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GamingRe: PS4 Games Exchange by joecooper(m): 12:17am On Mar 28, 2023
I need BATTLEFIELD 4... If any is available for swap or sale, hola!
FamilyRe: Please My Marriage ! Advice Please by joecooper(m): 4:04pm On Jun 12, 2022
Cheasystickylov:
I have been waiting fir that wisdom. I feel so spent. I sincerely do not know the next thing to do. She has not got any family or anyone I can talk to. She has unresolved issues with every one of them, so they are not in talking terms. I don't know where to look to.
Alaye... Look at your door and walk out in your sanity.
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by joecooper(m): 12:41am On May 01, 2022
I need a 1hp Inverter ac.. Anyone has for sale?
FamilyRe: Time To Divorce My Wife? by joecooper(m): 4:31pm On May 06, 2020
I have one word for you.

"RUN"

noakchukibadan:
Hello,

Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.

I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member. Many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage.
Although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE

There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children do anything wrong, she always says those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.

She can go for months without talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, I have begged, cried prayed. I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.

OTHER INFORMATION.
1. I can say conveniently that there is no money problem at home. Finance is okay.
2. I went to see her father 2 years ago, the man said unfortunately he can not do anything. This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life.
3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. .
4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dares not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her.
5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.

So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.

Every year for 5 straight years, she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never bothered to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May, and as I write, no happy birthday yet.

I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.

I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.

This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.

I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago.
FamilyRe: How Do I Handle A Nagging, Disrespective And Poor Sex Life Wife by joecooper(m): 4:22pm On May 06, 2020
You deserve a bottle of Heineken cool. You just spoke all I had in mind

DukeNija:
You don buy market. You still love her so much? Loool.
Your wife is in charge of your home, and your life. She runs it as she deems fit and you can’t do anything about it. 3months without sex? Are you sure you are not under a spell?
No man or woman deserves to be treated this way and not one who provides for his family. You need to take charge of your home. Take control and demand the respect and loyalty you deserve. Shout down, burn down, break down, tear down and destroy whatever stands in the way.
Your wife needs a small dose of your inner demon to bring her back to factory settings. It’s not too late to regain control.
If you have been a good and faithful husband, then you have a right to raise hell. It’s obvious you are a softie, women like this prey on softies. If you want to live long, you need to take action.
From the look of things, it’s very obvious your wife doesn’t love you. probably never did. You might also need to consider walking away if everything fails. People will suggest having a heart to heart with your wife; it’s pointless. You don’t ask or beg for love and respect; you earn it or take it by force.
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by joecooper(m): 9:40am On Apr 06, 2020
I need a 6 x 4.5 bed frame.. Lagos
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Manchester City: EFL Cup (1 - 3) On 7th January 2020 by joecooper(m): 10:01pm On Jan 07, 2020
How Jones have JONSED!!! grin grin grin

CrimeOnline Scammer And Serial Rapist Busted..!!! by joecooper(op): 1:41pm On Oct 15, 2019
08163355485

The phone number above is also one them who carry out such act of hacking into people's accounts and withdrawing funds. He is also a serial rapist.

He has blocked our lines from reaching him... Call him everyone till he breaks the sim card
CrimeRe: Someone Withdrew Over 100k From My Account. I Am Depressed Right Now by joecooper(m): 1:38pm On Oct 15, 2019
08163355485

The phone number above is also one them who carry out such act of hacking into people's accounts and withdrawing funds. He is also a serial rapist.

He has blocked our lines from reaching him... Call him everyone till he breaks the sim card
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Newcastle United Vs Manchester United (1 - 0) On 6th October 2019 by joecooper(m): 6:15pm On Oct 06, 2019
Ole at the moment grin grin grin grin

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: AZ Alkmaar Vs Manchester United : Europa League (0 - 0) On 3rd October 2019 by joecooper(m): 9:33pm On Oct 03, 2019
Man U will win EPL... Everybody say yea! yea!! grin
PoliticsRe: FG Raises VAT To 7.2%. To Seek National Assembly Approval by joecooper(m): 11:10pm On Sep 11, 2019
This too shall pass lipsrsealed
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Fashion Store Manager by joecooper(op): 3:29pm On Aug 23, 2019
On going
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Enthyst Events ( Event Management Officer) by joecooper(op): 3:29pm On Aug 23, 2019
On going
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Enthyst Events ( Event Management Officer) by joecooper(op): 9:22am On Aug 23, 2019
Still open
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Fashion Store Manager by joecooper(op): 9:21am On Aug 23, 2019
still open
Jobs/VacanciesEnthyst Events ( Event Management Officer) by joecooper(op): 1:16am On Aug 23, 2019
Enthyst Events needs an enthusiastic individual with an interest in event planning as

Job Title:Event Management Officer

Job Description
• Event planning and management of project delivery elements within time limits
• Conduct market research, gather information and negotiate contracts prior to closing any deals
• Marketing and ability to manage specialized exhibitions
• Provide feedback and periodic reports to stakeholders
• Organize facilities and manage all event’s details such as decor, catering, entertainment, transportation, location, invitee list, special guests, equipment, promotional material etc
• Ensure compliance with insurance, legal, health and safety obligations
• Promote and publicize event
• Conduct pre- and post - event evaluations and report on outcomes
• Research market andidentify event opportunities


Qualifications
• Candidates must be a YOUTH CORPER serving in Lagos and living in and around the island.

Interested candidates should send application to - hr.enthyst@gmail.com

Note: Use the position being applied for as subject. Only shortlisted candidates will be contacted

Application closes by midnight of Sat 24th of August, 2019.
Jobs/VacanciesFashion Store Manager by joecooper(op):
Enthyst Lifestyle needs an enthusiastic individual with an interest in fashion as:

Job Position: Store Manager

Job Location: Lekki, Lagos

Job Description
• Identifies current and future customer requirements by establishing rapport with potential and actual customers and other persons in a position to understand service requirements.
• Ensures availability of merchandise and services by maintaining inventories.
• Managing deliveries & a client merchandise amendment/adjustments.
• Markets merchandise by studying advertising, sales promotion, and display plans.
• Secures merchandise by implementing security systems and measures.
• Protects customers by providing a safe and clean store environment.
• Working closely with the accountant to maintain the stability and reputation of the store by complying with tax requirements.
• Determines marketing strategy changes by reviewing operating and departmental sales records.
• Maintains professional knowledge
• Contributes to team effort by accomplishing related results as needed.

Qualifications
• Candidates should have worked/experienced in a fashion industry... With a minimum of OND certificate.
. Candidates should reside in and around the island as this is an added advantage

Interested candidates should send application to - hr.enthyst@gmail.com

Note: Use the position being applied for as subject. Only shortlisted candidates will be contacted

Application closes by midnight of Sat 24th of August, 2019.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by joecooper(m): 11:40pm On Aug 21, 2019
Cindy I saw that areola grin
PropertiesRe: Get An Inverter (900va), Tubular Battery And A Trolley @ N130,000 by joecooper(op): 10:00am On Aug 16, 2019
Its a one time offer
Technology MarketRe: Get An Inverter (900va), Tubular Battery And A Trolley @ N130,000 by joecooper(op): 10:00am On Aug 16, 2019
Ojusegunola:
What and what can this power and for how long?
3 bulbs, 2 fans , 1Tv , 1 laptop, Phone Charge and can last for 6 hours
SportsRe: Stephanie Frappart: Referee Gets Massive Praise For Her Performance by joecooper(m): 2:46pm On Aug 15, 2019
... and the bunch of three of them allowed this to count undecided

FashionRe: Get Pattern Making For Fashion Designers By Helen Armstrong by joecooper(op): 8:29am On Aug 15, 2019
Don't miss
Technology MarketRe: Get An Inverter (900va), Tubular Battery And A Trolley @ N130,000 by joecooper(op): 7:49am On Aug 15, 2019
Don't miss this offer call us ... All Items are with warranty
PropertiesRe: Get An Inverter (900va), Tubular Battery And A Trolley @ N130,000 by joecooper(op): 7:44am On Aug 15, 2019
Don't miss this offer call us ... All Items are with warranty
PropertiesGet An Inverter (900va), Tubular Battery And A Trolley @ N130,000 by joecooper(op): 11:36pm On Aug 14, 2019
Dont let darkness eat you up!

Power up your home and enjoy steady backup.

Grab our limited promo offer today which comes with the below
*ZELIO INVERTER
(900VA)
Premium Design

Intelligent LCD Display

32 Bit DSP Processor

Premium Quality MCB

Battery Selector Switch


*1 UnitTUBULAR BATTERY
(150AH)
Robust Design

Low Water Consumption

Low Internal Resistance

Excellent Charge Acceptance

30% More aid volume per ampere hour than ordinary tubular batteries


*SINGLE BATTERY TROLLEY
Ultra-Durable

Top Notch Built

Easy To Assemble

Send us a WhatsApp message on 08090455551
Offer valid while stock last

*Terms and Conditions apply*
Technology MarketGet An Inverter (900va), Tubular Battery And A Trolley @ N130,000 by joecooper(op): 11:29pm On Aug 14, 2019
Dont let darkness eat you up!

Power up your home and enjoy steady backup.

Grab our limited promo offer today which comes with the below
*ZELIO INVERTER
(900VA)
Premium Design

Intelligent LCD Display

32 Bit DSP Processor

Premium Quality MCB

Battery Selector Switch


*1 UnitTUBULAR BATTERY
(150AH)
Robust Design

Low Water Consumption

Low Internal Resistance

Excellent Charge Acceptance

30% More aid volume per ampere hour than ordinary tubular batteries


*SINGLE BATTERY TROLLEY
Ultra-Durable

Top Notch Built

Easy To Assemble

Send us a WhatsApp message on 08090455551
Offer valid while stock last

*Terms and Conditions apply*
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by joecooper(m): 6:46pm On Aug 14, 2019
After party Food movement .... Tacha Benita and Cindy..lol
HealthRe: Please Help!! Toxic Fume From Bakery Posing A Threat To My Neighborhood by joecooper(op): 6:09pm On Aug 10, 2019
Kingosytex:
You have reported to LASEPA without getting a response, It might be possible that the owner or manager of the bakery is paying huge sums to the LASEPA's "oga" at the top. I suggest you report again to the authorities and if nothing happens then you resign yourself to fate. This is Nigeria, most times evil rule over good.
done that already
HealthRe: Please Help!! Toxic Fume From Bakery Posing A Threat To My Neighborhood by joecooper(op): 2:15pm On Aug 10, 2019
lipsrsealed

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