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InyinyaAgbaOku:
Wow.
Was thinking you are pro abortion all this while?

Pro choice, not pro abortion.
2 different things.

On what basis?
Are they the first to lose a child under such circumstance?

The first thing to do is to carry out a proper investigation to determine what happened exactly.

We are told now that Dbanj was not in the country.

So, how can he be “jailed”?
What evidence of negligence or “murder” exits?
No 13-month old should be left unattended.

That is PURE NEGLIGENCE!

Hungry youths cannot fight.

Who is “they”?
Olofofo!

“That son of a b***h is stupid if that’s the case. You created something perfect and then you think of an event that would tempt and destroy the quality of your work.”

I don’t understand myself oooooh!
Very weird.

And people will sheepishly worship such a SADISTIC being? Where is the “love”? The reason their lives are filled with so much suffering all in the name of “free will”?

Miserable BUNCH!

See how Dbanj created a beautiful home that took his son’s life? If he knew he would lose his son, would he build that pool?

Not to mention a so-called omniscient being!
Stupid is an understatement. More like M0R0NIC!

Buhari will need several Fulani interpreters to read and understand this message I swear.

Any time this DAURA DUNCE opens his mouth, he disgraces himself worse than the last time.

What kind of a curse is this?

Did you declare your a$$$ets?
Na only oil well dem dey take teif for Nigeria?
WAEC-LESS DUNCE!

There are many ways to have an abortion.
Before birth or after birth.
Na wah o! So much for “maternal instinct”.
Why not give the baby away for adoption?
This is the height of wickedness.

Poor baby!

A stupid man has a wife and 5 children he cannot feed, then decides to hook up with a hapless, 21 year-old, uneducated and unemployed lady for sexual gratification?

Nothing to question. He was out of the country.
He was not there.
QUESTION THE WIFE!
How can a 13-month old climb into a POOL unsupervised?

Serious negligence o.
Full investigation needed.
I don’t buy his excuses.
I doubt the little boy drowned.
Nobody around?

Blessed are the true partners as HEAD OF THE HOUSEHOLD!
A couple that is committed to marriage will always reap true love.
Many more years and blessings to come!
Way to go!

alignacademy:
Thanks for clarifying your point of view

You are very welcome.

How will these "baby-mama-kids" cope with life's issues when they're being raised by essentially immature adults looking out for their own pleasure?.

Till you can provide YOUR “personal” problem I can help you with, let US ALL go and face our own individual problems first! It is almost July and bills are to be paid ON TIME!

alignacademy:
Please how would you define what you mean by "solutions"?

There are some situations that are not in YOUR control. How do you deal with matters you can’t control?

You talk about “personal responsibility”!
Well there! How do YOU talk about personal responsibility for situations that are not YOURS?

Do you have the resources or authority to deal with matters that concern others?

If you set up an NGO, and advertise your concerns, goals and preferred solutions to those CONCERNED. . . . you may have some luck.
Is your audience on NL?

Till then, you are just writing for the sake of writing.

No! I nor join o. Not my gaddem BIZZ!

alignacademy:
Thanks for the feedback

It's not clear whether you read through my first post or what you are actually proposing.

I posted that after watching a TV programme showing facilities in some foreign countries where they keep young people from no families.

These young people didn't bring themselves into the world.

They were born by people who felt they had a right to please themselves without considering the consequences of their actions.

By the way, most of the young people I saw on the TV programme were violent and some even suicidal. And it follows: they had no family to learn love and care from, so they naturally HATE themselves and society at large.

As I noted in the first post, personal responsibility and self discipline are key. We will build a better society when we weigh our actions and the impact they could have on other people.

That's one of the good things about platforms like this. We can have fruitful conversations and learn more on how to make better choices.

Thanks again

Like I stated earlier.

You feel there are problems.
Abi you need money to start an NGO?
You keep writing “we” here and “we” there.
I nor join o.

Please, offer solutions. Na you see problems abi?
Thanks.

Are they complaining?
What solutions are you proposing if YOU see problems.
I don’t, so good luck!

dangotesmummy:
dbanj is now a dad hence more matured than to be doing alcohol and drugs around a family setting home. He has outgrown all that. He's more reasonable now

Indeed!
Once a junkie, always a junkie!
Let an autopsy tell us how the poor boy died.
Chances are he did not drown.

dangotesmummy:
Haba. This baby looks well taken care of and we'll loved. How can a baby this clean, chubby and cute be deliberately abused na. Moreover the mom could have been cooking ,watching TV or doing any other thing without noticing when the baby crawled away. You think it's easy keeping an eye on a child 24 hrs?

You will be shocked!
Where drugs and alcohol are involved, anything goes.

Michael Jackson gave cookies and milk too ke!
A full investigation is needed.
If you check the lungs, you will not find any water in them. The poor baby was neglected.
Abeg leave all these fake photos shown to the world jor!

Let them do an autopsy! Simple.

More fishy cover ups!
Wetin pikin dey do by the pool alone?

I hope a full investigation is launched.
Smell of child abuse.
Dbanj’s pictures are tooooooo fake.
Toooooooooo fake.
Poor child.

TheAlchemist:
Do you know something that we dont know

Just an intuitive feeling.
People grieve differently, but my gut feeling tells me there is more to this tragedy.
I do not know, but something is wrong somewhere.
He needs to explain to the world how this poor boy died.

Which pool? Abi na bath tub?

Frankiss44:
Sorry to say this.. But you are a FOOL

Why?
Because I have an investigative mind?
You are THE M0R0N because like most SHYTE-HOLE brains, you do not think!
I have questions for Bangalee o!
If you don’t, please move to one corner!

Dbanj is FISHY! Simple.
Now, go to the same pool and drown so your father can mourn you on Facebook!

Wow! Congrats!
Hope no BABA MAMAS hiding anywhere o?

Everything done in secret. . . . Will be exposed.
He is on IG announcing already?

Fishy couplee. . . . Fishy marriage. . . Fishy pregnancy. . . . Fishy death.

An infant by a POOL all by himself? WHERE?
In Nigeria or ? ? ?

There is just something about this Dbanj that does not feel right.

The truth will be buried with the “boy”. No DNA test necessary to determine the real father of the boy.

100% chance Dbanj ain’t the dad.

R.I.P. little one.

So. . . . What party does he belong to?
You can’t be a member of a party and criticize it.

LEAVE! Tear your membership card. Simple.

Cursed are the poor in spirit. . . . . !

Why would you post only his picture on a public forum?

You should have started with your picture with the whole family first. No credibility from your story till you prove you are related to the man in the photograph you provided.

Where are the abandoned kids?

Only if it counts to the individuals concerned.
Only the married can answer for sure.
Generally and personally-speaking? NO!

The purpose and sanctity of marriage have been contaminated and adulterated over the years. Marriage is mostly a JOKE and may soon become extinct.

Practice makes perfect!
Not the first time for either for sure.
See as the ”gyhal” spread leg like “spider woman”?

Women always mature faster and better than men in relationships and marriages.

A small pay back for the sacrifices a BABY MAMMA makes to keep up as a single parent.

I wish most men will show the same gratitude.

But if women were truly supporting other women , why do most women sleep with a married man knowing the damage it does to the wife (woman) . Is this women supporting women? We have a long way to go in women supporting women in Nigeria if a woman can’t say simple NO to give another woman peace of mind and happiness. If women are truly supporting women, there won’t be an Epidemic of Sidechicks."

See TWISTED LOGIC!
Goat wey lost from farm na community goat ke!
If a man stays true to his vows, women will not be side chicks.
Women can never support each other with SHORTAGE OF GOOOOOOOOD BLOKOSES ke!

We do not need to support ourselves when it comes to playing with dogs.

All we are saying, is where women are qualified to do a job, let them get their fair chances without being sexualized.

A “man” is not one of the PRIZES women fight for.
Please, do not make a man a part of women empowerment agenda. Abeg, ‘man’ dey for “toy category” jor.

We are talking real empowerment FROM MEN WHO KEEP WOMEN DOWN!

Na who ask you Mr. MAN-APE?

Empress has moved on, no need for “shading”!
Abi, you still dey dream of her “sweet thing”?
Your mates are settling down and you are still doing “latest lover”.
You show us your “banging body” make we see.

Your baby mama nor get “banging body” and THICK LEGS?

That na OLDEN-those-days ke!
These days WOMEN do not even have HUSBANDS!

They are BABY MOMMAS who OWN their own homes.

Most couples have separate homes. Amen!!!!