₦airaland Forum

LesbianBoy:
No offence pls are you by any chance among those 'white witches' that are supporting buhari Because this your make-up or should i say make-over na die! Buhari sef!

my sister if them go pay me i go no mind to join the witches o.

ps na make over

GMan650:
You don't look African......... prolly European

am omo naija o.

Posh3:
at least she get wella pass me

really?

this 50# fufu na him be backside?

Ojestas:
is this your pic?

yes na

who he be? besides the lady was doing her job.

oga paul koo oga okoye ni

who he be? besides the lady was doing her job.

Ojestas:
Abi now. .are u Nigerian?

yes.

...one thing one thing ambassador loding...
God bless am

Ojestas:
But which kind Baba Christmas be this? Scary ish!

i swear i wan ask the same question, this one no be father Christmas abeg

eyaah, love oh love.
May God Bless their union

nothing wrong with it, if it was a mother bathing with son these perverts will say its wright cos she is the mother, wats the difference.

the way dem de draw these eyes browse wey dey be like eagle wings i de fear o,

dis one wey dem don dey rumor death. any last wish or questions?

chineke! the guy na vacuum? the wife don die be that

Missali:
It is not that people have no candid ideas. The fact is that it is better for a child to be raised in an orphanage home where he has the love and respect just as everyone around him, knowing truly his origin, than to be given a false sense of belonging only to be witch-hunted in the near future. Even the OP says she cannot guarantee this issue may not arise sometime later.

Also, we need to look at the reason for adoption. If I were in charge of any of these special care centres and knew the OP I would have refused the adoption of a child from it.
The prerogative of adopting a child first and foremost is love and not because of depression, sadness, anxiety, etc. If you can't be strong for yourself, how exactly can you be strong for a baby?

Asides Papa dilemma of sincerely wishing he had a son, he also wants to be accepted by his kinsmen and I believe he wants them to accept the child too as his son.
He may accept the boy but will the boy be accepted? Let us not place our ambitions in such a way that causes ridicule to others.

That being said, here is a link I got for the process of adopting in Nigeria. It has some useful information. http://nigerianorphanages..

Please make background findings about the orphanage you plan to use as some of them are simply baby factories in disguise.

tank u sis for this.

if only my father would listen.

Missali:
In most cases an adopted child is not considered a 'true child' in the Nigerian perspective. Arguments such as 'the boy is not our blood, he was bought with money' etc. may arise in the future.

Given that this child is to be taken as the first son (inheritor) of your father, this may not go down well with extended families and immediate families alike in time to come.

You all should think carefully. Igbos especially 'rever' their first son. In addition to saving yourselves future embarrassments, you may want to avoid putting the life of an innocent child in danger.

at the long run it might become a problem, and there's no returning a child after adopting. he says he wants to adopt a son and make him his own son before anything happens. for us we re not worried about wat the boy will get,

Miami11:
Your dad should give up At 74, talk him over about forgetting this boy stuff. Girls are kids too.

he used to be ok with the no male child thing but recently it seemed like its the only that matters to him, even my mum and younger ones at re not finding it easy with him any more.

donbenedict:
as in eh... Like seriously.. Or i fit be inlaw sha

we no need in-laws for now. we need our own boy child abeg. my father is really depressed, really

donbenedict:
oya he should come and adopt me

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donbenedict:
awww.... Ok so should he adopt and he grows up, and ur father decides to will his properties in his name, will you ladies be ok with it?

yes i guess, thats wat he wants, we will be getting married and leaving anyway

donbenedict:
Ur father shouldnt lose hope.. My granddad gave birth to ten children, nine females and the last one being a male..

but my father is 74 and my mun over 60 we thought adoption is the only way, not advised to try having child at these age

Hello NLers please need help.

my father has fallen into serious depression for the reason that we have no male child. we are 8 girls and the youngest is about 12 yrs now.

my father has always been disturbed about this issues and how his elder brothers and relatives mock him how he is acquiring lands and houses for his birds (the Daughters) that tomoro they will all fly away.

recently he has been complaining that that is only thing that will keep alive longer. who would not want to do everything to keep their parents alive.

please does anyone know where and the process for child adoption in Nigeria, within Imo state please.

please i beg anyone with reasonable information please respond.

mods pls help me out!

okporoko u no see the color

i dont understand why everything resolves to violence these days. when has violence resolved any problem?

congrats.

congrats to her, she's pretty no too much foundation, cement and all those concrete for face.

Malakh:
its xmas jor, and christ didn't observe mass but xtians observe death mass, x represents a bent cross symbolizing death, so celebrate your death(X)mass

i don die. this ur explanation don fear me o. i think say na just Christ o

Iphone

Is that Nigerian police uniform or na new one? maybe its her servant in their own official uniform.

ademega:
xmas big boy go bad

its [b]Christ[/b]mas not xmas. dont represent Christ with x mbong!