Women: "I love you"

The Pill 💊: At this moment I feel love for you, but feelings change based on the consistency of your actions.


Love between a man and a woman is ALWAYS conditional. 👌


Only your mother (and grandmother) can love you unconditionally, to a large extent. 💯

Dear [young] men,

Depression is just a lack a identity. 👌

You don’t know who you are.

The “Discovery of Self” is like being in a state of enlightenment.

You’ll stop over-pursuing woman.

You’ll stop simping.

The old you will slowly fade away while this new avatar takes over in ur reality.

Giving a girl mixed signals is powerful 👌

Think about the hottest girls you ever tried to tak too.

She was really good at this.

She’d pull back, take long to respond, flake, and confuse you.

You should do the same. 💯

Be indifferent.
Take long to respond.
Go missing.
Pullback.


The chaotic game women play is sweet, when you're in control.

Women want to feel safe around you.

The best way to make her feel safe is to show her that you've the capacity to be dangerous, but decided to put it on a leash. 💯

Dear [young] men,

The nicer you are...

...the more likely she’ll cheat on you with some IDGAF dude.

Maxim #26:

Women secretly hope that you won’t rob them of the opportunity to make themselves vulnerable before your alpha inscrutability.

—Chateau Heartiste

Ericmaestrooffi:
Good morning house

I’ve been following this thread for a long time but I’ve not commented before. I want to ask your opinion on cohabitating with a lady that’s not your gf or wife.

A female friend of mine who recently graduated reached out to me that she wants to come stay with me and use that opportunity to look for a job, she didn’t tell me how long she intends to stay but from our conversation it seems she will be staying for a long time.

I’m currently a banker and not doing bad for myself, I don’t have any issue housing or feeding her but I don’t know if it’s right for a guy and lady not dating to live together.

N.b: we are only friends and nothing more, although I once dated her sister.

Please I need your opinion on this before I take a final decision on this.

Excerpt from Illimitable man:

Genuine desire

Women are aware of why men do things for them, they play dumb but on a machiavellian level they are quite smart, they have high machiavellian intelligence.

They play stupid for the sake of appearances so that they can squirm and escape accountability by keeping their hands clean via the employment of plausible deniability, but ultimately a woman with many beta orbiters despite any well-placed display of ignorance she feigns knows full well what she is doing and why she is doing it, the reality of the matter is she just doesn’t care about the needs of the man so long as one or a number of her needs are being met by that man.

She is entirely happy to carry on exploiting his sexual desire of her whilst not reciprocating or giving in to these demands, only implicating the promise of sex to keep him around should he look likes he’s about to leave and throwing him duty sex should she really value his contributions to her life.

Every girl has a Justin Case saved in her phone under a girl’s name or a fake title like “Mechanic.”

He’s there “just in case” you two don’t work out.

She’ll hit him up, and he’ll be over in 30 or less.


Even your so called good girls have a Justin Case.

Her game doesn’t sleep bro. 💯

God1000:

https://www.facebook.com/100068376034740/posts/pfbid0tKL6gpQ5gqUYjHdhRrfs3gkG1CL4wGsAGhAHnyWWxZFguVbp88U8BD8rGgzMii6kl/


It pains me to know that some stupid people have contributed so much for her within 24 hrs, something is wrong with our people.

And these are the same people criticizing the law graduate miss Vera for soliciting for help

The same people that find it hard to support Tunde Onakoya during that Chess game, aimed for the educational interventions for children across slums in Africa, especially Lagos, will speedily throw in their weight for a divorced twerker.

Sad Reality.

Dear [young] men,

Avoid being in contact, dating, marrying or having any entanglement with a slu+ or an ex-slu+

A slu+ can easily destroy you because she has low sense of self-worth & that also means less capacity for shame, guilt or remorse.

She's already damaged.
So, she has no problem damaging your reputation.

💯

Are you currently residing in Burkina Faso?

Your answer will answer you by itself.

In an individual's natal or birth chart, we have:

Sun Sign

Moon Sign

Mercury

Venus

Mars

Jupiter

Saturn

Uranus

Neptune

Pluto

Chiron

North Node

South Node


The marital compatibility of two people is not dependent on just Sun Signs alone.

tnerro1:


Maybe her twenty something years experience in bedmatics😁

🤣🤣

The Nairaland thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/8082484/wofai-fadas-in-laws-reject-marriage



Taiwo Cole has been pussy whipped by this post wall masturbator.

Engr Kunle Cole do not want his bloodline to be corrupted.

Tallesty1:
This explains why some women prefer having male friends. They might say it's because guys are less dramatic and more trustworthy. But the real reason is they use male friends for their own benefit.

See the way this one makes him feel like the guy is lucky because she talks to him, and the Seun-looking big head is even happy.

If we should open his eyes to the fact that he is being used and will be disposed of the moment she sees a smarter guy that will send her the assignments (which is what redpill is all about), some people like Ereluroz will say that we hate women.

Guys in this type of friendship and some relationships are mostly placeholders until someone better comes along, there is hardly anything genuine in it, just a means to an end for the women involved.

This Okpolo head thinks he has a friend, might even think about her before going to bed every night, might even consider himself lucky because she talks only to him in class but what he hasn't yet realized that he is merely a pawn in a game of convenience for her.

Some ladies can't keep female friends because women understand women, and you can't use someone who is out looking for whom to use. You can't exploit someone who knows your motives.

This young guy will someday come to the rude awakening when he start asking questions. Soon, it will be clear to him that he is being used, that his presence is valued not for who he is, but for what she can gain from him. That will be his pill moment.

He can either ignore the truth and keep acting like a lady that is about to accept a marriage proposal (the bluepill) or accept that he is being used the whole time and distance himself from the fake friendship and make himself unavailable for another woman to use (the redpill).

Of course, he will be accused of hating women, and that is okay. I will do the same if someone removes me from where I am getting something wickedly.

@ bolded:

LMAO! 🤣🤣

Nice one, Ujujoan2 👍

You've done a great justice to this thread.

Forget those naysayers & folks trying to counter your comments with non-reasonable ramblings.


If the OP, Moshybear likes, she should continue wallowing in regret.


People who always indulge / wallow in self-pity don't amount to anything great in life. 💯

ProjectNEXT:
While the full meaning of the supermod, nlfpmod is NairaLand Front Page Mod., some people cant spell it correctly. I have been seing people mentioning nplfmod, nfplmod, npflmod etc on threads to make frontpage....

And btw, i thing nlfpmod is lalasticlala

@ bolded 1:
Some people use "And btw" together

@ bolded 2:
Some people can't spell "think"



What's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.

Bintabisiriyu2:
No be only odg na FUSE ODG.

Maybe the OP applied as an Azonto dancer.

Antai123:

You may be right but, I didn't think of such, I was very angry about how my hardwork and honesty was rewarded. I felt it was an opportunity to pay back. Anyway, I don't think they would have accepted to pay me my 4month salary. Cos it has not been in practice before since I joined them. Even my rent was not paid because, I was not going to stay with them again. It pains but that is the sad reality.

No mind am.

They won't pay you shishi.

You'd rather waste your [limited] time & other [scarce] resources.

rickleye:


Not sure why you didn't go .. get your 4months areas and negotiate a 6month salary for a future termination of contract.

LMAO! 🤣🤣

Which private company owned by a Nigerian, in Nigeria will do that

8. Don't post false information on Nairaland.


You & your fellow liars need to be banned for 100 years.

bukatyne:
Hmmmmmmm

Very interesting.

It would be insightful to know what formed the woman's request.

She didn't want to change her name? She loved marriage to an Abayomi? She wanted kids to honor her late husband?

And why the man agreed.

@farem: more stories like this.

We need our history.

History of lies & unverifiable 'facts'

crackhaus:
False information, no link to any credible source.
Just conjectures and assumptions by feminist revisionists.

There's not a single Biography of the late Sir Dr. Kofo Abayomi that mentions he became an Abayomi after marriage, and this is someone who was very popular.
Even used that same surname Abayomi to attend school in UK way before getting married to Lady Oyinkan Abayomi neé Ajasa in 1930.

His son Dr. Kole Abayomi, an Ex DG of the Nigerian Law School, also makes no mention of it in one of his very extensive interviews with Punch Newspapers.

https://m.guardian.ng/saturday-magazine/transition/lady-oyinkansola-abayomi-an-amazon-trailblazer/

This is how people like farem pass on false / negative / slander opinions to younger generations.

Since lotsa Gen Zs are lazy, they don't bother verifying these 'facts'.

Putting mixed liquids in nylon also has its disadvantages.

An average man expects to be paired with an average woman.

An average woman expects to be paired with an elite / high status man, and when she is paired with an average man, she will never get over her dissatisafaction.


The hypergamic bias of women is to think:

"I can be average or slightly above average, and I will be paired with a man who is elite on every metric"


Sadly, this usually does not materialize for them.

Dear [young] men,


One of the good indicator of a virtuous wife is a good understanding of finance.

Don't marry a woman who has zero understanding of financial management. 💯