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JESUSBOIY:
Shiet

Your head.....

AlexCk:
Nice.
But finally, not just Nigerian men, men in total.

True talk bro, but you know we Nigerian men are tough to deal with generally, hence the emphasis on Naija men!

pucelle:
Nice points and true too

Thanks dear, all points are valid and relevant, thanks for dropping by with the comment, I really appreciate it.

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1. You will know if he loves you from your intuition, that Gut feel, if something is off or doesn't feel right, then he doesn't love you. There shouldn't be any doubt when it comes to love. If you doubt it, then he doesn't love you.

2. If you are sexually active with him; tell him you want to abstain from sex for a little while and see how he responds to that. If he loves you, he will abstain genuinely without cheating on you with somebody else. If he doesn’t love you, he will definitely cheat on you. Personally, I think it is better to stay away from sex during your premarital relationship because sex will cloud your judgment.

3. If you are sexually active, bring up the topic about having kids and see his reaction. If he doesn’t love you, the idea of having kids with you will not seat well with him. Ask and see his reaction. If he sees a future with you, he most likely loves you.

4. Some Nigerian men are not that romantic. If he tries to do little romantic things for you not just to get sex, he most likely loves you.

5. Nigerian men value their families. If he you are the first girl to meet his family, he really loves you. If the Nigerian guy has the habit of bringing girls home then ignore this point. Nigerian families are evolving before if a guy brought someone to meet his family his intentions were clear.

6. Friends-if he brings you around his friends, it’s a good sign. When you meet his friends, you want to pay attention to how they treat you. If he is a player-type, they might treat you like one of his many girls. Be observant and make your own judgment.

7. Finally and most importantly; Love yourself and you will know when you are loved.

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KingEbukasBlog:
No no ... please I need your opinion . I clearly said "and others" too .

Next time mention my name specifically, and I will, cheers

We wont reply to your topic unless you reference us in your post, OP YOU HAVE MENTIONED ONLY THOSE WHO YOU WANT TO REPLY IN YOUR POST ....SO...CHEERS

cruzita:
maybe they are paid because nothing is free in Nigeria

They must be paid

dollyjoy:
If not for the power that comes with being a moderator,nobody would ad volunteered to be a mod cos sectional mods are not paid!it's actually a waste of time!

Thanks, finally someone with a brain

Dont you think about it too sir, this is not about being funny, its about wanting to find out the truth

Hi All Nairalnders

I write this post because I am sure many of you (myself included) are baffled and bewildered as to what actually makes a moderator.. Who are these guys?

Furthermore, do they get paid and if so how much? Do you think the money is a lot for them to be exercising unknown powers anyhow?

I also like to highlight that we need proper communication between regular Nairalanders and the moderators because we don't actually know what their job entails or why they exist.

How were they selected, who selected them, actually who are they?

Can the moderators hop in here and discuss this please to find a way we can achieve uniformity and transparency between the Nairalnders and the so called 'Moderators"

I know I may get banned for this but I have to say my opinion.

God Bless you.

soilsista:
*sigh* I really hate repeating myself, ka nnete. The only reason we have single mothers is because we'd rather raise our children on our own rather than aborting them or selling them to those baby factory owners, you go fear the love of money o! AGAIN, NOT ALL NIGERIAN MEN ARE RESPONSIBLE. My friend got dumped by her Nigerian man, left her with two children because he found a new platinum mine to dig. Akere vele that's what you're good at?

Even if I was dating a Nigerian I won't sit back and watch you insult my brothers and uncles. Nope! I'm not one of those who suffer from 'My Oga Syndrome'. O tsamaile wrong mo nna shame.

Hahahahaha, ok I hear you, but I think you guys have single mothers becasue you cant keep ur legs closed to any random man, its the truth, what you talking about now is what you will do to the baby after conceiving, im talking about why conceive in the first place to a random nggaa!

RudzSA:
even after months absent Nigerian mentality still drops lower than oil prices ... Here's the truth .nigerians are base rats ..no one likes u ppl .. The truth and nothing but . Now we can go back to pretending ....

You dont like us? so why are you on this threa, why not go to Randland?

soilsista:
LMAO! I said especially Nigerian men because you people think you are our saviours but you're not!! Lol useless men? You lot aren't any better because all you know is preying on people and shamelessly stealing their money, pension funds even; and of course what you're known for: whori.ng around. I hope you're using protection because AIDS and STIs are real hey.

Don't come here pretending to be a saint because we know your ways. For everyone bad South African men there are truckloads of Nigerian men. Nonsense.

Yoh Yoh Yoh, this was a direc attack hey, bathung, are u dating a South African man, you know they are useless, all they do is impregnate women all over and leave them with their babies, am I wrong, how many single mothers are here in South Africa, thats becasue the men are weak and never take responsibilities for their actions. Nigerian men are at least resposnible!!!

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shumuel:
What does this comment has to do with the Thread

Work on your grammar before talking to me

what does this have to do with romance

soilsista:
But, awunyi perhaps? I know a lot of Xhosa women who work hard for their money and don't wait for handouts from anyone, especially Nigerian men. So what are you talking about?

Just talking about my experience, why do you have to say "especially Nigerian men" like theres something wrong with us or like your useless men are better>