₦airaland Forum

Bolarge:
M' cool jare. . how're u doin urself?

I just pray they don't share it with my own kids when they start arriving. . . lol

I'm doing ok dude . . . i know u don't know me. . .lol, i'll holla laterz

Awww! Bolarge u know i always knew u were naughty . . . howdy

What is wrong with u Please make me understand.

I'm of the believe that men don't just marry just like that, even when they are pushed to marry, they marry whom their heart desires. . . Ooops my bad, i'm of the notion that its women that always have this problem due to attraction to luxury or just to bear a "mrs".

So u tagged along wit her for five years & couldn't be certain if she was ur ideal choice for a wife . . .Ahhh!
what were the things u were actually doing togetherthat made u court her for that long? , is it that u never loved her or did things together that u both cherish? There's more to this please elaborate.

Hey @ Poster
A man can never be pushed to marry whom he does not desire

Get the househelp that will stay in her room & use her bathroom. I mean if she can't help, why the hell is she there? Or have ur cousin or sis to come & live wit u (temporarily), so they can sleep in the same bed together also . . .lol. One day she'll get too uncomfortable & leave. Do it like u don't know its getting to her.

Men don't see anything wrong when its their relative staying . . . there can only be a problem when its urs staying.

Sisters in-law are more problems than mothers-in-law because they are usually not mature enough to handle issues & u'll be surprised that most occurences in your home is spread out amongst your hubby's relatives.

This is a very sensitive issue . . . handle wit care


@Tsiya
Do u have prblems with your sight

These are the kind of men we want "extinct"

no1madman:
As far as i am concerned moaning is not a disturbance.
they should mind their business,or better still enjoy d moaning.

Lol but Word!

Too long to be read

Crude Oil:
What kind of answer are you looking for?

It beats me too . . . Some posters sha!

@Poster
What are we expected to do  

Fhemmmy:
have u tried other tribes, or what do u base your preference on?

I DON'T HAVE TO, I NEVER WILL TRY ANOTHER !!!

Aloy~Emeka:
Better still, you are not sure whether you can ever attract a Yoruba guy enough to marry you. As if Yoruba men cares if you exist.

ROFLOL . . . Kai!

My Yoruba men any day! Best lovers . . . best husbands

SeanT21:
MJ 1st son. I do not know how true it is but Joe Jackson(MJ's father) said that Omar is Mj's son.

Why should all these come up now?

I go with Ifyalways

My mother in-law to be was actually the one that bought my traditional marriage clothes (lace). I'm too busy at work during weekdays & she thought she could get it herself. I actually didn't like the idea but my hubby-to-be gave her a go ahead insisting i didn't know much about "laces" but "jeans & tops". I only looked at the motive behind it. My mother in-law to-be is such with a heart hoping to always please me. (past experiences) eventually when i saw the lace last saturday, i liked it & she was glad i did, cos i cld see the glitter in her eyes.

My Point: We should always look at the motive behind something before jumping into conclusion. Op's mother-in-law might have just been agitated & ancious to opt to buy the clothes or go with the poster. Putting her off must have been really saddening. Sometimes daughters in-law unknowgly work @ mothers in-law's wrath which they build up slowly. I really don't think any mother in-law will have a mind set to be evil to his son's wife. Try working at ur wisdom in handling issues instead of carrying the phobia for mothers in-law all around u . . .cos u'll become one someday

FBS:
Some people are just plain blind and sorry to say stupid. Honestly, who is displaying ITK here? If at all then it is you. What intelligence have you that gives you the capacity to dish out advices to others?
What you are saying is this:
-he should have resigned simply because he is a black man? (never mind the fact that the who and who of RCCG were and officiated at his wedding-meaning that he had the go ahead)
- This happened 2 years ago but just got sacked now?

Let me ask your porous head, why the wait for 2 years? If he did the wrong thing then the sanctions should be with immediate effect.
Anyone with me on this?

Now read what you posted and think again. How does that relate to this issue? Your friend's dad married the second wife (i.e he has/had 2 wives)
- NOT REMARRIED!!!
olodo.

PS: Go and check the meaning of Ignoramus again. That should be your middle name.

Awww i'm so wit u on it . . . lol

Accrued jealousy of over two years could not be held any longer. Imagine a church giving an option of either divorcing Ibidun or pastorhood How on earth can divorcing her be the cure of the situation?

Pastor ituah's Success also bursted their veins, making their hearts aching for revenge
Why can't people pray for their own success instead envy /jealousy of others & wishing for their downfall.

I wonder if these people were sleeping for two years and suddenly woke up!

I personally feel that this is the handy work of some peeps in that congregation "green with envy" of:

1. Pastor ituah rising fame in the R.C.C.G Christaindom

2. And the beautiful woman he made his wife.


The question is were they all on sleeping pills before now or what

Wasn't it pastors that consulted counselling for them?

Wasn't there notice before the wedding dates?

wasn't there officiating pators on the wedding day?

Why this now? So annoying  

@ Poster
yes she won't sleep with u, cos u are damn stupid not to understad her point of view!

Several Months ago with my xoxo profile name, i cldn't reply cos i was in a relationship titled "its complicated" with capital letters & barbed wires.

So now . . . @topic

I'm engaged to be married to this same guy  . . . now relationship titled "Love so Sweet" with a ribbon on it 

I'm getting married in 6 weeks!

@ Blak
Sup

It was weird cos he had never shown any signs of liking me before.

But I'm sure u had shown signs of liking him which he has observed from ur girly eyes, which drew him to u, to show u things u might wanna feel.

And by not moving . . . u enjoyed the touch and he knew that his secret was save  

@ Poster

STOP SNOOPING THROUGH PEOPLE'S PHONES!!! U wouldn't be having this headache.

well I'm going a bit off topic . . . duh right?

I read thru & i didn't see anyone write about stammerers being cute lovers . . .i fell in love wit a stammerer once & i think i love them stammerers. I always looked forward to when he'll stammer & then i'll smile, especially when he is pleading with me. And did i say when they are angry is when u love them more?

I almost wish my hubby to be is a stammerer

Just like i love peeps with freckles . . . . i love them stammerers

Nweddings:
If it were me, then I will tell him; this is the guy you are going to get married to, so there shouldn’t be any pretence about things and you should be open with each other.

Yes, he may feel hurt but not too much if you make a joke about it and generally make light of the situation.

Ask him to accompany you to go and pick another one. It's a ring you will wear for a long time so there is no point wearing something you don’t like

On the other hand if you know he is going to be heartbroken & not cope very well with the news if you tell him that you don’t like the ring, then you can tell him that you lost it and hopefully he will replace it; this time making sure that you accompany him to the jewellers.

LOL! U could break his heart over this, cos it might have been a passed down ring from great grand mother. . .lol

I simply won't put on an ugly ring. And in telling him I have to be diplomatic, maybe put it like, "i love the ring so much but it looks ugly on my fingers, my fingers need a prettier ring for it to be beautiful" just a reason to have it off my fingers

Yes we do generally. Actually, there was a time I broke up with a woman I loved like 5 years ago and hooked up 2 days after that day. She mourned that relationship for over 1 year before getting the message.

Duh! . . . is hooking up with another person two days later ur judgement of moving on?

Now hear this: A man might continiously think about his ex & wish to be back wit her even if he has had/slept wit 20 other girls after her.

We even move on faster than guys cos we are the ones that easily get carried away by new things & forget the past, except it really hurts.

Why is it "ok" if a guys pops in unannounced but questioned if the lady does?

This has happened wit me & i'm fyn wit it, but i don't do it . . . i wouldn't, i prefer to be invited no matter the closeness.

But the issue when this topic comes up guys are quick to say "No, No No"

I want to believe its wrong.

But realy what if she pops in unannounced . . . what really are the men scared of? Is there something there to hide?

I hope u are not looking for a Mr. perfect? If u are not, Maybe now is not the time

The right time/man will come, Mostly when u don't expect.

tatenda:
Blah Blah Blah

SECONDED!

Donvilo:
Who told u? I guess u just want to talk rubbish! or are trying to say that this is the way u understand God's doing. No dey play with this issue oooo!

U are the one talking rubbish!

temple:
God neva created a woman to love a man, read GENESIS again,

True!

Bible says men love ur wife!

TheSeeker:
"And I ain't saying she a gold digger, but she don't messing with no broke niggaz . . . . ."

Gbam!

I'm not looking for a Sheik with hundred castles but at the same time a guy with prospects (unrealized) isn't enough.

They are all stupid! . . . there's no sharp person!

I just know she'll always be there so I put her on the bottom rung.

I guess she has made herself overtly available & unnessarily vulnerable. She has also placed herself so much in the position of trust. . . so u place her at the bottom of ur priorities, whinning "she'll always be there"

Hmmn! . . . Now i'm beginning to understand that a guy is more on guard (& doing best) when he's unable to predict a woman he is in love with.

I just hope cheating is not one of the other priorities U better don't push her hard, remember the table always flips over.

BOXING!!!  

I wonder why one would love to get wounded, have a black eye & a few missing tooth.

I can't stand the pain of being slapped on the face, talk more of a KNOCKOUT Terrible . . . above all one might not even win . . .lol

I wouldn't even watch cricket to be able to judge wether its to be hated!

luxoire:
your problem is you dont care/love her enough to make those sacrifices for her

true!

Simply put, your love for her is not enough

U r simply obviously looking out to something else that catches ur interest more. Its obviously all about u.