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gabazin080:
I have been married for 10 years and we have 3 wonderful kids. She took a well paying but stressful job recently and her sex drive has reduced drastically. We now have sex like just 4 times in a month.

She doesn't ask and if i ask it is always excuse of fatigue.

She doesn't cheat, i am 100% sure of that.
She even told me she wont mind if i find another girl to satisfy my urge.

I am not the type that can cheat too.
So I am worried on what could cause this change. Someone told me it could be an infection

Its common in marriage, but I am shocked that she is bold enough to say it...usually women don't do that, they may even apologize for not being available.

kayyyy44:
He is smart. That is why he is sentenced to only two years

With the money in his possession he can get a good lawyer are not even spend up to 4 days in nice sweet detention. And may even further file a suit against EFcc for harassment

Dialpad:
In all you do... never ever plead guilty... he will regret it later in life

He is a big fool, if I was yahoo I will never plead guilty never!

BluntCrazeMan:
Good Morning Nairalanders...

I will be dropping some series of points here which I will tag #DisruptiveCampaignPromises#.
..

With these points, I will be suggesting some disruptive (change-bringing) campaign points for the Aspiring Presidential Candidates who really want a great change for our Country.

THESE PROMISES MAY NOT SIT WELL WITH A LOT OF READERS HERE.!!
BUT NEVERTHELESS, THEY ARE WRITTEN BY ME IN GOOD FAITH.

I MEAN GOOD FOR OUR COUNTRY.
I DON'T INTEND TO JUDGE ANYBODY, OR TO MAKE ANYBODY FEEL GUILTY.






Thank You So Much For Reading Up To This Point..
I so much appreciate.

Welldone, I like your type of person, you pay attention to details

occfx:
I can see the wonders of spermatozoaa

that thing enhn

dettolgel:
Nigerian is a religious society with high rate of cultists, corrupt politicians, tribalists, murderous money ritualists, drug dealers, child traffickers, adulterous "men of God", young girls prostituting for a plate of noodles.

I am sure there is a possible correlation between how religious a nation is and despicable social vices.

best comment this year

Ringstonermasks:
my wife will just arrest her and frame her.

She did something like this once and na family meeting end am, very long meeting with months of quarrel and abuse.

Funny Enough she is in the Army(Now Captain, bt was a lieutenant back then)as an officer, yet she go use Police take pick d woman. DPO called me dat my wife was angry and was with him... I carried some of my shirt na i pack go my friend house that weekend. I was not afraid of her, i was only trying to avoid the drama that will happen when she gets home...

Later on, the gal blocked my number and nearly assaulted me when i tried to reason with her.


Last year June, she took another of my gal to station, i nor knw wetin sup for that one, bt she claimed the gal insulted her and threatened her life, so she did what she thought was right.


Na my wife be the first Army officer wey i know that doesn't use the army to settle her scores. Any issue, she go call DPO to send boys over. Since we married, she never use Army once for anything and most people don't even know she is an officer. The ones that are aware think she is a non-commissioned officer.

My wife send boys to go warn one girl say she go baff her acid! she called another one up till today i no no wetin she tell the girl, if the girl see me na run! Thank God say I don chop the girls well well

SpatialKing:
Lamba
See format
Is the money on the website?

VDM should be arrested immediately

abi oh

I used to say I don't have regrets, but when I remembered how gullible Nigerians can be I regret not investing in religion and politics

Treborblue:
So i will be starting a series . To enlighten the minds of many on who the creator is.
Please bear a open mind
And a sincere heart the truth shall be revealed. Feel free to ask questions and say your mind . Afterall that’s what I’m here for

Just like the topic says . Yes
Chapter1
God IS EVIL

Now let’s do some quick test
Close your eyes and imagine a color that doesn’t exist.
Well you can’t without mixing already existing colors together.
Okay let’s do another test
Get a remote control then press a button that isn’t on the remote control. Well that’s also impossible right
So how therefore do you think
People or let’s say the devil are able to manifest bad if the programming wasn’t in them.
Now I’m a strong believer of God and his son Jesus Christ and Ived followed the Bible and Christianity closely, but it pains me to see that many people don’t know so many truths.
“Why do you fear he who can only destroy the body but not he who can destroy both the body and the soul”
That’s one scripture where God tells us plainly that I am evil.
Well if Adam and Eve haven’t disobeyed and ate that fruit all will be well. lol the fruit in the garden was a game always has been.
Devil proving to God
That humans aren’t better off the fallen angels . The devil and the lord for lack of better terms
Are friends
The devil is an accuser that has fallen short of Gods love
And he trying to make God believe nothing he creates that shares the emotions of God can be “good”
Yes all the emotions we feel God feels them too
Anger, love , pain , lust , happiness. Etc any emotion you feel God feels it to
And it’s possible he feels other emotions he didn’t program for us to feel.
Now back to the story.
Devil keeps on corrupting man
Making God destroy man time and time again
Because the devil is trying to prove that man isn’t better than them (The fallen angels).
That why the sodom and Gomorrah God asked Abram to bring just 10good men. Knowing they weren’t even up to. But the consequences of making a deal with God are far more worse than the consequences of making a deal with the devil or demons. If you make a deal with God and break it . Your suffer would be far greater , worse so that you may not bear the suffer on earth . But that’s where God is different he forgives cause he feels it all.in order for him to forgive you , you have to be genuinely repentant like David was.

Today is Christmas and there are Christians you that will die today of starvation true or false ?
Next topic we will break the barrier of religion and open your eyes to understand the creator
But first do you agree with me that God is Evil.?

Good, OP is waking up, do your research about Demurge

Mugu44:
1. Mankind was created by one (of the) gods although they were all in agreement on our creation.
However, a few of the gods did procreate with man to give birth to unique humans. Same homo sapien but having superior gifts due to their direct god progenitor.

Adam, Noah & possibly Jesus are examples of these offsprings. And yes, Mary was not impregnated by man (story for another day).


2. So knowing these, now try to understand why the gods will be biased towards certain people who are descendants of their offspring.

To identify your own god, you will need to trace your roots which mankind's history has greatly distorted. Your best bet is to just follow whatever god is worshipped in your hometown.


3. They were definitely created too. They have a higher force that they fear. As a matter of fact, creating us was illegal, it went against the laws of nature/their creator initially.

Amongst our creators, they have ranks and the highest ranking one will usually prevail over the lesser ones though not 100% guaranteed. It is possible for a lower god to defeat his elder depending on the circumstances. Use Man City vs Monaco for example, Man City will win most times but Monaco will spring surprises a few times.


I hope I explained enough to answer your questions.
Your questions are kind of intertwined.

Very wise

Dtruthspeaker:
What aspect of.adult life is'nt a choice? is it passing exams or excelling at a work?and Please, leave that rubbish talk.

Tor, thanks you know

Dtruthspeaker:
You are the mighty king na, so who do you fear that you should hide your secrets?

But, no problem, since you have solved an conquered marriage, let us lesser living things continue the struggle.

Marriage is a choice not an achievement

Factcheck0001:
oya explain success without money n material possessions?

I tok am, na dem. Anyway Success is the realization of worthy pursuit.

Sirchiboy:
A year ago I went to visit a friend of mine at his compound. I was to stay over for the weekend.

In that compound, I saw a lady who was squatting with three guys in a single room. When my friend told me about her, the first question I asked was if she was anyone's girlfriend among the three guys she was living with.

My friend said no.

Was she a prostitute?

He said no.

He told me that she was only looking for accommodation and the three guys offered to help her. They took her in as part of their roommate. In return, she cooks for them and washes their clothes, while working at a POS shop.

"But I dey suspect one of them uses the advantage of that thing to sleep with her."

"Who?"

"The owner of the room na. You know he is the one that brought the other two guys plus this girl now."

I wasn't comfortable.

The following day, I was outside when I saw her and called her. I asked her if she was related to any of the men. She said no. I asked her if she was comfortable living with them.

She looked at me.

"I am not comfortable. I am hoping to save up money from my small work to get my own house so I can move out. But for now, it is better to be under a roof, than to be on the street."

I told her I wasn't happy she was staying with men whom she wasn't related to. They smoke, drink, and invite friends over. It wasn't a nice sight to see.

She bowed her head and said to me.

"I know. But I am praying to find a better place."

I left that week and contacted a house agent to get me a single room. He contacted me two days later and I went over to her place and picked her up so we could go check the house. The house was on the street. I didn't like where it was located. It was like a shop that was being converted into a room and rented.

She told me she liked the place and was willing to stay. Instantly I paid for the room for a year. She moved in that same day I paid.

I bought her a bed, some pots, and gas for her. She picked up her clothes and shoes and began living there.

Before I left I gave her some money for foodstuff. Since she had a job already, I believed she could manage. My aim was already achieved.

It is almost a year now and I decided to stop by the house today. To ask about the rent and if she was capable of renewing or need any assistance with it.

When I got there, I discovered the place had been turned into a saloon. The lady I saw there was a different person. Later on, I saw the lady I rented the house for arriving. She was just alighting from a bike.

When she saw me she ran and embraced me passionately.

It's been 10 months since I saw her. I was just like that angel that appeared, paid her rent, got her foodstuff, and vanished.

She told me she had been trying to reach me all this while, but couldn't.

"I have tried everything possible. I have searched around."

She told me she had moved into a room self-contained. And had converted the house I rented into a shop.

"Uncle Praises, I was able to save up and start a saloon. It is not big, but it is better than working at the POS. Soon I will get my complete saloon equipment and will be balanced."

I was very happy for her. I told her I was going to handle the rent for the next year so she could use what she saved up for the equipment she planned to buy.

I had to stop her from crying.

Sometimes at that desperate moment of your life, God sends you someone who intervenes on your behalf and gives you a helping hand that catapults you to your next destination in life.

May that helper come your way.

Amen, and God make me a channel of blessings like this OP, God bless you more

Factcheck0001:
oga life has no manual

Someone can still do all these n b successful than d one who don't do it

With what I have seen in life, life doesn't have a way to approach it best

If I say you should define success now, you will limit to money and material possession

VinnyBaba:
Helinius, Yarimo, LegendHero and all the APC Ronu Boys are CONSPICUOUSLY missing in this thread.

Cowardly waiting for any Peter Obi thread to take their Yeye Tails as usual.

I tell u, Very Okponu-ish fellas

Dtruthspeaker:
The bold proves you are a pagan hence your thinking and hence that picture in op's opening post will surely take place when secret wardrobes start bursting open revealing the skeletons kept there.

I dont really understand paganism so I wont argue, as for the secrets there are none.

KnowledgePower7:
Ì am so happy to see that youths no longer value going to church.

They have now realized it is all a SCAM.

The next generation will be the death of pentecostal churches.

Only catholic will stand tall

Yes oh I am super happy too, God bless us all with more wisdom!

policy12:
I read people contribution and all I can say is that every one is right, though different opinions but every comment are on pointing out the problems. Objectively there is no single reasons to this.

From...

1. Women weaponizing sex.
2. The aftermath of knowing the woman you marry after marriage.

My submissions:
3. Women wanting men to always be the sex initiator.
4. The modern day stress, some men come back from work tired and weak.
5. The heart of men is heavy, a lot go through the men's mind, ranging from family issue to other issues.
6. Mental health capacity of the men also matter.
7. Financial stress.

A man cannot be going through aforementioned points and you expect him to be sexually active.

I am surprised that only few married men are talking, when it comes to marriage it is not always one part fits all. By January it will be 10 years with my wife: These are my experiences:
1. She is still sexually attractive to me (though she looks way younger than her age).
2. In the early stages I had sex outside countless times(they call it cheating, but I don't its just sex with other ladies) now I had totally lost that desire.
3. Yes stress is killer of sex both for the man an woman but significantly higher in men.
4. Yes women mostly want you to initiate sex, my wife still does that.
5. These days if I touch her na belle, I dey even fear to touch her.
6 The truth for all men is that we get tired of one soup. we need varieties.

EponObi:
Dang! You guys will never get it. You think the world gives a shit or is coming gun blazing to save you from your corrupt politicians? Far worse terrible, demonic racial wipeout is happening in Gaza, what has the world done about it? Your politicians don't give a shit too because at the end of the day, all she's making is just noise. The only thing that will suffer it are already bad images of Nigerians on the global stage.

I believe we both have different philosophy, 'you believe in not washing your dirty linen in public" me I believe we can afford "not to have any dirty linen or atleast not the one we will be ashamed of".

EponObi:
See them eating her ass because the one they hate is their president. I'm a Yoruba. F*ck her!

What's to admire about her? Keep admiring her while she de-markets the country and every Nigerian on the global stage. You will eventually get it when the whites start increasing the tempo of marginalization and discrimination against Nigerian immigrants and those exporting their service from the motherland.

Your corrupt politicians won't suffer anything because when money speaks, bullshit keep quiet. The UK also needs their dirty money to inject into their economy.

It's you who need to sell your father's land and your properties and secure loans to process visa that will suffer. It's when the UK commission start bombarding you lots with stringent immigration criteria that your eyes go clear.

Those of you who already immigrated to the west, your eyes go peel. You people are already 4th class citizens; it's when your hosts start rating fellow African immigrants above you that blood will flow to your brain; or when other races starts avoiding you in the dating pool.

You wey hustle buy laptop to learn digital skills to earn dollars in the international market, it's when potential buyers start running from you like a plague because Kemi already told the world Nigeria and Nigerians are poor, corrupt and terrorists that you will understand what's going on. Nah, they won't reason with you that you are a southerner; you are a Nigerian, so that makes you a boko haram terrorist.

You know the funny part? Kemi is going no where. The single fact that she's a first generation immigrant means she's not going to become the Prime Minister - not even in 50 years. Na you blacks no wise; the whites are smarter than you. When the UK electorates show her the door, you are the one who will be left holding the pile of poo. Continue, let Kemi keep using your head for her own political ambition.

Point out her lies, if you can find any

TableLeg:
See person wey dem fu...ck for yansh lastnight dey talk?

Na u sabi dat one

Homosexuality is mental illness...though there is a demon dedicated in spreading it, have you all notice a correlation with drugging and homosexuality?

PrinceOfLagos:
This are the nincompoops Helinues and yarimo supports

Shame

I tell u, dead brain sycophants

Good business

jmoore:
Spending 70 million naira to build a 2 story building 3 bedroom flats.

Put the rent at 350,000 naira per year for each flat in a location like Aba, it will take you more than 33 years to breakeven.

House for rent as an investment is what your children will enjoy, not you.

Use your spare money to build if you have excess cash.

If you have 80 million naira in your account as a young man, don't use it to build that story building. Reinvest it in your business that gave you that 80 million naira.

You can buy land, but don't build until you have at least times 3-4 of the building budget in your account.

This is 100% correct, as a home owner myself

Zionmdde:
Why do Muslims always think US and Israel are their problems?
Like you will live and die hating those countries and yet they will keep doing their thing

Terrorists are on rampage trying to enforce the nonsense you poo and piss prophet taught them and you are still blaming US?

Na wa oo

U don finish this people, God bless u

Sleeknigga:
yes no doubt but if you were to compete in the same space as them would you be as good as them, and if they were to do what you do, do you think they would do better
Because someone else might also say to develop software is just to learn on YouTube no talent nor skill involved and there are more Sophisticated programmers on LinkedIn who can do better

You see; that is my point many Nigerians glorify these guys too much, hence you using phrase such as: "as good as..." there is nothing good in falsifying your identity, lieing etc. just to steal; in any industry there are strata, hence junior engineers, senior engineers etc. There are also specialists cloud, security, database etc. Therefore it will be foolish to say just following youtube tutorials is sufficient. In this industry what separates the boys from the men is your problem solving skills. If you want to have an idea of what it takes to be the top dog just google the following: 1. course outline of software engineering (MIT) 2. DSA(Data structure and algorithms) 3. discrete mathematics and Calculus 1 and 2. This is one price many yahoo boys looking for quick money are not willing to pay, sometimes I get mad when I hear people say 11 or 13 year old software developer.
When did an 11 or 13 year old get to learn DSA, Calculus, multiple programming languages to then be qualified for that title, its like saying 11 year old doctor or architect its not possible. I hope u get the idea.

Sleeknigga:
assumption on what you read on the nairaland news, sure you can build an app for fake alert that means you can best hushpuppi on what he does and the later cannot build a better app than yours right

In science and technology its not about argument and belief if there is any need we will practicalize it, I do not compete in the hushpuppi space no glory for thieves. I repeat if you have the budget, then you are talking...otherwise this is a needless argument, most Naija yahoo boys do not possess any scientific or engineering skills they just prey on gullible, emotional and careless people, Facts!