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GreatResearcher:
How is a king treated?

GreatResearcher:
Why should a woman be treated like a queen?

Jman06:
Op, it depends on the kind of lady you married. It is good to study the background of any lady you plan to marry.

If a lady is raised in a decent home where the mum and dad live peacefully together, chances are high that the lady would have learnt from her mother how to keep a home.

Also, the kind of friends a lady keeps should never be overlooked when deciding whether to wife her or not. This is because it is hard to find a lady who reasons on her own without being influenced by her friends. If a lady is surrounded by pseudo feminists, men haters and gold diggers, brother such a lady is not good for marriage.

In summary, marry from a decent home. Maintain close and friendly relationship with your in-laws (mil especially) and you'll see how successful your marriage would be.

healthserve:
The last paragraph you've finished matter my elder. Twale

healthserve:
Please be careful about all these treat a woman like a queen. 80% of times its perceived differently by the other party albeit received as weakness and low self esteem. For me, I've reworked my model and advice men to do same which is to treat a wife same level same way she treats a man.. This gives access to recall recoil and remove in the event of drama that arises from too much accessibility and familiarity

healthserve:
Next thing she'll yet be discontented havingnconquered you and Luke move to next phase give you like to eat, transfer ownership of your estate to her name while you're intoxicated with love under the spells of her people. Next the man crashes and contemplates suicide.


Being contented in place is more individual, internal than external to me

Astra101:
Don't be a tribalistic fool

helinues:
Good for them

Where is Onyeama? Probably on low key now while the lobbyists are working his case him in Usa

Theyoungmatron:
At the end, she will stop visiting even with the kids.
Their brothers kids will end up becoming a stranger to them.

cococandy:
I was wondering where the “red pant and black brassiere” crew went. It’s been a while since a blatant and fearless thread like this one.
Now what they mostly do is type in circles and eventually come back to their basic point which is to blame the woman and exonerate the man.

Blackmiserable:
Cheating is an action word. When do people leave their cheating spouse?

Blackmiserable:
Oh nice, dump his ass aand you think that's the solution? And then you find someone else whose ass would be dumped too and on and on and on - dumping people's ass because they are unfaithful. The only way to be happy is to have no expectations because when you do have expectations then I'm scared, you'll always be disappointed. My point? That is not the solution.

Blackmiserable:
Sorry, em, i don't get you. What is she supposed to do? Flee at every slight evidence of unfaithfulness?

MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!
the only way to deal with a cheating partner is to LEAVE his disrespectful/deceitful/unfaithful/untrustworthy self.

the above rubbish is just to try to please and lower yourself to such cheating animal...but that would NEVER solve anything because YOU are not the problem here....that cheating demon is!

internationalman:
so it was government by force then..

no self expression or free will..

so it has been teyed is started.... it is well

EmptyCoconutHead:
useless women.
If not for bearing of children and sexual gratification to kill konji, there's no other use of women in marriage.

crackhaus:
Lol, he did not even need to add that update to clarify.
Some of us already saw it clearly from the beginning, hence my quote to Miarose, a female for that matter who made the first observation on the thread.

Popular opinions perpetuated by herd mentality are hardly known to come from an intellectual standpoint because for it to be popular and widespread, it means more stvpid people are a part of it. There are more stvpid people than intuitive discerning people in the world as a whole.

I personally enjoyed reading the usual group of posters make a complete fool of themselves on that thread with blinded ignorant opinions.
Even after he clarified, some of them continue in their ignorance because the idea of a son choosing to reconcile with a father who treated the mother unfairly, hurts them to the bones.
And they probably think they don't need therapy for their fvcked up mentalities. Pity.

Bighead9:
Must you bring your private lives to the internet? You are acting like, you don't have a life outside the internet.

Davash222:
Ok.
Is that all

Davash222:
So, what should we do now

IceColdVeins:
Dont be quick to judge.
I am the only one at loggerheads with my dad, my other siblings are not. And I neevr demonised my mom, I love her and I have showered my care on her. I'm just trying to make peace within myself and make the family balanced. MY mom and dad are still together and happier than before. But the wounds dont ever heal.

SODbaba2:
Effect of rushing to comment

femmoy:
you got me on this,God please make me a better husband and dad.
very useful indeed. I promise to retrace my steps on all of the above.

Acidosis:
I've only addressed the reasons married men go after slay queens.

bukatyne:
A human would dish what you allow them to.

Acidosis:
Cheating married men don't have the luxury of time to pursue difficult decent women like their wives. It took them months and years to get their wives to say YES.

Sleeping around got nothing to do with the way slay queens dress rather, it is an issue of availability and affordability.

Besides, they don't like the thought of sleeping with decent women like their wives. There is a level of satisfaction and security they derive from sleeping with anything that doesn't look like their wives.

donstan18:
Stop giving non-virgin hoes hope with this rubbish.


They are useless,wayward and disgrace to humanity.