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teebagy:
some women learn redpill and games and manipulation how are women naturally redpill women learn game just like men they have their own books and youtube channel for game. And asap rocky is a tyrone he wont b treated as trash

Women are naturally redpilled. If you don't know that by now, I don't know what you're doing here. Forget books and YouTube channels, every girl innately has the ability to be cunning. Those books and channels you talk about are just there to help them perfect what they already do.
Since they aren't as strong as guys, nature wired them to be very redpilled in order to survive. Don't forget that what makes anyone redpilled is their mindset.
A girl doesn't need to be told to put herself first. She just does it.

Boys are born redpilled too, but not as much as girls. But from the time of their birth, society begins to brainwash boys. So, girls grow up maintaining their redpilled nature, while guys lose theirs as they grow up.

Smartb0y:
That's an individual question you should ask yourself.
You know the pros and cons associated with both, it's left for you to choose.

You're right

ubunja:
the next question is, Do we then spend? And if we spend don't we become blue pill? Or how do we spend in such a way we don't simp. Or how do we get women to spend without us losing our masculinity. So many questions...

Well, I have been pondering this for a long time now. I'm glad the topic came up.

For me, I think it should be in a ratio of 70 : 30.

Approximately, the man should spend 70% while the woman spends 30% in the relationship.... That way, the man would still maintain more authority in the relationship since he is paying more. Also, the woman would put in the effort to make the relationship work because she has also invested something tangible in it as well.
If she doesn't contribute, it would be easy for her to wake up one morning and break up with you for a higher bidder. I believe having women contribute financially mitigates their hypagamy.

ubunja:
Redpillers are loathe to spend on a woman and to support her financially, yet detest a self- supporting financially Independent woman because she's carrying a lot of masculine energy. If I was a woman in today's world I wouldn't even know how to deal with manosphere men. Cause, be dependent it's a crime. Be independent it's a crime. Damned if you do, damned of you don't.

If a woman has to pay her part cause you don't want to, then expect her to come standard with masculine energy. That's the nature of money and financial independence.

Now where exactly is the disconnect in the redpill? It has to be found and fixed.

Cause at this point there's merit in what these women are complaining about...

What kind of woman exactly should men settle for? The financially dependent or independent woman?

Winnerly:
In the past few days, your posts have become more aggressive and calculated to cause pain. What’s wrong?

I noticed you now angrily dictate instead of amicably discussing

Lidocaine:
Women dont know what they want...



One of my friends met a girl and he approach her,collected her number and called her around the evening time.

They later got talking and the girl was acting cold and uninterested in him,so he requested they meet and talk around her hostel.


When the guy went to meet the girl in the hostel her friend saw my friend and told the girl he liked my friend.

When the original girl and my friend were talking at night the same day she told the guy her friend said she liked him and that should she give him her no.

My friend being a player said yes and collected her friend number and messaged her.

The 2nd day her friend came to the guy hostel and declared her love him..

The matter now is that the original girl my friend went to meet has begin to give him greenlight telling him she liked him and asking why he messaged his friend..


Right Now Both the girls are trying to get his attention...

Pre-selection at work

Emotionss:
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Being alone in a club or party is actually not the problem/issue. The issue is your Frame.

Having the Right Frame A.k.a Aura will make everyone in that club/party fooling themselves just to get your attention.

The introverted Alpha A.k.a sigma have a higher success rate with women and people in general being a lone wolf than the extroverted Alphas.

So being Alone in a club/party is not the issue. Your Frame is.

Rest

Kellzzyy:
How can a grown man approach 40 girls in a week?
You approach a whooping 40 girls just for the hope that at least 2 girls will give you their number?
Redpill or not, this is bothering on pure idiocy.

Like I don't understand why I'll leave my work, leave focusing on myself just to focus on approaching any hot girl I see.

The pure truth is that cold approach is the genesis of simping. Because you've already pedestalised her. And you better continue to pedestalise her if you want that pussy. Can you now see the foolery?

We always talk here about how gaining control over sexual urges is the best way for a man to escape the many troubles of this life.
Yet you want to approach any hot girl you see. Where then is the sexual control? Why on earth will I approach 40 girls in a week? Am I that jobless and pussy whipped?

First off, I gave that number as an example to buttress the point of cold approach landing more body counts.
Even the greatest players of all time cold approach regularly. But you and ubúnja will come here and claim they're not redpilled for doing that. Just because you consider it a waste of time doesn't mean it is that to others.
I have said it before that cold approach is not just for the sake of sex. But your thinking is too shallow to get it. For example, people in marketing do it every time.
Someone who is very extroverted will have no problem talking to 10 new people every day and still be productive in his life.
No one is forcing you to cold approach -- you probably sh1t your pants when you try. Just don't think you are more redpilled or better than those who choose to do it.

ubunja:
you're out of your league on this one. Maybe you need to sit this one out and take notes.

First of all: Greenlights by a girl = a girl cold approaching you.

It's one and the same thing.

I've given you a starting point. Connect the rest of the dots yourself.

LOL. I clearly disagree. But I have no interest in arguing further.

ubunja:
dude,, getting numbers and chatting for hours with girls is not body count.

And who said anything about that being body counts?

The fact is, generally, guys who cold approach get laid more than guys who wait for signals.

It's common sense.... Unless you have proven facts to disprove it.

Most of the cold approaching guys might be simping. But that's not what's in debate here.
Who gets more pvssy, regardless of the quality, is what I'm talking about.

If a guy approaches 40 chics in a week, there's a good chance of him hitting at least 2 of them. While the same guy might not be able to get with one girl in a week, because he hasn't gotten any new greenlight that week.

All in all, I'm not saying cold approach is better -- I prefer hot approach. I'm saying, it's wise to be able to combine and balance both cold and hot approach.

darkelf:
Bros, you dey talk like say if them avoid you for the party, then your life don finish be that

Let them avoid me na. I will never cold approach any woman in this life till I die. If I end up single, then so be it.

More time and resources to spend on things that matter

There is no sense in what you just wrote, because the instance I gave is in a party. You're meant to socialize in a party. If you didn't want to do that, why were you there in the first place? So, if you're in such a situation, you would just stay on your own and be looking at people partying? Why not sit in your house then?

The problem with some of you is you're taking this cold approach thing too seriously. Have fun. As far as I'm concerned, it's no big deal. Just approach and talk to a girl like a friend and see where it leads.
When I network, I don't talk to guys only, I talk to girls too, because sometimes they can even link you up to some opportunities that guys can't. Cold approach is not only for sex. Most times, you just do it and see where it leads -- sex or some other thing of benefit.
In fact, there are situations that you would find yourself in where you would have no choice but to do this cold approach. Unless, of course, you are scared.

I'm done.

ubunja:
the question you need to ask is HOW DO WOMEN COLD APPROACH

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How do women cold approach?

And no,, cold approaching doesn't raise body count.

Guy A does cold approach. Guy B waits for a chance at Hot Approach.

You seriously think, in a year, Guy B would have more body counts than Guy A?

Smartb0y:
Bro, this your statistics dey fear me o!.

That's why we talk about green lights. You obviously haven't mastered it.

Women will never directly approach you.

Stop dreaming

Giving greenlight is totally different from Cold approaching...... A girl giving greenlight is different from if she is cold approaching. Cold approaching is direct. This is something over 90% of women will never do because they don't have the balls, so they resort to giving greenlights. And that's fine.

Don't know what you talking about. Green light has more to do with hot approach. Guys see the light and hot approach. Thanks


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Actually, I'm reading your post again and I realize you're only just reiterating what I said, so I see no sense in saying I'm dreaming, because I never said women will directly approach you. I said they won't. You repeated the same thing.

For instance, you go to a party where you hardly know anyone but your friend who invited you. During the party, your friend goes away to chill with his babe, leaving you all by yourself. Meanwhile, you've sighted a number of hot bannies in the party. What will you do?
Will you sit there all by yourself waiting to be chosen? Chances are, if you're not with someone, you will be avoided.
You will have to simply socialize by cold approaching one of those bannies first. From there, if you're cool, other chics will start noticing you and start giving you signals which will then lead to hot approach.

So, you see? Men should find a way to balance doing both cold and hot approach.

PS: in order not to get burnt, cold approach should not be taken seriously.

ubunja:
leave cold approaching to women.

Over 90% of women don't even have the balls to cold approach guys. So, I see nothing wrong in guys doing it, provided they don't kiss ass while at it. I believe it's mostly for fun though.

Do you know that if most guys quit cold approach, their body count would drastically reduce? They would be greatly limiting themselves to opportunities.
So, it's important that we find a way to balance doing both cold and hot approach concurrently and within the available time.

Kellzzyy:
This is the plain truth.
Cold approach is nothing but pedestalising women.
It is from here that entitlement mentality springs up. This is the very root of it all.
It doesn't make any sense at all.

Why go through the stress of cold approach when you can invest in yourself - physically, mentally, financially - and see them begin to gradually revolve around you, then as the chosen one, things get easier for you.

Only lack of sexual control will make a redpill guy decide to cold-approach a seemingly hot lady.
She looks so hot and irresistible, you then decide to pedestalise her by walking up to her and toasting. Really, is she the only hot girl you've ever met?
Anybody who HOLISTICALLY invests in himself well enough will get chosen by even the so-called hot girls, sooner or later.

Well, cold approaching a woman is not automatically pedestalising her. What you say to her is what determines whether or not you're pedestalising her.
We are humans, as such, get attracted to one another. What's the point of being in self-denial? If you go out and, somewhere, you see a lady that catches your eye, feel free to go and talk to her if you're in the mood, instead of eyeing her from afar waiting for her to choose you, a stranger (which rarely happens).
For instance, there is nothing wrong with walking up to an attractive lady and telling her "we should get to know eachother". If she says no, you move on. You haven't pedastalised her. You were just being sociable. We are social beings, so we should feel free to interact with whoever we want without considering it as a big deal.

However, there is a time and place for cold approach. There is also a time and place for hot approach.

Cold approaches are for times when and places where you're not really known. Hot approaches are for times when and places where You are known.
Either of the two situations you find yourself in should determine the approach to be used.

posty56:
From greenwoods mother herself, yet emotional niggas here will be crying more than the beraved, , I am not pro greenwood or anti greenwood, I am just telling you there's is evidence, if you like carry the thing for head like gala I no go answer you

From Greenwood's mother herself? Is that his mother?

Kellzzyy:
This...

So, this means she is not filing any charges against him?

dhiqson:
.gee
You're wise
See ehn if there's anything redpill has taught me is not to be manipulated, always put logic first
Now what people don't know is that it was role play, but it went overboard but she came out like he abused her

What's the source of this screenshot?

heartofcity12:
Sorry to say, this is what you’ll get with most hot Nigerian girls these days. I’ve been in such scenarios myself few times, they’re used to being pedestalized and getting rewards for their attention due to the excess simps we have in the society. This is where your redpill frame get really tested. They expect you to simp or pay for sex even when they’re feeling you, else nothing for you. This is why some guys simply sell them the dream just to get them laid and ghost them after but I personally don’t like that idea and I doubt if that even goes well with the redpill.

That's Machiavellianism, which is a sect of trp lifestyle.

Martinez39s:
So far, he hasn't said anything.

Too bad

ibkonekt:
He has a lawyer, his lawyer will advice him on the best course of action. Also as a man no matter what he says on social media he will be demonized for it. Only a judge can redeem him from the mob of simps that is society

I guess so.

I know whatever he says on social media will not change the mind of most people. Regardless, I just wish he came out and denied the allegations, so that some of us can really give him the benefit of the doubt on whether he did it or not. Currently, he seems surely guilty, but if he at least refutes the claims, some people would start rethinking.

Martinez39s:
Any experienced man with common sense, a redpiller at that, wouldn't declare Mason guilty because of a short audio and a video that shows she is bruised. The audio, even if it is Mason's voice, could have been taken out of context. It could have even been someone else with a voice like Mason; maybey she paid that person or lured him into it using pussy power without him knowing (you know how stupid simps can be).

If truly we redpillers have learnt anything and we are not naive, we would keep our fingers crossed until full investigation is carried out. Never underestimate human deception, especially that of a woman, and its extent. I am not saying Mason is innocent, but I am aware that the allegations could be false and he is entitled to the presumption of innocent until guilt is proved.

What I want to know now is what mason has said. Has he come out to refute the allegations? Kindly post a link to where all these is going on so that I can follow up

sajmark:
Lol, field report from the boss himself.
I've made up my mind to stop wooing/asking girls out for two reasons:
1. I've lost interest in having serious relationships with women (which makes focusing on one's goals a lot easier)
2. IT GREATLY ELIMINATES APPROACH ANXIETY: It's easy for a guy to walk up to a super hot banker to lay a complaint but will find it extremely difficult to approach the same banker if he wants to WOO her. I believe that replacing WOO with FLIRT while approaching will help a lot of men to become better at approaching women.

I want to be all about approaching, building a good rapport and start flirting ASAP... No more boyfriend and girlfriend.
I have a guy that lives his life that way, he gets free s3x, food and even money from a lot of girls without giving away any of his resources in return.

Happy New Week Kings.

Damn. He is living the life.
Invite him here to teach us his ways. Perhaps even create a thread for it

Omicron007:
Let's have a quick one here.

Mine is Indomie.

I love noodles a lot. I'm still in my early twenties but I don't think I'll ever get tired of eating noodles.

Noodles must be on the menu of meals prepared in paradise

You must be Naruto

Martinez39s:
I didn't see or reply to this emboldened part as you later added while I was typing my first reply. Don't get me wrong, if we are to separate lightwáy's post from the context of the discussion, the childish intent underlying his post, and the behavioural patterns he/she has exhibited, and judge the post independently, I would have no issues with his post and those that support it. What I am against are childish games and the misrepresentation of people here.

Before people here, I included, knew lightwáy was troll, they used to reply him. Even I wrote an "epistle" responding to his inquiry and arguments. NO! Nasri100 didn't know lightwáy was an established troll and he saw the stupidity of lightwáy's post for what it was and decided to call him out and put him on a blast. It doesn't mean he was triggered or against the message of making money and building one's self. Fortunately, he later paid heed to Ubunja's words and ignored the troll.

@red
A lot of people here have since known that lightwáy is troll, a good one. It's not today that we knew.

Alright

Martinez39s:
Nobody gets triggered here when you ask him to make money or focus on money. Everyone here agrees that one should build one's self. Highest, all you have is someone who directs people to the business section (and other relevant sections) when they insist we stop discussing female nature and start discussing business and financial plans.

The post that the troll was "quoting" never said anyone should be poor. The post simply pointed out something; nothing more, nothing less. It's everyone's duty to properly dissect what they read instead of hastily going along with superficial and spurious impressions. Finally, let's be careful not to fortify the madness of a troll.

I am one of those who always advocate for guys to take talks on how to make money to the business section. However, there are times when, in the course of a discussion here, someone would raise that it is important to make money. This often triggered some guys to resort to insults, because they felt attacked.
That's exactly what just happened now between those two guys. Dissect it whichever way you like. There's nothing wrong with telling someone to build himself. It insinuates nothing about the person, unless the person is insecure.
I won't classify lightwáy as a troll yet, because he is no different from jeshàl/démzee.... The message before the messenger.


I don't see anything wrong in the screenshot below, except that it's triggering. It might be uncomfortable, but I agree with him.
If I were to choose between these two options, I would rather be a rich simp than be a broke-ass redpiller. Simple.

If I were to choose between being Jeff bezos or a nobody redpiller, I would choose Jeff without flinching, eventhough I would be a big ass simp. Poverty is worse than simping. Simping is better than poverty.

This is what I make of his post.


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I see that you're saying he quoted the guy out of context. LOL.... I went back to see the original post and screenshot being referred to. .... That doesn't look like poverty. But I get what he was trying to say, and I wouldn't get triggered by what he said, but interprete it the way I just did in this post. I would say it's just a misunderstanding, but you seem to have established him as a troll already.

Thanks.

luminouz:
Ronaldo wants to marry that his Georgina gf!!!


I was so afraid this would happen when he started buying her all those expensive shiits!!!

I guess I would cross my fingers and hope for the best and maybe,just maybe,she would turn out to be a unicorn...


His career is dwindling...retirement is imminent...and these footballers women always seem to use this period to cashout.

Well, I know she won't divorce him any time soon if he marries her, because there is no, and won't be, a better option to move on to at the moment. Maybe later when they start aging like bill and Melinda.
Even if Ronaldo retires now, he is a legend already and will be making even more money from brands. He is not the same as other players. The most followers on Instagram. He and Messi have made themselves immortal.
So, she will wait because there's still a lot more to absorb from him even when his football career ends

Lightway:
I rather spend my money to Bleep hoes and still be reach, than live in poverty and get them for free...

At least when medical expenses arise I can keep myself alive.

Keep in mind that a rich simp is 100% better than a poor redpiller...

Always look forward to build yourself.

Though I do not like this moniker, I agree with this post.
A lot of guys here seem to be triggered when they are told to make money.
At the end of the day, if you fall sick and incur outrageous hospital bills, no amount of understanding of female nature will save you.

kenzysmith:
1. Going to brothel
2. Playing bet9ja virtual
3. Smoking weed



I will gladly choose number 3

If I'm forced, I will choose number 2. It will kill you a little slower than the other 2.

Zabiboy:
Some self-dev tips tho

1) sadly, majority of nigerians lack creativity.
Note: Intelligence is not creativity and i'll pick creativity over intelligence.. Reason why you see one person start a business idea and BOOM 90 others with little or no knowledge join..
Please guys, let's try to improve our creativity.
2) Information is worth more than money.this is debatable, but i'll pick information over money. So if grinding for some $$ isnt working as expected, grind for information..
3) i'm not a religious guy, but i just have this feeling that most of the opportunities i got that took me far was as a result of those i helped( especially those i dont know). I could be wrong tho, but i'm sure helping others pays.

How do you grind for information?

sajmark:
You're actually on track, but CUTE is kind of off topic.

It's not. It's a date, isn't it? You don't have to respond directly to what she said. If you do that, there's a big chance of failing. Most guys would go on the defensive or offensive. And doing either of the two is failure.
If you observe smooth guys, you'll notice that they respond to all questions but don't answer all questions.
I could even respond to what she said with something that makes no cognitive meaning just to show that I don't give a fvck what she thinks....
That said, Like I said initially, what is being tested with that statement is the man's confidence in himself -- his looks. So, you can use whatever topic you like to convey that confidence.