re:generationz well,they said it is my duty as a man to ensure peace in my home by practicing the virtue of tolerance,empathy,forgiveness,endurance, etc. they said that marriage is not bread and butter.well sha i suppose they must have advised my wife later behind me but i was the one being rebuked openly.lol.then on fighting,no we have never but we have heated arguments,d point be say d girl no get single fear for me,she ready for fight sef,lol,lwkm,but i have a reputation to protect,i don't want to be among 'wife beaters',lol

KEIRIS your post was classic,thanks.i just can't stop reading it. but then,she once told me that by the time she will come up with her own plan(visavis the room) that i should not begin to rant,i just kept quiet and walked away.she hates the fact that i stay in that room alone leaving her in the masters bedroom,but this my action though not the best had fostered peace, but i can say 'artificial', what is your take on that

the threat of divorce was just a facade,i didn't mean it,its not an option for us,this is why i desired to hear from old experienced couples.some told me that its normal and after a while,we will adjust to each other,etc.the point is that since i locked up a room for myself,there had been less quarrels because it cut down on those discussions that normally lead to arguement but friends that isolation is not what i want from my marriage,how long will i continue like this,this is not what i want at all,i want a good and happy home full of love and joy and not full of 'being sensitive so as not to offend her',infact ...

honestly,i am overwhelmed.the pieces of advice rendered here is awesome.i thank u all.i repeat, a million thanks to everyone that took out their precious time to comfort me and to proffer a solution to my loveless marriage.okay,let me start this way,i may not quote you all verbatim but i wl allude to as many posts as i can.yes when we were courting,i was overtaken by emotions,i was in deep love with her that i did not listen to the voice of reason even when she was manifesting those features of 'fearlessness/domineering'.also i was in a hurry to marry seeing that she met upto 60% of my criteria compared to others that i met for marriage.i thought she wl be submissive to me as both of us are from good family backgrounds and raised in pentecostal churches,we have taken this case to church and family and they all blamed me after hearing the both of us,that makes it more difficult for me,so i decided to bring this to this place.for those suggesting divorce,i forgot to write it there,that the threat of divorce...

The marriage is just one year and we 'hate each other', will it be possible for the old love we had before wedding to come back.pls if u know a similar case, share it here pls
Honestly i passively want the marriage to .....

I married last year. My wife is a choleric just like myself.she is the type that will not tolerate mistakes from me, if i don't keep things in their position, then hell will let loose,she hardly 'respects' me, she behaves independently and when i threaten divorce, she will say i should do it fast, because of her attitude i hardly give her money, when she demands for money, i will ask her, what of your salary, she will tell me that its my responsibility to give her money for somethings irrespective of her personal earnings. Meanwhile she never brings any money on the table for the family upkeep, i foot the bills :rentage,food,nepa, etc. I stopped buying clothes, etc for her since she put up those attitudes that piss me off. Infact i just don't love her again, we argue a lot except i just lock myself up in one room which is my new method now. Pls experienced advice needed

pls sometimes i browse on my laptop using my normal line inside my modem, then sometimes during the browsing session, calls come in and as i tap on the answer button, the transmission of the call begins but i cannot hear what the person is saying neither can the person hear me, pls is it because i am not using headphone or is there a software i need to install before it can work whether through the computer speaker or headphone, thanks in anticipation of a good and prompt reply

as long as you intend to do all you said, you wl succeed big time but if not just forget about it, i am talking from experience, but be prepared to inherit the 'rogue' lifestyle involved oo

pls i need people who have travelled before to enlighten me on this topic pls in a very detailed form, as in, is there any other thing apart from international passport, visa and ticket fare that one needs to get before travelling, if there are, pls specify. then as for the passport, what does it look like, how do one get it, how much does it cost, how long does it last, can you upload the sample for me, and then d same for visa, whatever else needed etc, thanks in anticipation of a good and educative response

THANKS , BUT I NEED MORE DETAILED CONTRIBUTIONS PLS

IT PAINS ME THAT AT MY AGE I DO NOT KNOW VERY MUCH ABOUT ALL IT WL TAKE ONE TO TRAVEL OUT, PLS SOMEONE SHOULD PLS TELL ME THE ABC TO Z OF ALL THAT IS INVOLVED IN TRAVELING OUT OF YOUR OWN COUNTRY

pls our able gurus, i need your assistance, my system suddenly became too slow after i watched youtube, pls what do i do to fix it, thanks

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I BOUGHT AIRTEL SIM AND TRIED IT BUT WAS TOLD I AM NOT QUALIFIED FOR IT THAT I SHOULD CALL 111

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Dahveydson:

Take your anger somewhere else please.

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Some do while majority don't.

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