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[quote author=*Hauwa* link=topic=210578.msg3257239#msg3257239 date=1229970070]Alloy Emeka i think family yes but not others.

thanks Karma i will definitely do that. i hope they don't observe it that nothing for them this year but for the others AA's. for those far away, am send out cards. guess what i have many cards here already sent to me and all are from the oyinbos in my church none from the naija in the church. we all know each others o. so Emeka, you are wrong.

we have to learn how to share and to do for others. imagine if they eventually have lots of money. . . i doubt it if they are going to give back.[/quote]Dont give the AAs the gifts in front of the "naijians" jo o! before they place juju upon your head

Just give them cards

[quote author=*Hauwa* link=topic=210252.msg3257138#msg3257138 date=1229969018]how about the old women doing the oriki (what do they call the thing with the tongue sef like a song) i forgot but i can do it with my tongue.[/quote]I like that

JJYOU:
nigerians mostly give to people they can get from.

yet omoge's coworkers arent. shameless bunch.

Its one thing not to just give for the sake of it. It's another to STILL not give when someone gives you something. Embarrassing

Aloy your obesession with Tpia is just creepy now. Is your "fiancee" aware that you are obsessed with another woman? Wetin concern Tpia in this thread?

and NO Naija doesnt give gifts. Most you here is family buying or sweing Christmas clothes for their kids. People make food but gift giving? Um No.

[quote author=*Hauwa* link=topic=210578.msg3257102#msg3257102 date=1229968561]true am begining to think again. this is the 3rd christmas in a role that i have wrapped gifts for all. seems i will have to return the 3 gifts to the store and get my money back. the first and second time, i didn't care but now i do because it is like habit that is hard to break. even last year that i didn't have enough to go round, i still was able to get something little like make up set, scarves etc. i just wanted them to know how to share. . .

i could tell they loved the gift the past years. i am giving the AA ones the gifts and taking the rest back to the store later
am yet to open the gifts from the AA ladies [/quote]Yea just give the AAs. You'll surely get something back. Return the stuff for the Nigerians and give it to Salvation Army. At least then you know that your money is helping others who actually do appreciate it. Like soup kitchens, homeless shelters, heating people's homes, etc. The ones you are dealing with are just shameless

I think they mean the beating of the husband, Funmi

Figured you'd love that

Olabowole harasses people esp pilgrim. He doesnt deserve anything.

Has a Nigerian ever given you a Christmas present?

why would you give them anything?

Only time they do is when they are FORCED to, with 'secret santa" at most work places. Other than that, they dont

Cant say I really blame them cos in naija Christmas is more about the celebration than gift giving.

either way, dont give them unless you know they're gonna give you something jare.

I got a lovely Jessica Simpson bag from a coworker. I think Im gonna get her the Arden perfume set.

Im glad she's not so abnormal with Brad

that whole blood vial thing was just creepy

If you enjoy getting a brain aneurysm, Fox News is the place

I would buy a Kanye Fuji album

Somehow I think that girls in this forum who advise against or try to discount intimacy between two adults with marriage on their mind are either naive or not being sincere.

Are you sure you're in the right thread?

Where does it state that the dude is even thinking of dating her talkless of marriage?

I liked John in "Old Brother Where Art Thou" 

do not seek the treasuuuuuuure

Yuck Transformers 

Lmao omoge.

If you start selling monkey suya to the oyinbos all in the name of "exotic delicacy". Im sure you'll make some money

It's one thing o go back to Naija, it's another for those who intend to move to Europe

If they cant survive here, how do they expect to survive there?

Yea The Man Who Wasnt There was good

Bet he's cute

Tell her about his affair jare

Make sure to provide evidence

Lmao jenni. Kai. I dont think she's a REAL lesbian o.

Both have been in Yoruba movies (Caro and Lilan)

However Lillan's Yoruba is definitely better than Caro's so I perfer her

I believe Caro's father is Scottish. How about Lola's?

Don't deny him sex. Make it better each time.If the guy is trying to make up his mind no need making things difficult or creating doubts in him if you will make a good wife.To other girls in his life, keep a closed eye.

Mary, I suggest you ignore this dude else you will definitely end up being bootycall #3.

might not be best but It'd be cool if the brother got in trouble

Whole family is screwed up

Ony thing you should do is tell her that her husband is cheating on her

That's all.

What does that have to do with anything?

OMO IBO:
aunty mary, I'm sorry. any chance of having a relationship with any guy dwindles the moment you become a bootycall.

while this is true 90% of the time, there are some dudes that have even ended marrying one night stands

Yes he is documented (visa lottery) and has been in the states for many years now.

I suggest you look into this. Is he eligible of getting a green card/passport?

Some guys also see marriage as a step of maturity that they are ready to settle down. Find out what marriage means to him and if it means a lot to him, you might as well settle for a little registry wedding.

I agree with this


If two people are in the same place and truly love/respect each other, I dont see why it should be viewed as "ball and chain" or 'jail term"

Martinkem please stop giving excuses for your favourite artistes who happen to be on this list. Music as an Art form is meant to be scrutinised and criticised, a smart musician learns from his critics. You are wrong to equate critique and hating,

Thank You. Some people really needb to grow up. Since when are people not allowed to express their opinions on artists.

Tatase:
I don't think the red is that bad. It's a bit on the hot mess side, but it's manageable. It's blonde hair on very dark skin. (Beyonce is at least fair so she might get away with it).

Exactly. Her hair is quite brown naturally anyway. They used to show a video of how she and Kelly looked before the creation of Destiny's Child and her hair wasnt black

Blonde hair on dark skin is just sad

I remember when Eve came out and she had the blonde coernrows. Everyone, dark o, pupa o, did it. Most of them looked horrid

Aunty Mary:
it aint that yet but thats exactly what i don't want it to become, in the four years we have been friends, we have only done twice, last yr and last week! how is that a booty call?

I agree and I will, like i said to David, it isnt a regular thing yet, he doesnt have a girlfriend per se, he just has 2 girls he is 'seeing' at the mo' not exclusively, i don't want to become number 3

No i don't

By sleeping with him, you're not exactly proving that you are different from the other girls he's "seeing"

Personally I woulkdnbt wanna be with a dude that "sees" multiple women anyway.

B.T.W booty calls dont have to be frequent to be called booty calls

Do you guys like go out to regular places. You can make hints of you two being a couple and see how he reacts I guess

Martin Lawrance should go back to stand up