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Happy birthday handsome

lasisi69:
No End time.. Finest.. Sweetheart

No way... Endtime beauty

OBSEQUIOUS:
When will the two of you have sense? Some of us are tired of your shit all around. They use something swear for una? Or an your step mum they do you?

Enough of these madness, it's annoying!

Lol.... Endtime statement

In "some" countries they would be given amnesty and called our brothers

Am not yet married but soon I hope to share my privacy with him

Though I won't do it, but I must say she is a courageous woman.

Don't do it.. Pray about it

Thank God guys were used as example, if it were to b ladies it wud hav bin anoda theory.

anonym0us:
ask buhari

Lol

anonym0us:
you are not saying this from your heart

Y did u say that?

Congrats sweet

Ok, I'l pray

usermane:
Thank you, huge relief. You are the only lady that have confirmed my analysis and conclusion since I opened this thread.

Lol..

Op ur correct. The same way a woman might take the rejection is different from the way a man wud. I wish most men will try to understand and appreciate weneva a woman opens up to them. I also wish d society was more friendly to woman

usermane:
I actually thought women say they are turned off shy guys. If your friend is serious and doesn't have the time to waste on green lights which the guy may not be able to read, she should just ask him. Assuming he accepts, if he truly love her, he would take the relationship serious and respect her for making the move. If he does not take the relationship serious and start acting like an ingrate, she should dump him quick before he does any damage.
It will be in her best interest to put off sex for a long while after asking him out and beginning the relationship, if he loves her he won't mind waiting even after marriage for sex. You 'd hate to learn he dumped your friend upon getting sex from her only two weeks after their relationship begun. Careful, desperate men will say yes to you merely to get sex.

Tnks so much, I'll tell her mayb after defending her project

DUOz:
Baba make dem leave investigation for u o. Well I think u shuld talk to d guy and tell him how u feel. Am sure he'll respond well. FYI u can confess its u. No one ever died for being in love

Lol, tnks for the advice. The problem here is the tot of rejection. She's very shy dat she even try to avoid the guy weneva he is passing the same way with her. Its not me but she's my bestfrnd and we have been close ever since we wrote our waec dat y it seems I know a lot abt dis guy.

Richardonald:
4yrs and that feeling is still there...she really deserve that,b4 another lady hijack the tho

The feeling is real, I had to start pitying her wen she opened up. Pls can u help with d kind of green light she can give dis guy. because she'l soon defend her project. Thanks for undastnding

LaurelP:
https://www.nairaland.com/2727960/7-reasons-why-ladies-should


Tell "your friend" to read that.

Thanks a lot. Tho is not easy but we will surely work out somtin

Horlertoungy:
Your point is clear; I even use to wonder if its a crime for ladies to express their feelings the way guys so whenever some guys display such habit and I have some friends who'll just bleep and dump any lady who approached them but my childhood friend got married to a lady who approached him and they dated for 9yrs before getting married 3yrs ago. I can never look down on any lady who makes that move in my life, I'll only reject her politely if am not interested in dating her.

There is no politeness in rejection. She'l feel bad and might even hate u.

Jibwillz:
U mean like majority of us don't know there are loopholes in ur story?? Trust me, it doesn't matter..
Girls are synonymous with lying that we all know...

U're both finalist, its worth d try.. Now would be a good time 2know if it'll stand d test of time. Ease up and give him d greens, since the feeling is mutual the chase shouldn't be 1sided...

And While you are at it, try to get heart-repairing kits too...

Heart repairing kits? Wat for? Pls enlighten me more. By d way... Wat green light can she give without luking desperate?

tosyne2much:
9. They say they can't date broke guys

80% of Nigerian ladies often utter this statement. Last week, one even told me that she wouldn't date me cos I'm a broke dude. I was told she's now dating my HOD. Smh


10. They say that you should not ask for Sex if you truly love them

Before you castigate me, lemme justify myself. Many ladies who utter this statement are likely to be cheating outside, while you thing they are practicing celibacy. However, statistics have it that, non virgin ladies who always insist on NO sex before marriage are not reliable and cannot be trusted

Nobody should quote me

Ok I won't quote u

czarr:
lol, How U take know say him get small penis na

Help me ask am oo

Richardonald:
Op i will say u shud ask him out..itz not a big deal,u said the guy is also shy, fine i bet that guy will luv it if u do that,not all guys have the courage to approach a lady..am a victim of that

I agree but u know nigeria mentality. I wish I can help because she is not happy, she really tried to hold on for 4yrs

MrsPhyno:


OP don't you think your (friend is) too "old" for silly crushes like that

I think so, dats y I want to help. U can also assist by giving ur own suggestion

IamLEGEND1:
nónsense
old women like you be acting like 15yr olds.....don't face ur front and do something to help urself,be there crushing on some random nígga with a small penìs.

Lol. Tnks anyway but love is a feeling u cannot ignore especially wen it seems u hav a chance wit d 1 u love. Moreover she's not a kid

Jibwillz:
Its always on behalf of a friend... Jeez!
#WhenWillNaijaGirlsStopLying??

If I say its me, will u give ur advice

Laveda:
Asking him out? I don't buy that idea....just. Give him that grren light, make it a bit obvious you like him....whenever he holds your hands....smile like you just won lottery ......do what ever you know can get that guy...don't allow another lady take him

Don't dull

I'll tell her. But I also think d guy is shy... Cos we hav done som investigation and found out dat in school he doesn't have a girlfriend

rexkexmilan:
"Rummies"? When Nairaland turn to Your hostel Room Biko?

Guy am sorry abt dat.

Hello everyone, pls I need advice. A course mate of mine have been disturbing me about a guy she has a crush on. She claims that she has caught dis guy staring at her on several occasions but weneva their eyes meet, he'll turn away. He smiles and always hold her hand wherever he sees her. We ar in our final year but she still thinks dis guy loves her. Currently she's not in a relationship because she feels it may b cheating on her crush. She ceases every opportunity to talk about dis guy. Pls note dat he's in d same school and faculty with her.
Am tired but I don't know if I should tell her to ask the guy out .
Lalasticala

Congrats beauty