Romance › Re: Can You Marry The Daughter Of A Mad Woman? by joe17: 11:10pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
sinaj: um I didn't drift. Sorry if it seemed like I did. I answered ur question in d 1st nd 2nd paragraph.
The 3rd nd 4th paragraph is to counter the ignorance about mental disorder.
the possibility of curing Full blown madness completely in Nigeria can only be found along religious line[/b]lol,
This is one of the problem with Nigerian. When they start noticing abnormal behaviour in an individual, they will leave the hospital for church which is not good.
Mental disorder at its early stage can be cured effectively within a short time. [b] if the op wish to eliminate the preventive measure while hoping to cure his wife of madnes
Nobody is free from madness or mental disorder. You can get married to a healthy woman tomorrow, and she might become mentally derailed due to many factors. Will give u a live example.
A lady was admitted to the hospital because of her abnormal behaviour, she has being married for just 1 year.
After diagnoses, it was later found out that after she put to bed, she didn't do enough um... sit bath (when u massage d abdominal region of a lady that just put to bed) And she had infection as a result which affected her brain that led to her abnormal behaviour.
But she was admitted on time and cured of it.
The point am trying to make is that even if the op leaves this girl because he thinks she might manifest mental disorder, there is no guarantee that the healthy girl next door is free from the same disease. lol, I trailed religious line to portray a point of inability of most of our hospital to handle such issues do to lack of advanced medical facilities in those health centres. Tho am unapologetic about that cox am religious too, but not a fanatic. U see also, that woman got mentally deranged do to poor post natal attention which is avoidable if she had received the required medical treatment after birth. We av dragged this for long, let's end it here, cox its obvious we ar saying the same thing in a different way  |
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Good move |
Romance › Re: Can You Marry The Daughter Of A Mad Woman? by joe17: 5:38pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
KnightRod: Lol.. Very good advice.. If it aint broke, don't fix it 
Sure, let's ignore she's a potential nutcase.  thanks bro. exactly what am saying. Typical African mentality |
Romance › Re: Can You Marry The Daughter Of A Mad Woman? by joe17: 5:35pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
sinaj: trauma can lead to severe mental retardation sir.
Just the way other acute disease can leave someone bedridden nd useless, is the same way acute mental disorder can leave someone useless.
It can also be cured too like every other disease.
It's just that in Nigeria, myth have taken over nd d psychiatric sector is not given much attention the way it should.
Mental disorder can actually be cured, depending on how it was gotten. great one sinaj  buh u av drifted. We ar not talking of the possibility of madness being cured but encountering it. I was only trying to say that prevention is beta than cure. OK, if the op wish to eliminate the preventive measure while hoping to cure his wife of madness(shud it happen), who am I to say otherwise? kudos to him. And most people will agree with me when I say the possibility of curing Full blown madness completely in Nigeria can only be found along religious line, I may b wrong. |
Romance › Re: Can You Marry The Daughter Of A Mad Woman? by joe17: 4:57pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
sinaj: her mom wasnt born mad, I told the op to confirm frm d girl what triggered her mom's sickness.
If the op has a lot to be afraid of, u also have to b afraid too.
U think d disorder is gotten only through hereditary?
Hope u knw typhoid fever nd stress can also drive u mad. u know u made it sound like the woman is just traumatized... We ar talking of full blown madness here. If I was the Op with the information at his disposal I will b very much afraid See, don't even try to compare madness with just other diseases around which the carrier can manage while going about almost all his/her activities. Acute madness put you complety off life realities, none can afford to liv with. Its unfortunate that some find themselves in that position. |
Romance › Re: Can You Marry The Daughter Of A Mad Woman? by joe17: 3:02pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
sinaj: hmmm
Ok the truth here is that nobody is normal, we are all mad lol.
Our brain is predisposed to mental disorder, which can be triggered by the environment. That is why u hear stories of a healthy man that goes mad after losing millions of naira.
Or a woman that becomes derailed after losing her children in an accident.
So if ur fiancee's mom was born normal, ask your fiancee when nd how her disorder started.
U have nothing to fear tho, u dnt have to leave her coz of her mom. lols, Op pointed that the mum and bro are mad, for the mum is over 23yrs. Coincidence? On the contrary he has a lot to b afraid of. |
Romance › Re: Just Feeling Myself Today (photos) by joe17: 2:31pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
I saw this guy at yabaleft naa the day we went as government officials to check on Youngwizzy and Andyblaze.  Only few will understand  |
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Great, I like paw paw very much |
Romance › Re: Can You Marry The Daughter Of A Mad Woman? by joe17: 2:01pm On Aug 05, 2016*. Modified: 2:49pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
Corpse: both the mum and bro were born normal Op this must b very tough for you if you genuinely love the girl. No doubt, insanity is hereditary just as a poster pointed, don't forget some inherited insanity start off late in life. As asking her to b taken to an advanced psychiatric hospital to ascertain any potential mental disorder in her may b demeaning to her, it's ur best shot and for her own good too. I don't want to say "let her go" Its obvious u ar afraid already and any form of misconduct from her will instantly b mistaken as madness by you which may not end well for both of you. |
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Smh for dudes, only recently a fresh graduate got wasted... |
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sylvez: I no even understand anything here....na stil maths b dis? abi na logic my broda, I just luk am pass  |
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So educated. Nice one Mr. Sowl |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Shocker!!!!! Trump's Wife Is An Illegal Immigrant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (pic) by joe17: 2:54pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
Source |
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I av decided when next I see any headline with Niger Delta Avangers, I will jus pass.
Don't ask me why |
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Source  |
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Nice, fun guy , i like you |
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So touching, may God console him |
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Nairaland General › Re: Letter To My Mates In Primary And Secondary School (very Funny) by joe17: 7:48pm On Aug 02, 2016 |
Could it b dat I av lost my sence of humor  I don't think so. |
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Interestingly hilarious |
Politics › Re: 50,000 Children Face Death By Starvation In Northern Nigeria by joe17: 10:30am On Aug 02, 2016*. Modified: 7:05am On Aug 03, 2016 |
OdikwaRisky: Yes  lols... Never knew there is a moniker like DAT  Apologies |
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Maybe there is but a solution to Nigeria problem |
Politics › Re: 50,000 Children Face Death By Starvation In Northern Nigeria by joe17: 10:24am On Aug 02, 2016*. Modified: 7:25am On Aug 03, 2016 |
Odikwarisky I knew that PMB was being overhyped during that election period. I guess so many people knew this too but they just wnated change(Real Change o,not PMB kinda change).[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] What they didn't know is that "a child can play with her mother's breast but not her father's testicles"
Governance is not a "ka anyi rie ka anyi naa" meeting of kinsman. unfortunately that is what PMB think of governance.
What a shame! |
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Me I go just laff pass  |
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So true Op  |
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Good one |
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God of miracles I praise thee for this and all You have been doing in my life and in the life of men. Hallelujah!!! |
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mrvitalis: Can't get why this care is so much in demand right now and the price is very expensive... It's even more expensive than the 2009 models easy to maintain and extremely low fuel consumption Remember 1litre=145  Tho it's over-prized here in 9ja |
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januzaj: what  nofin....just looking at you |
Crime › Re: 2 Killed Over Death Of Undergraduate, Accused Of Witchcraft by joe17: 2:53pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
januzaj: Some guys are still in stone age So people still believe in witchcraft in 2016 ?? |