lightwind:
So these are the small small boys disturbing us here on Nairaland forum everyday. No wonder many leave annoying comments.

That's why i don't argue or reply peoples comment. People here most of them are little little boys and girls in their early 30s or late 20s.

They quick to insult the elders, cos they don't know who's behind the moniker SMH

steeltrust:
Three people who you no fit advice for this life
1. Who get money
2. Who de find money support [Naija] politicians
3. Who de in love

Karlifate:

luminouz:

His own is worse. Imagine simping for married woman!!

AsaBlackheart:


What's jittery in letting someone know your stand?
Be like say you don't understand the meaning of "clearing things" these days lol.
It simply means we both know where we stand.

You don't want to date me? Fine.
That also means I can't cater to your needs whenever you want.

No stress man.

AsaBlackheart:


Clear things up with her. Don't cut her off completely though. That's shitty.

Simply tell her that you may not be able to meet up with her requests instantly again whenever she asks.
We humans gain an entitlement mentality when we get something easily. So when she asked the first few times and noticed that it didn't seem to be a problem or constraint for you, she took full advantage of the situation.
Normal thing.

It's up to you to reduce your generosity... cos that's what people will call it. *Generosity*

Don't fulfill her demands instantly. Sometimes even, you can tell her that no cash dey currently.
But that doesn't mean you should do that every single time though.

I hope you understand my epistle

Gadafii:
Women will sell destruct before they realize their follies

You can sacrifices, commitment,endure hardship and etc with a woman for 8years, them she leaves you for someone she just met 8 weeks ago
If you really want to live long, happy and fulfilled, comot emotion for woman matter and make use of your logics, otherwise na premium heartbreak

Alhajikd:

Thunder
Confused gender
My senior brother's wife left her marriage 2017 after marrying for just 7 months oh.
Lo and behold, last year December being 2023 she called him that she want to come back.
You can imagine after 7 years oh.
My brother has already moved on and married with a kid.
Him just laugh and told her fvck off
It is men's world whether you like it or not.

PinkNature:


Changing your wardrobe is investing in one's self.

Some corporate wears, a pair of corporate shoes, a wristwatch and a few ties.

That's self development. Looks matters.

labake1:




Eheen, send your CV let's see if you are qualified

labake1:
Job vacancy

I am looking for someone that can summarize the above post.
Salary is attractive

luminouz:

I'm damn sure her husband ain't no 40 secs man. But when women are pained, they will say anything to tarnish your image and what's better than saying a man couldn't satisfy them!!!

But we know how well they scream and cream in the other room🙂🙂🙂

Usefulsense:


Australia really humbled me. Imagine a financial controller in Nigeria now picking and packing cartons in warehouses in Australia.

Usefulsense:


The only thing I miss, is the big man mentality we have in Nigeria. Where I will sit in my office, call one of my staff in intercom and ask for a cup of coffee; and it will be brought to me in seconds. You can't try that rubbish here.

The level of security here is top notch. I have no fear, i move about anytime of the day/night.

After one week in Australia, I concluded that Nigeria is a completely lawless country and an animal jungle.

Here everything is ordered. I am yet to hear a driver blow his car horn while driving. There are no touts, there are no omoniles.

Electricity has never blinked for one second. water is constant, gas is there. I have never seen two persons fighting in the street. I have never seen a mad man or woman on the road or street beggars. The air we breath here is different from the air we breath in Nigeria.

It was in Australia that I realized that the saying in Nigeria that Nigerian police is your friend is actually true. Break the law in Nigeria and police catches you, just give them #2,000 you are off the hook. And the circle of lawlessness continues. Here, it is a different ball game. Proposing bribe will be used as evidence against you. It doesn't matter who you are. Every one is civil.

While in Nigeria I suffered malaria every month. There is no month I don't treat malaria. Since I got to this country, I have never had headache let alone malaria.

Children are doing wonderfully well at school and are already speaking through their nose.

luminouz:

Exactly!!!

luminouz:

Na mumu dey believe women without hardcore proof na. Just like tonto calling her ex 40 secs man....

Who dey believe that one?🙂

ManirBK:
pls why positive development irritates you peaple

Chicagograduate:
So Dangote increased cement price so that he will use part of the excess profits to distribute rice as a ploy to make people see him as a philanthropist rather than exploitative.This cabals have turn Nigerians into IDPs with their imposed hardships.

Karlifate:
Dear [young] men,

You must focus on yourselves & become well off financially, emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually & in all facets of your life.

Don't neglect one for the other.

Be a multidimensional man. 🔥💯

Karlifate:



In sequel:

Her words seldom align with her true feelings toward you.

Observe her actions instead. 💯

OgunjimiFengxi:
That nigga is a clown who tries too hard to fit in.....I'm surprised you still take him this serious. He's in the same league as the mentally unstable girl trying to cause drama here.