CondemnBattery:
So I saw a thread earlier, and decided to educate husbands in the house how to play the home politics, just as adviced by my pastor's wife.

My pastor's wife thought me a valuable lesson. She legitly told us to be smart as husbands, when the kids did something wrong in your absence and your wife did not discipline the child, but waits for you to come back and discipline them, don't. Make sure she disciplines them herself, otherwise your kids will think you are the wicked one and the evil one.

Don't always give your wife all the money to buy things for the kids, take the children out to the market, buy them clothes, take them to the grocery store, buy the provision in their present. Let them know you are the one buying them. If you buy them shoes or anything, make sure they are aware that you are the one buying them. If you do all these, the kids will love you more. This is 2022, don't allow your wife rob you of your years of labor when it's time to reap.

You can add your own way of playing the family politics.

Please if this is front page worthy, kindly move to fp, so men can learn 1 or 2 this new year.

May our wives not take all our glory all in the name of I'm too busy in Jesus name. Amen

My siblings are more fond of my mom not because of any of the above... As a matter of fact, MY DAD HAS ONLY BEATEN ME ONCE n HE USED TWO OF HIS FINGERS, my mum on the other hand will make sure u take few minutes to remove brooms from ur body when she's Tru dealing with u.
Why are we still more fond of her than him? She will do everything legal n Godly to make sure everyone in the family is alright. Dad on the other hand was the opposite - he'll never inconvenient himself (for anyone other than himself) even if it involves his basic responsibilities....

Now tell me why we the children will not give more to our mom than him?

fvck:
So I came on nairaland to seek for advice, link below....

https://www.nairaland.com/6795325/too-fast-defining-relationship

And I got insulted that I wanted to marry a lady I met within a month, well its months now and guess what?

She's all over me, all loving and always wanting to spend her time with me, calls me every now and then, cos initially since she declined I gave her some yards, I didn't want to be around her so I wouldn't scare the next lady coming on board, seems I got so blessed with more pretty ladies coming around me that she no longer appeals to my eyes like before.

But now she is all over me, pls what do ladies really want?

My advice, give her some space, let her know you are giving her that space cause just like you, you want her to be sure of her feelings before accepting to continue....

People often despice what de av n want what they dont have esp in a case of human-human relationship whr de use to have/easily have the person but he/she suddenly or intentionally loses interest in em, our curious mind wants to know what changed thereby bringing abt a scenario like urs. U did well limiting ur availability after she gave u her initial response. However, at this point, make sure she really knows what she wants n sees those qualities in you b4 u continue(u obviously r serious n want to settle) else u could get hurt later when some of d emotions she's currently feeln dies down.

Best of luck!

TenQ:

She didnt report you o!
Please dont get her wrong.

Let me break it down for you.
1. The husband came back from his journey
2. The wife decided to tell him that the food money was not adequate
3. If not because you gave her a bottle of oil, the money wouldnt have been enough.
4. She didn't know it would boomerang
5. In the process of redressing the situation, she then spoke the whole truth.
6. The truth inflamed your brother the more

She was as guilty of the offence as you Bro!
The only difference is that she is high above you in hierarchy (she's a wife)
Pickup yourself and move on

This was exactly my point in my post earlier. The only reason why I had reservation abt it all is that he already said she was a wicked wife, so yeah, that's a problem n she betrayed him aswell by using d oil thing to demand for more from her husband (if dt was d case).


On the other side, she won't be stupid enough to want to cause a serious rancor btw her husband n a younger sibling who will soon graduate from sch. n leave their town with a high probability of making it like her hubby or surpass him self.... (Most people wl look into stuffs like ds b4 de mk some choices, except de r stupid).


Like a number of people pointed out here, I feel d elder bro is wrong to be flaming up n down(altho he has rights to, he shd however also see tinz from his younger bros perspective irrespective of what he was told or at least ask him why he did what he did)

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Reading his post made me unhappy cause I really wld love to gv him something bt av gone beyond my budget ATM... + while he said the bro's wife doesn't like him, she might have told him what transpired btw em to have the bro send her some money(still doesn't justify her act of BETRAYAL but we know most women take advantage of situations to drive home their point).

Thank you(& ur friends) so much for reaching out to him. More Blessings.

ItCanOnlyBeGod:
This has made me see that God doesn't have to go about proving His existence or Power to people who doubt Him. It's even belittling of Him.

This right here is Gold!


Congratulations. Affliction shall not rise again.

...and thank you for sharing your testimony, I was blessed by it.

majorbravo:
My question is, why didn’t they transfer the pastors from the villages to the city instead of sacking them?

If you anointed them as pastors who you believe have the fear of God in them. Why not transfer them to where they can succeed in soul winning and then send the city pastors to rural areas in their place?

Why sack an anointed who has not committed any sin?

Alot of people have said funny things here including your comment. I wl reply ur questions in a bit.... Now what most people don't know is d unruly attitude of some of this new pastors, I am a winners member n 3 among some of this new pastors under our station (branch whr I worship) might also be sacked for reasons such as embezzlement n absenteeism (1 of em collected over 400k 4 land n disappeared), two others only go for Sunday services in their respective stations when it's convenient. They have all been queried and haven't changed, when they are sacked, they will use the same template (letter), if any of em go to social media to cry, de will not tell u what de did wrong bt say wt suits their narrative.

What should the church do? Instead of using the word "unfruitful" which entails absenteeism, misconduct, embezzlement, Little to no evangelism, lack of growth etc, - the church can be more direct by stating what de did wrong in each one's case cos I know de would av received queries b4 d sack.


Now to ur question: Been sacked by winners doesn't invalidate their calling, nobody was there whn God called em, so de can go open their ministry, become evangelist, try other ministries etc.

Secondly, u want d city Pastors transferred to villages n village pastors moved to cities? Trust me while d city Pastors WL definitely be productive in d villages, d village pastors might end up scattering d city churches 4 obvious reasons. May I ask u a question, will u becos u love ur 3 yrs old son gv him d key to 1 of ur cars to drive himself to school? Or tell him not to try standing up when he's less than a year old simply because each time he stands he falls n hit his bum on d hard floor? U see, ds pastors in d cities av also at a time paid their dues by pastoring village churches, u won't expect ur junior to come handle ur organizations headquarters while u d manager is expected to function from a village. No one does that.


My personal opinion abt ds is dt people shd not become pastors simply becos they r jobless or because people feel de fit d description, no, bt instead de shd make sure de r called, also make sure ur calling is into full-time ministry. Personally, I av turned down atleast 3 people who feel my way of life..... suits d work of d ministry(including a pastor). But I know I av no such calling. If u can't stand d heat, mk sure u r not inside d kitchen.

kahal29:


Hatred won't allow you see it. Go to the website they gave

https://joinnigeriannavy.com/successful-candidates/

Just checked the site and saw list(s) (in 2 badges), nothing about supplementary list was recorded there - which was what Sahara reported. Make em upload d supplement too.

May God Rest His Soul

Way to go! This are the kind of progressive news we are interested in seeing in Nigeria.

jclassiq:


And so what? Does it necessarily have to be so elaborate What are they putting inside it that will bring people closer to God? Is it about structures How many people sef do find their way to that place on a regular Sunday?

We need to examine our intents and actions really. God is not mocked.

Most of you speak ignorantly yet make it look as though you know what you are talking about.

For your info., Faith tabernacle holds at least 4 services every Sunday inspite of the 50k sanctuary and overflows running to 10s of thousands. Technically, even the 100k sanctuary won't be enough by the time they are through building it. So, where is the excesses here? And if people don't go to church on Sundays, who and who de fill each of the services on Sundays?

Kazim88:
Nigerians are anti-religion by default.

Nobody is seeing in practical sense that he his investing locally, that this investment will attract religious tourism to Ota and it's environment as similar to Synagogue, Mecca etc.
This construction will creat massive employment and prosperity for local labour and suppliers.


For those saying share 1,000,000 to 160,000 people... Within 2 months the money would locate the true owners, Capitalist and real business people because it's a known fact that unearned money have no intrinsic value.

You dey mind some of them? They currently hold four services every Sunday in the current 50k+ auditorium - meaning by the time they are done with this, it will still not be enough (wch is y d article here said something abt converting d current 50k auditorium to overflow) but atleast the number of services might be reduced to two until they need to increase the number of services again. Where in the Bible did Jesus oppose building church auditorium? Did d Bible 4bid pastors n non - paid/paid church workers frm resting?(d auditorium WL see 2 dt tru reduction in the number of services). Some of them just saying trash without been logical.


The church is marching on. I am a Winners' member BTW.

aremuforlife:
There is a random jihadis going on in the northern part of the country. There mission is the same with bokoharam, but they are using different methods, in other to force the state to close all western education in the north.

About closing schools? A friend who is a teacher in one of their Sec. Schs. in Niger state told me they were going on two weeks break starting today - he cited insecurity as the reason.

God Help this Nation!

VBCampaign:
Oyedepo’s Statement, Daddy Freeze’s Errors and Ibiyeomie’s Threat


1. Oyedepo, in spite of his heresies on the Prosperity Gospel, knows these truths because he has some orthodoxy in him that can be traced back to some old school Christianity that our nation had once known.

2. Financial prosperity is not proof that God is in something; if not, the very errors that we are condemning in David Oyedepo, where he gives the impressions that gain is godliness, is the very error Freeze is propagating too.

He did well explaining d chapter to those who don't read their Bibles or don't engage the Holy spirit when they do, making it look like they are reading stories.

I can't but notice his subtle way of throwing jabs as quoted above. My question is isn't the same God who is prosperous the most righteous? Are the Streets of Heaven not platted in gold anymore as recorded in scriptures? In the Kingdom, u can't be wealthy n not be righteous - this was clearly demonstrated on the cross when God had to take his eyes off his son cos he bore the sin of the world. Am I saying every wealthy "christian" is righteous? No, but a righteous God will never bless n preserve the blessings of one who isn't first righteous. There's nothing wrong with preaching prosperity. God Himself gave us different gifts/ministries. The only time preaching prosperity becomes a problem is when it's preached in isolation without salvation etc, fortunately, winners doesn't only preach prosperity but also righteousness, salvation, healing etc(It may interest you to know the theme of the month of September is Godliness is profitable to all things. 1st Tim 4vs8.)

Mr Deji shd know righteousness is never a state of sinlessness,(for all have sinned n come short of God's Glory and Our righteousness is like a filthy rag before Him. Romans 3vs23 and Isaiah 64vs6) but a crave to please God - via genuine repentance each time we err. This we do with d consciousness of not continuing in sin n expect Grace to remain.

Lastly, just last Friday 4 some odd reasons I tot of freeze, I was surprised I did n had to ask myself why? The first n only thing my spirit told me was that he was a sponsored agent. Checked online yesterday n noticed stories involving him flying up n down.

May our parts be continually guided by the Holy Spirit.

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See Creativity! Love some of the designs.

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buhariguy:
this kind of rigging is diff from what p.os in charge of transmitting result promise thief atiku, that is why thief atiku is stil confident that result get to inec server, not knowing he was scam as a thief as he is. Pdp is know for election rigging.

Dude bye bye. You are obviously one of the BMCs or someone too sentimental to av me engage em in a chat.

gtown:

It is like only you transmitted the result to INEC Server. I am saying this because I participated as an electoral officer too, but neither there was anything like transmiting results using the card reader to a server somewhere, nor any instruction to that effect. We manually sent the results and it was the practice throughout. So I wonder which server you transmitted your own result to.

Gtown I don't remember quoting u or u quoting me on this thread until now so I will assume u r using more than one accounts or u quoted the wrong person cos u made it look like we had a discussion going on. That's BTW.


Secondly, what do you mean by nothing like transmitting result or Manuel sending? Of course everyone manually typed what was recorded physically n since we don't vote on the card reader, we sent it to a server - which is obviously not urs or mine, but INEC's. Mind you, sending the results needs network after typing d details into d card reader so which English u dey try use take confuse urself again?

Plus, what is the process called?

buhariguy:
is becos of something like this that make inec to opt-out from electronic transmit of result, becos thief atiku and pdp has already planted p.os to transmit wrong figure, that means the p.os scam thief atiku, if not, why wil returning officers announce diff result from the one from inec server, also remember that we were getting the same result from party agent in each poling unit which tally with ward collation center up to abuja collation center.

Guy.... APC, INEC, You, Atiku, Buhari & PDP fit go talk that one for court.

About POs taking bribes, talk wetin u knw! I for 1 didn't collect a rigging penny from anybody or do anything outside what INEC asked POs or d APOs under me to do. Even during governorship when we heard d pdp candidate didn't contest in one of d northern states n i was promised N100k to allow em rig since no PDP agent was around owing to the fact that there candidate stepped down, I didn't. It almost caused gbege but since I understand Hausa n relatively popular in the town owing to something my CDS group in conjunction with an NGO was able to do for d town. Em gaz maintain ni!


So no be every PO collect money to rig or collect money at all.

Just Let Him Know U Know He's Been Living a Lie With You All Along. Forgive & Move On. His Conscience (If he stl has any) and Karma Will Do The Rest.
Make She Nor Send Madness To Am Biko.


The sad thing is if she's someone who trusts wholeheartedly n loves very deeply, the poo go affect her love life.

#Shit Happens. I Hope She Can Forgive Herself And Move On.

#See me advising someone not on Nairaland.

buhariguy:
were you there when he transmitted the wrong result, becos in edo for example, the total votes has never exceeded 500,000 since 1999.., but al cameroon thief atiku said the server gave him 687,000 and gave buhari 84,000, even gej an incumbent from the same SS got 280,000 while buhari got 220,000 in 2015. So who transmitted the fake result?

Wetin concern wetin I type with the authenticity of the results? I just de clear the guy say e collation was undertaken n results sent to INEC server.... INEC was wrong to av denied the electronic transmission of results.... Too many witnesses.

About the results been fake or not, I can not tell as na wetin dey paper my PU n d Guy weh dey my VP send. Let INEC counter Atiku's figure with d Original thing in their server.


But Las Las, at ds point whether de agree a data exists(cos it shd since it was sent) or not, plenty non sentimental Nigerians don already dey suspect fowl play.

Rollitout:
This is to embarrase the low quality of cloth being bought for the occasion.

Owambe Republican!!! I sight you.

olajizz01:
But Inec and inec chairman through their lawyer said there was no any server meant for election results in their office and the results was not transmitted electronically.

The Joke is on em.... Negative side effects of smoking Sambisa weed I suppose.

Stakeholders:


Mr presiding officer, your transmission did not go beyond ractech that's registration area centre technical officer

I doubt what u just typed. To start with, INEC claimed nothing was transmitted electronically, now haven countered that with many witnesses of d existence of an electronically sent data u r coming up with this yeye defense again.


My polling Unit which had a voting point was our RAC centre n we had the main rack officer with us most of the time during the election, his deputies where d ones who did most of the running around. He insisted he wanted everything sent bcoz INEC Headquarters Abj will be expecting.
He might av lied about the Abuja thing, but I doubt he ever did, u may be the 1 telling lies to cover d truth outa sentiments.

olajizz01:
Against the Nigeria constitution of course to transmit election results electronically, there server is just to take record of voters data not election results.

Not True. I was priviledged to be a P.O as a serving corp member in the 2019 general elections. INEC's database takes record of voters and de also have a data base where everything compiled by the adhoc staffs physically is expected to be filled on the smart card reader and sent to INEC.

I don't knw if sending election results electronically is constitutional or not but I know INEC insisted we sent those results by the end of every election. If de said nothing like that exists or was undertaken then de must be high on Sambisa weed (Dt weed nor dey clear for eyes, even after u think say u don technically defeat the effects, d hangover go knock u off the next day)

The Heart of Man is Desperately Wicked!!!!

Na wa oooo

miniziter:


How did he pay the money into her account?

Biko Help me ask the rumour monger


#But how can she be receiving salary till May, 2018... This we country na wa oooo

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This Saraki Self! E won make sure say e give him successor work.... E go difficult make d guy be complete rubber stamp.


Fingers crossed

Good Riddance! Wished they were all sent to the beyond.

The Rest will most likely undergo rehab and be recruited to the army. I just pray this doesn't post a huge security threat in the future.