expose it publicly?Jesus Christ! You no get shame?

I pity the girl wey go marry this guy. This kind person, even if you dey die, the go save their money for piggy bank or commercial bank come dey tell u say dem no get shishi. Such men won't buy biscuits for their kids even when they are crying daddy buy biscuit for us. Such a man will be using milk cup to measure rice for their wife to cook. Stingy man....

ImaIma1:
You budgeted 1,500. You would have budgeted 720 naira . Hanging out is not compulsory or by force. You could have as well stayed home and put the 1500 hard earned cash in your piggy bank.

Now that she paid for the outing it is an issue...lol. i love that girl. Next time, stay at home if you cannot handle a lady paying since you refused to spend.

Savagery

Frezhkid10:
..my guy I tire oooo..maybe nah local buka Dem go..

Lol.... Even local buka are expensive o. Cus the kind orishi orishi wey full that local buka no be here o. I happy say the babe put am for him place. Next time him no go put 2k for pocket enter date taxi again.

[quote author=Febo post=77387882][/quote]Money wey you no spend today you go still spend tomorrow. That's my watch word bros.

Lexusgs430:
Come back here.......

No....... Is wenting I am. Lol

[quote author=Febo post=77387699][/quote]Lol.... We cannot come and die jur. Sometimes,I do take myself out when I don't have a date. I don't spend millions but that good treat matters a lot.

Jobia:
"i should act like the boss" with your measly 2k.

Mehn gtfo
Goat

With him miserable 2k.

alphaNomega:
You get strength dey engage all these people.

Hmmmm!!! Its so disheartening when ladies take responsibilities, people start shouting feminists. When will this African mentality stop? Even the oyibos wey coin that word feminism won't use it in this scenario.

ImaIma1:
It's really pathetic. They can't even handle an independent woman with their kind of ego yet they complain if she isn't.

Typical example of "you cannot please human beings"

That dude is so pathetic. Gosh!!!

Clefayomide:
Exactly what's on my mind, first dates are actually to get to know each other better, which a drink is ok for that.

Drink keh? On first date anything goes okay.

kunleweb:
Guy I'm taking ababe on a full day outing. Freedom Park to listen to live band. Gate fee 200naira classy environment maybe with some peppery meat a d drinks. Have I spent 1mil here? Jerk off

Lol.... Mogbe..... Jerk off Lol

Febo:
Forget the issue of "Independent" a responsible lady to should have a back up plan when going on a date... In case things get out of hand and that's what that lady did. I am impressed... She knows her worth and value. I can't be a lady and you will spending 2k on me for a date, i will end up taking care of the bill but i think 5k is not too much since he initiated the idea of going out on a date. Besides, i think the issue is the Value and worth she placed on the lady....]

The issue is that he is stingy and his hands are super glue.

MartinsD12:
Okay o good luck feminist advocates but it's better than giving the lady a fake impression of what he is not

What impression? I am not even after what happened at the dating spot. My concern here is him putting 2k in his pocket without being pro active to unforseen circumstances. Do you even know the meaning of feminism?

MartinsD12:
Okay o good luck feminist advocates but it's better than giving the lady a fake impression of what he is not

See me see trouble. Stop misusing the word 'feminist'.

MartinsD12:
No he didn't borrow abeg am not defending the guy am saying I love what he did one can't live above his means and there is nothing wrong in a lady paying for a date case closed

Ah!!! So between you and I, who didn't read the post well? Him borrow shirt from him friend jare. Say all him shirt squeeze abi I no know the English wey him use there.

evil1:
i understand what you did was for the best interest to save any embarassment but sorry it was a rather embarassing moment all because u were not patient enough to know what she wanted to chew.
if she wanted to chew something at least u wud hv paid for everything an left out the Tfare

U didn't understand the post. The nigga only went out with 2k. He did it on purpose or on the ground that he was on a budget. All these stingy guys wey dey form prudence.

MartinsD12:
And you think first impression is by him living above his income you are definitely wrong first Impression is the true state of things which is the 2k he has even the girl understands pay for the date why the noise na, staying true to self is the best first impression you can present to the world don't fake things but unfortunately in a world where we want to sheepishly belong to the happening trend we lose our identity and originality

He should have told the girl that he borrowed the shirt he wore for the date too. Originality my ass. That nigga is stingy even to himself and that's all.

HardMirror:
look at the third comment where he called her a glutton. How can you go on a date and spend 1400 on drinks alone and expect her not to eat anything. Just drink like the drunkard he is. He shld have bought weed for her since that is also cheap. These are the guys disgracing us

Honestly, some guys the real reasons babes look down on us.
I was on a first date with a girl, had some change on me, when we were billed, I discovered the change I had on me couldn't foot the bill. The babe wanted to pay, I said no and immediately I brought out my ATM card upon sighting the POS.
I was so grateful to God that I went out with my ATM that day. And the difference was just 500 naira. I wasn't having enough, but I know what shame is all about and I know what it means for a man to take responsibilities.

kunleweb:
Who asked for the date? I go tear you too slap join. Why not bitter kola and alligator pepper to curb her food craving. First Impression matters.

First impression matters jare.

MartinsD12:
Mind your words this ain't no joke, I love to be real OK, let's face the fact the truth, do you want the guy to borrow because he is Going out on a common date hell no, you owe the lady nothing OK at the end of the day a date involves two matured adults and not one person and whatever comes out of the date the two parties so I don't see anything wrong with the lady supporting the guy in settling things they both eat and who says it's only the guy that pays for date that's why we are uncivilized, see western people they don't mind who is paying for a date, we take things too serious it's bad, you go chop this chop that guy man say na only 2k I get why not take coke and Fanta respect her self you go order pizza and barbecues eeh wetin

Just listen to yourself, but he borrowed a shirt to wear for the date. He should as well gone nude to the place nah!!! Haba!!! Stop defending the guy, he messed up big time and he is stingy.

colestephan86:
The concept of going on a date is to relax and make yourself comfortable, and I doubt if you can achieve that on a budget of just 2000 naira. I must tell , you messed up bro. I am not say you should spend your salary on a date but 2000 isn't it.

2k can't even buy two wraps of roasted fish. You lucky say I no sabi that babe, I for zuga her to cast you for your working place.

HardMirror:
i hope the lady dump his useless ass. He deserves those cheap girls always asking for recharge card. He is not in this lady's level at all. Uselesss foool. Imagine calling her a glutton

He called the girl a gluton? OMG!!! that guy is a stingy man. He has no right to call the girl a glutton because she paid the bills.