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And when he do not have a great future he is not a human?
He is like a rat and you have to treat him like nothing?



Are only succesful men good men?

What is a great future for you?

Is only money making a good future for you ?

Being gay and Christian are two different things.

I did not say that it is the same

But in Northafrica it is quite normal.

How is it with the muslims in Nigeria? Are they allowed ?

I know that is different from country to country.

How is it in Nigeria?

Marriages between Cousins allowed or not?

Can you love your Cousin/ Cousine and have children with her/him ?

For me not.

Another question why is the thursday holy?  

my man.

No girl will date a poor guy period

Do not say that about all girls.

I am a girl. I only dated poor guy. I do not like all that rich boys with their expensiv cars and their expensives and modern handys, they make me sick

I need someone who know what is important in life amd that is not a big car and a nice mobile phone

Sure why not

And after that you are still with him?

Girl , when a man beat you one time just take your things and run!

No woman need that kind of man

It is so true what she said

But I am not so romantic too.

El Guapo

this is why people do not want to be Christians again.

To much stupid things are coming out of their mouth

Wow What kind of people are here in this forum?

Crying about racism all the time and at the same time dsikriminating others people

When you are gay you are gay. You are not ill. Its just the kind of person you are.
Its so difficult to accept the others

most gay guys,do not have a male companion when growing up,
maybe they lost their dad to death or divorce,hence they become so in need of a male company
when growing up,apparently they take it to the extreme by falling in-love with such men.

thats rubbish what you write.

@OP,most gay guys,do not have a male companion when growing up,
maybe they lost their dad to death or divorce,hence they become so in need of a male company
when growing up,apparently they take it to the extreme by falling in-love with such men.

Therefore, i don't think people are born gay,it all lies in their upbringing.

I never read so much stupid things in one post before.


I think Bashiru write a very good post about this.

where is democracy they preach where we have freedom to choose what we want, in Africa, we dont want gay so pls leave it at that

There are enough countries who do not want to have black people.

Leave it at that and accept the racism you are not better.

Somebody do not choose to be gay. Yo are gay or you are not, you can not choose it.

I would not say its racist when you say all Africans looks the same or all Asians looks the same.

It just a ignorant and it shows that this person do not go trough the world with open eyes or maybe he or she is a little bit stupid ( education is difficult to get )

Ms Potato:

I think we never make any conclusions. His parents have to live with it that he live far away from their home. They are sad sure but they no that there is no opportunity for him to live in Nigeria. What should he do there? Here he has a job, there he has nothing. His parents know that. His father even told him on phone that he should forget Nigeria that there is no hope for the country again but he have to swear to visti them as often as he can and bring their grandchildren to them so they can see them.
My parents do not have a choice too. My father was making big problems. You know I was 18 the time I met my boyfriend. I just took my things and went away from my home. From that day I am living with my boyfriend. My mother was so sad, so after a while my parents wanted to know him and say sorry for all that what they said (and that was very difficult for my father! he never said sorry in his whole life!!).

Now we all understand each other. My mother take him as her son Of course I still have discussion with my father because of the way how he speaks about Africans in general when the kids are around. I really hate that and I can not shut my mouth when he is doing that. My father is just a very difficult person.

For a relationship the character of the person is the most important thing.

You have to trust him, he have to be there for him, he have to be your best friend and you must be able to talk about everything with him.

The rest does not really matter. I remember the first time I saw my boyfriend: I was like, WOW whats that

He was really not my type but I gave him a chance and I saw that he was a really good guy and until now he was always there for me and we become really best friends.

Give him a chance

A black friend of my boyfriend once told me that for him all White looks the same

May be ha had eyeproblems

Asian do not look the same. The Africans too have different type of looks. The African from east are very pretty people.
The Arabs in the North look different again and of course not all white people look the same. In my family we all look different

Ms Potato: That sounds so sad

Of course I understand the fear of your father. My parents of course have the same fears exspecially my mother. Nobody want that his child leave the hometown and live in another country far away from home.
Like the parents of my boyfriend. The have not seen him for 6 years!
That is so sad. He said that his mother cried so often and she always beg him to come home before she dies.

Its a very difficult situation. I hope you all find a solution.

I come from Malaysia

It is allowed but be prepared to face all the mocking and discriminations in this country by every single people including your friends and family

Yes we are but alot of things are tying us down

Oh I am sorry for you

Of course I am expiring something like that to. Most of my Arabs and Turks people here are looking at me shocked when I say that I am not married. One even tell me in my face that I am a LovePeddler because of that.

That are just stupid people.

In germany it is really difficult to marry a foreigner. I do not know how it is in Malaysia. The paperproblems are to much for one.

Are your parents accepting your boyfriend?
My father made a lot of problems and he really hated him at first

I hope you can solve all your problems and marry and have beautiful children one day.

LOL! Grin Grin Grin Oh God! Ure fuinny.

But u are vry beautiful from your pictures. U are indeed beautiful Kiss


Im mixed but I still look like those typical Chinese.

Thank you, but you know I am a woman. I am of course not happy with how I look like.
I look just boring, just like an normal German. Like this crazy person write before: Hitler would be proud of me the way I look (not the way how I live   ) I try to make colour on my hair but to much stress. My nose is to long . I really hate my nose  

For me you do not look like a Chinese. They have smaller eyes. I would say you are from countries like Thailand, Malaysia, Indonesia etc. The south asian countries.

I wish i can have children but Im not married. U know how it is in asian countries

In which Asian country are you living?

Is it absolutely not allowed to have babys when you are not married?

What is when an accident happened and you get pregnant?  

Here in germany that is not a problem. That is why I did not marry. Nothing will change when we marry. We both have the same rights. Is only when I would marry him he would have to take care of us. The money what I get for my studying would go down and that would be a big problem.  

Are you peole planning to marry?

Why is it that all this mixed people are so attractiv  

When you see a normal Asian ? You say ah ok.
When you see a normal African? You say ah, ya.
When you see an normal European? It is ah ok.

But when you see that mixed people you will say WOW Whats that?  

Why are they always so pretty?

I will tell my mother that I am angry of her! Why she give me a german father  

Cute

I want more children. They are all so sweet

I am not related to Austrian people. Sorry.

And what my Grandfather says about that does not matter to me. My Grandfather from my fathers side was an alkoholic who was busying beating his wife and his children and the father of my mother was not better.

So I can say I give a Bleep about what this kind of people say

Wow! Your man is very fair! That explains it! Cheesy Kiss Your kids are very very adorable Kiss Kiss Kiss

My guy is on the dark side. Dark chocolate.

Thanks. I know

I have never seen African/Asian children. I think they will look cute

Ms Potato check my profile

Ok now Im confuse. Uhmmm. Is your bf very very fair or your kids follows your genes? Shocked

My boyfriend is not so dark. He is not real black, he is more yellow and brown. I am very light. The children , one is very light, the other is a little bit darker but still light.

You are surprised that they are not black?

Nigerian man big spenders

IGWE:

I care about my kids and you do not to read the posts about my kids.  



Mrs.Potato:

Yes this are the two children with my Nigerian boyfriend.I do not have others and I do not like to have children with different men