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Guys, allow me to ask you this question.

Please, give your own answer:

If you're married or assuming you were married and a man, for no reason, insults your wife in your face, what would you do?

sajmark:
Hahahaha, I guess some of us are too quick to use the word SIMP (maybe because it feels good using it on peeps ).
You faulted Chris Rock for joking on Jada's med condition, I wanted to reply you cuz I didn't fully agree with you but that doesn't make you a SIMP in my opinion.
It is always better to be chosen but I support guys approaching women too, and if anyone tags me a simp for that then we might need to review the word SIMP after all.

Many guys here get triggered when you say something that doesn't criticise a woman. So much for being redpilled... .... If what you're saying is not condemning a woman, then it's blue-pilled.

My opinion on the matter is personal. It has nothing to do with whether it's a woman or not. Because I put myself in her position. If someone uses me to make a joke and I find it offensive, they are wrong. It doesn't matter if some other people have been made fun of in the same way. End of discussion.

But it's okay if anyone disagrees. I personally would not fake laughter if someone uses me to crack a joke I'm not cool with.

Anyway, we all agree that Will messed up big time.

sajmark:
Chris Rock did nothing wrong, Dave Chappelle is even more intense on joking about sensitive aspects of people's lives... Comedy and emotions don't go hand in hand, that was why Will Smith laughed at first before he was drawn into his wives emotional frame.

At the bolded; How is your cold approaching spree going?

You will soon be tagged a simp for posting this. You're meant to ONLY wait and be chosen. Cold approach is for losers.

Alexgeneration:
Majority of men are bald and when people joke about it, nobody is hurt.So, why is it different when a woman is bald?

This is a very dumb question. I hope you're not a teenager, because then I'd probably be wasting my time responding to this post.

A man and a woman are not the same.

In terms of aesthetics, the hair doesn't really matter to a man. But it matters a lot to women. This is common sense.

Alopecia is just the medical name for BALDNESS but you woke people will make it seem like it's a medical condition cos it's a woman that's involved.

It's a medical condition, whether or not a woman is involved. There are different types of alopecia. Though the most common one is the usual baldness we see.

Don't you ever try to suggest that Chris was wrong for making a joke. Obasanjo was called Gorilla, Jonathan's wife, Oshiomole, Aki and Pawpaw, Tuface, Buhari etc have been used for a joke and nothing happened to anyone.

Say what you want. But best believe that if Chris knew it was sensitive to her, he wouldn't have said it.
As far as I'm concerned, making fun of someone, man or woman, to make a joke is not always cool. It can be risky in fact. And there have been few cases where it landed the Joker in serious trouble. This one just happen to have happened on live TV for all to see.
During my undergraduate days, a cultist once came and mercilessly beat up and injured some of my hostel mates, because he thought they were making jokes about him and his mum.

Please, don't drop this bluepill BS in this thread again cos we don't tolerate it here.

And what are you gonna do if I flood the thread with blue-pilled BS? . You don't get it doesn't make it Blue-pilled. Clear the rage in your head. It's not everytime you must bash the female folks. It's not always Man Vs woman. It's some times just people Vs people.
If you're not able to do this, you will be incapable of making unbiased conclusions in cases such as this.

After reading your last paragraph, I figured you weren't worth a response. But then I had free time on my hands.

Don't expect any further response from me.

Thanks.

luminouz:
Your first paragraph about her alopecia maybe something Chris doesn't know. Even if he does, alopecia is not a life threatening condition like cancer..and these comedians still make jokes about cancer patients. Their motive is not to belittle anyone but to see humor even in dire situations.
You think this will stop comedians like Martin Lawrence, Eddie Murphy or Eddie Griffin from making jokes about her hair? Of course not!!! He just increased the jokes now.

I don't know why he feels he has to fight for her in every darn thing. She came out with entanglement, he said it was love. Now this, and he said it was love...crying and all. I know he is an actor but I think he is going through some really tough emotional shiit, because of her. She doesn't treat him right.

I could be wrong though

I agree.

Lightway:
Will Smith laughed at the joke and only reacted because Jada didn't laugh

He laughed doesn't mean he was cool with it. But yes, Jada's facial expression most likely triggered him to react the way he did.

luminouz:
I read he was even laughing at the joke till he saw that Jada was rolling her eyes or something. Then , he stood up to slap Chris Rock.

I didn't expect that from him. I don't even know what to say because I like him as an actor. But his version of a man is just not the type i fuq with. Many women would have worshipped him, why stay with one that still cherishes the memory of Tupac?

She has alopecia. Chris shouldn't have made that joke of her bald head.
Regardless, Will should have kept his cool instead of ruining the show.
The truth is any man in that position would feel annoyed. You can't just laugh off an offensive insult at your woman when she's with you. If you do that, she won't feel safe when with you. This is understandable. (I am saying this without being judgemental of Jada).
However, Will's actions stemmed from a place of emotional weakness, not strength.
Going all the way to slap Chris on stage and shouting "keep my wifes name out your fvcking mouth" was an emotional outburst that isn't commendable of a man.
His wife sat there calm, while he was getting all worked up and emotional. Not up to an hour later when he won an award and was giving a speech, he started crying and trying to justify his actions. He even said, "the things you do for love", while teary eyed, obviously referring to the slap. ...
I feel sorry for him though.
He needs thorough therapy.

luminouz:
My brother, I dare not!!

Biitches plenty for NL wey I don show shege

Alright

luminouz:
I have many enemies on NL. I would have posted screenshots but I can't be using alternates to do that shiit.

My rule is simple: If you wanna fuq a woman, fuq her till her toes curl, her moans hurl and her heart churl. Do it so good, you become permanently imprinted on her psyche.

You my brother, did it good. Sit back and let her take care of you.

Post screenshots jarey.... Sensor the names. We go manage am

DieRich5:
men should not force any chat on dem nd try to read the vibe, if there is no connection pls move on....
I don't like wasting my time on shit for real

Lmao

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i926:
Guy! Guy!! Guy!!! Why?

You fvcked up first by allowing her choose the venue for the date. Never make that mistake again. You make the rules remember. If your next date insists, use "I have been there couple of times...I don't like the pace much. I have a new place I've been trying to check out"

Always keep the date simple & cheap. Don't try to go above 3k next time. If she's worth going all expensive, do that on the 5th date, after you must have gained a lot from her.

Nice. What can 3k buy though?

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Sapy442:
Hey Fellas..
There's this thing I want to learn "How not to be judgmental with women". How I can be open minded with women and get them to be free around me. In my line of work I meet a lot of Hòes and runs girls and I noticed they are not very free with me, even though I don't judge them by saying anything,cos I don't talk much naturally yet they seem not be free with me and I end up losing them as my clients.
So fellow brothers in TRP How can I get women to be open with me, and not feel judged when they're around me

This is a very good question. I have noticed too that if youre the type that rarely talks and hang around them, these hoes get very insecure and think you're judging them. It's not a good "place" to be in since you would be kept in the dark a lot.

The solution is to put up a Machiavellian show. Chat with them about those things you know they are insecure about and make them see that you're cool with it. If you keep quiet and don't talk about those things, they would naturally feel you're judging them. Make a few "friends" among them. When the others see this, they too would begin to loosen up around you. You're only doing this because it's necessary for business.
The test here for you would be maintaining frame while you do this.

My 2 cents.

JESHAL:
Women run the manipulation game twenty-four-seven where they can. Female nature doesn't take a rest. The realms of relationship/marriage, or any other man-woman relation, is a game to a woman. A game of power, leverage, control, and maximum extraction of resources from a man. Because men, being idealistic lovers, don't see it as a game doesn't mean women don't see it as a game. The game is played by women with or without your knowledge.


#MGTOW

Thought you were a patriarch

Jessepaid:
once the pain is keeping you awake it means the tooth is mostly beyond repair..

Unless you have money to do root canal o.

If you depend on painkillers, they will stop working matter how many you take..

Go for tooth x-ray, and extraction at a private hospital.

Its more expensive but their expertise is reliable..

Them dey use people mouth dey learn work for all these govt and state hospital

You are spot on!

Guys, how true is this? Is this how most ladies see fine broke guys? Lol

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Mustiboy:
Well I had to.

You can't be backbiting someone like that

You are a Pvssy. Typical s1mp behaviour. A discussion among men should stay among men.

iamphenomenal:
There’s nothing wrong with backing down from an argument you have with your girlfriend, but there is something wrong when you continually compromise yourself in order to ‘keep the peace’ with the understanding that she’ll withhold intimacy as a result of you holding your ground. That is a power play, also known as a ‘shit test’

#The Rational Male

Sharp

temi1290:
People still categorize custard among food.

Ingredients; Corn starch, Vanilla flavor, Tartrazine.

Useless ingredients, no protein, no fiber, no vitamins

Dump custard for pap, it's not good for adults.

To think Custard is even given to kids.

Credit: The Last Knight

So, you mean custard and pap are not the same thing?

iCauseTrouble:

How do you invest your idle funds?

ubunja:
Years ago, I had this girl that fell hard for me who I used to spend a lot of time playing with her titties cause they were the perfect size and hard & firm the way I liked. She didn't even need a bra. But she badly wanted sex. Which I never gave her cause I cared about her and also I was a virgin and didn't want to try anything, (What if I failed to perform and embarrassed myself),, so I stayed just romancing her.... Until she went away for some months, and when she came back, sure we reconnected and spent time together - but guess what? Those firm titties I liked? .... Gone! She now wore a bra! when she took it off the titties drooped to the floor. Where ever it was that she went to, she had met real ones without mercy and consideration who had ravaged her body without a second thought. Slow, inexperienced and caring me was left to deal with the left overs... Never again will I make that mistake.

Skepticus:
For some career-oriented, high-achieving folks, having a legal marriage would be an advantage, though, not mandatory, as the power to grow your career/achieve your ambitions, are in the hand of blue-pilled folks who view married men positively over single men, and it doesn't matter if you have a shît-show/sham for a marriage e.g Politics at the state/federal level. The society calls it "responsible".

In some professions, it is mandatory, even if your wife is the worst woman to live with, on the planet. As I'm aware, certain ranks in the Nigerian military (for commissioned officers), can only be attained (including other factors like competence) if you are legally married. If you meet criteria of dedication and competence, and you are not married, you'll be overlooked for your target rank/qualification etc.

I've always wanted to talk about this part, directed to men who don't wish to marry nor co-habit with women. It would be a dilemma, if you are involved in this types of professions (mandatorily requiring marriage). Personal sacrifices/risks would have to be made/endured for which ever option you choose as an individuals.

Great! Thank you.

Susily:
Things like what and what will society deny you cos you're not married??

Go figure.

I'm not in the mood to type much. I'm not a marriage advocate though.

Lightway:
There is no such thing... You're a liar


No job requires marriage as a criteria

K

chikasnight:
Comrades I want to remind us all that everything you want to achieve in marriage can be achieved outside it

You mean well, however not everything. For instance, you can't get a public office outside marriage. There are some things that society would deny you of if you're not married.
That's why you see some guys getting married, not because they want to, but because they need it in order to achieve some of their goals.

sajmark:
It's okay to cook and clean when she's Dead, Divorced, Puts to bed, ill, traveled out.
But if she's around and healthy and you cook and clean for a "happy wife happy life", then you should start dressing like Bobrisky and James Brown.

You have destroyed the s1mp with this response. Thanks.

sajmark:
The first post read "niceness doesn't get you laid", the second post just added to the first one by saying niceness doesn't get you girls and it doesn't get you respect either...

Thought they were 2 separate posts

Omini247:
the second post is bullshit thats what pushed alot of naturally born redpillers without the knowledge of TRP into loosing there MEAT


No girls No Respect....Bullshit from pit of hell

"No girls, no respect"

What does that even mean?

porthouse7:
make he no just go sell am I no trust em look

That's the plan. The chain is most likely not worth anything close to that amount. He is making this claim online to inflate the value.
Men with money will certainly contact him to buy it from him. #business.....

JESHAL:
It's only wishful thinking if he decides to marry poor or average and settle with damaged hoes if he becomes a successful outlier high valued man, again we are not in liberal western societies which is totally gynocratic in it's laws and institutions, he's probably marrying in a conservative or theocratic societies where the system is still patriarchal with cultural norms and religious institutions, so it's far easier to have the frame he's talking about especially with his redpill awareness, confidence and high socio-economic status that's if he attains it

Why using more than one account on the same thread though.....