Nooil:



No. Her only fault is being quiet for too long and voicing out at the wrong time. That's what happens when you don't address issues immediately. When you finally do, it's always the wrong timing. That birthday money she asked is not because she wanted the boy to go and steal. She was just trying to see if he would ever be willing to spend on her.

Look at it. All through their service year, he didn't spend a dime, rather, he comes to her house to eat. She might have thought, maybe he doesn't have the money. Let me support him to get.

This went on for a year (NYSC). After that, he refuses to get a job. Still not giving her money. Ok, job problem, which he can solve if he wanted, but bluntly refused to.

Then all of a sudden, he has money to spend buying drinks for his guys. Where did he get the money? Ok, someone gave him.

Can't he also get money from someone to appreciate his girlfriend once in a while? Let's try to have empathy abeg.

When someone invests emotionally in you, try to be appreciative no matter how little.

what makes you believe he was the one who spent for all the drinks he bought on his birthday? his friends might probably do all the bills just to support him.. So please think wisely before taking decision

What are u to judge right?

What's the meaning of this then

Lol

Nooil:


Please, kill any thought of going back to him. No guy can ever be stingy with a girl he loves. They will always try their best to give something, no matter how little. A guy that loves you will even borrow money from his friend just to treat you right.

If he is not spending on you, you mean nothing to him. You're just a means to an end. Probably not his taste. When he finds someone else he fancies, he will leave you without thinking twice.

Don't waste your time and effort investing emotionally on someone that doesn't have you in mind. It will end in tears.

Borrow money from his friends to treat you right

I swear to God, I will surely milk u dry after doing that.

I swear

See yeye talk

Infact, you are mad

Paxie55:

Shut up. I clearly saw what I quoted.
Bleep and deh go, how does that affect me? You Can only attract what you are.

Sorry o virgin mary

Keep deceiving yourself

Nooil:



Is it that you guys didn't see where the said bf spent money buying drinks for his friends? Where did he get the money from? You people should stop supporting wickedness.

His guys that were there for him when he has nothing, he shouldn't spend on them?

Lol

nora2018:
She has not answered the question which goes thus '' what did you give him during his birthday "? if she can answer this question to my satisfaction then, i will know if the nigga is stingy or not.

God bless you bro

rummmy:
better chill before I change my mind... Back to the topic........

My guy if you understand this game very well, any of their words won't move you.

I shouldn't be saying this here but I just have to.

I'm sorry guys

U know what we do to them .

Anything i go into a relationship, i know its like an investment so w are always prepared.

I budget an amount of money to spend on U so you will see I'm not the stingy type till u are comfortable.

We wait for sometime to see if u will reciprocate...

If u are not doing that, we Bleep till I'm satisfied and map out how to collect the money back(if not all)

I have a car and I will always drive you around, till I tell u to borrow me some amount to fuel the car or it has a problem that needed to be solved urgently.

Just tell them you will pay it times 2...


Nah bro code I betray like this, make una no vex

For their mind, they are very smart

Lol

Theundertaker:
Lol some of us can lie sha , hypocrites

Which lies again aunty

That means anytime your guy doesn't spend on u, the next thing is to report him to your brothers and they start following you like a puppy to his house just to fight...


Cos I don't c reasons for this your comment.

We will never train our sisters to be a liability (c'est fini)

Theundertaker:
Lol some of us can lie sha , hypocrites

Which lies again aunty.

That means anytime your guy doesn't spend on u, the next thing is to report him to your brothers and they start following you like a puppy to his house just to fight...


Cos I don't c reasons for this your comment.

We will never train our sisters to be a liability (c'est fini)

Paxie55:

I don't understand you. So, ladies should start feeding you or what? This is height of shamelessness. Tomorrow, you will open your mouth and call yourself a man?
Pack to your girlfriend's house so she can be feeding you.

Is this what your brain can decode from everything that was written there

Go and check the response u gave

Foodstuff are meant to be bought all because he gave his guy some

We guys should start demanding for ours anytime we feed yiu girls.

Is that too much to ask of


Nigerians girls nawa o

Nah to dey Bleep and go

No time

Positivechick:
facts. Noted

So u can reply this


You are mad!!!!

What did you get him on his birthday to deserve this kind of treatment you are craving for?
We v been asking this but ...

SweetCunt97:
So it's now a competition?

What's this one saying??

C nonsense question

Z not a competition right buy u want a guy to keep spending on You

I reserve my comments

Liliantalks:
food stuffs ar bought with money

Foodstuff are bought with money right?

But a guy can feed a lady for days Without complain

Don't be surprised if he started for money to get foodstuffs too...

Tit for tat

Ruggedniggaone:
rubbish!!! what do you even have to offer in a relationship except your smelly pvssy? what did you give him when he celebrated his birthday despite the fact that you are working? I guess nothing. and you expect him to spend his life on you,where do u expect him to get that money? you haven't told us what is paining you because the issue of he doesn't want to teach or work wouldn't have come up had it been he gave you money which you don't know it source and you will not even care to ask all that is matter to you is money for your birthday,I bet if you are dating yahoo boy you will not complain as long as money is coming in.

She has been avoiding that Q since

Stefenijoan002:
actually u should be ashamed of yourself coz is your mate that are spending on their babes n you won't hear fim from them that they're doing such .rather you come here to rant liability .don't you know as you're now you're a liability yourself or no one has told you !go n hustle so u don't go n spend on ur babe n go back home to calculate how you spent n label her as liability . from ur write I sensed u aren't OK at all .

I won't trade words with u cos I c u are still a kid.

I'm not ok Can u say this to my face Lol


She's the one complaining not the guy

What did she get him on his birthday to deserve the kind of treatment she's craving for

Stefenijoan002:
actually u should be ashamed of yourself coz is your mate that are spending on their babes n you won't hear fim from them that they're doing such .rather you come here to rant liability .don't you know as you're now you're a liability yourself or no one has told you !go n hustle so u don't go n spend on ur babe n go back home to calculate how you spent n label her as liability . from ur write I sensed u aren't OK at all .

Z it nor your mates that are spending on their guys too

Did u c them complain?


I should go and hustle more so I can start spending on u



Lol

Stefenijoan002:
told you before you didn't read rather u jumped into comment .did u read the part where she said she has broke up with the guy ?or did u see me impose on her to break up with him .beside if something is not giving you peace of mind like you want it !won't you leave it instead of keeping ur self there.I only told her she did what was right coz that was the best thing to do to have peace .or I should have told her to remain there !if really u were a nice senseable person you won't have label women as liabilities.

Go back to the first page and read again

With this response, I have no reason exchanging words with u again


It shows u din understand everything that was written there

Nah the money part, u dey after


Liabilities everywhere

Stefenijoan002:
I said it n u just confirm it that you don't know how to read .I know ur type you're here to jump n comment n if you're even doing it well it would have been good .I think u go back n read slowly so u understand what I wrote coz I see you're stingy urself n ur fear is u don't always like people say it out so it pained ur soul coz u re broke n jobless that has really affected ur reasoning faulty .beside I'm not the one who told u to be a broke ass niggar .go get a job n stop all this your ranting online

Let me try and school you before I go to bed

Let me ask u some questions


What's your definition of a stingy man

Just because I'm trying to pass an important message, u just concluded that I'm broke and jobless

All these girls will never stop to amaze me

Stefenijoan002:
never said any one owns me anything .now I see you just jump into trend without reading comment very well its a shame to you .coz I remember vividly there was no place I said anyone owns me anything.as a matter of fact I work for myself not kieven depending on my parents whatever .

Y are u now advising her to break up with her BF instead of u motivating her to stop being a leech

[quote author=Stefenijoan002 post=90032649][/quote]
You see that you don't have a point.

Stop being a liability and stop all this entitled mentality.
The earlier, the better.

Nah ur type dey use the word "stingy " on any guy that refuse to spend anyhow

Goodnight

Stefenijoan002:
I told u you're not OK you thought I was joking haven't you see it yourself now why is it that broke guys refers to every body they see as broke well I don't blame you I understand perfectly coz you just state the obvious n i know who you are !for you information I have a very beautiful n lovely job so u see I'm not broke like you n dont start jumping into peoples write up calling them broke learn to respect people's opinions .my only pity is ur gf coz she really doesn't not know the kind of .....she's dating.

I'm glad that you are working.


If a guy doesn't spend on u, that shouldn't be a problem.

U your money to take care of yourself, is that too much to ask for

I'm broke right?
It is well


Nobody owe u any shit

Get that to ur fucking skull(I'm repeating that again)

DEVOICE1:
The guy will give Thanksgiving this Sunday that you left him...
He is happy where ever he is now.

I swear

Positivechick:
why do u think he isn’t cheating .

What did you get him on his birthday


Answer this question nau

Stefenijoan002:
that's your Biz coz I simple do not care what u do with ur girls or your money .only said don't generalized things.

Broke girls everywhere

Find something so that u won't tag a guy as a "stingy dude" if he doesn't give u money everytime

Lamanii22:



Whatever you wish for yourself.... Pussy is not just a thing too, it is mostly at risk cause it's way too sensitive... The VJ can be infected and there won't be signs... The VJ suffers the more... The tightness wouldn't be there and all that but the penis never changes.... Y'all should treat your woman right and not just decide to be stingy and calling it "being smart"...

So because I don't oblige to her request everything. That means I'm stingy right?

Interesting

[quote author=Stefenijoan002 post=90032164][/quote]

Entitlement mentality


If I want to give , I give.

No lady will ever force me to do that

Ok??!!!!

Lamanii22:



A girl would reciprocate.... I feel like every Nigerian guy is at war with all the Nigerian women lol.... Cause y'all cannot air your opinion without hurling some demeaning words towards the female gender... I think it is rather childish....


The pussy is not just a thing... She's putting herself at risks too... Infections, STDs even her spiritual life....

Nonsense talk
When it comes to money, all you girls talk abt is ur stinking pussy.

STD...

So the guy is not prone to those right??


Nah baby mama I go still get las las

Positivechick:
u are not dating him , I am. u speak base on ur own relationship and life in general , But I bet u can’t deal with my boyfriend for even 6months . But yes o find faults . I shouldn’t tell my boyfriend what I want for my birthday! Someone who hasn't given be nothing for a year, and still didn’t use his mind ?? SeeNah I don’t agree with ur perspective.

Y are u running away from all this questions?


What did you get him on his birthday?!!!!!!

Lamanii22:



It should be reciprocated too....

Going by what what she wrote...


Did she get him anything for his birthday?

Stefenijoan002:
When I look at most comment here I know is not from the real men but all those boys thinking they've grown up ! Men will always be men n boys we always b boys !and worst is they're still eating their mother's food as such it has becloud their sense of reasoning !which any of you here would allow your sister to be in this kind of relationship where the guy practically does nothing but prefer to follow his friends around like is future depends on then !plz dearie don't listen to some of the noise most of them made all in the name of I must comment by displaying their stupidity n ignorance I must commend u you did the right thing by breaking up with him coz he's not serious about his life !i advice u settle down n look for one who has future ambition for himself n don't rush it trust me you'll be fine .

Nobody here will ever advise his sister to be a liability.


Get that to your fucking skull

Rgade:
You had a teaching job and you knew he was unemployed but still requested for some cash on your birthday...
You are wicked.

Very wicked

Lamanii22:



C'mon.... Are you condoning stinginess?? Not even a lil gift of N2k on her birthday No matter how wealthy I may be, a lil gift from my boyfriend is not a bad thing... I can't even be with someone that is stingy in the first place... O ma su mi ni (I'd get tired)....

It should be a mutual thing.


The guy celebrated his birthday first.

What did she get him?

Lets start with that

Theundertaker:
this girl is obviously not a liability. He was supposed to make her happy on her birthday of all days mehn. Even if it’s As little as 5k. How many ladies r like the Op? She’s very considerate to me o

Many guymen wey Dey form like weyti I no no, go Dey vasa one babe on the stead .

You are not dropping a reasonable cooment.


The guy celebrated his birthday first.

What did she get him

Z suppose to be a mutual thing

Let her answer the Q