₦airaland Forum

3RNEST:
Exactly, ur head dey huz, Alex too make sense bro, so everything about her dey special so u can't lie on her and go free.. Mba dat can't work..

but obviously they did the do and they are both grown ups why the fuss..

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3RNEST:
Na special one

Oh! I see abi her case is like a child that everyone thought is a saint n later they discover she bad pass abi...

davimus:
I travelled outside the country three years ago to hustle and had to abandon my studies, but fast forward to last year, an old coursemate of mine contacted me, telling me that i can get my certificate directly from academics without rounding up my studies and that i only have to pay the sum of 800,000 thousand naira which i did

But till now if i call him to get me the certificate or refund me my money, he threatens and hangs the call on me, please nairalanders how do i approach this issue or get my money back from him?

Op be careful I see people up there already say send mail. Don't fall for another scam open your eyes...

Imagine on your wedding day the man can be in dubia crashing n snoring...

Lol! Women I must marry palava...

At least now we know one of the parent original color if not both is chocolate...


Cute baby tho!

I don't support the show tho! But how come bleep is becoming an issue here, shey the winner of the last one bleep in the house with Nina abi then bam bam toilet n teddy so why is Alex own now a big deal and eryone is dragging cee c....

We can only project but at the end of the day only God knows where we will be at next 5yrs no one can tell the next minute...


Just live your liFe and do what you can at the moment to make it better...

opribo:
Such a pretty lady can never be a mistake.

Is not about looks iF one gets married to a wrong partner the looks will not matter he/she will become the ugliest person to you....

Ha! nor be new thing na...


Nigeria as usual...

Shameless country..

Speakdatruth:
She really needs help. Hope she's mentally upright.

Obviously she's not...

The tailor try small Na.

It's not just about the cloth but rather who wears the cloth..

So true..

Maybe after he cumz he now realize the 5k agreement the service rendered didn't worth it..

Konji! Don make u fall ya hand..

Some people are now unbelievably stupid due to religion...

Why are they still calling it election what we have experienced so far is not an election it's a crisis that unfortunately took peoples lives..


"Indefinitely" Ha Nigeria...

Olamsoh:
Nigerian graduates believe that someone can use another person's underwear and used sanitary products to make money by supernatural means.

So shameful.

Might be shameful but one thing is certain Voodoo is real..

Mehn when you meet your earthly saviors..


Imagine as police hold vigilante like babe...


This liFe sha when eye see strong thing e go humble...

Abee79:
A girl turned me down just like this 12 years ago. She's married now. I am also married. She called me today and we spoke for almost 2 hours, regretting how bad counsel from her cousins made her miss the chance to get married to me. Nice guys lose first, then win big down the line!

Life is a mystery what if she had accepted the outcome of your life might have took a different turn... Some union leads to glory why some lead to sorry...

Tonmiwatimmy:
can I Change this long thing under me to hole
..I want money

You can become a gigolo or a male stripper too na tho business ain't booming if it ain't a hole.. Lol

P.s. I love stuff like this loving moms worldwide deserves such treatment..

ruddyman500:
I got married to my wife in 2017 and we have been living together since, we have a child together but there is this problem with her anytime it has to do with any of her EX. i will cite some of what happened .

She wanted to organise a programme at a time and the person she could think of is one of her ex who happens to be a media guy, i told her point blank that i dont want her to go met the guy but she explained to me how the guy will be of help to her in the programme she is planning, i let her be cos i dont want to be seen as someone throwing spanners in the wheel of her progress, i supported her and the programme was a success.

Another instance was when her mother died, and they were planning the burial ceremony with her brothers...my wife got home and told me that she told her brothers that she will talk to a musician to come play at the ceremony and the said musician happens to be another ex of hers. i told her right there that am not comfortable with it at all how could ur ex come to sing at her mums burial and i will be there dancing to his tunes?...after so much back and forth , i told her i will only attend the church service and i or any of my people will not come for the party, that was when she made last minute changes and went to book another musician.

The last straw that broke the carmels back was yesterday....I and her have been having some issues of late and we talked over it infact we are just coming out of the tensions....then yesterday morning around 8am she told me that another ex of hers called her overnight and told her that his mum just passed away and he could not think of anyone to call but her cos he is so broken, she said she had sent her condolences already but that she will like to go greet the guy and his siblings cos they are in their fathers house [ the guy is still single ooo although they broke up in 2013] and that she will be able to know about the burial arrangements so she can plan on attending the burial..so she asked me for permission if she could go and pay them a visit yesterday..... Normally i wld not have allowed her but i thought what is she didnt tell me and went there and secondly cos of the tension we just went through and i dont want another tension to build again , i told her i will only allow her to either go greet them yesterday or she goes for the burial ...I told her i will only allow her to choose one . She then asked me in strong tone why i didnt wnat her to attend the burial.....At that point i left the room cos i was not ready for another round of arguments.

She did not say anything again until afternoon, i went to my living room and asked her if she is no more going on the visit again she said she already taken her bath and she will go n prepare now ....she entered the room and started dressing up, i went to meet her in the room and i told her that i allowed her to go cos i already gave her the permission but henceforth i will not allow such again ...Told her she is not the only person with exes , i dont allow issues of any of my own ex brew tension in my marriage , i told her i have an ex whose fathers house is just like 5 mins drive from inside the estate we live and when the man died my ex called me ..all i did was send her my condolence over the phone and i explained that i cant come for the burial cos i have a wife at home whose feelings i respect and that it ends there AT that point my wife flared up to the high heavens .....she started ranting that why am i caging her that i should give her reasons why she should not go that am just so obsessed with her am immmature, insecure and bla bla bla. I told her if loving my wife and protecting the dignity and integrity of my family for obsession then she is totally wrong. She said other men will not have any problem with it that why am i making an issue out of the situation, i explained to her that am not other men , What Mr A is comfortable with may not be so with Mr B cos we all have our individual differences .....One problem my wife have is she does not see reasons why i shld not accept what she seems right to her . I then told her to call any of her elder brother and explain this situation to him if he can allow such ....

This is a woman i never restricted her movements ....i only restricted her twice and they are both on health grounds...When she left i did what i have never done before [ i have never reported her to anybody either my family or hers no matter what happens i find a way we can solve it]...i called her very close friend and explained everything to her, the lady was surprised and she promised to talk to her....I also tried to call her elder brother who is a pastor but his phone is switched off and i have not been able to get through to him .When my wife came back
she did not even greet meat all , she came to take our baby from me which i refused her, she went straight into her room, i later went into the room to lay our baby and i went into the guest room to sleep cos am so much in anger and i dont want the neighbors to hear any noise from my flat.

please i need sincere and honest opinion from married people on here ....i want to know if am at fault and secondly what next step should i take

@ op I feel you op honestly some women don't know what loyalty and respect means, should I blame it on immaturity I just don't get it... I query an ex recently I felt uncomfortable the way she keep making her man look like a fool if I wasn't disciplined I would have get her laid again but I have passed that stage ones we go apart I don't like to ruin the new relationship...

Honestly women are scary. Just make sure you stand your ground n set boundaries don't condole bullshit because when it starts it will continue. .

ruddyman500:
I got married to my wife in 2017 and we have been living together since, we have a child together but there is this problem with her anytime it has to do with any of her EX. i will cite some of what happened .

She wanted to organise a programme at a time and the person she could think of is one of her ex who happens to be a media guy, i told her point blank that i dont want her to go met the guy but she explained to me how the guy will be of help to her in the programme she is planning, i let her be cos i dont want to be seen as someone throwing spanners in the wheel of her progress, i supported her and the programme was a success.

Another instance was when her mother died, and they were planning the burial ceremony with her brothers...my wife got home and told me that she told her brothers that she will talk to a musician to come play at the ceremony and the said musician happens to be another ex of hers. i told her right there that am not comfortable with it at all how could ur ex come to sing at her mums burial and i will be there dancing to his tunes?...after so much back and forth , i told her i will only attend the church service and i or any of my people will not come for the party, that was when she made last minute changes and went to book another musician.

The last straw that broke the carmels back was yesterday....I and her have been having some issues of late and we talked over it infact we are just coming out of the tensions....then yesterday morning around 8am she told me that another ex of hers called her overnight and told her that his mum just passed away and he could not think of anyone to call but her cos he is so broken, she said she had sent her condolences already but that she will like to go greet the guy and his siblings cos they are in their fathers house [ the guy is still single ooo although they broke up in 2013] and that she will be able to know about the burial arrangements so she can plan on attending the burial..so she asked me for permission if she could go and pay them a visit yesterday..... Normally i wld not have allowed her but i thought what is she didnt tell me and went there and secondly cos of the tension we just went through and i dont want another tension to build again , i told her i will only allow her to either go greet them yesterday or she goes for the burial ...I told her i will only allow her to choose one . She then asked me in strong tone why i didnt wnat her to attend the burial.....At that point i left the room cos i was not ready for another round of arguments.

She did not say anything again until afternoon, i went to my living room and asked her if she is no more going on the visit again she said she already taken her bath and she will go n prepare now ....she entered the room and started dressing up, i went to meet her in the room and i told her that i allowed her to go cos i already gave her the permission but henceforth i will not allow such again ...Told her she is not the only person with exes , i dont allow issues of any of my own ex brew tension in my marriage , i told her i have an ex whose fathers house is just like 5 mins drive from inside the estate we live and when the man died my ex called me ..all i did was send her my condolence over the phone and i explained that i cant come for the burial cos i have a wife at home whose feelings i respect and that it ends there AT that point my wife flared up to the high heavens .....she started ranting that why am i caging her that i should give her reasons why she should not go that am just so obsessed with her am immmature, insecure and bla bla bla. I told her if loving my wife and protecting the dignity and integrity of my family for obsession then she is totally wrong. She said other men will not have any problem with it that why am i making an issue out of the situation, i explained to her that am not other men , What Mr A is comfortable with may not be so with Mr B cos we all have our individual differences .....One problem my wife have is she does not see reasons why i shld not accept what she seems right to her . I then told her to call any of her elder brother and explain this situation to him if he can allow such ....

This is a woman i never restricted her movements ....i only restricted her twice and they are both on health grounds...When she left i did what i have never done before [ i have never reported her to anybody either my family or hers no matter what happens i find a way we can solve it]...i called her very close friend and explained everything to her, the lady was surprised and she promised to talk to her....I also tried to call her elder brother who is a pastor but his phone is switched off and i have not been able to get through to him .When my wife came back
she did not even greet meat all , she came to take our baby from me which i refused her, she went straight into her room, i later went into the room to lay our baby and i went into the guest room to sleep cos am so much in anger and i dont want the neighbors to hear any noise from my flat.

please i need sincere and honest opinion from married people on here ....i want to know if am at fault and secondly what next step should i take

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ElsonMorali:
Madam, why bring it to social media or are all your friends only on social media?

People should understand that most folks rejoice secretly when bad things happen to you and feel envious when you're winning.

Keep your _shit to yourself, whether good or bad.

Honestly I don't get why people don't understand this.

FunnY... The doctor is a sick pervert why do that in the presence of the patient..

That profession tho examining wifes n partners of different peeps seems he has lost it to the temptation... That's why lots of docs n nurses are very spoilt n naughty sexually...

Mehn! Nor be small work be that.. Abi machine to do this de shuuu. That's some serious orderly arrangement.

Hermes019:
When u start using ur common sense religion would make less and less sense to you until you have the courage to dump it entirely

You made a very good point that people don't know,death is very essential to maintain the ecosystem,but if you recall in Genesis Yahweh's original plan was that human beings would be immortal and at the same time reproductive,now if this had happened that means all the human beings from about 5000 years ago would still be alive and counting,what would be the state of our ecosystem

You now see why we disregard the bible ?

The thing is so confusing and complicated if we use common sense the whole plan and point of liFe just get as e be. More like a game or should I say scripted happenings.

ClintonNzedimma:
The earlier we realize GOD does not play by our rules, we will think freely. In the Bible GOD will tell David to go to a city and slaughter thousands and show no mercy. He doesn't give a f**k. Even as a Christian I am still logical to admit some of the things did in the name of GOD in the ancient times can be categorized as genocide today. The Israelites treated non-jews as inferiors and gave them the derogatory name known as Gentiles, today that will be called Racism. GOD doesn't care about political correctness or social brouhaha, one of the reasons that make him GOD. I have come to terms with this, as a human , we may not agree with some of the things he does but what can we do?

Exactly! I read the 1 and 2 Samuel reading how David slaughtered and went and celebrate with spoils (things they took) as bible called it and even asked God whether or not to go to some battles and was given direction honestly it scared me.... I was like is this not inhumane but then again he's and will always be God. Seems he's merciful now unlike like bible days... I am a christain but I'm also a free thinker my conclusion is this life and happenings both past and now remain a mystery I honestly don't get it.

See individuals some people call daddy and mommy....


I refuse to be gullible because of religion....


And some people will carry their personal marital issues to them to seek for solution from people that can't even solve theirs..

The earlier people realize that religion has become a business the better for them.... Don't worship any man we all are spiritual being and possesses powers also fear God only....

So you can commission more toilets..

ollah2:
his laws can't be changed but old testament laws should be dismissed for new testament laws

The confusion is tiring contradiction here n there.

We have more worthy topics to hit front page instead they keeping feeding us with craps and leave reasonable threads behind..

The kind of news that we are hearing today just goes to show how little the value of human lives have become here in Nigeria.. All because of power... It's sad mehn...