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no relationship can ever be equal

If one person earns more, he/she has to provide more

If one person loves more, he/she does more of the doting

responsibilities can never be equal. one person will always have greater control in whatevr he/she is capable of doing.

There can never be equality but One-ness

How can selfishness be curbed?

Think about others first!

pardon me,

For a man that worked his ass to wealth, i am very sure that no matter how much he earns, the "utter" of any thing/amount of money running in millions will be questioned. Releasing money earned by hard labour is harder compared to the-born-with-a-diamond spoon thingy. I'm sure monies like that will always sound like something he doesn't have even tho he does.

Probably he is still doubting he's dat rich

Dowry becomes too expensive when a man questions.

Honestly dowries are usually expensive, but when a man demands to know the reason why he has to spend so much . . .a good wife-to-be has to re-think & shelve some childhood fantacies for obtainable reality.

I've so far gathered that pics taken unawares are usually/always better than those taken conciously with enough preparation.

I remember a pic i took that keeps me laughing, even by the thought alone. I had smiled so hard waiting for the photographer to take the shot, he kept checking one thing or the other on the camera, & my chicks were starting to ache by the feigned smile, He said my pose was great & the smile was lovely so i had to stay put. I was already sweating hard when he eventually snapped. I happily went to collect the pic days later but behold I was like a scarecrow in the pic. My face strictly showed that someone was punishing me with hard labour. Even i would snap myself better.

Yes i can . . . & yes i have

now to u girlies claiming "never"

Tell me u loved ur bfs b4 u got kissing

I'm sure the poster mean "a frat".

Lmao, Yeah right Guys are winners here as "the biggest cheaters"

But only wondering why they die a millions times when their ladies cheat back

when we heat back its most painful. . .

Ok this woman created the avenue . . .

Househelps for Oga During the day

Ma for Oga at night ( and sadly they both might not have strength for eachother)  

Can someone simply accept there cld be a good egg amongst several bad eggs

Some girl i must say

if i were u, i wouldn't be thinking of what to do . . . nah

i'lld rather be thinking of what she thought of me before spitting the gibberish . . .(she couldn't even invent a quoted lie)

@ poster she must really have some large hold of you.

lol, my first phone was also a hand-me-down a motorola i held so close to my heart.  it got spoilt within a month of use  i remember i was always proud to say "my phone got spoilt, its under repair", even tho it was not repairable. . .Just for who ever was listening to know "I've had a phone" LOL

P.S: Also remembering i could kill to have a flip phone?

Individual opinion . . . whatever . . . i'lld love to have someone to call me "mama"!

Often times when things turns bad for us in our present situation(in relationships most especially), we look back & wish we were with a previous person or some other person.

How long did u spend with ur fiance (dead)  for u to judge he'd be in a better position as a husband? Or how sure are u dat he'ld have married u eventually? Could u be so sure that his heart break wouldn't be much worse?

Every individual has their differences, & there must be a reason why u married ur present husband. If he is no longer that sweet & wonerful man Please work out ur differences 'cos i believe it could be worked at.

@ some posts: Pls & pls A woman's happiness should not be tied majorly to her kids' happiness but hers. One cannot keep being married to a monster just because that person wants to save a broken family. ( so saying "at least stay there cos of the kids" is ruled out, only stay when u know things can work out better & will make u happy)

Yessssssss