Dear [young] men,

Everything in this world is achievable.

It's not a question of whether it's possible or not.

It's a question of whether you're ready to do what's required.

"It's impossible" are the words of lazy cowards.

Be like Nike & just do it!

Dear [young] men,

Make absolutely zero compromise when it comes to deciding who will be the mother of your children.


Everything matters.

Her past, her present & her future.


If you leave any stone unturned you risk fucking up your children.

Be wise. 💯

Mrsoft3:
Nigeria police mad o, so them turn this woman to man back again

The transformative power of the uniformed men.

eddynaira125:
He personally invited the Spirit of waters to that boat, you pay and the others didn’t pay, this will definitely bring in more problems, if e didn’t pay anything, the water spirit will not have entitlement mentality, I think this actor should be ban for leading death to his fellow colleagues, u pay u no fit tell your guys to pay their dues, nobody Dey dodge deve payment without collecting from community

LMAO! 🤣🤣

GreatVocalist:

Thank you. Sadly, most of them don't take corrections seriously. They think people who make these corrections are showing off.

You've done the right thing.

They either take it or leave it.

LocalStandard1:
Consciously or unconsciously every Nairaland members is almost far gone on tribal bigotry, every.

@ bolded:

Fallacy of Hasty Generalization.

SSpeter:
💯. Guys are always chasing the wrong thing, take good care of yourself and get a career or learn a good skill and women will come around, focus on yourself and create good moments they will focus on you.

Exactly! 💯

Almaiga:
Northerners with simple life

You came to this world empty...

You will also leave this world empty...

There's no need arming yourself with what you'll still leave behind for someone that didn't do half the work you did. 🤷‍♂️

toujurs:
Looted government funds, confirm. .

It's even how Nigerians recognize a thief as the richest man in Africa.

Have you heard him, speak in foreign forum as he speak, you will understand.

Listen to the late Herbert wigwe, listen to tony elumelu, listen to the likes of maduka cosmas (traditional brainiac).

You will understand dangote, has no knowledge about Business.

LMAO! 🤣🤣

@ bolded:
So much bitterness.

He never became a politician in the true sense of the term.

However, because of his enormous wealth, he was always very close to the government.

He had to be in both the colonial government’s good books and maintain a position very close to the emirs of Kano.

He was nominated to represent commoners in the reformed local administration of Kano and in 1950 was made a councillor in the emir’s council - the first non-royal individual to have a seat at the council.

This is Power.

frozen70:


God already knew what we women are when he made man the head and he first created man before women

Despite out of the 30 ribs a man have, he took just one to create a woman yet, that single one he took is still stronger and tougher than the rest 29 ribs

LMAO! 🤣🤣

GenFunction:
Some wil even say "pls epp me with 100k my grandmother swallowed padlock"

LMAO! 🤣🤣🤣

PulaPower:

Lol..

There’s this dude that was always listing like 40 jobs like that - wonder where the dude is..

Na EvilForest be dat

You made some salient points.

Nice one, OP 👍

Dear [young] men,

Nobody is coming to save you...

You are the hero of your life...

You have to train...

You have to learn...

You have to earn...

Every hero has a hard time...

You have too...

Accept the pain...

Accept the grind...

Accept that failure...

Accept that heartbreak...

Keep building the hero within you... 🔥🔥🔥

You will surely make it. 💯

Dear [young] men,

Men are driven by the thought of gaining more power, freedom, money & sex.

Women are driven by the thought of gaining the best man possible.


Use this dynamic in your marriage & it will prosper. 👌

Women like men who have options, but they also want to feel special.

You could have others, but you chose her.


If you’re too much of a IDGAF dude, she doesn’t feel special...

...if you’re not enough of one, she thinks you’re thirsty.


It’s a delicate balance for sure.

Woman by nature are insecure.👌


When she meets a man, she's looking for his arrogance / self assurance / confidence.

Timid, shy, and insecure men remind her of herself.

Arrogant, self-centered, and selfish man reflect traits she wish she had.

She must look up to you to respect you. 💯


In summary: A woman can't 'love' who she doesn't respect. 👌



NOTE: The meaning of the italicized, varies from individual to individual.

Dear [young] men,

Nobody stole your girl from you...


She chose him over you...


She chose her future...


The universe saved you from future calamity...


You WON.

Karlifate:
NOTE: More times than not...

If for whatever reason she is texting you asking questions....

...it’s her way of signaling to you that she wants to see you.


Woman will never outright say “Hey I want to see you”

They communicate covertly.


Arrange the meetup ASAP.

Karlifate:



Never ask for permission to escalate with a girl.

If she’s at your place...

••• Relax.
••• Set the mood.
••• Have [a couple of] drinks.
••• Stir up suggestive conversation(s).
••• Etc.


...and when the time is right, you’ll know.

She wants to feel like you know what ur doing.


Keyword: feel

Man up, bro.

Don’t let her tell you she’ll be free in a week or she doesn’t have "free time in her schedule"

If she wants to see a high value man, like her celebrity crush or a rich Arab prince, she’ll drop everything

Speak up & tell her that you’ll need to arrange something soon because she could lose her spot.


In summary: Frame matters. 👌

Dear [young] men,

If you're not afraid to lose her, when your respect of boundaries are in question...

...not only will she see you as a leader, but she will sense how quickly you can replace her. 👌

Dear [young] men,


1:
If she makes planning meetups difficult ::: Next her


2:
If she thinks she can do better ::: Let her


3:
If she flakes ::: There are hotter, sexier & classier chics waiting


4:
If she ghosts you ::: Let the dead bury the dead



The less you care, the more she gets to wonder about you & the higher she perceives your value. 💯

It’s that simple. 🤷‍♂️

Dear [young] men,

Have high standards for potential girlfriends.

If a girl doesn't meet all of your criteria, don't treat her like you'd treat a partner. 👌

It's not your job to turn a h03 into a housewife. 💯


Always remember this & apply accordingly.


NOTE: Since time immemorial, women's standards has never changed, but "men" keeps lowering theirs to accommodate the excess of the Eve's descendants.

Karlifate:
NOTE: More times than not...

If for whatever reason she is texting you asking questions....

...it’s her way of signaling to you that she wants to see you.


Woman will never outright say “Hey I want to see you”

They communicate covertly.


Arrange the meetup ASAP.

Never ask for permission to escalate with a girl.

If she’s at your place...

••• Relax.
••• Set the mood.
••• Have [a couple of] drinks.
••• Stir up suggestive conversation(s).
••• Etc.


...and when the time is right, you’ll know.

She wants to feel like you know what ur doing.


Keyword: feel

Karlifate:
You don’t fukk a lot a woman by:

••• Having more muscle than her.

••• Being taller than her.

••• Making a lot of money than her.

••• Giving her more compliments to her.


You fukk a lot a girls by having masculine frame & being entitled.

Arrogance is her drug.


One of the more reasons they fall for the IDGAF dude.

In sequel:

Being bossy and authoritative is her biggest turn on.

Bossy men have this aura of arrogance.

They feel entitled.

This signals to her brain that she’s dealing w/ a pre-selected man.

Money, status, and muscles have nothing to do with it. 👌

Confidence wins everyday. 💯

NOTE: More times than not...

If for whatever reason she is texting you asking questions....

...it’s her way of signaling to you that she wants to see you.


Woman will never outright say “Hey I want to see you”

They communicate covertly.


Arrange the meetup ASAP.

You don’t fukk a lot a woman by:

••• Having more muscle than her.

••• Being taller than her.

••• Making a lot of money than her.

••• Giving her more compliments to her.


You fukk a lot a girls by having masculine frame & being entitled.

Arrogance is her drug.


One of the more reasons they fall for the IDGAF dude.

Karlifate:
The second you take her seriously, it's no longer a man-woman interaction.

You have now placed yourself as the guy who is like the “others”


To be the man that owns her...

You must treat her like a child.

Doesn’t matter if she has 8 degrees, several achievements, or she’s a hot young babe.


Biology will still prevail.

To be candid: "Women are kids with tits"

The second you take her seriously, it's no longer a man-woman interaction.

You have now placed yourself as the guy who is like the “others”


To be the man that owns her...

You must treat her like a child.

Doesn’t matter if she has 8 degrees, several achievements, or she’s a hot young babe.


Biology will still prevail.

You can fukk a girl one time & she will ghost.


••• ex is back
••• on a [fukking] break
••• has a BF but testing the waters
••• likes to sport fukk
••• trying out different categories of Men
••• etc...



All these has nothing to do with you. 💯
Don't second guess yourself for a flaky homosapien.