Romance › Re: See The Question The Thief That Stole My Phone Asked Me by judatech: 8:18pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
So upon how expensive iPhone is...it cannot be traced? |
Sports › Re: Nigeria vs Morocco: WAFCON Semi Finals (4 - 5)pens On 18th July 2022 by judatech: 11:51pm On Jul 18, 2022 |
Which football tournament has this Buhari government won? Just asking |
Romance › Re: I and my lady nothing go shock us (pic) by judatech: 11:25pm On Jul 18, 2022 |
Last last....  |
NYSC › Re: Is It Safe? Traveling To Kaduna Nysc Orientation Camp by judatech: 11:18pm On Jul 18, 2022 |
See what this country has been reduced to? To travel across a country not war, you go dey shiver |
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Sports › Re: Why I Will Respect This Nigerian Champion Till My Dying Bed (pics) by judatech: 6:51am On Jul 17, 2022 |
What language is this? |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Girls Think This Way? (pics) by judatech: 9:17pm On Jul 16, 2022 |
Last last... Complete am! |
Family › Re: What Should I Do My Nairaland Family? My Wife Has Been Password Her Phone by judatech: 4:29pm On Jul 16, 2022 |
The idea is that ...spouses should have free access to each others phone... Most people know how to do wedding but know nothing about marriage. |
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Sports › Re: OLAR Soccer Predictions Whatsapp Group (seeing is believing) by judatech: 6:31pm On Jul 15, 2022 |
Confirmed! You are good...the last game nearly misbehave |
Nairaland General › Re: Secret Of Making Millions With Arbitrage Business Even If You Don't Have Capital by judatech: 12:51am On Jul 13, 2022 |
How do make profit then after swapping? |
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Celebrities › Re: VID Want To Marry A Virgin From Israel I Don’t Want Nigeria Ladies – Actor Aguba by judatech: 1:50pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
 this man don turn redpiller o! |
Celebrities › Re: Eedris Abdulkareem Diagnosed With Kidney Failure by judatech: 7:17pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
Olamide's lookalike |
Family › Re: Couples Not Staying Together by judatech: 6:49pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
The most intelligent reply on NL JBriel: It's your personality no doubt. But thinking patterns, behavioral patterns are parts and parcels of our " individuality " we must all drop en-route marriage
The institution of marriage solicits giving up physical identity for couple identity. So, you're denying your wife what is rightfully hers by every right. Your company, your presence, your attention, your time.
Trust me I've seen many of how our intrinsic thinking patterns defrauds us to assume we can't do better, change, improve, do things differently but the truth is behaviors can be learnt. We can adjust and evolve.
You diagnosed the problems you have even in your words. " You just like to be alone " It is what forms after you've created a character around flawed ideologies and beliefs
You need therapy before you even connect with her. The ideas that forms this behavior must first be entangled so it stops isolating you and you learn new habits that shows you how to live, yes, how to truly live. How to be vulnerable, how to be open. How to love. How to feel again. How to feel worthy
If your feelings of unworthiness isn't resolved, even friendships would remain moribound and those thoughts have made you built a castle to imprison you in your thoughts, habits, behavioral patterns assuming the world is all evil that you need to shiled yourself from the world. Your thought patterns has imprisoned you
You need to be whole to love. You need to be whole to live. I recommend you find a long term behavioral coach to speak with. To take you by the hand and walk you into new pathways you can explore in life
Back to the issue of marriage. Marriage isn't just sexing. Marriage is " conjoining ". A man would cleave to his wife... Without cleaving, you're violating the marital institution my dear
Let go off whatever pains, heart breaks, dissapoinments that triggered the fear and behaviors that wants you imprisoned and start a new walk into a new path in life my dear.
Life is life. Life isn't all evil. Life can be what you create it to be for you
Everyone has limits, before you turn that woman into what you would regret, please find yourself and put yourself together |
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Travel › Re: My US Adventures/Trips. by judatech: 10:25pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: See What Fani-kayode’s Ex-wife, Precious Doing by judatech: 3:20pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Ffk: Oya! Ozza room! |
Properties › Re: Functional Plastic Geepee Tank Producing Factory Up For Sale In Lagos by judatech: 9:31am On Jul 03, 2022 |
The seller is wrong. Pics and price...what's the secrecy for? Is he in debt? |
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Politics › Re: "Sit Down And Shut Up" David Hundeyin To Pastor Poju Oyemade by judatech: 8:08am On Jul 01, 2022 |
thebosstrevor1: The david of a person is too aggressive and toxic
He can't lay down his points without been abusive. I'm sure he's a Nairalander  |
Politics › Re: Pdp Minders Forum (pmf) Who Attah Endorses Never Wins - A Caution To The Pdp by judatech: 8:36pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
Is Attah broke? That means nothing really last forever. His son in-law is also broke? How Dem dey chop dis naija money sef? |
Sports › Re: (Caf): Africa Player Of The Year Nominees by judatech: 7:54pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
Where's Victor Oshimen  The Napoli terror! The list is not complete |
Celebrities › Re: Funke Akindele Threw JJC Skillz Out Of The House Because He Wasn't Submissive by judatech: 7:40pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
Pray make your woman no get level pass you o! |
Business › Re: Register...get $25 Free...do Task And Earn by judatech(op): 11:24pm On Jun 29, 2022 |
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Business › Register...get $25 Free...do Task And Earn by judatech(op): 7:48pm On Jun 29, 2022 |
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Celebrities › Re: Mompha Case Update: How Surety Documents Were Wrongfully Held By Court by judatech: 5:53pm On Jun 29, 2022 |
Abeg explain wetin you dey say |