The reason I will NEVER get a divorce o. I ain’t paying no niggggar a dime! Open marriage 100! SEPARATE BANK ACCOUNTS.
Marriage does not hinder my freedom in any way, especially as getting re-married is totally out of the ?.
Instead I will give up everything and walk away. But to be paying constantly? No way. I will relocate to Saudi Arabia before that happens. I don’t want no man to pay me either, just gerrrout and face your children. Don’t contact me for any reason.
mhd5757: watch other series, apart from GOT, there are some other good series that you can watch before November, that's when the 8th season will be coming out.
I have watched Vikings, The Last Kingdom and Wentworth o!
InyinyaAgbaOku: Whatever she stands for, she is not inspiring anybody, she too is helping herself, she is her own foundation. There is nothing she has said that is not about gender politics, war and bickering. Completely unhelpful stuffs.
I learnt more'from Flora Nwapa and Buchi Emecheta, they too were for women emancipation. Chimamandas idea of women empowerment or emancipation is a woman using men and their achievements, xtics, behaviors as the subject of her agitations.
And she is parading it as feminism.
Please, stick to only what you are capable of learning. Not or topics can be debated or comprehended. Thanks.
InyinyaAgbaOku: Chimamanda hasnt done anything for any girl child, fact. Being a gender warrior or gender politician hasn't impacted on any girl child in Africa. Mention one thing she has done
She does a lot being a motivational speaker and exposing the ways women are treated in Nigeria through her own experiences. Does she have to empty her bank account to help “the girl child” of Africa?
Everybody with NGOs chanting helping “the girl child”! Major 419 outlets to swindle people of their money and “helping themselves”!
It is either you do not understand what she stands for or you have chosen not to understand. Either way, you cannot be helped. Chimamanda is very simple to READ and UNDERSTAND!
Reasonabledoubt: Thank you. I am sick of ignorant Nigerians like the Op and her cohorts defining feminism to be about dragging power with man, or dragging head of house with husband.
True Feminism is the reason most of you female retards can get an education, vote, drive, work, earn fair wages, go on maternity leave and still have a job when you come back, own properties, even use your phone, and not be relegated to illiterate baby making factories.
But I guess the brave women that fought for you to have these things shouldn’t have bothered, because your rlaziness and inability to know a subject matter before discussing it has led to all of you relegating this movement to ordinary husband and wife matter, and mundane things.
Idiots!
I don’t know how someone will open a thread to SPREAD LIES to call them “opinion of truth”. That was how Linda Ikeji’s words about celibacy were twisted and mangled.
The same way they interprete their religion, half-witted and uninformed. The resources are out there to educate and to foster understanding.
But oh no! Everyone must seek relevance by “tagging” their superiors in a most dismal attempt to drag them to their levels of ignorance.
chisco82: You saw them fasting? Ok yea, let believe you. You comit God into what ever you re doing but never neglect your own role. Heaven help those who help themselve.
MissCokie: Please you should understand that she's putting the girl child in danger. Especially the African girl child.
I'm expressing my truthful opinion about what I'm seeing and witnessing. You shouldn't be offended by my article.
You are expressing FALSEHOOD, because you misinterpreted the essence of Chimamanda’s feministic philosophy. That makes you either ignorant or illiterate. The term “illiterate” is not meant to be insulting. Just stating the “facts”!
1 : having little or no education; especially : unable to read or write an illiterate population 2 a : showing or marked by a lack of familiarity with language and literature an illiterate magazine b : violating approved patterns of speaking or writing 3 : showing or marked by a lack of acquaintance with the fundamentals of a particular field of knowledge . . . . musically illiterate
You are more of A DANGER to both the MALE and FEMALE child, due to the level of ignorance you are exhibiting in your so-called “article of misrepresentation”.
Yes! You are offensive because you lack the most basic knowledge, but are still looking for some kind of “appeal” from the cognitively-impaired like yourself.
With NO DUE respects, you should be strangled for even mentioning MRS C-N-A-E.(Mrs Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie Esege.
Chimamanda has gone to places you can’t even dream of. She has a career, a MEDICAL DOCTOR HUSBAND, a daughter, multiple awards and recognition world-wide. WAS SHE not ONCE an AFRICAN GIRL-CHILD, who fought against sexual abuse from your RANDY-MALE BEASTS OF SEXUAL PREDATORS in NIGERIA, to give women like you a “blogging chance” even by NL standards?
What do YOU have but NL? If your “article of truth” is so news-worthy, why scream for “front-page” attention?
We are tired of NL posters like you who pretend to discuss topics like feminism, even when all you want is to promote religious buffoonery with supra-mediocre intellect kpa kpa. Please, don’t mention Chimamanda in your articles. You are not qualified to do so!
Truthsbitter: I can't believe I am getting soft over your personality .....
I knew you in your previous monikers .....I never really liked you, but I think I must have been wrong for not considering things from your perspective....
specially for me?,for free, just like that? this is really insane....I bind every spirit of masturbation...you will not posses me with that pics...
Hmmm...'you don't charge, you do it because you want to and you won't let yourself get disrespected just because you're a woman'....this is the best part I read about your comment...#thumbs up. (note that you should also accept consequences/responsibilities for your actions). But unfortunately you exempted Nigerian men... what a pity.
I love the pics...thanks for giving me my first realistic gift on nairaland.
You are sooooooo welcome. No qualms, no shaking. NL and my real life can NEVER mix. That was rarely in the past.
There are absolutely no consequences for me. The people I deal with have NEVER heard of NL. They are toooooooo busy making money and minding their business without a world of “likes and shares”!
Even if they have heard of NL or they know me, let them be bold enough to face me and I will show them who is stronger!
MissCokie: Chimamanda Adichi wrong misconception of feminism is like a dangerous venom to the rising of African young girls.
Chimamanda Adichie is married , living happily in a home structured with bright futures for herself and her children. But she has chosen to set other African girls on bound-age and endless blindness to the implications of misunderstanding the actual concept of feminism.
The world in general is in a developing position, and Africa is the least of them all. The wrong impact of knowledge into our girls would only endeavor that they remain single for eternity, while she is enjoying the bliss of marriage.
The wrongful ideas about feminism has really eaten deep into the brain of the African girl child, and she has accepted that a man is equal to a woman, therefore she is free to act like a man, work like a man, and be like a man. Whereby the actual program is for her to be a woman and remain a woman.
In few years to come, Africa would be filled with single African girls spending endless night in churches and mosque praying for a husband to come their way.
Please, the concept of liberating the girl child has being misused, by the so called intellectual elite, and instead of Librating the girl child, they are indirectly and directly endangering the girl child.
Please Africans , let's see beyond our nose, think beyond our brain, and make the right decision. Chimamanda Adichie's and others feminist theory won't save the girl child.
Who is this ILLITERATE? Please, go back to school and pay attention in class. So feminists do not get married or stay married?
Sounds like a lot of NL posters. If you can’t define feminism, you have absolutely no business discussing it. Simple! Google is your friend. Always.
Feminism is a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social equality of sexes.[1][2] This includes seeking to establish educational and professional opportunities for women that are equal to those for men.
Feminist movements have campaigned and continue to campaign for women's rights, including the right to vote, to hold public office, to work, to earn fair wages or equal pay, to own property, to receive education, to enter contracts, to have equal rights within marriage, and to have maternity leave.
Feminists have also worked to ensure access to legal abortions and social integration, and to protect women and girls from rape, sexual harassment, and domestic violence.[3] Changes in dress and acceptable physical activity have often been part of feminist movements.[4]
InyinyaAgbaOku: Kudos to your Igbo mother for bringing you to America
Meaning what? I for dey Libya or Italy? Naaaaaaah! I don’t come from that kind of background o! I have a very good job that pays alll my bills plus jara. No need to deal with “riff-raffs” like a low-income group, shyte hole hoe! Kai!!!!
Truthsbitter: Is that pics for real?? You got a hell of a nerve to post your bare/nak£d breast online ....I believe you are from Benin.
Do you mean most men are allowed to suck/squeeze but for a price and Nigerian men must pay big cash for small fun?
Nice boobs....I saved it , hope you don't mind?
Very real! Posted specially for you! I am soooooooo proud of them. No probs. They were meant to be saved. Bini babes are FEARLESS ke! Proud to be born and bred in Benin-City! We do not do “fake lives”!
I am not in the businnes of “charging” for my own enjoyment, and I looooooove to work for my own money please.
I just don’t allow men to abuse my body or spirit. I don’t do ruffians period!