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Gamesmart:
Oya, explain from my post that you quoted if I said a man should not look beyond sex for relationship.

ZINIIBANKS:
Na only guy's you dey follow nii

uthlaw:
is there anything in relationship apart from sex!

odinson1:
This is why I will keep on Telling Guys not to Take Relationship Advice From women.

You Know fully well that That lady is just giving Him greenlights because she can easily manipulate him And turn him to An ATM where she will extract resources from so she can take care of Her Pregnancy and maternal stuff,while she Fvcks the absentee father Of course

coolsegun2002:
U women are wicked.....becos it’s another woman pikin.. u dey salute am with real man title

But if na ur brother or son....u won’t start with commending him...let’s always try to be sincere...

The guy is a full introvert who can’t toast a girl... if we ask him now ..u’ll find out he can’t ask a girl out... and this pregnant one is just giving him face so she can throw her baggage on him but Mumu thinks its love

How will a man fall for a pregnant lady... as in... is not normal naaaa...
this only happens in telemundo

hashtagged:
Lol he is doing you he is not the leech who is going to end up broke and hungry

Teena101:
thanks,I did try that sometime back and a suppose friend said I was to proud..all this unnecessary problems is what I keep trying to avoid but I can't satisfy humans

Gamesmart:
I get your drift now.

Before you said not "lustful physical appearance", when that is the most important thing to most men.

To have the best chance of successfully attracting, retaining and satisfying a man and his desires, he should feel you are one of the finest things he has seen on planet earth to the point blood rushes to his heart. He has to feel he is very lucky to have ever seen you and for you to even give him a chance to date you. When he is having sex with you, he has to be thinking in his head "Na me dey f**k this fine gal? I can't believe it. I can't believe my luck and that she would even let me. I am truly lucky and blessed. I can f**k her till I die".

The first 10 times he f**ks you, if he does not come way too early at least once, he is either (a) "not that highly excited about f**king you; you are moderately fine or not fine" or (b) "you are fine but not good in bed the way he likes it".

After you get passed that enchantment of his mind, then your personality should seal the deal.

Without lustful physical appearance, you are operating a future relationship starting with batteries that were not fully charged.

kingreign:
1. You have no first hand experience in marital lifestyle because you aren't married.
2. You result to insult in trying to prove a point.

hashtagged:
It's nice that way, cause girls form shit and waste guys time when guy are now tired and stop giving them attention they now act interested you now expect that guy to welcome you with open arms, werey must dey

hashtagged:
The father is still out there and will probably come back and you know the kind wahala that can't bring. Wtf @bolded innocent lol, if she was innocent she won't have been such a loose wh0re.
Well Op if you mumu like this then you will be ready to train another man's child and I know cases like this she always goes back to the shitty guy who gives her Belle you are just a tool to were off time, the only reason she chose to even give you time is cause you are the only one stupid enough to give her attention, when she born I won't love to here your women are scum story an laugh

kingreign:
No insults meant but I should be blunt at this point.
You have nothing to say about marriage. Wait till you go thru a spiritual class on marital counselling, and eventually get married then you can discuss about marriage. Marriage is more spiritual than you are seeing.


This is coming from someone who is happily married and has a marriage counsellor has spent 40years in their blissful union and still waxing strong.

AfroKnight:
You automatically assumed they would both embrace your version of religion. And yes, his desire is valid. Will she have sex by herself? Wouldn’t he give his own body too?

If she wanted to cajole him into waiting till she was ready then she is manipulative and basically setting herself up. She should have called it quits when she found out their views on something this fundamental do not align.

hashtagged:
Shhhhhhush pls don't support his decision cause the person is a ladu., The father is still out there, werey must dey

Gamesmart:
So high quality physical appearance is not part of what the man should find in the "right" woman.

Men are supposed to have erections based on your personality?

And when fine girl walks pass, then he should not even give her a second looking because his wife has a nice personality.



You women and your self-delusions/wishful thinking.

That is one of the major causes of marriage failures.

Working based on delusions, not reality, is a perfect recipe for failure. And most women have a PhD in this.

kingreign:
Lemme ask you this one question, before I decide whether to continue or not.

Sincerely, are you married? Yes or No?

AfroKnight:
Respect her choice? Why should her choice be respected and not his own choice? Is his desire not valid? Why did she hold on to the relationship for this long when they couldn’t even agree on the issue of sex. What was she gaining that made her cling to the relationship?

If she knew she wouldn’t give in (after knowing his disposition) then she has wasted her time by herself.

Preshieben:
Must you call her names?

Gamesmart:
How will marrying the "right" woman make you happy for the rest of your life?

What makes her "right"?

Liposure:
how many people married the right person. This is africa where everybody is under pressure to get married and have kids b4 its too late

cooooooks:
How does he find out who is the 'right' woman.

I think that is the crux of his post.

kingreign:
There's no such thing as wrong man or wrong woman. It's mostly a lame excuse to blame ones partner for his/her marital failures.

abimic:
See this girl o....sha do marry o make we come buy asoebi and collect tundra as souvenir..

hashtagged:
There is no right woman, I would advise all men to remain single and adopt a child.

Preetti:
It's only in women matter they have strength. Team "Alpha" apes

blinking001:
Most married men feel deep regrets after getting married. It's an Esoteric truth actually. Most women are full of shit.