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I wish most men will do the same.
We can’t lose “all ways” ke.

Duplipost.

Good gesture, but only in a SHYTE-HOLE country is poverty a hallmark of widowhood. No jobs but “marriage” for women?

ominiriches2016:
Hear from Lillian Esoro,

Popular TV series actress Lilan Esoro has revealed reasons as to what led to her failed marriage to Ubi Franklin.



According to reports, a filmmaker and closed friend to the thespian, who pleaded anonymity, say she always complained about how distanced her husband was.

“He never showed up in any of her filming location and this was often a thing of worry for Lilian” he said.

Other reports stated infidelity and physical abuse as other reasons their wedding packed up 4 months ago, immediately their son Jayden was born.

Recall that words once emerged on the street saying Lilian wanted to marry another Nollywood actor who is now married, but opted for Ubi who was a backup plan from the start. And their marriage is said to be loveless from the beginning. Another claim alleged that Ubi Franklin wasn’t even plan B as she has always been the girlfriend of a very successful comedian.

However, Entertainment commentators say Lilian Esoro said no when Ubi Franklin initially proposed but he did all he can to convince her including her family as he was overly generous to them.


http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/11/lilian-esoro-reveals-secret-behind-failed-marriage-ubi-franklin/

Lilian Esoro has never granted any interview about her marriage. This is from a “THIRD PARTY” source.

I have waited to read from her. She keeps avoiding going that route and I like her for that. If things are not working in a relationship/marriage, just quit. Simple. No need to feed the tabloids.

People think a ring on a finger is what it takes to stay married. Ubi Franklin is a known womanizer. With that comes emotional disconnection. No marriage can survive with that kind of set up.

He is talking about the “love” he cannot give any woman? How does he expect to get it then?

The days of “trophy wives” and “souvenir husbands” are sooooooo over.

Better luck next time Ubi! Lilian nor dey complain o!

Ok.
Let us find the one you can love and vice versa.

It takes commitment to survive a marriage, not love. You can love all you want, but without committment, you are doomed to fail.

True love comes much later in a marriage, after you have been through hell and back together.

You could not even last ONE YEAR!

As soon as you finished with Emma Naira, you jumped to Lilian Esoro, EVEN WITH A BABY MAMA in all the “womanizing network”. When did you have time for “courtship”?

Next time, take time out to KNOW your partner, instead of fantasizing about “love” like a pre-teenager.

Keep running your mouth! The day Lilian Esoro will open her mouth to “expose” you, heavens will fall. I praise her for her maturity.

Let the woman come and say the same to the world, then I will congratulate both of you.

Till then? Na you get your mouth and “YOUR GOAT”!

babasolution:
i support you on this o,men should not bite more than they can chew oo,lets just manage village gals cos we cant the breadwinners wives abeg,they pass us by far

You men go hear? Always reaching above your levels and means.
Then what they can’t afford, they would insult and de-humanize.
Tomorrow, the same men will beat and kill the “village wives” for asking for too much “chop-money” or daring to ask why the olosho-hunting husbands are bringing all kinds or diseases home!

Leave the oloshos alone. Men are moving into their houses sharp- sharp!
You see Madam Alakija husband dey complain with all the “olosho” billions?
Why he nor ask how she take get “oyel-block” in the first place?
Ask Chidi Mokeme and Jim Iyke dem how dem dey waka?

babasolution:
yea,let women continue to be heads of households,i think its even ultimately better for men,any right thinking man will know how to fully enjoy his life.

lol women always quick to celebrate until reality hits them

The reality is NOW! Deal with it and stop whining.
You start preaching for “the MEN” to gerrrot the streets looking for oloshos and children to molest!

We don’t want women to become masters of “the art” of picking up men and little boys right?

We will rather be bread winners since the so-called “MEN” are too busy olosho-hunting.

Time to see my first patients jor. See you when I gat the time!
We bread-winners have to work you know? Since oloshorism is never gonna be an option.
As you can see from my DP, I love to show “my stuff” as it pleases me to admire myself. Any man trying to make me his olosho will have to pay me a lot higher than I earn in $$$$ to compensate for that level of humiliation and anti-feminism. I haven’t found one yet!

If you find one, please let me know. Thank you sir!

Seahawk:
That’s why a woman in Nigeria is either living in ‘her husband’s house or father’s house’.
Even when she’s obviously an equal or greater contributor.
If she constantly defies these societal stereotypes, then she must be an olosho .

They just have to make her success attributable to a man in order to satisfy their deepest prejudices against women. If all else fails, slut shame her into silence and submission

I come from a long line of hardworking women (my grandma still does business). I’ve always seen through the BS that most naija women are supposedly dependent on men. If anything it’s the other way round.

Things are changing ke!
Most men will have to learn to keep their mouths out of their bread winner wives’ businesses or move on. Since more women are taking up the responsibility of “Heads of the Household”!

Omotola’s husband supports his “olosho” wife abi?
Men will learn soon and fast, since it is obvious women are becoming the back bones of matrimony. Couples will learn to support each other or they would split and continue with or without marriage.

THE ONLY MEN WOMEN CAN depend on are the politicians who can outsteal the government. When women attain such heights equal to the men, men would learn to tow the line also.

Women are getting there. I am celebrating in advance.

Good morning! Off to work.

babasolution:
exactly,i wish that too,let women be packed out or better still refuse to get married so they can work hard and be successful instead of blaming men for dragging them down,also note that mercy johnson made it because of her sexy looks and sex oriented movies,which still boils down to selling sex,good for mercy johnson,atleast are husband didnt drag her down.

Mercy Johnson cannot be dragged down unless she wants to be. She already married a “man” who abandoned his first wife/baby mama to seek comfort in a “golden goose” of a bride. She already calls the shots as the “bread winner”. If anyone is to “pack” out, it is the husband. Whose HOUSE are they living in?

You write as if women “sex” themselves. Without the men groping and salivating at the sight of cleavage and bum-bum, the demand for oloshos would not be what it is in Nigeria and the world.

Yes! Men are responsible for the breakdown of marriages because the MEN are the patrons of the sex industry. Without MEN, there would be no sex-slavery. Women line the streets because of the demand for sex FROM MEN!

In the final analysis, ask your men folk to sit in their marriages and stop roaming the streets. Don’t blame the women. For every olosho, there are several customers abi?

Morning to you! Time for work.

Seahawk:
That’s why a woman in Nigeria is either living in ‘her husband’s house or father’s house’.
Even when she’s obviously an equal or greater contributor.
If she constantly defies these societal stereotypes, then she must be an olosho .

They just have to make her success attributable to a man in order to satisfy their deepest prejudices against women. If all else fails, slut shame her into silence and submission

I come from a long line of hardworking women (my grandma still does business). I’ve always seen through the BS that most naija women are supposedly dependent on men. If anything it’s the other way round.

You can say that again.
After watching the women in my family struggle and succeed with or without men in their lives, OLOSHO work is not an option!
I am to damn proud to be rubbished by any man, no matter how extra wealthy.
I wanna be able to tell a man GOODBYE without thinking about how I will feed myself.
I love my own money, JUST LIKE MOST NIGERIAN WOMEN have figured out.



Me sef wan do the OLOSHO work ke if na so easy.
Most Nigerian men are SADISTS ke! Even when they “pretend” to help, you become their property o!
Tufiaaaaaaakwa!!!
Especially, if a woman can succeed on her own. E dey PAIN DEM nor be small!
Thunder fall on them!

Any woman that relies solely on a man is taking a huge risk ke!
Good luck to her!

Empress Njamah!
If MEN opened such businesses, no one will question o.
If you are a woman, you must be an OLOSHO-SHO for sure.
If only people will do their research before spewing TRASH from their mouths and fingers.
I take time to read what I can about people before I start forming or voicing opinions.
If only people would take the time to read.
If YOU OLOSHO PROPHETS have proof, please share! Haba! Abi una nor wan do SUCCESSFUL OLOSHO WORK?
I go do ooooooo. Abeg, make una show us the MAMA or BABA wey do dem JAZZ ke!




https://newtelegraphonline.com/2017/09/empress-njamah-ive-never-begged-fund-foundation/

SHOW BIZ

EMPRESS Njamah: I’VE NEVER BEGGED TO FUND MY FOUNDATION

Published 10 months ago on September 2, 2017 By LANRE ODUKOYA

More than acting which is her claim to fame, Nollywood famous act, Empress Njamah, is given to humanitarian service and that she’d funded a foundation, House of Empress Njamah Foundation, for 15 years is enough testament. She speaks with LANRE ODUKOYA about her career, foundation and fashion business.



Your charity organisation has been your major focus in recent years, how is it doing?
The charity is doing well. We have not been throwing the big passes with the charity, but we are working with schools and trying to help children health-wise and through their education.
What are you currently working on?
I have been working on my ready-to-wear, my shoe line and my clothing line, which will be launching very soon. I source my fabric from the best in Italy, my shoes also come from Italy and I have multiple tailors who join things together for me.

Seahawk:
End of discussion!!

Another testimony.

http://dailypost.ng/2016/05/21/ex-boyfriend-never-gave-money-uche-jombo-denies-claim/

Nollywood actress, Uche Jombo-Rodriguez, has refuted claims she was financially dependent on her ex-boyfriend, Ikechukwu Uche while they dated.
She made her stand known in a chat with Broadway Africa, stating that she finds the claims insulting.


Uche, who recently celebrated her fourth wedding anniversary with her Puerto Rican husband, Kenney Rodriguez, said “It’s always insulting to me, that line of thought, because even while I was in that relationship, I had members of his (Uche) family think some of my cars were his.

“Uche has never given me money, which he knows. Never!.


She further clarified, “I have been working since I was 14 years old. I personally saw myself through school, not just me, even my younger ones. So, I have always been my own person, I have never needed a man to define me and I have always known that whoever I ended up with is the lucky one.

Very INSULTING indeed!

Seahawk:
I can’t get enough of Nigerian strong women.
Everything in the world is structured against them yet they excel.

Currently the most academically and financially successful ethnic population in America. I bow in respect.

The reason I have no pity for any woman complaining of marital woes.
Women are becoming THE MAJOR BREAD WINNERS ke!
Any man that can’t tolerate this fact can go to his village and get a bride of his choice.
Feminism is here to stay!

Good for them o!
Now, they can continue to live their lives.
The same “God” who has kept him alive will continue to protect them all from BIGOTS!

Soooooo proud of you Mercy!
More success FALL ON YOU!

Think of how you started dear Linda!
Success is slow but sure.
Keep on trucking!

Seahawk:
exactly

You see them all over NL trying to slut shame women. Only women with low self esteem will let someone else make them feel ashamed for a normal human characteristic.

We will answer olosho with pride. Thunder fire devil.

Meanwhile, the MEN are the BIGGEST SLUTS in Nigeria o.
Will NEVER sit in their marriages, and chasing everything with a quarter of a hole!
See Chika Ike improving her life?
Anywhere she comes up, lame guys will be screaming OLOSHO!

OLOSHO graduated with a masters from Harvard Business School ke!
AFTER BEING REJECTED FIVE TIMES!!!!!
Dem still dey online dey shout OLOSHO!!!!


https://www.modernghana.com/nollywood/33636/actress-chika-ike-graduates-from-harvard-business-after-bei.html

babasolution:
my point is most,so called succesful women in nigeria are slutty,you can hardly find a decent woman who is very successful in business in nigeria,thats why they are mostly divorced,they always engage in one form or the other of selling sex,either directly or indirectly,am nt saying they make their money from men but they sell sex indirectly,these women are always wayward in one form or another.most of these women are making money through women focused empowerment programs or through politicians patronage,things like that .you mentioned men being gigolos to nigerian wifes,you must be kidding with that statement.

Please, thank Larry Gentry, her ex-husband for “packing her out”!
I wish more women can be “packed-out” by their husbands, so they can better their lives by working hard like Mercy Aigbe.
Make sure you note that Mercy Johnson is also the bread winner, while her gigolo-husband smiles for the camera in family pictures.
Women cannot make it without selling their bodies in Nigeria according to you.
I disagree. I don’t have to agree with you.

F.Y.I. Mercy Aigbe is a “sharp-dresser”, not a “slutty-dresser”.

babasolution:
its mostly the women willing to advertise their sexuality that are mostly making so called waves,you talk about married women being the most slutty,true but then when these women are sent packing you will say because the men are jealous,pls you women should refrain from marrying so you can attain your success without any man to drag you down,instead of marrying and then blaming men for dragging you down.

You are not making any point.
Please, stick to the topic.
Thanks.

Seahawk:
That’s why I get really pissed off when these guys label all women are oloshos when I’ve seen with own eyes and experienced how hard women in Nigeria have to work. Especially after getting married.

So happy Nigerian women know better ke!
Now, they answer OLOSHO with pride.
Good news, men are learning the olosho work too.
If you listen to Nigerian men, you will amount to nothing in life I swear.

Daniwes:
Thanks, but what do you mean don't take wealth or debt to the grave?

I meant you do not take wealth or debt to grave, so take life easy.

Spend less, save more.

babasolution:
why is it mostly the slutty women and divorced women that make waves like you say,most of the so called women are slutty.that should ring a bell

Your opinion. An expression of sexuality is what you call “slutty”? Anyone can call a woman “slutty”, it does not make it valid.

Single or divorced women can make waves because ain’t no man dragging ‘em down!
Men make women the “sluts” you call ‘em!
Is there ANY MAN IN NIGERIA that would promote or mentor a woman on her own merit without speaking sexual favors?

In Africa and NIGERIA ESPECIALLY. . . . . CHURCHES, ACADEMIC INSTITUTIONS, Banks, Nollywood, Real Estate, Auto, Immigration, Police, Aviation, Music/Entertainment you name it is riddled with SEXUAL HARRASMENT of females than males. MEN ARE THE MAJOR CULPRITS!

F.Y.I. Married women are the “SLUTTIEST” of all women. If you do not know this simple FACT, then you are most naive that I thought.

Thanks to more men who have turned “gigolos”!

If the head of the fish is rotten. . . . . ?

Una still dey pay tithes to Oyedepo, Tuberculosis Joshua, Adeboye and co to buy private jets?
War don start o!
Welcome to Biafra Part II!

OBJ see ya life?

See dregs of society!
Hunger is really killing pipo!
Hopefully, APC go find work for them.

You take little steps.
Do what you can do and leave the rest o.

You don’t take WEALTH or DEBT to the grave.
Don’t sleep with financial worries as your pillow.
If you cannot achieve a large goal, deal with the smaller ones first.

Each chip of debt you knock off will lighten your load.

Debt will always come and go.
Work double time, spend wisely and save!

This na six month pregnancy baby?
More like 8 months!

Oga! Go do DNA test o.

So sorry for your loss.

See poverty in life and death!
See the small pikin blokos fa?
No diapers?

Maybe one “gecko” don fall inside dem soup as for “The Last Supper”!

LotusFan:
Nne Thank you jare... Some people are so narrow minded. In 2012 there were more female millionaires than men. Women work so hard abeg... I know of a woman who bought an island and this was a woman who did not have a rich husband or wealthy parents.

Biko, women deserve more accolades!

Thanks my dear sis. I used to think the same way, till I saw with my own eyes!
Any time I am in Nigeria, I am wowwwwed!
Come see “hustling women” o.


I know a 40 year-old woman who is no longer with her husband woman with 5 kids! Name it! She is into it. She is a tailor, event planner, oil and gas and catering. This woman dey waka from morning till night oooooo. Ex-husband nowhere in sight. All her kids in The U.K. schooling in POUNDS!

I see how she struggles. Many like that o!
Even if the men are in your life, na jealousy and “pull down syndrome’ o!

I have since changed my opinion in that regard.
Women are making waves. . . . More than men.
FACT!

No woman will knock a fellow woman down except out of spite. WE ALL KNOW HOW HARD IT IS. Only MEN will castigate hard-working and successful women out of JEALOUSY! After all, what a man CAN’T DO, a woman is DOING BEST without any man taking credit for it. You are an OLOSHO they cannot afford ke!

A married friend of mine with 3 kids just died of a massive heart attack. She just returned from China and her goods have not even arrived. The 3 children are in boarding school and have not been notified. All to hustle! This na married woman with husband o!

Acepen:
Abeg, Ur Source Of Wealth Has To Match Ur Assets, If Not There Is Cause For Suspicion, This Goes 4 Both Gender. U Av To Point Out The Source Of Hustle That Got Her The House, Cuz I Cant Believe Itz Acting

Fine! Naija men will NEVER leave beautiful women alone. So what? You have fun while you settle yourself. Do you really rely on them? Hell No!

Men can only point you in the direction you are interested in. No “man” can give a “woman” the lifestyle she can give herself”!

Is MERCY JOHNSON OKOJIE not making money?
Funke Akindele na OLOSHO too?

He may contribute, but that is it! The ultimate success depends on YOU, the female. The source of wealth?

As long as you are not a P-ORN star, olosho work can only go so far.

You can’t assume every successful woman is a “WH-O-RE”!
Na so e easy? WOMEN WORK HARD. I know.


Please, give the women some credit!


Mercy Aigbe:

https://naijagists.com/photos-mercy-aigbe-goes-skincare-bleaching-business-launches-flawless-beauty-line/

Rita Dominic:

https://www.google.com/amp/www.informationng.com/2016/11/rita-dominic-launches-luxury-human-hair-business.html/amp


Genevieve Nnaji:

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.pulse.ng/entertainment/celebrities/genevieve-nnaji-star-actress-who-is-becoming-a-mogul-id4961883.html

Nigerian women doing us proud.
Way to go!
People do not realize how hard you have to work as a female in Nigeria.

Everything Na “OLOSHO-WORK”!


*the colors though? *