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Efizzi:
Nice one Bro. Keep doing the good work. I pray you continue to grow from glory to glory. You have something in you would continue to be exceptional.

teacherbim:
Even if he is a cleaner,kudos to him at least he did not smuggle cocaine,scam people or sell babies,God will continue to bless his work and promote him

DeRay98:
At least he has a job, that his employer has named employee of the month 2x in less than a year means that he is an asset to them and his is appreciated.
He is not lamenting like the frustrated Fayose warriors on NL, he is not a Yahoo Yahoo guy, he is not a kidnapping people for money or political thuggery yet you complain about his job. I hope you have a job?

DeRay98:
Good talk....people always finding faults in others just to make themselves feel good about themselves.

Yieldings:
Your husband has a high sex drive, which is why he wants to do it everyday. It also shows he's attracted to you, which is a good thing. It might also be his way of showing he loves you, as men aren't so good with verbalizing those words. It wouldn't be a good idea to turn him down because he might then turn to porn, masturbation and of course, other women for sex. Speak with him again and tell him you love him and want to continue making him happy daily, but that you would also like him to be doing one thing for you everyday that you need, that would also make you happy: a house chore, helping you with the kids, cooking you breakfast or dinner, giving you a massage when the kids are asleep, or whatever else you need from him that day. This way you're both doing one thing for each other everyday, even if his own is the same everyday.

RiloKiley:
Like the article said, somtimes u have to choose between being right and being happy. When we look back at some of what our parents did to us we realise that in some instances we were right and were actually punished unjustly. But because they were our parents we let it go. We took it without complaining. For the fact that the woman is older than you and your husband's mother, you can accord her that respect (and respect your husband in the process)by ignoring her and letting the matter rest. If you feel so hurt about it you can tell your husband later when u both are alone.

1bkaye:
I will respect and love him the same way he respects and loves me

GlorifiedTunde:
You're a kid



Better response.


Thanks for this response, it really saved a soul here,God bless you




The bolded noted. That's the most important starting point in marriage.

Marriage is different from Wedding. The latter is just a celebration while the former is the main thing.

So take the advice above. If you can do registry, that's OK. Just ensure you can feed up to three mouths daily and afford some comfort.

Be strict about raising a child immediately - although its not easy.

But one thing I'm sure of is that before you notice, more favour will come your way in finances, business and career because God said so. All you need is to love love your wife and take good care of her.

So weddings are mostly show offs that do not have any positive magnitude on the marriage.

I hope your fiancé is mature enough to accept that. Not like that fake childish girl commenting up there.

samhay:
OK
Hallelujah

samhay:
Abi na, but wait,this 1 u reach here hope its nt anoda digging sturv

samhay:
No,a corpse washer

nonjebose:
You can lie o, sister.

buharisbae:
What's the bragging here

That's what broke niggas like u say to satisfy themselves change ur poverty mentality