Family › Re: Couples Not Staying Together by judatech: 6:49pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
The most intelligent reply on NL JBriel: It's your personality no doubt. But thinking patterns, behavioral patterns are parts and parcels of our " individuality " we must all drop en-route marriage
The institution of marriage solicits giving up physical identity for couple identity. So, you're denying your wife what is rightfully hers by every right. Your company, your presence, your attention, your time.
Trust me I've seen many of how our intrinsic thinking patterns defrauds us to assume we can't do better, change, improve, do things differently but the truth is behaviors can be learnt. We can adjust and evolve.
You diagnosed the problems you have even in your words. " You just like to be alone " It is what forms after you've created a character around flawed ideologies and beliefs
You need therapy before you even connect with her. The ideas that forms this behavior must first be entangled so it stops isolating you and you learn new habits that shows you how to live, yes, how to truly live. How to be vulnerable, how to be open. How to love. How to feel again. How to feel worthy
If your feelings of unworthiness isn't resolved, even friendships would remain moribound and those thoughts have made you built a castle to imprison you in your thoughts, habits, behavioral patterns assuming the world is all evil that you need to shiled yourself from the world. Your thought patterns has imprisoned you
You need to be whole to love. You need to be whole to live. I recommend you find a long term behavioral coach to speak with. To take you by the hand and walk you into new pathways you can explore in life
Back to the issue of marriage. Marriage isn't just sexing. Marriage is " conjoining ". A man would cleave to his wife... Without cleaving, you're violating the marital institution my dear
Let go off whatever pains, heart breaks, dissapoinments that triggered the fear and behaviors that wants you imprisoned and start a new walk into a new path in life my dear.
Life is life. Life isn't all evil. Life can be what you create it to be for you
Everyone has limits, before you turn that woman into what you would regret, please find yourself and put yourself together |
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Travel › Re: My US Adventures/Trips. by judatech: 10:25pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: See What Fani-kayode’s Ex-wife, Precious Doing by judatech: 3:20pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Ffk: Oya! Ozza room! |
Properties › Re: Functional Plastic Geepee Tank Producing Factory Up For Sale In Lagos by judatech: 9:31am On Jul 03, 2022 |
The seller is wrong. Pics and price...what's the secrecy for? Is he in debt? |
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Politics › Re: "Sit Down And Shut Up" David Hundeyin To Pastor Poju Oyemade by judatech: 8:08am On Jul 01, 2022 |
thebosstrevor1: The david of a person is too aggressive and toxic
He can't lay down his points without been abusive. I'm sure he's a Nairalander  |
Politics › Re: Pdp Minders Forum (pmf) Who Attah Endorses Never Wins - A Caution To The Pdp by judatech: 8:36pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
Is Attah broke? That means nothing really last forever. His son in-law is also broke? How Dem dey chop dis naija money sef? |
Sports › Re: (Caf): Africa Player Of The Year Nominees by judatech: 7:54pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
Where's Victor Oshimen  The Napoli terror! The list is not complete |
Celebrities › Re: Funke Akindele Threw JJC Skillz Out Of The House Because He Wasn't Submissive by judatech: 7:40pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
Pray make your woman no get level pass you o! |
Business › Re: Register...get $25 Free...do Task And Earn by judatech(op): 11:24pm On Jun 29, 2022 |
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Business › Register...get $25 Free...do Task And Earn by judatech(op): 7:48pm On Jun 29, 2022 |
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Celebrities › Re: Mompha Case Update: How Surety Documents Were Wrongfully Held By Court by judatech: 5:53pm On Jun 29, 2022 |
Abeg explain wetin you dey say |
Properties › Re: Three-storey Building Collapses In Port Harcourt (photos) by judatech: 5:47pm On Jun 29, 2022 |
You mean this building was constructed 7 years ago? |
Romance › Re: Real Or Fake ! Lady With An Extraordinary Big Behind Leaves Men With Endless Deb by judatech: 12:54pm On Jun 29, 2022 |
Nothing dey woman yansh...all na marketing |
Events › Re: Nigerian Man Who Picked An Abandoned 2yr Old Baby By The Roadside Gives Update! by judatech: 12:09pm On Jun 29, 2022 |
The boy go fear women forever  |
Events › Re: Nigerian Man Who Picked An Abandoned 2yr Old Baby By The Roadside Gives Update! by judatech: 12:08pm On Jun 29, 2022 |
God bless him |
Celebrities › Re: Bobrisky Reacts After Being Called Out For Lying He Purchased His Housewarming C by judatech: 10:44pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
Na una dey give this man level for this country...he is supposed to be stale news by now |
Politics › Re: Factcheck0001, Coman See Tinubu Branded Urine by judatech: 10:46pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
 oguns222: Factcheck0001, you were concerned about branded urine earlier. I hereby present to you Tinubu Branded Urine. |
Crime › Re: Ekweremadu: Brother Of Organ Donor Says He Is 25 And He Left Nigeria In January by judatech: 12:43am On Jun 27, 2022 |
This David no get another cap  |
Celebrities › Re: Chidi Mokeme's Sister And Cousin Are Dead (Photos) by judatech: 12:37am On Jun 24, 2022 |
saintruky: This is so sad... I recalled when i lost two of my aunt same week... Till date my mom never know...
Bros Chidi take heart... E nor easy She's not been told? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Owo Massacre Survival Victim Begs For Help by judatech: 12:31am On Jun 24, 2022 |
So government no help this people... upon the donations? |
Sports › La Liga Dates Confirmed by judatech(op): 4:57pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
The new season for the exciting LaLiga Santander will kick off on the 13th of August 2022 after it was confirmed via a draw on Thursday in Madrid. The two La Liga giants, Real Madrid and Barcelona, now know the dates for their El Classico clash.
Real Madrid will play host to Barcelona on the 16th of October 2022 while the return fixture would be held on the 19th of March 2023.
Below is the schedule for the opening week:
Athletic Club – RCD Mallorca
FC Barcelona – Vallecano Ray
Real Betis – Elche CF
RC Celta – RCD Espanyol de Barcelona
Cadiz CF – Real Sociedad
CA Osasuna – Sevilla F.C.
UD Almeria – Real Madrid
Getafe CF – Atletico Madrid
Real Valladolid CF – Villarreal CF
Valencia CF – Girona FC |
Crime › Re: AMOTEKUN Are Formalized "Vigilantes",they Use Hunters Guns & ancestors back up by judatech: 4:53pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
What did you smoke  |
Food › Re: Guys! See The Lunch I Wasted 1700 For. Abeg, Ill Rather Cook My Meals Henceforth by judatech: 4:35pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
blazingblender: Jeeeez Baba abeg was the soup sweet Because I know a place in ph this 1700 will buy me pounded yam and soup with assorted meats 4 times Where be that? |
Business › Relocation Sales Calabar by judatech(op): 12:05pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
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Classic bar with internal cupboard, mirror and 3 side compartment. N60k
Compressible table. N30k
DVD home theater LG with complete accessories. N35k
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Thermocool gas cooker 10k
Tv Console with 2 drawers. N60k
Haier thermocool 1Hp, functional remote and outdoor unit. N120k
Parksun 1900 DX generator 50k
Vitafoam 12inches N70k
Pics on demand
Slightly negotiable
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Romance › Re: The Bro Code Thread by judatech: 1:37am On Jun 23, 2022 |
MasonKendall: A real bro doesn't support Chelsea. This doesn't count |
Christianity Etc › Re: Photos: Moment Members Weep As Father Mbaka Addresses Congregants by judatech: 1:20am On Jun 23, 2022 |
blazingblender: The man has lovers But he was to wide mouthed But he is still a man of God Why do you think he is a Man Of God..cos men cried? Or what? |
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Romance › Re: Please Guys What Can I Do To This Young Girl!!! by judatech: 5:55pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
How old are you? |
Autos › Re: I Need Help Determining The Custom Fee For This Car by judatech: 8:19pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
Na wa o! CFA and Naira now na mate! This country is really finished |