Obainoman6:
You were not wise and that wise couple have run you street, its a normal thing where i live mugu must always fall for guyman to chop.
Right now that wise couple will be enjoying the stuffs they bought from your shop while toasting with a cool bottle of wine and celebrating. Take your L peacefully.

TheBlueDiamond:



fine, don't contact her anymore too.

don't allow her or anyone else to gaslight you for doing the right thing.

That part of vacating the bed for her was unnecessary, especially when the bed space is a big one.
You could had created distance and made boundary with pillow, then went about the self control till morning.

Martinez39s:


Nice one. All these overt and subtle slander and belittlement of virginity are stale and won't fly. Can't good character be seen in virgins too?

Karlifate:



A slut / wh0re / ex or current olosho is a walking bomb. 💯

She's damaged & instead of looking to get fixed, she finds joy in destroying others, especially men.

She holds resentment towards men & she's ready to unleash her misfortune on whoever falls into her trap.

Karlifate:
Dear [young] men,

The brimming adrenaline energy makes youth to behave recklessly...

...but in all thy recklessness...

...avoid entaglement with a shameless woman cos she'll drag you down to filth, when push comes to shove. 💯


In summary: Have self-control.

advanceDNA:

Women always support each others' bad behavior. They will find justification and blame men for any of their dirty behavior from fvcking around in marriage to paternity fraud, and even prostîtution

But once virgin is involved....hian!!! They will drag her ehnnn........All becos una don lose una own virginity for SS2 …....


#Women helping women....... spits!!!

Cloudflare:
Honestly, why is it so extremely difficult to find these qualities in a woman.

1. Doesn't double date
2. Not into hookup, runz and twerking on tiktok and whatsApp status
3. Independent
4. rich
5. Educated
6. Not a single mother
7. Beautiful
8. Figure 8
9. Romantic
10. Doesn't follow men for money
11. Spend her money on her man and Pampers him
12. Isn't stingy
13. Doesn't have entitlement mentality
14. Tall
15. Doing well for herself
16. Have a good business or a job that fetches her good salary
17. Smart with good sense of humour
18. Virgin
19. Has a car
20. doesn't have only sex to offer

Those are the qualities every sane man wants in a woman, is that too much to ask?

id4sho:

That's how my ex wants me to put her mum on monthly allowance. Me that is still crawling, wahala for who gree

Fahvvy:
Abeggie make we rest with all this talk🙄

All this talk of "that she's a virgin doesn't mean she'll make a good wife" is just a way for wh.ores to console themselves ...

Does she not being a virgin make her a good wife? ...

Let's stop acting like good character and virginity are inversely proportional to each other ...

There are virgin girls with amazing character, just as there are wh.ores with bad character and vice versa ...

Why is it that we just choose to take the few instances of virgin girls who are uncultured as a means to trash the value of a woman keeping herself till marriage? ...

If you like, follow this trash talk and get married to a wh.ore, na you sabi ...

id4sho:

Your mind dey there

alizma:

Hian, this is not difficult Na, I know someone with those qualities, the guy just pass my side some minutes ago, you can exercise patience a little, he will be passing again in 2052.
But what he doesn't like is people that can't be patient with his movement schedule.

princefunm:


I don't drink
I don't smoke
I don't womanize
I don't gamble
I don't do drugs

.....oya talk another one.

The truth is these guys are out there. They are all around you.

Girls with this kind of spec usually don't have the brains to hang around the right circle. (Not referring to you ooooo...I come in peace ooo)

They only hang around the circle of men who are looking for toys and play things that they will dump into the garbage when they are done

ojonugba2014:
I have all this qualities .

Although I never build my house finish.

One thing I know for sure is " any guy with those qualities will never settle with some Random 9ja girl who has nothing to offer. I am an example of those guys I am talking about. I don't do any of those things listed there.

I listens to musics a lot though.

My girlfriend is a virgin, industrious ND beautiful both physical ,front ND back.

But the only issue I have with her is" entitlement mentality " I was made before we met, so why feeling entitled.?

addictiv:
There are so many men that easily meet these requirements, they question is why will they want to be with someone like you?

Most of these men are in the 1% and they re usually attracted to women also in the 1%.

Believe me if you re in this category you will get tired of seeing men like this.

So the question is what does a 1% woman look like?

And do you have the qualities that women in that category possess?

GreatChizzy:


Though it is not as hard as to find a 25 years and above virgin lady. I don't smoke, drink nor womanize.

Honestey:
Yes it's hard because most of them are mutually exclusive. You expect same tall , handsome man with 6 packs and doing well financially not to womanize? If he doesn't, he will always get raped by your friends. Abi it's only because of only you God created good things?

ravensckar:
*WHAT A NAIJA GUY WANTS IN A LADY*

1- Faithfulness i.e not fvcking around.

2- Be financially independent such that she can pay her own bills.

3- Peace of mind.

However, an average Naija lady can't offer any single thing on that list. Yeye people with entitled mentality.

Successlane:
The man with all these qualities will not just for the take of any woman.

He too will have specs,

It all now depends on : - if you fit into his

Ejiakusmith:
Women and their self-centeredness ..... When a righteous brother with this attributes come now .... The fool go say she's not my spec

BarrElChapo:
Cos you cannot attract men with these qualities as you're not the standards they're looking for.

GanagiBitrus:
Even if you find such a Man, the bigger question is: "Do you deserve such a Man".

LilMissFavvy:
I couldn't read all, but the truth is that any lady who would earn 1 mill, 2 mill, talkless of seeing 20mill, yet she's still refuses to quit hookup, is a lazy cur$ed b!tch. How can anyone see all that money yet does not start up a business? Even if she's too lazy t0 w0rk, she could have simply build houses that pays her rent annually, with that she would live a decent comfortable life.

AreaFada2:
Very sad story.

She wouldn't have done it if life had dealt her a better hand growing up.

She has basically sacrificed herself for her family and comfort in life.

She will have lots of regrets later in life.

May she find peace and succour.

Guys should see girls first of all as sisters and cousins before anything else.