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[quote author=B.O.S.S. link=topic=201643.msg3261831#msg3261831 date=1230052119]But KarmaMod and ElaSela are just e-enemies, they might be true friends in the realworld without knowing, that's the funny thing about the internet.[/quote]wetin i do you now ? why would you curse me like that? 

I can never be friends with fatherless lunatics who feel the need to bash others because they found someone who could smuggle them into another country. She's a pathetic nitwit.

Not even feeling funky ontop a betta country. The UK of all places. If say na Japan, maybe i'd even have pity for the hoodrat

yemmy, ma binu sugbon omo yen, ori e to yi

landis:
is that what you are taught by your 'queen of theives'?

How can an omo ale be taught anything?

Bloody jigaboo still crying cos she no know her papa and wants to blame everyone but her wretched mama

Just so you know:

It's the bartender!

so you gave gifts because you expected them to give you something in return. Who is worse? You who gave in hypocrisy or those who did not give because they did not feel like giving?

JustGood.

Hush jare.

Dont know what Nigeria you're from where people give you something and you cant show appreciation, not one, not twice, three times. Obviously some of us were raised differently to be grateful.

How do you give co-workers/housemates presents THREE YEARS IN A ROW and they cant even give one back or at the very least give a $1 dollar Thank You card.

At least for Salvation Army, they give you a tax write off as gratitude.

You people trying to make her feel bad have absolutely no idea on what you're talking about

Anyway thank God she returned the items sha. Nonsense. You say Nigerians are instead about making foos and such which is fine, what is stopping those greedy people from offering her even food.

abeg make we hear word. We're talkin about bad manners and you lot are bringing up "oyinbo culture", since when is having manners "oyinbo"

All these embarrassing excuses sha

maybe cos you're guilty of saying crap about Yorubas?

He's an omo ale akata that disrespects Yorubas cos he's married to an alabajo

"costume designers"

You know those Naija boutiques don't pass size S or M so poor Omotola has to squeeze that new yansh into ridiculous hipsters.

I like this stillwarra

Where's Adam, make he light the banga 

Wetin I do na?

It's not for her. It's for her spiritual friend

MSMAMASITA:
thanks eveyone.

karmamod do you really think if i stop having sex with him he will begin giving gifts?

Just saying most Naija guys know that in order to get sex from Naija chick, you had better start putting some "gifts" down.  

Im not telling you to become a ho ooo  

Seriously though, he sounds decent HOWEVER the whole thing of him never taking you out is very weird

The Naija dudes I know ooo too wan stuff you with food and stuff "Are you hungry? Are you sure you're not hungry? Do you want this and that", you'd have to beg them to leave you alone sef.

Only thing you really should consider in all the stuff I said before is that DONT BUY HIM GIFTS ANYMORE. Simple. Enjoy the relaionship and leave the whole gift thing out. He's not reciprocating so why continue? Let it go. Give it to charity

KB1/Hero is an asshole, Sisi

Im disappointed in you

Gosh he is just a kid and a modafucking one too

hahhaha. michelin you're cracking me up here.

JJYOU:
the other in naija is almost certainly a receiver

Of course she is. We're not stupid  

What part of Stop Buying Gifts dont you get?  

OP = Original Poster aka YOU/your winch friend

For example you really don't know who he sends money to back home . . . for all you know it could be his naija girlfriend.

This is true

yea her ass is getting way too big nowadays.

Doesnt help that they have her wearing hipsters 2 sizes too small

JJYOU:
who asked you to tell that story now? please keep naija men secrets. it is our right to have 5 wives. don't you think?

You're not serious


and yes o this is all still from the phone  

I dont agree. Dudes buy stuff for "pretend gfs" most times.

They just dont show them to friends or family

I mentioned sex the first time for a reason.

Being right is a curse

Rofl

MSMAMASITA:
i buy him a gift for each occasion. I'm so confused  

wife back home? he only goes home once a year.

You bought him a girft each time and he never reciprocated and you are STILL wondering if you should give a Christmas present?

Are you drunk? Stop the presents and enjoy the other parts of the relationship as that seems to be his only flaw. abi?

Sisi Jinx:
It's easy to buy people you are not close to anything but with someone you love, it's hard to find just the right thing to express what you feel and you just figure the best medium to use is YOURSELF and in my opinion, I think this is what he is doing.

Hogwash 

MSMAMASITA:
he told me that now he is working on some projects back home.
sometimes he tells me that he is broke, but then the phone rings in the middle of the night and he is forced to send money home the next day. i really don't know what is being said on the phone because of his language.

It means he has family obligations apparently.

Ok dude sounds like a retard, why would he confess that he buys gifts for others

If she had said that she loans him money and he DOES NOT pay back, I'd care enough to seriously respond

But since ive yet to get the problem. Na awada.  

Moonstone:
Don't listen to Karmamod o! If you withdraw sex, he will get it somewhere else

Na lie!   Naija girls at least are smart. Giving it up for something. hahahaaaa

seriously stop with the "my friend" bullshit. If she doesnt have a computer, let her use your dam computer to make the thread you selfish loon or just quit lying

Pick one.

MSMAMASITA:
i am not greedy. i have given more to the relationship than he has. But honestly i am only asking for gifts for the holidays. I

hehehe so its not about "your friend" anymore?



Threaten to withdraw sex and see if your account balance wont go up  

4Play, might as well go German

[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=209323.msg3258880#msg3258880 date=1229997186]What Hausa tradition my darling?  What thread is it on?[/quote]https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=209323.msg3258858#msg3258858

Lmao.

If he was dating a Naija chic he wpouldnt have lasted a week.

*laughs to death*

blissfullynaughty:
@ Original poster,

You are psychologically damaged by your experience with the girl that hurt you. And no matter how many times you dump and hurt other people, you will never be able to redeem yourself inside because no matter how powerful your being callous makes you feel, the desolation, despair and feeling of worthlessness that your original girlfriend elicited in you will always be with you and will always be a higher and bigger humiliation than that you may ever dish to anyone. To be honest, the girls you dumped should thank their lucky stars because with your psychological issues, you would never have made them a good partner.

There you go. The fact the ex could affect him this much says alot.

4 Play:
''Innit'' is bad enough coming from Brits, stomach churning when said with Naija accent.

Are you implying that Cockney is better than Naija accent?

Negro go to the culture thread and explain that Hausa tradition to me.pronto