My dear the truth is that u mighg end up not marrying this guy u Are in love with..this ur guy might not be ready in the next 3/4 and then u will be more than 3o and when he is finally ready,he might think u are too old for him..if this ur ex really loves u try and see if u can love him too but if not then dont go into it..u are only in a relationship with this ur guy and anything can happen anytime.uote author=Billiondoe post=50543655]What are the characteristics of a good marriage, am 25 and single and staying in a relationship is like world war 2... seems like love is not all it takes... am in a relationship with a 27yr old man and we r In love and we are both university graduates but I dont think we can make it to the alter cos it's a different drama everyday, never caught him cheating and he respects me but his family controls a better part of him and he isn't ready for marriage anytime soon and I have this ex who is very willing all I have to do is tell him am ready and am no longer in a relationship, he is rich and has different cars and houses but am not so into him but he loves me for sure.... [/quote]

Sorry but i wouldnt believe what u just said,u spoke to your mum,dad,aunty and the said u shouldnt apologize?why did u have to speak to them when it happened in ur family house and everyone was present..they truth is that u spoke to someone older than u and its only right u apologize to her so why would ur people say u shouldnt..she is not here to say what really happened between u two..sorry if im being mean but thats just what i feel about thiswquote author=sasural post=50250533]

There seems to be some confusion. I live with my Parents. They come to my parents house. I do not live with them, I never have. The fight happened in my Parents house. I do not depend on them for anything. They do not give me money or pay my fees. I was leaving my PARENTS house to go to their house and help him with his work when I didn't have classes.[/quote]

My dear u didnt say how old u are but from what u wrote she is older than u so its wrong for u to speak to her in a rude way unless she is naturally a mad woman.......u are not doing ur brother a favour cos u are living in his house,eating his food and pobably he pays ur fees so u are not the one doing him a favoure rather he is the one doing u a favoure...u have to respect ur big brother's wife ok?cos when u disrspect his wife its ur brother u are disrespecting...why dont u like her?is there something she did wrong before ur brother married her u just dont like her naturally and u want to show it to her by being rude..my dear its not easy to house and feed someone so respect them for that.u didnt even say what she really said to u and why she said it..but have one thing in mind,if u are not respect her in her house just cos u dont like her thats how others will disrespect ur wife.ur brother cant stay and watch his wife treat u badly so if he says u should apologize thats cos u are wrong












te author=sasural post=50233665]So I had a fight with my Sister-in-law. I've never liked her and neither has my Dad or my brother. The only one in our house who actively likes her is my Mother. She doesn't even treat my Mother right, however my brother that she's married to is my Mum's favourite.
She constantly speaks in this condescending, rude manner. Normally I ignore it, but today I was feeling ill, so I wasn't in the mood to deal with it. I told her that she should speak to me like a human being and with at least a little respect.
She later left and went and reported to her husband, telling him that I was rude, shouted at her, threw things at her and other stories. I did none of those things. He called me and yelled at me, refusing to listen to what I have to say and told me I should apologise to her. This is the same brother that I'd been sacrificing time when I don't have classes to go to his workplace and help him out without being paid and he turns around and tells me he has been doing me a favour. A favour? Or I'm the one doing him a favour? I spoke to my Dad, Aunt and friend and said I shouldn't.
I need advice on what to do please.[/quote]

I guess u are the doctor who did the abortion or she told u herself..what do u mean by at her at?so abortion is good for adults alone u mean?where was it written in the bible?some people told u she had an abortion which u are not sure of and here u are trying to bring a small girl who is only trying to do something good for herself down.





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At her age ,she has already committed an abortion and u see it as an achievement??
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and ur point is?to bring her down?first tell how many time u have done thesame thing u accuse her of..i can tell ur answer is none.fear God.







ote author=CindyeMerAld post=50202916]
Got it from a reliable source in the film industry...
the gal is nt as innocent as she looks,she ve join bad gang[/quote]

In the other thread u asked someone to send her account details so u could give her the little u could and i was hAppy for the kind heart and here u are saying life is about give and take...what did God take from u for the life he gave u..u should have just passed.










quote author=youngest85 post=50169862]Chai! I wish to help but life is about give and take....[/quote]

Keep advertising urself by urself.. U hear? By the way Linda will not look ur side and u Are not cute anything.lying, lair,lies.

My deAr u did nothing,if she hAs some self respect she wouldnt go into thAt just cos a man left,some girls has seen worst things and they still kept looking for thAt special one..u cAnt for the sin of another man so move.quote author=obiwigan21 post=50050323]Ok, guys, my story is this..... I am based in Europe, so the last time i came into Naija in 2012, i met this pretty babe... We have known each other since beginning of 2011 via face-book, so we met for the first time in 2012 when i came in. This babe is very pretty and i really liked her a lot!, but the problem is that she has a very serious boyfriend then and because of that we couldn't date. I went back to my base and we still remain very good friends. She tells me everything in her relationship and all that. Finally she broke up with her boyfriend and it was a very bad breakup that hurt her so much and probably because that i guess she joined the bad girl click, called naija runz girls.... but i did not know about her change in behaviour.... Fast forward to June this year, i came back again to Nigeria and apart from the contract i came to seal, she was one of the main reasons i came back.... I really had very good intention towards her.... i brought with me a lot of gifts for her and i always call her on the phone and send almost every day nice romantic text messg. and i told her so many times on the phone how much i missed her and cant wait to be with her again.
She is based in Owerri, but i flew in into Lagos and i had to fix some little things in Lagos , before moving to Owerri to meet her. While i was in Lagos, i started noticing some things about her.... one day she called me and said a courier from Konga and Jumia will be bringing some stuffs for to my hotel and i should pay them 50k for the stuffs and she will take them from me when i come in.... Well, 50k, is not really big amount, i was like she should have discussed this with me 1st before sending some random courier guys to bring something to my hotel and i have to pay for them too. Well, to cut long story short, i paid for her stuffs and i brought them with me to meet her in Owerri. When i got into my hotel in Owerri, i called her to come and she came with 4 other girls and though i was very tired after my flight, she pushed me to take her and her friends out.... This babes ate like they have never eaten before.... they ordered everything they could lay their eyes on and even some take away too. Finally, after her friends have gone, we were alone in my hotel room, and we got talking... She told me that she is not interested to have a relationship with me... that all she wants is just fun. i was very disappointed to hear this from her, because, i really like her and i wanted something more than just fun with her.... I tried to explain to her about my good intentions towards her, and she keep saying, all men are same, i dont want to have any relationship with you.... Then she said, i know that you want to sleep with me, but before you touch me, you will take me to a shop where i want to buy cloths and i will pick whatever i want and then you can fuxk me after.... i got pissed up after i heard that from her and i said well, its already late now, so we will go tomorrow but meanwhile, i tried to play with her and touch her, and she pushed me away and said, you will touch me after i have bought what i want to buy tomorrow.... Then i lost it.... i left alone through out that night and when we woke up in the morning, i asked her to leave my room that i am going out.... and she asked me what about the stuffs i bought for her from Lagos... I told i have changed my mind and i will not give it to her, i even showed her other good stuffs i brought for her from Europe, but i refused to give her any of them.... She got so upset, she cursed me and abused me and then she defrined me from fb and blocked on whatzapp.... So guys, if you were in my shoes... will you do same?? [/quote]

God bless you for ur kind heArt..this will go a long way for her.







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youngest85:
gv me ur acct no let me send a token

My advice, take her,love her and treat her like ur daughter. When urs comes it will be a big happy family. Don't let fear of the unknown make u destroy your home with your hands..he is never going to marry the girls mother again, he will only love his daughter and don't feel bad about the love he will give her cos he will try to make up for all the years they have been apart. When you do all these,ur home will forever be urs.

Temilola01:
I really need people's advice on how to handle this, as the next few weeks will either break or make my marriage stronger. My husband and I have been married for 5yrs now but we have been together for 11yrs. We have been through so much together, ivf procedures, miscarriages, failed businesses and the usual ups and downs in every relationship. He came to me last night after discovering he has an 18yr daughter who he has never met or did not know till yesterday. We are still waiting on God. Although this was before we met but does not make it less of a blow. I want him to do right by his daughter but I also fear for my marriage. I only just learnt about this literally 8hrs ago so I'm in shock and still trying to wrap my head around it. I need people's unbiased advice. Thank you everyone.

To whom it may concern...l47 hectares of land with C of O for sell in Abuja. It's near Goshen church,along keffi road.

Its 28 kilometres from the city..Abuja airport is 48 kilometres from the city,that gives u an idea of the distance.

U have to see the land and do the necessary inquiries to be convinced.

No to call if interested is_o8ll6957638.

Thanks deAr.quote author=Cool23 post=48071071]Don't be sad girl there a lot of better guys out there just take a break from dating and take some time to rearrange yourself and also don't think about assholes[/quote]

Thanks a lot dear.





quote author=Artistree post=48064684]
Lol, no pun was intended dear. Just snap out of the revelry and move on, you'd heal faster.[/quote]

No he doesn't stay in Nigeria, I was only calling but he wasn't picking though to the pains he said he was having.






quote author=peddy231 post=48065670]@karbridals, what I don't understand is that your supposed boyfriend told you he was involved in a tragic accident. You never made mention of attempting to check up on him,probably at the hospital, Is it that he doesn't live in Nigeria?

The whole narrative seems strange...
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Thanks dear, I appreciate but let's not call him a monkey.. Once again I appreciate.

Artistree:
karbridals, forget these people trying to blame you for that monkey's bad attitude. The guy is married and was just trying his hands out with some random girl online, maybe to remind himself that he's still attractive.
Any man that can comfortably carry on for days, weeks or months without reaching out to his partner surely have something up his sleeves. And for those screaming NO to online dating, it is simply myopic to conclude that online dating NEVER leads anywhere.
History has proven that a lot of couples met their spouses online and are living happily today.
So girl, stop blaming yourself, you did nothing wrong. Truth is, the guy would still have dumped you in no time.

I agree he was not ready to take the risk,yes.but I never reminded him about money.
Efemenaxy said I moved on so fast not what u said she meant....u said I want people to call him a bad man? Did u actually read what I wrote well? If yes,did I really talk bad about him?






quote author=karbridals post=48061956]He h







quote author=HCF post=48059817]@Op. A guy, who earned your TRUST,against all odds and made you fall in love again after two years of ending your last relationship is not an entirely bad guy.

You did not throw yourself at him and I'm not sure there were amorous activities between both of u to suggest that all he wanted were mere flings;this simply means both of you wanted the best form of relationships that would lead to a happy marriage.

The major factor responsible for the misunderstanding between both of you was the long distance and the fact that none of u initiated the move to bridge this gap ( which u erroneously thought could be bridged via calls, texts, Skype..etc) made it worse.

That the Guy may be married, is just pure assumption..he may not. In fact, he may not even be in any relationship as he has told u. He might have said that to put an end to the relationship with u.

Ask yourself, what's the rationale behind winning a woman's heart and breaking it without setting eyes on her or having anything amorous to do with her?. If he was a heartless player, his main goal would be to chop and clean mouth.

I may not agree with the test he subjected you to, but the guy was just scared and extraordinarilly cautious. You may not have any reason to doubt him till now, but Like EfemenaXY observed, the guy had certain reasons to doubt if you would really be a good wife. He appears to be a guy who was not ready to accept the fact that you are as good, genuinely caring and loving as you might have presented yourself...what if you claimed to love him simply because he gives u money?, what if u said u loved him because he is handsome and he has a good job?. Is there any assurance you love him for whom he is and not what he has?. These and other related questions would have pushed him to testing u with the accident story( though, I don't subscribe to the test). In short, he was not willing to take the Risk..and if in real life he is a guy with commitment phobia, the willingness to carry on with an online relationship becomes harder.


So, whether you are guilty or not, I'd say u are not and he MAY not be guilty either...but both of u made mistakes...learn from it and move on.
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He never sent me money for one year that we dated and I never asked.









quote author=Onegai post=48061516]Karbridals, you wanted us to tell you he was a bad guy. Most of us did. EfemenaXY merely said the other side of the coin: you also had some issues. She's not lying about what she said: you carried this relationship on your head very strongly, for someone you knew little about. Nothing wrong with an online relationship, but something wrong with an online relationship taken too seriously, with no footing.

If someone tells you he/she will give you something and they don't, if they are not your immediate, understanding and loving sibling, and whatever they are giving you is not a textbook or something you need to save your life, please don't remind them. It reeks of low-class desperation.

And if someone doesn't return my calls, if it is not my mother, I don't keep calling. I learnt this and you should too. There is nothing, absolutely nothing in this world stopping anyone who wants to contact you or keep in contact with you, doing so. Think I'm lying? Proof: if his phone got stolen, he has memorized important numbers to call them, they are on his Facebook so he can message them and tell them. Did he do that for you? Why didn't he? No, don't tell yourself he was angry, that's a lie. We both know the truth.

And when Efemena said you hadn't gotten over your last relationship, she probably meant that whatever happened there influenced how you handled other relationships (including this one). And the amount of time between doesn't mean much if not spent well. It's the most common thing in the world to see a man or woman clinging in his/her next relationship if in her previous one, she may have felt let down by how it ended. Maybe she was dumped, maybe the last guy disappeared, maybe she got cheated on, maybe she did the breaking up and the dude went on to marry the next girl he met and gosh, their pictures online look happy and beautiful. Whatever the reason, your self-esteem took a hit and you wanted to fix it by having another relationship. It's not a bad thing, just a common mistake made by people dating. So just try and heal yourself and know you're better than this.[/quote]

He h







quote author=HCF post=48059817]@Op. A guy, who earned your TRUST,against all odds and made you fall in love again after two years of ending your last relationship is not an entirely bad guy.

You did not throw yourself at him and I'm not sure there were amorous activities between both of u to suggest that all he wanted were mere flings;this simply means both of you wanted the best form of relationships that would lead to a happy marriage.

The major factor responsible for the misunderstanding between both of you was the long distance and the fact that none of u initiated the move to bridge this gap ( which u erroneously thought could be bridged via calls, texts, Skype..etc) made it worse.

That the Guy may be married, is just pure assumption..he may not. In fact, he may not even be in any relationship as he has told u. He might have said that to put an end to the relationship with u.

Ask yourself, what's the rationale behind winning a woman's heart and breaking it without setting eyes on her or having anything amorous to do with her?. If he was a heartless player, his main goal would be to chop and clean mouth.

I may not agree with the test he subjected you to, but the guy was just scared and extraordinarilly cautious. You may not have any reason to doubt him till now, but Like EfemenaXY observed, the guy had certain reasons to doubt if you would really be a good wife. He appears to be a guy who was not ready to accept the fact that you are as good, genuinely caring and loving as you might have presented yourself...what if you claimed to love him simply because he gives u money?, what if u said u loved him because he is handsome and he has a good job?. Is there any assurance you love him for whom he is and not what he has?. These and other related questions would have pushed him to testing u with the accident story( though, I don't subscribe to the test). In short, he was not willing to take the Risk..and if in real life he is a guy with commitment phobia, the willingness to carry on with an online relationship becomes harder.


So, whether you are guilty or not, I'd say u are not and he MAY not be guilty either...but both of u made mistakes...learn from it and move on.
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Aright.



quote author=armyofone post=48056965]Girl, cut off every tie you have with this guy. Don't call him or take his calls. Unless you want him to come use and dump you. Be careful and stay away from online relationship.[/quote]

Thanks so much my dear, I'm getting myself back knowing it wasn't my fault after all.









quote author=PresVA post=48055987]What kinda stupid tests be that? How can you be putting someone you claim to love through such emotional stress all in the name of testing them... Testing what exactly?

Seems you were enjoying the emotional torture... You should be happy you are no longer with him.... If you marry someone of that sort, he can give you silent treatment for months even while living in the same house with him.. so childish... He thinks it's all about him... even had the guts to blame you for everything after he broke communication for months. ..

My dear move on, you deserve better. .. and he could even be fake as many people pointed out. .[/quote]

If I must I must understand you,it's a crime for one to meet someone online,u have never done it,no one has ever done it and people have stopped doing?it has never worked for anyone?has stopped working and will never work for anyone again.

U can meet anyone any where,even as I'm writing this there are a lot of people are into it,it will work for some and wouldn't work for some.
Have u never dated someone u met online before.

U said I should work on myself,if I may ask.. What area exactly? I should have continued being difficult like I was from the begging? Its either I'm in the relationship or I'm out..what's the use of being with him if I couldn't trust him a little?

U might be the one person dating someone u met online but u are saying I should forget online guys and look for people around me,these people online,aren't they humans? Arent u online too,does that make u a bad person?






















quote author=byvan03 post=48055055]Which :Phonesty are you talking about, someone you never met? How did you manage to fall so hopelessly in love with an unknown individual? You really need to work on yourself, if you continue like this you go injureoooo!!!


That you see him on Skype doesn't really tell his marital status. In this age of couple living separately due to work issues, anyone can be married. Go and meet real people, forget this online thing jare.[/quote]

My dear I can't believe u called me those names without asking me first.
Did I ever tell u I asked him for money or he said he was going to send me some money own his own when I was sick?

Again u didn't ask when my first relationship ended but u just insulted me for going into another...if u must know,its more than 2 years since my last relationship ended. Friends were even very angry with me for not being able to move on after so long.

The first time time we had issues,he was the one that called first and said I was not showing like I care.the second time,I was the one who called and he didn't pick I continued days after.and this last time that I didn't call like the other time,did it make it any better.

He once told me I'm the most difficult person at first,but he could see I had become so comfortable with him cos he made me trust him.
I built a very tall wall around me when I first met him but cos of his honesty and all, I had to break it down.












quote author=EfemenaXY post=48052942]

Do you see what I see?

~ This is purely an online relationship. Neither of you have met each other face-to-face to ascertain your real characters, yet you make (financial?) demands on someone you know next to nothing about? To the point where he feels cornered to making you promises he either can't keep or has no intention of keeping. How are you any different to an online scammer grooming his intended victims? And yet you wonder why he treats you with little or no respect?

~ You bombard his line with countless calls and messages. I used to think this was the exclusive preserve of your average male psycho but you've proven the adage right what a man can do, a woman can do even better. Calling a guy 100 times in 10 minutes is no proof of your measure of "love", but rather portrays you as a certified nut case. An online stalker / crazy chick to be avoided at all costs.

~ You've obviously not healed from the breakdown of your last relationship and have entered a new one on the rebound, hence your clinginess and desperation which any male can smell off you for miles on end.

I'm sorry girl but there are so many more things wrong with your approach which I can point out but these should do for now. You're in no fit state to enter another relationship so soon and you need to go cool off your heels and learn to love yourself more.

I'm not saying this man is a saint or faultless but you need to go work on yourself. Once you do that, men would respect you more. Right now you're being treated the way you are, solely on how you've presented yourself and right now, not in a very good light.

One more thing, you should be grateful he's declined meeting you in person (with his crazy reasons), because married or not, he could and can take advantage of your vulnerable state. Painful yes, but see this as a lucky escape on your part.


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Thanks everyone.I don't think he is married cos we did video call everyday,when he is cooking,on the road, very where...no we never had sex and we have not seen before.

I wanted to get other people's view cos the whole thing is not making me think well. Like I know this is not true but I couldn't stop feeling responsible for the break up.

OK,thanks a lot.





quote author=Onegai post=48050581]Karbridals, that man was not into you. From the start. Oh, yeah, when you guys started, he was all over you because new toys are interesting to small boys. But his interest waned and he moved on. You didn't do anything wrong so it would be damaging for you to blame yourself for his lack of serious interest. Please move on. Remember this, several men have found good relationships without having to "test" anyone through silly mindgames. Once anyone starts disappearing and not picking calls, assume it's because he has found a new toy. If he ever tries to come back, please don't let him.[/quote]

Thanks.that is why I'mhere so i can stop blaming myself for what happened.


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nairalife2013:
No reasonable man will put a lady thro what he knows is much tougher than what her natural nature can bear. If u are temperamental, pls dis guy is not for u. It could be he doesn't need such a lady, even if u are dangote's dota or kim kadashan,the lady with d legendary booty n a$$

Ok thanks



uote author=byvan03 post=48048396]He is married, move on!! Don't let anyone deceive you in the name of testing your qualities. If you don't love yourself much more, you will always be a victim of battered heart. This man is very fake, a liar and am sure a cheat too, obviously playing kalokalo with your heart. You told him your heart is fragile and you truly believe most men will give a shi*t about that before breaking it again? Woman up please, forget this guy because nothing good will ever come out of this shady character. [/quote]

Thanks my dear, I didn't leave him and I have not left him still. On my own I wouldn't have done anything to hurt him.


quote author=nairalife2013 post=48048340]If u love a man, stand with him all thro, never be d one to call it quits! No matter what!! For God's sake, u are a potential mother and good mothers dont quit. He is going to be yur first son. He is going to hand over his life to u. After God u are going to be d major decider whether he'd live long or die young; whether he have peace at home or writh in chaos and pain. Before he could do the handing over of his life to u, he must have some level of trust. Each man has his own way of finding out the one thing he craves. U d lady cannot fake who u are not when d scrutiny is from a MAN.
From what I see, he seems to love u. He will come back. He may do worst when he comes. This things doesnt have expo, it will be spontaneous either in conversation or action. But, no matter how u try, u will never see it coming, if he is a real man. Just be who u are. Good luck[/quote]

Thanks my dear but no I didn't show him I was desperate I say so because,at the beginning when ever he was angry, I will not bother to call him,at the end he will call and start telling me how I wasn't caring and all.



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StPete:
Sometimes maybe seeming desperate isnt such a good idea. He saw signs of desperation and decided to move on. Furthermore, he could possibly be married and just finding a way to bail out. Dust ur shoes babe and move on. No time to waste time!

Goodmorning everyone in the house...so sometimes last year,I met a very honest,gentle, matured and a bit judgmental man online..I grow to love and trust him so much.

Sometimes he just stops calling calling either when I say what I wasn't meant to say or maybe when he says he wants to send something to me..there was a time he stopped calling for 2 weeks,I was the one at fault so I kept calling and messaging him but he never answered. I sent my sister and my male friend to call him but he didn't pick, being that he didn't have their no's.
After 2 weeks,I said hi and he responded,he then told me that he didn't like the many calls and messages, that anytime he is not talking I should just let him be,that when he is fine he will talk to me,that his family knows him for that.


3 months ego,he was meant to send something for me....he promised.... Then he stopped talking to me a day to the day.I called he didn't pick so I let him for some days and called again he didn't pick, sent messages but no response so I left him...all these while I was so worried and angry, I was angry cos the relationship is not all about him,it hurts me when he is not talking to me...I was also worried cos I wanted to be Sure he was fine but I didn't want to repeat what I did the other time by calling all the time which he said he didn't like.Im someone who gives advice to people and it works fine for them so I was wondering what I was doing wrong.


About a month and 2 weeks,he used an accident scene as his dp and wrote... Rip chika, u were a friend and a brother, I will for ever miss u..when I saw this, I became more worried and started calling him again but he didn't pick, I sent a message that he should please pick his call telling him that everything is not about dating or money,that we can still be friends even if he didn't want the relationship any more.some days later he called and told me he had and accident with his best friend and he died..on his on side that he had seizure,can't walk well and so many other things........said he didn't know if he could make it,I praid for him and told him to stop thinking the way he was thinking.

Everyday when I come online and call him,he wouldn't pick and I will drop a message. Sometimes when he picks, he will always say his back was paining him and couldn't talk and I will let him be..the night he told me about the accident, I did a midnight prayer and started putting him in my prayers everyday.

Everyday I will come online and ask him if we could talk and he will say no,he was having pains and I will let him be...at a time I wasn't calling everyday cos he said he was having a lot of pains and couldn't talk then..

One day as we were talking, he told me the accident happened 2 weeks ego and this was a month plus that he stopped talking to me,i became angry but didn't show it.
One day he called and asked if I had moved on,I told him yes that since he left me nau...I said that to know what he would say cos there was really no one...but instead, he started telling me how the accident thing was all a game he decided to play with his friend and that I moved on so easily, he was looking for a special kind of woman... This is after 2months plus that he decided to tell me all these.

He said Im a reserved lady who doesnt sleep around but i didn't call like I was meant to when he stopped talking to me And so many other things he said.. He said he had found someone else and wouldn't be talking to 2 ladies at the same time....I tried telling him why I did all that I did but he wouldn't have any of that.. Since the last time we spoke, I have not been able to reach him again.

This is the only guy that has been able to bring love back into my life after my last failed relationship that almost cost me my life..
I told him from the beginning how soft my heart
Is and I wouldn't be able to take another heart break. So that's why I'm here,maybe I will feel better or responsible for this.

U speak with so much hate what is problem?when d,banj left don jazzy,he started doing a lot of shows and even started rolling with Mr west and at the end what happened? Pual was trying to make peace with his brother that's why..I love Paul cos he is peace loving unlike ur man that is shouting up and down. Paul owns the voice behind the brand so he can never fail rather ur man will cos he is full of arrogance and even the bible condemns it...so try harder to make ur man look good when he is actually not.

Congrats Paul,I want to see more of this until when ur brother peter is to be tolerance.. I don't get angry with any of my family member for too long cos I don't want to die being their enemy, it will kill me again.money is good but sometimes show love cos this money is not for one person. U don't want ur brother to grow with u?then something is wrong with u..forever with Paul.

My dear u just need a break..how in God's name will a woman do such a thing to someone she said she loves..if leave her in that house,something more than thiswill happen but this time they will smarter.

If she doesn't protect ur interest then there is no need being with her and to think that she didn't feel hurt when her sister called u :half man: she needs to go and live those her sisters, by the time they insult her for living her husband's house,she will know the kind of man she played with.

Let me warn u,if u don't handle this as a real man,u will be shocked at what they will do next..tell her its over and that she should take her belongings and live ur house,u will take Ber back but let her keep begging u to take her back from her parents house not urs..and by the time u take her back,she will be more careful with things she does.