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Romance / Re: 99 Per Cent Of Africa Girls with Big Stomach by Katy86(f): 5:15pm On Jul 04, 2011


when you do not like girls with a big stomach search one without a big stomach.
what is your problem when other women have a big stomach tongue angry
Romance / Re: Our Strong Love For White Girls by Katy86(f): 5:10pm On Jul 04, 2011
hm, why I call these girls like this?

I think I know what kind of girls the threadstarter is talking about.
The white girls who are hanging arround in the club and searching for black or arab man.
you can see this girls often in germany. very often. but not all are like this.

and these girls are our problem. this girls are bahving like sluts and this is one of the reason why only a vew man in the world have respect for white women (and most of this man are white grin ).

So I like to call them what they are.
Romance / Re: Marriage With A Nigerian Man 2 by Katy86(f): 5:06pm On Jul 04, 2011
grin grin grin

I will try my best and leave you alone kiss
Culture / Just My Point Of View by Katy86(f): 5:04pm On Jul 04, 2011
I read it quite often that the black user write here that the western world and the media tells them that the way a white woman look like is the only way of beauty ( you know what I meand, I have problem to express it).

so you people are angry that the media say that black people are uggly and they have to try to be more like white people.

but is this true?

I mean I am a white girl. I when I talk about white I mean really white!
I do not look a brown heidi klum or pamela anderson (only some examples).
I am white. some people say I look like I am already dead.

When I look in the german catalogs, I lokk at models. brown and blond models (white girls who go to solarium to get brown), brasilian dark girls, african - girls with a little bit european something inside or very black girls.

Of course. Your skin must be dark so you are beautiful.

I have never seen a model in a catalog with my kind of skin, with my hair or may eyes. never!

Every summer I go mad. I can not get brown. The creams who make you brown are discusting! so I have to stay white and feel bad all the summer time. people are starring at you, laufghing at you, tell you to go in the sun because your white skin is so uggly!

oh, the time I was younger I cry because of that shit. I felt so uggly. I hated my skin so much!

So when I read all this what you people write here, I can tell you be happy that you are darker.

I hope you understand what I treid so say, it is so difficult to express yourself in another language. lipsrsealed
Romance / Re: Marriage With A Nigerian Man 2 by Katy86(f): 4:52pm On Jul 04, 2011
this makes you sad hm?

I give you an advise if I stress and annoy you just do not read what I write. wink
Romance / Re: Our Strong Love For White Girls by Katy86(f): 4:50pm On Jul 04, 2011
angry

I never suck a joystick in my whole life and I will not do it !!
and I am a very very white girl !
any men who want that from me can search the door and go out of my life immediately!

so the threadstarter should wake up from his dreams and stay with all the white disco bitches he met.
a "man" like him will never have a normal white woman!

sad for him only the white, black and yellow sluts are there for him, tho intelligent women are just laughing at a freak like him. tongue
Romance / Re: They All Say We Look Like Brother And Sister! by Katy86(f): 4:45pm On Jul 04, 2011
brother and sister?

you are and sweet asioan girl and you boyfriend an african man!

how can you people be brother and sister.
Culture / Re: Need Some Help ! by Katy86(f): 4:43pm On Jul 04, 2011
I am from Germany and my partner is from Nigeria.
Culture / Need Some Help ! by Katy86(f): 4:40pm On Jul 04, 2011
Halo,

I would like to learn some edo.
my boyfriend teach me some words sometimes but thats not a good way to learn a language I think exspecially when he is always telling me that it is better to use english because it sound better.

He is even speaking with his own family english most of the time and not his own language. sometimes I think that he is ashamed of his language, but I would really like to know some basics in that language and maybe more.

i met a german woman one day and she told me that she could speak perfect igbo and I was ashamed a little bit because after 6 years with my boyfriend I do not know anything about the language or the culture Huh

when I ask him he tell me little bit but he always tells me that this is not important and even he do not care about all this. I think thats a little bit sad. so I need help from you people to teach me some things about the language and culture of edo people, so I can tell our children something about the other part inside them Wink

maybe you can give me some adresses where I can find something what can help us.


please I do not have time for fighting so haters stay away and people who would like to answer serios please help me Grin
Romance / Re: Marriage With A Nigerian Man 2 by Katy86(f): 4:34pm On Jul 04, 2011
fred, if he do not like to eat your polish food cook only for yourself and let him cook his own food wink

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Romance / Re: Our Strong Love For White Girls by Katy86(f): 4:31pm On Jul 04, 2011
please if you guys want to anoy the black females in this thread stop using white women for this.

we white women do not want to have anything to do with stupid people who only look at the colour of a women and use this to judge about her. lipsrsealed
Culture / I Need Help Please ;-) by Katy86(f): 4:27pm On Jul 04, 2011
Halo,

I would like to learn some edo.
my boyfriend teach me some words sometimes but thats not a good way to learn a language I think exspecially when he is always telling me that it is better to use english because it sound better.

He is even speaking with his own family english most of the time and not his own language. sometimes I think that he is ashamed of his language, but I would really like to know some basics in that language and maybe more.

i met a german woman one day and she told me that she could speak perfect igbo and I was ashamed a little bit because after 6 years with my boyfriend I do not know anything about the language or the culture

when I ask him he tell me little bit but he always tells me that this is not important and even he do not care about all this. I think thats a little bit sad. so I need help from you people to teach me some things about the language and culture of edo people, so I can tell our children something about the other part inside them wink

maybe you can give me some adresses where I can find something what can help us.


please I do not have time for fighting so haters stay away and people who would like to answer serios please help me grin
Romance / Re: How Can You Explain Your Boyfriend That You Will Not Marry Him, Without Hurting by Katy86(f): 10:21am On May 05, 2011
many are also even searching for boyfriends and husbands?

I do not like such things.
It is just crazy to search a husband.

There are more important things and love will come to you, you can not force it.
Romance / Re: How Can You Explain Your Boyfriend That You Will Not Marry Him, Without Hurting by Katy86(f): 10:20am On May 05, 2011
You are living together since 6 years with 2 childrens and why you do not want to merry him?
There is just one reason that come to my mind. Money. If you are married he can pretend, in case of divorce, more than if you are not.

Money is not always the problem.

Both of us do not have money. wink
Romance / Re: How Can You Explain Your Boyfriend That You Will Not Marry Him, Without Hurting by Katy86(f): 10:11am On May 04, 2011
Are you afraid that I date your man grin wink

I never dated a man who was in a relationship before. Thats not my kind of person.

And I do not talk about that I want to stay single. We are in a relationship , we live like a married couple and that is good how it is.
Romance / Re: How Can You Explain Your Boyfriend That You Will Not Marry Him, Without Hurting by Katy86(f): 9:50am On May 04, 2011
I see. So the word divorce is already in your head. Why would you think that the both of you divorced? Did your parents divorced each other? or is it common in Germany for every couple to divorce each other?

I think it is quite common here. Even the turkish women here start to divorce their men grin wink

My parents are not divorce but I do not see any reason to marry we already live like married people so why we need that paper.
Romance / Re: How Can You Explain Your Boyfriend That You Will Not Marry Him, Without Hurting by Katy86(f): 9:49am On May 04, 2011
grin  poor guys  cry


I have often told him how I think about marriage but I think that he do not take me serious  undecided

I mean we are more than 6 years together and we already have 2 children, why should we marry now?  

He is talking about that everytime in this 6 years  angry
Just planning what we will do etc everytime when he called his parents he come to me and ask me when we will marry. I always tell him NEVER. Why he can not understand that?  

the day this english people marry he was sitting in front of  the TV and just tell me that he want to do that with me to.  grin
I do not care about any english person who is going to marry and I do not want to do that !

I am just tired of explaining him.
Romance / Re: How Can You Explain Your Boyfriend That You Will Not Marry Him, Without Hurting by Katy86(f): 9:32am On May 04, 2011
I think he see it like more like you. People must marry when they have children even here in Germany many people think like this and are always shocked when I tell them that I am not married and I am not planning to marry one day.

For what should somebody marry?
To divorce in some years?
I do not want that.

As long as the law here give me the free right to have children whenever I want I will do that.
Romance / How Can You Explain Your Boyfriend That You Will Not Marry Him, Without Hurting by Katy86(f): 9:04am On May 04, 2011
him?


is that so difficult to understand that even when children are there some people (like me wink ) do not want to marry?

Why people must marry to have a real family? What is a real family?

What are these fucking papers are saying about the relationship?

Nothing.
Romance / Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by Katy86(f): 8:42am On May 04, 2011
I do not know how Katy86 baby daddy feels about her but I do know if I was to draw a pie chart the smallest pie is the amount of African men who travels outside of home for Love. I may be wrong or whatever but I tell the women always check for the citizenship cards before getting with them. I am not saying that all of them are crooked but let be real and know that too many of them are.


cool True!
Romance / Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by Katy86(f): 8:41am On May 04, 2011
lmbao you cracked in the head, lol
A nigerian family will never discriminate their own children on account of their being mixed or being albinos.We dont think about the colour of our skin and colour does not portray a big role like its being done in your country.Take for example the history of your country how Hitler kdnapped blond blue eyed white kids from scandanavian countries and murdered thousands of jewish and gypsie babies because of their dark hair and dark eyes.No doubt you collecting all these rubbish about nigerian families refering to mixed kids as bastards because this is what your nigerian husband told you.Jeez this your guy is up to something and from what i see its something sinister.He"s just telling you alll these lies to lower down your guard so he can use you and dump you.Smart man i would call him.

My man do not tell me something like this. My man tell me the same things what you say in your post right now, but I have heard different storys from other German oder European women.

You are a big lier. Nigerian are real racist. Lie how you want, most people know that about you are you nation. cool
Romance / Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by Katy86(f): 8:37am On May 04, 2011
Remember earlier in this thread i said nigerian men who date european women dont do it for love but for money and visa and that is why many of them have wives back home in africa even though they are married to white women abroad.See you even agreeing with me on this even now even though u disagreed with me earlier on this thread.Not only africans who do this but young asian girls also sell themselves on the internet to any willing whiteman who would be ready to sponsor them into the USA or europe.There is no love relationship involved with an african man and a white woman.I have a good job over here in the states so hence what do i need a white woman for? Many of my colleagues who go about with white women are in it for material gains and good u agree with me on this and by the way there"s no harm saying your nigerian husband is with you for German visa.Let me get a good laugh on that

Can you write that better the next time

I agreed with you of course I know that they have a lot of this fucking Nigerian men who are using women to get what they want because they do not have any respect for white people and really hate white women. Nothing new about it.
I just say that they are some who are not bad like this and some stay together till death.

M man has his German permit through his child. He do not need me. We are just expencive for him. He would be better alone and he would not get problems with the law.

May be you hate white women because you have a problem with your skin but not all man are so stupid like that.
Romance / Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by Katy86(f): 8:32am On May 04, 2011
so i'll assume he isnt even though you opened a thread the other day celebrating a drug dealer who you said your friend is dating.


This girl is not my friend. I just know here ,because her boyfriend was living in the same house with my friend.
Before we just see each other and they hello and thats it. Since I know what kind of person she and her boyfriend are I do not even speak to them. lipsrsealed
Romance / Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by Katy86(f): 8:29am On May 04, 2011
ain problem is, that the nigerians who live abroad give a wrong picture abt their life in europe.
some never tell them the dirty job they got to do for just few euro or how they have to manage to pay all the bills.
what they do, is to travel to africa every year and show them their cool dresses ( from kick textil discount ) and make them believe its a designer jeans or shirt, or the the fake big rings and chains, watsches and so on. . . they show them dollar dollar dollar ( wich they worked a whole year to save ) , thats it. People in africa think, life in europe is very easy and we pick money on the floor so why we shouldnt share with theM

we never get such problems, coz my man always told them how life really is in europe. . .and if they dont believe they should try their luck and a way to travel, as he or many others did.
perhaps your man also give a fake "truth" to hes family. . .

He tried to explain to his friends how it is here. Do you think they believed it?
NO, of course not.
They was calling him more and more and acuse him to lie and that he is just to egoistic and that he forget all his old friends. Last year he travelled there. He had a lot of money problems because of that and it was only one friend, one real friend, who told him that when he do not have the money for food there and when he do not know where to sleep, he will help him out. He just have to come because he want to see him again.

He was really dpressed because of this.
When you think you have a lot of friends and later you realize that it is only one real friend, that is sad.
Romance / Re: Mixed Couples And Racism On Both Sides by Katy86(f): 3:10pm On May 03, 2011
is there little truth in it. . . Undecided . . .?
i mean it's not a secret. foreigners bring children into the world just for their own interest.
u might be a victim of such pregancies?. . . Sad

my nigerian family has never spoke this way abt their children. . . rather they treat them like kings!

I have heard it often from different German women who travelled to Nigeria and met the family there.
I am happy about it that you do not make such experience.

I think it must be just sad when your children have grandparents who just see a ticket to Europe oder some walking dollars in them undecided

I know that my German parents will always be there for my children and do what they can for them.
I did not see such things in a Nigerian family. undecided

My man has got a little sister who is calling her older sister in Austrich ervytime for money. when she do not give, she goes mad undecided the older sister will call my man and both of them are just angry about that behaviour smae with an older halfbrother of my man. Only when they need something tehy are calling. undecided

I even heard that about some Nigerian parents. They call their child in Europe when they need something. Everthing els does not matter.
I heard it so often. Of course there are some who do not act like that, but only a few. undecided

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