Seems like someone is afraid about new ways of living!

You know what, keep ur mouth shut, get married to a nice woman from ur tribe and let my boyfriend and me do what we wanna do,

there is more than enough room in a relationship to keep traditions alive from both countries, People like u are the reason while the world is as worse as it is with all those religiouse and culture wars. Better u get it straight soon that u can be open minded, learn new things every day without missing ur culture at all.

I really thought this website is a nice idea and a good way to learn more about Nigiria and meet new ppl but seems like i was wrong.

Thanks for ur opinion and advice.

Its kind of tough, he is Nigirian living in the US. I m German and "moved" to the US to get to know him better. We met on one of my journey to the US and started with a long-distance relationship but it was kind of hard to get to know each other with this. So i m here now and trying to figure out whats him, whats the culture and how i feel in all these different things. I mean its not only to learn and see the Nigiria culture - its also to learn and see the american one and to compromise and fit into all those different things.

I do think and feel i m open minded enough to handle all this but sometimes it comes all back to me and i feel like, i just wanna run back home to my old secure place.

I felt by asking those questions it might be more easy to see whats the culture background and whats his personality. I have a friend in a mixed relationship (american - fidji) and she is describing the same. Be open minded, show interest and if an issue comes up try to talk about. And takes things more easy than in a non-mixed culture relationship.

Thank you for ur answere. I was hoping for some more advice or interest to share things but maybe ppl dont really know what to answere or advice

I met my boyfriend a few month ago.
He is Nigirian (Igbo) and i am German. We just moved in together to get to know each other better and i found out that its kind of difficult with our different understandigs about relationship, being close to each other, raising children, family issues.

Any advice from your side how i can make this relationship work better? What are the expectations of Nigirian men in their woman? Whats important for them? What is a Nigirian family about?

I met my boyfriend a few month ago.
He is Nigirian and i am German. We just moved in together to get to know each other better and i found out that its kind of difficult with our different understandigs about relationship, being close to each other, raising children, family issues.

Any advice from ur side how i can make this relationship work better? What are the expectations of Nigirian men in their woman? Whats important for them? What is a Nigirian family about?

Exactly,  but sometimes its tough to see where the pride beginns, lol

Thank you Reality 101

yeah okay,

he is from Enugu State

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@free

than i will need a new boyfriend cause that comment came from him, lol

   

i think thats my problem too.

Hey sexkillz
Thank u for ur help. I appricaite this a lot.
These are the sentenses


1. Ejo nwa bu ibu

2. Nwoke i shala madu melu ngulu la uwula. i la akpa ike

3. m. ya duluwa mma wooo

4. Aaa nwele adekwu la okuku etinye olu oshila okpalambo tinye. Dute nwele mma esoo gapaga nkwu elu la Ami. insurance coverlum saa ishieghe?

I have a few igbo sentences which i would like to translate into english for better understanding. But when i try translation or dictonary most of the words are not found, so i guess its more like igbo slang.

It would be nice when someone can help me out