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She is using ur head cos she noticed u love her.how can she not kiss u for good 3yrs of relationship,whats her reason?is she a virgin?even a virgin wld have given in if she really loves u.like u said,u spend on her nd that is the reason she is in it but guess what she will be telling her frnds(that u are a big fool,for 3yrs u have not touched nd her u keep spending)all these advises here will not even make u leave her that's for sure but be ready to come back nd tell how she left u after 5yrs of spending on her without a even a kiss.

Help him 2gether with what?I don't know y people are so heatless.now u want to leave her after 10yrs at 32?I really don't know what I wll do if I'm in the girl's shoes but I think the guy shld kill the one he nolonger loves nd marry the one he loves else he might get killed.

Onwe101: This young man is in despair because he
wants to end relationships with his girlfriend
of 10 years, but doesn’t know how to make
her leave.
Read his story:
I’ve been dating my girlfriend for 10 years
and she is now 32, I’m 34. The thing is, I
know deep in my heart I can never marry
her.
I knew that 2 years ago. But I have done all I
can to make her leave in the past 2 years
yet she won’t leave. I have cheated, beat
her, not called for weeks, still yet she is
always forgiving me.
I have even set her up with men but she
would always tell them how she loves her
boyfriend of years. I’ve been dating another
girl for the past 2 years and I want to
propose but my stubborn girlfriend I don’t
love doesn’t want to make way.
My girlfriend who I want to marry is getting
tired of waiting for me to breakup with this
one I even went as far as telling her maybe
we should spend some time apart.
She just laughed and said we are one in
spirit so that doesn’t make sense. I am fed
up. What can I do to make a woman get
tired and leave? This is urgent and I need
answers before I go crazy. Is it by force to
love again?
Dear readers, what would you recommend?
Let’s help the young man together.

It has nothing to do with his joke,it feels nothing to read this joke.just because all these celeb really care abt what we feel,they now apologize for nothing these days....I call this eye service.

MsSantaClaus: Really? Have you ever been raped? Or anyone you know? What is hilarious about it?? Have you asked your mother, sisters, female cousins or lady friends if it's funny? Or maybe anyone who may have been raped? Can you ask them then get back to us and tell us how funny they think it is?? Untill you do that and collect the data, do not tell anyone who is not finding it funny, how sentimental they are being!

Drinking of 4 to 5 plastic coke everyday,even when I'm sick...its the only think that passes my mouth.

He had it nd also had the heart to give.it also depends on ur pocket,if u have billions in ur account or even millions,to give out some wldnt cost u a thing but only if u have the heart of giving..I have not met a man like him again besides I have leant to work to make money.

truth_bastille: Great!!! Didn't know some boyfriends were so generous... buying my babe a samsung S3 sef feels like I buying her a diamond ring.. nobody should nail me on the cross o, fingers no equal;some of us don suffer well so we cant afford to lose the money albeit anyhow.

Had one or two places to go to but always feel lazy to go out so I was here on nairaland doing nothing.got something from someon but not today.

At 23,didnt work for it thouh,given to me by my ex,I used it to set up a salon business,later the shop was bugled by students in the area nd I cldnt manage it anymore so I moved.

Well thanks but I have told my sister inlaw all those thins already.

dominique: I'm feeling so bad for this SIL of yours o, I don't want to imagine what she must be going through in her matrimonial home right. Lord is her guide.

If your family is a type that strictly adheres to (yeye) culture, I'm afraid your brother's wife is in no position to ask your half sister to dishes and laundry. If the girl offers, she can allow her to do them. If the chores are not well done, there is a way she can correct the child without making it look like she's nagging. She can even redo the dishes in her presence and show her how its properly done.

That said, since you're the only one in your family that seems to have the poor woman's back at the moment. You should be the one to advise her to be very careful especially when it comes to making big deals out of non-issues such as soap dish and dishes not properly done. She should reduce the chores she makes her SIL do, if the girl is reasonable enough, she'll offer to assist when she see she's overwhelmed.

As for your family fighting you for not joining to wage war on somebody else's daughter, don't let them get to you. Stand your ground and do what's right. Pray you don't marry into a family like yours (sorry to say)

I don't know y,I have tried talking to her but she wldnt hear any of those.the day someone came to tell her what she was doing wrong,she washed the person with her mouth.I'm not saying my brother's wife is a saint but its better we tell her what she did wrong that telling everyone before the peron invovled gets to know what is going on from side talk besides two people can settle their differences with other person getting to know nd we must not tell her what to do all the time in her husband's house cos I don't think any woman can take such.

doxime: I think the problem is that your people still feels your brothers wife is an outsider.
they need to made to understand that she is now part of the family.
you said the problem started with your big sister's child using soap meaning your big sis is married so why is she coming to cause problems in her father's house.

Well sorry if its complicated,that's the mood I was,wanted the write everythin at thesame time.

My brother has his own house nd doesn't stay close to my family house.

Goodmorning all.pls I need ur advice on this,its about my family nd it might be a bit long.I'm from a polygamous home,december 23 made it 20 year my mom died nd we live live one family with my step mom(u will only know she is mot my mom cos she is too young to give birth to us). My mom left us when we were too young nd we managed to make it to this stage in life.I love my family so much nd can do anything to make them happy.

The problem now is,our most elder brother got married 2011 nd the problem started 2012 when my big sister's child used my brother's wife's soap dish to shower nd left it outside,my brother's wife came back nd talked about it so when my big sister came back our last born who is a trouble maker told her nd she almost brought heaven down that night,she called my brother's wife all kind of names why telling my brother what his wife did nd even said she was going to slap my brothers wife,when I heard her shouting from outside the gate I thought she was talking to one of my small sisters as she was crying(well the cry is nothing cos she crys every chistmas)my brother was asking her if it was cos of his wife that will make them have problem then I asked my big sister who she was talking to like that nd if it was my brother's wife she was going to slap nd we started having promlemnd he started crying,me too started crying cos that was my first of seeing my brother cry apart from when my mom died.$y anger is,if I'm the one that said what my brother's wife said nobody wld have heard abt it or said abt it but cos its my brother's wife that said it nd the poor girl was inside scared,didn't say a word nd also looking for who to speak for her cos she cldnt speak,I talked nd I nd my big sister didn't speak for 3days.that night my big brother could not sleep till 2am,he was just walking round the compound,the following day my brother wife went to buy something nd shared for us but my big sister did not eat it nd I eat her own cos I didn't want it to remean.

Another case is,my step sister leaves with my big brother nd she has no respect for my brother's wife cos my brother told his wife nevr to beat my sister.my sister does almost all the work in the house while my brother nd his wife goes to the shop.when ever my brother is corrects or shouts at her my kid sister,everybody will hear it nd the will start doing side talk,the next thing is:my brother's wife is behide it:but my big sister nd the husband beats another of my step sister like she is their house help infact she sleeps by 12 nd weaks by 5am but u wll never hear any one talk abt it.one day my kid sister that stays with my big brother washed nd she didn't wash it well so my brother's wife talked,every body was asking what right she has to asked such question but I big sister will bring out the clothes nd ask the one that stays with her to re-wash them nd u wldnt hear a word.

The problem now is,everyone(aprt from my father)is fighting me that I suport my brother's wife nd brother that I don't want to tell them the truth which is a lie.my brother's wife has her own fault(like not doing much in her husband's place nd not doing anything at all in the village cos we cook 2gether in the village.my step mom does the cooking in the village nd she will just eat nd drop the plate cos that is what we do,4gethering that she is married to the family nd not born there nd that people will talk,though I told her not to sweep or wash plate but can help my step mom out sometimes in cooking cos I have a lot of younger ones to sweep nd wash plates)i have talked to my brother nd his wife abt the things they are both not doing right nd they said they will take correction(besides who am I to jugde them?will I take it if someone does same to me when I'm married,wll I take it?)But that is what my people want me to do when I can't even tell them their own faults cos when I do(especially my big sister)get so mad nd start talking.I told them to allow my brother's wife leave in her husband's place nd they are talking.they are all angry that he built 2houses with doing much for the family nd I told them to let it go(even though I want happy too)instead of talking abt it,when u have ur own don't give too nd that we shld always told to my brother's wife when ever we think she did something wrong(which they wldnt take)than to start gossipin nd making her an outsider but noone wants to hear that.I have told my sisters that what ever they do to my brother's wife will be done unto them nd they say Godfobid.so my people what will u advice I do cos I nd my big sister are not talking cos I said they shld allow my brother's wife live in her husband's house for more than a month now even though I'm not ready to settle unless starts telling my kid sisters to shout up or she will look into any matter the bring to her instead of joining them to say that woman is this nd that,thereby making them to grow more wings.thanks

If that is the case,fine then.talk to ur girl,she has the knife nd the yam anybody she gives eats.

pickle_juice: Money is not the issue at all. I can get married with 3 months salary once i'm done with skool, i am going to be an electrical engineer and she will be a nurse. So money is not an issue. We are in a country that once u graduate you will get multiple job offers without even trying. And yes i can finish skool and get married next year. Her biggest fear when it comes to family opinion, is how to overcome her dad refusing his daughter marrying a non igbo. My parents are not fussy at all. I am a man and I can marry whenever i want to. My dad married at age 27 and there marriage turned out to be awesome. so if i marry at 25, its not dat bad.

Ok good she is?girl,don't listen to what any pastor is saying cos most of them are after what the will get from u nd they want to have acces to ur family/goodies for life.one of the churches I went to,the guy doing miracle calling people up nd telling them abt their family history nd at the end I went to meet the pastor only for him to start asking me out later nd promised to show me the secret of his wealth(that's how he said it)so if its abt what the pastor said,I wll advice u 4get it nd do ur own prayers,believe me God will talk to u.abt ur guy,he might not be very ready to settle down next year unless he is from a wealthy home so it might take him more years it left for u to decide if u can wait or not nd pls don't marry for the wrong reason,make sure u are happy wetin u nd not to place anyone.

pickle_juice: Yeah she is viewing this thread as i type this. They are both igbos from the same state, am not igbo. You see that's the way it should be, God has given us the ability to pray and hear from him so why do we need to run from pastor to pastor. If God speaks to the pastor, he should be able to speak to you as well.

I didn't see this before posting.u are both 24,I feel/her parents might feel u are too young to get married being that u are still in school nd again u said u are edo nd they are both igbos so there is less u can do to change things.how possible do u think it will be to finish next year nd get married same year?wldnt u work for some time atleast to save money for ur wedding nd all?what abt ur parents,wldnt they be mad at u that they sent u to school nd all u could think abt abt graduation is marraige?unless the girl is willing to wait some years for u to stand(which her parents might nt allow)

pickle_juice: Thanks bro. We are both the same age(24) and will be graduating at the same time next year. And you are right we are from different tribes. i am from edo and she is an igbo girl( a very fine one).lol. And yeah malaysian boy who has said that he did drugs in the past( like they all do in malaysia), however i believe he still does drugs.


The question i ask myself is how do you leave a prospective engineer that you have been with 3 years for a drug dealer that randomly added you on facebook all in the name of match making prayers? how?

It seems ur girl nd the malaysian guy are both igbos nd u are not?if that is the case then there might be more to the prayer thing cos igbos don't like to marry guys from other tribes and if really about what the pastor said,how many pastors here in nigeria are real?I think u should bring ur girl to this site,4get about what u have said or what others have said that might hurt here nd make her feel bad when she reads them,she needs to know the bitter truth.the guy in malaysia,what does he do?has she tried to find out cos we know what some of the guys over there(I repeat,some of the guys)?when it starts her parents wldnt be there to carry the cross with her.we did family prayer early this year nd I was told my ex is my husband nd that he wll come back to me nd we will get married 24 of septemer nd now is december 22 nd sinnce then I don't listen to what any pastor has to tell me.I do my mid night nd God talks to me through my dreams.

And here they come again.

Perfect bright: hello infact u are a good woman with a good hrt, just conront him politely and prayerful. Based on the wisdom u are using to mange ur home, ur are such a woman i wil like to have as a wife

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ogene70: thank you all for your contributions, i think i will go for a one day event as suggested here.God bless you all.

U shld have meeting with urself,some bad characters needs to be deleted before things can work out.when something happens once,twice,thrice then its ur fault.

Hmmmmm,this is evil...never had this before.

How did u know he is joking?

nyere84: Easy, u are too uptight.

D guy is just having fun and nt serious, hw can u even take him serious? U even have to bring his sisters into it?

Nd what do u wish for another person's sister?were u thinking from ur nose when u wrote this nonsence?

Go_n_Die: 1. Am so annoying.
2. My friends will molest my sisters.
3. You're even more annoying, so you have the impetus to tell me this and wish my sisters that!

I think her dad is in a better position to give u codes.u mean u opened this thread just to ask for codes to sleep witha girl once?who has been giving u codes before now or u want to tell me u are still a virgin?nd what makes u feel the girl will even like u for keeps?u are so annoying.well keep planning while ur frnds nd other guys are planning party nd how to rape ur sisters.

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Sorry to say but she doesn't like u.that is her most tressured place nd when ever u touch them,its irrites her that y she said she can't stand it when u touch her.same reason I give when I trying to like a guy nd its not just work.

First of all I want to say thank God for the gift of life over my life,my family,frnds nd well wishers throughout the year,thank u for bringing us this far.may none us us be the victim or the suspects nd may God continue to protect us all.I only feel sorry for the parents that gave birth to these boys.well as for the pastors,I have nothing to say to u,if God will not bless me for the help I give to the poor arnd me then he shldnt,no pastor will get anything from me.

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Visit a dentist.it will take her 10 to 15k to fill it depending on the hospital nd how bad it is.my ex has same problem.

OmoUSH: Pls how can she fill it? @nicky

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