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vicky85:
Is this woman not tired............She is such a disgrace to womanhood.......when you started dating a Pastor.......are you not aware that you will not have his 100% attention......Abeg, madam Pastor Anita, i am tired of seeing this court case etc.....try and remarry a man that is not into Gods ministry..Abeg.....PASTORS WIVES ARE CALLED ENDURANCE....COS, THEY MUST ENDURE EVERYTHING......

May God not allow you pass thru anything like this IJN.
Continue to condemn a woman you really know nothing about. Continue to justify it.
This woman has one of loveliest characters, so what happened thru the years?
Do you know of her exploits for several years in EUROPE for the ministry
What exactly broke the camel's back that made her resolute in leaving despite all the sacrifice
Did She not know the world will turn its back on her(esp Africa). yet she filed?
Not everyone is stupid.
Do you have details of their marriage?
Was there even a "marriage".
You can only endure what exists!
I GUESS SHE GOT TIRED OF PRETENDING, SUFFERING & MAINTAINING A FALSE IMAGE TO SAVE HER REPUTATION!

vooks:
Dearest Anas09,
I think you are generalizing. Many ministers imagine their calling transforms them into demigods, there are as many wives of MoGs who are living in hell purely on account of their husbands' callings just as there are MoGs who are married to daughters of Satan. They are terrorized and intimidated into silence by their larger-than-life images.

Ministers of the gospel need to wake up to the fact that to their families,they are first husbands and fathers,many secondly MoG.

We also need to disabuse the notion that Christian ministry is the most stressful occupation on the marriage institution. I can think of others like millitary or even politics.

We need to stop making excuses for these ministers' failures. When we elevate them on pedestals it is difficult to find their faults. That's why everyone is busy blaming Anita. She is a convenient scapegoat. Oyaks went ahead and portrayed her as stubborn and under-anointed. She has an equal right to be heard, and she has a lot to tell. They are now trying to gag her from speaking or writing about her marriage. Interesting times

Really interesting times i must say.
She should speak please. Many will learn from it. Some will find help, made free etc.
Esp intending couples in the ministry. There are boundaries that should never be crossed.
The moG crossed a lot of lines as far as the marriage institution is concerned. She endured for 16years praying and hoping. Got tired, confronted her misery, demanded her rights as a wife & GOT HORRIBLY HUMILIATED!
When a man doesnt love his wife, its nt hard to know.
She has given up....
Now CE members are portraying him as the victim.
A deception that will only work on the deluded, fanatic & the gullible.
mtcheeeeew!!!!

vooks:
Benny Hinn never remarried; he just reunited with his separated wife who was in the process of filing for a divorce.
What I mean is no amount of faith or prayers can undo the historicity of their divorce. If the prayers were to work, it'd have been before the divorce was decreed. Henceforth should the prayers 'work', it'd be Oyaks remarrying his FORMER WIFE.

People should please stop comparing our dear MoG to Benny Hinn.
You think its easy for a MAN OF GOD to be ACCOUNTABLE TO ONE WOMAN IN MARRIAGE?
Even God himself had to tell Abraham to listen to Sarah when She demanded the sack of Hagar(the other woman!).
After all ministry is different from marriage.
It takes a level of meekness to still honour a wife in your life knowing that you are a man of God.
The difference however is that the whole world is clearly watching & have the God given sense to identify men of integrity and humility.
When a leader is completely surrounded by sycophants, there is trouble o.
How can you practically divorce a woman for years & perpetually refuse her from coming to be with you & NO ONE COULD INTERVENE IN THE CHURCH.
SYCOPHANTS!!!
Now they are everywhere calling the woman all sorts.
Leaders are busy programming the mind of their sheep. INSTEAD OF WORKING ON THEIR INTEGRITY.
Lolz......
It is in his interest that She hasnt made public her proof of his infidelity.
She has tried!
Settle her and let her be.
God will take care of her. She was first HIS DAUGHTER b4 a man married her.
God will take care of her!

eplanning:
Mutual wealth? They should start sharing church property like personal belongings? Are you okay? The first thing Satan does when he wants to finish you is to make you mad. You no longer reason well. And that is why she could not see that she was fighting a loosing battle. She tried to destroy God's servant and bring shame to the church but she failed, Period.

Oga Church wealth is not their mutual wealth o ?
They were a couple!
The man has personal money. The least the MOG can do is settle his wife properly. Why continue to fight her.
After all you put her through!!!
na wa o.

[quote author=mbembe post=43246615]People like you are worse than 'armed robbers' because those ones at least come out to declare that they want to rob you..... but Satanist like you hide behind the computer to spread falsehood.

I am no fan of Chris Oyahkilome, infact, l dislike that "jerry-curled", funky-looking, unserious persona of his, since l was young. I think "spiritual leaders" like him should "lead by example.... good example" .....and he is a bad example of "moderation". (my opinion though).

Let us ASSUME that what you posit above is TRUE. Let us assume that it was Chris who left/abandoned his family on London!
Let me also ASSUME that you have been to London, at least ONCE!

Now, tell us, does London looks like a place where a "man" can impose his wish on his wife, against her will?
can you tell your wife to "sit down there".... (when she does not want to)..... and she will obey you?
As a mater of fact, when it comes to the whole of Europe and America, it is thee woman that tells the man to "sit down there"... and he does! grin grin
If he doesn't, he gets thrown out of his own house, that same night, with not more than his knickers, loses his kids and becomes an instant ATM (wife and child support) to the estranged wife.

Again, based on your words, which we decided to "assume for truth", let us ask this Kwesion: Did Chris also tie his wife down in London, that she could not buy a ticket and say "Today, l will live with my husband in Nigeria"... and fly to Lagos? ..... or does she have her reason for "staying put" in London and refusing to come live with her husband?

So, the argument that Chris dumped his family in London, does not wash at all.

Fact is; Anita was the one that abandoned her husband in Nigeria because she has her own "reasons and designs" for refusing to come home.

Jist: (meaning you can ignore it)
1.) She prefers living in London than Nigeria because over there, she gets to be the 'husband'.... while Chris will be the wife

2.) she was getting "power drunk" and wanted to be lording it over other Church Ministers who by "church hierachy", are senior to her since she is just the "Pastor's wife"... and not 2nd in-command. Infact, she was challenging Chris authority, within the church.
That sort of behaviour can only go unchallenged in London, hence her staying put over there! undecided undecided

3.) Since the church has a "very lucrative" branch in London, Anita figured out she better hold onto that one....and she eventually converted it to her own "personal church" (Go and read the court papers as regards the wahala that happened in that branch of the church, when she hijacked ownership of it! Imagine a British court "dividing ownership of church" between husband and wife, like it is some "carnal/material" property, eehn?)

Issokay!

So, for Anita, its all about the Love of MONEY and POWER....... the marriage can go to blazes!
I just hope she wont be pretending to be seeing visions of exhibiting anything resembling "spiritual", afterwards! undecided shocked shocked grin grin grin

Now that they are freew of each other's burden, l hope we get to have some fresh air

eplanning:
So relatives were standing by hoping to get their share of church money. no wonder they pushed their daughter to seek divorce from a london court.
Una eye don clear now. Pastor Chris even tried sef. Actually the man doesnt even get a salary from church, he is totally sold out to the work of the Lord, living by the faith that he preaches. . .so e try. . So you heard he donated 1billon naira and you started salivating. Greedy people, i'm sure they were imagining millions of dollars from sale of Rhapsody, which even Dr Chris cannot touch for personal use .

By the way, she better shelve that her plan of writting tales about the MOG, because it wont work, she will not achieve her desire. She should rather focus on repentance and getting back to her first love as the same spirit that pushed her to fight for divorce cannot defend her when God begins to vindicate His annointed. Those so-called friends around you Ma will not be able to help then.

You became a global figure because you married Pastor Chris, and this is how you repay him? The once anointed woman of God whose words blessed and healed millions around the world daily, is now given to petty gossip and useless carnal motivational blogging? SMH

Wonderful!
Truth is, even if the MoG is proven to have dealt treachously with this woman, a lot of you will still attack this woman.
No wahala.
The man who constantly preaches to you has programmed you "by the word".
BUT No man is God.
And She deserves to be free from such a marriage.
While the moG looked harmless over this divorce, it is clear he has been "dealing" with this woman throughout. None of his speeches about her depicts reconcilation.
For those talking about greed, pls be kindly informed that Pastor Anita and her family were one of the first MAJOR partners in the blw.
She poured finances & indeed her life into this church.
The attack on her will continue anyway as manipulation & oppression is how we roll in Africa.
Continue(in Pat Jona's voice).

hamilton62:
You first and primary duty is to God not your wife because she also has her duty due for God too... Yes paul said it as an opinion but did God agree with Paul? God didn't as Levites to be single did He? Ler's start reason with God as a yardstick here... Do you know that men of God give more attention to the congregation that their family? That's the nature of their work not that they like it and they need a spiritual and understanding wife who knows this and has seen it as part of their hubby's duty.

Honestly, what you are saying doesnot apply to this situation. If a man does not want you, you cant force him. A MAN CAN BE HEAVILY ANOINTED WITHOUT INTEGRITY OF CHARACTER. This woman suffered for 16 years!!!
Check out this exclusive interview with a close family relative.
Get the facts straight.

The couple’s divorce was finalized on February 8, this year but it was after much legal drama and fireworks in the English court. The major contentions were the sharing of their mutual property as well Pastor Anita’s right to speak freely about life with her former husband, which he had challenged, wanting the court to bar her from disclosing details of the divorce and their life together. He was however willing to consider a sufficient compensation to her, if she agreed not to speak about the matter .
On the matter of compensation, we gathered that Pastor Chris declared a total sum of 120,000 USD and a house in Johannesburg, South Africa and that he was only the spiritual head of the Christ Embassy Church, not its administrative or legal head, and so its funds were communal and not personal to him. Our source, who described the claim by Pastor Chris as a blatant lie, revealed that this was particularly distressing to Anita as she had invested the better part of her life, including finances in the
Christ Embassy Church. “She was particularly saddened by this claim, and had to go on vacation to Switzerland, her mother’s country, because of the stress,” he said.
That incident happened in October last year, shortly after which Pastor Chris donated the whooping sum of N1 billion to the Benson Idahosa University.
The court held in favour of Pastor Chris that the funds of the church were indeed communal and so would not be a factor in the divorce, to his great delight and the coterie of aides, hangers-on and senior pastors who accompanied him to the High Court of Justice Principal Registry of the Family Division in October 2015. So much so that it was learnt they threw a party at the Christ Embassy, Bermondsey branch to celebrate ‘the victory.’
The court however did not bar Pastor Anita from disclosing any detail of the divorce or life with her ex-husband, and we have learned reliably that she is getting prepared to write a tell-all about the misery she suffered at the hands of the so-called man of God.
What broke the camel’s back
Talking about misery, our source disclosed that the woman had a difficult and sexless marriage for much of the time they were together but bore the pains because she believed it was the necessary sacrifice for the success of their ministry. She was transferred to UK to start off the international arm of the ministry in the late 90s, when the church had a programme there and Pastor Chris asked her to stay back and kick-start the international arm of the ministry. At that point, our source said, Pastor Chris’ word was life and death to her and she considered him next to God. So in spite of family and friends who cautioned against taking up the offer and that it was not ideal leaving her relatively young marriage for an oversea country, even for the cause of the gospel, she packed her bags in obedience to her ‘man of God.’ She took their two children Charlene and Sharon along with her.
In no time, her hard-work had paid off and the international arm of the ministry was booming, with numerous churches started in the UK and mainland Europe. But this success might have invariably cost her marriage, for while she was away from Nigeria, a few women had allegedly grown close to her husband and were living in the same housing complex known as ‘White House’ as he. ‘White House’ is an exclusive multi story building at the Church’s Oregun-Lagos branch where Pastor Chris stays whenever he is in Lagos. It has several luxury apartments, a swimming pool, and open only to Pastor Chris, and his closest aides, who incidentally are beautiful but unmarried top female pastors.

[quote author=Olasam12 post=43043413]So many quentions begging for answers.
1. what caused the divorce? Someone like Chris shouldn't hide things like that.

Exclusive details from Nigeriantimes.

Talking about misery, our source disclosed that the woman had a difficult and sexless marriage for much of the time they were together but bore the pains because she believed it was the necessary sacrifice for the success of their ministry. She was transferred to UK to start off the international arm of the ministry in the late 90s, when the church had a programme there and Pastor Chris asked her to stay back and kick-start the international arm of the ministry. At that point, our source said, Pastor Chris’ word was life and death to her and she considered him next to God. So in spite of family and friends who cautioned against taking up the offer and that it was not ideal leaving her relatively young marriage for an oversea country, even for the cause of the gospel, she packed her bags in obedience to her ‘man of God.’ She took their two children Charlene and Sharon along with her.
In no time, her hard-work had paid off and the international arm of the ministry was booming, with numerous churches started in the UK and mainland Europe. But this success might have invariably cost her marriage, for while she was away from Nigeria, a few women had allegedly grown close to her husband and were living in the same housing complex known as ‘White House’ as he. ‘White House’ is an exclusive multi story building at the Church’s Oregun-Lagos branch where Pastor Chris stays whenever he is in Lagos. It has several luxury apartments, a swimming pool, and open only to Pastor Chris, and his closest aides, who incidentally are beautiful but unmarried female pastors and ministry directors, whom his ex-wife was uncomfortable with.
With rumours swirling around town about some suspicious activities bordering on infidelity, our source said Pastor Anita insisted on returning to Lagos, to her matrimonial home, and requested the sack of the strange women – Pentecostalspeak for home breakers , around her ex-husband. The man however refused, insisting that she was more useful to the ministry in the Uk, than in Nigeria and that the women were indispensible to the growth of the Christ Embassy Church.

edekoln:
This has nothing to do with pride or haughtiness but has everything thing to do with rightly dividing the word of truth. Now, let me ask you some few questions:
1. if the ONLY reason he ONLY collects offerings is to get poor church goers out of poverty, does it mean he doesnt collect offerings from the rich ones?
2. Does it mean that despite more than 30yrs of collecting tithes and offering, there are still only poor folks and nobody rich in his church?
3. Is he STILL collecting offering from the poormembers who became rich by giving him their offering?
4. If he hasnt stop collecting from them, do you think he has the intention of ever stopping to collect offering even when all his poor members become rich?
5. If he has no intention to stop collecting offerings from them, why should he say that the ONLY reason he STILL collects offerings is to get his poor members out of poverty?
6. Dont you think that is outright fraudulence? Or would you say thats inspiration from the Holy Ghost ?
As for miriam and Aaron , their case is different from what we have here. They were motivated by envy and sibling rivary to question Moses' authority not that they knew or percieved that Moses was breaking the laws God gave through him. Besides Paul condenmed Peter when Peter went the way of hypocrisy and Paul didnt get leprosy!!

It is clear you know the scriptures and I assume you're born again. If you want to rightly divide the word of truth, do it by the spirit of truth. Stay in the word and divide the word. RIDICULING THE MINISTRY OF A PREACHER is not dividing the word of truth.
Lets call a spade a spade.
If not, those bitter unbelievers that perpetually hate on these men are heavilly anointed dividers of the word of truth.
Even you yourself should know that you cant judge a man from few words. Listen to everything. because JESUS OUR LORD MADE CONTROVERSIAL STATEMENTS that drove pple away from Him. Even His disciples needed explanation.
Yes, there is a link btwn our giving and our increasing.
This man's teaching is more than these few lines so why judge with little info.
There are thousands of wealthy persons that still give in this ministry. He has taught them the whole counsel of the word. And testimonies abound!
Even His private jet was a surprise gift from His partners who have followed and been blessed under his ministry.
IT IS WISDOM TO BE VERY CAREFUL!

LEXYCOM:
What he meant is that heaven reckons with every offering u give........you are right to say offering is used for the work of God on earth.....so, when next u give offering, give with a pure heart and a regenerated heart

Exactly!
"Your offerings go to heaven".
How is this hard for any believer to understand.
Of course we know that naira and dollars are not spent in heaven. So it's not sarcasm to imply such. it's foolishness.
But our money is an expression of value. it's common sense.
Money whether in form of coins, cash or livestock is an expression of value AND HEAVEN TAKES NOTE OF EVERYTHING!
HEAVEN recognized the widow's mite, God personally accepted Abel's offering and several examples abound in scriptures to show us that HEAVEN RECIEVES THE SACRIFICES OF GOD'S CHILDREN AS UNTO GOD.

The spirit of the anti Christ is stirring up rebellion in the hearts of pple.
And sadly, many don't realize it.

excel455:
whoever is d admin here shd pls close dis thread....This is just too much.

Sadly, it won't stop.
The spirit of liberalism that has suppressed the voice of the church of America is spreading in this nation and we're seeing more and more people looking the fear of God or His servants.
They are "mere men" like us they say.
Preachers are now constantly under attack for anything they do. Even when they mean no harm.
It's all part of Satan's plan. The church is getting too glorious and taking too much territories. So he must fight.
Attacking the integrity of God's servants, making many loose respect for them and many more go back into the world.
To every believer here, BE WISE!
Don't sponsor a demonic agenda in bid to "enlighten" pple.
Choose to see and speak of the good in others. Esp those that Labour for the master. Resist the temptation of pulling them down. It is humility to respect DELEGATED AUTHORITY.
Do you lack understanding? down
Why is what he said hard for anyone to understand?

Money is an expression of value and sacrifice. And heaven rewards it. God took note of the widow 's mites, personally accepted abel's offering, recieved sacrifices from Abraham.
HEAVEN RECORDS EVERY SACRIFICE OF GOD'S CHILDREN.
Now how does this warrant the derogatory remarks you see here.
Lord have mercy!

edekoln:
What a curious and dubious statement coming from a "big man of god! " I fail to understand why this obvious and manifest falsehood could be lost on any rational human being let alone a spirit-filled christian. Firstly, are there only poor folks in his church? If the only reason he still collects offering from them is to get out of poverty, is going to stop collecting offering when all of them become rich? How lomg is it goimg to take him to get them out of poverty? He's been taking offering from them for mare than 30yrs and has become so stinkingly rich thereby and hus members are still poor despite all those years of offering collecting and he must continue to collect to get them out of povery? BLACK LIE! And again what about the rich members or are ther no rich members in his church? Has he stop collecting offerings from them? if the only he collects is to get them out of poverty, how can he get those who are already rich out of poverty? STUPID LIE! If he hasnt at any time stop collecting offering from poor members who became rich, then there are many obvious reasons he still collects offerings from his poor members and getting them out of poverty is not one of them. A sincere and an unhiased answer to the above questions will reveal the 419 spirit behind such statement from a pator. it is highly regrettanle that most nigerian christians do not read between the lines of penticostal smooth double talk. They have been brain-wahed to always end up with a position or practice papa says is right irrespctive of what Christ says anout the matter or the Apostles exemplified in acis and the epistles. Their christian philosophy is " My Papa, Right Or Wrong " Their heart is on fire but their head on ice!

It takes a degree of PRIDE AND ARROGANCE TO SAY certain things you've said about this man.
Yes. there are fraudulent preachers. But not all are.
However, when God is with a man. Just be careful. Try.
Resist the temptation to judge him. That's what Miriam and Aaron did to Moses and God was angry. A proud man is haughty and repels correction but a meek man will find mercy in the eyes of God

Whether or not you agree. WHAT THE MAN OF GOD SAID IS TRUE!
A person can be born in church, familiar with Christendom and still not KNOW spiritual things.
Its takes the HolyGhost and a heart of meekness to comprehend things like this. It doesn't matter how many studies you've done. Your refusal to agree doesn't change anything.
YOUR UNDERSTANDING IS BASED ON YOUR MATURITY IN SPIRITUAL THINGS.

Money is earthly. Yes!
Money is a physical thing. Yes!
But even common sense will tell you that money is only money because of value.
Everytime money is spent, Value is exchanged.
It represents what you treasure/value. From the days of Cain and Abel to the days of Abraham to even the book of Malachi, pple have offered these things that represent money to God and He has always received them in heaven as the one to whom they offered.
E.g. GOD ACCEPTED ABEL'S OFFERING.

"When you give, you're sending money to heaven".
What does that mean?
We all know that you don't spend naira or dollars in heaven.
It simply means, HEAVEN KEEPS RECORDS OF EVERY LITTLE SACRIFICE OF GOD'S CHILDREN.
And there are blessings attached to our giving according to scriptures.

Whether or not you agree. WHAT THE MAN OF GOD SAID IS TRUE!
A person can be born in church, familiar with Christendom and still not KNOW spiritual things.
Its takes the HolyGhost and a heart of meekness to comprehend things like this. It doesn't matter how many studies you've done. Your refusal to agree doesn't change anything.
YOUR UNDERSTANDING IS BASED ON YOUR MATURITY IN SPIRITUAL THINGS.

Money is earthly. Yes!
Money is a physical thing. Yes!
But even common sense will tell you that money is only money because of value.
Everytime money is spent, Value is exchanged.
It represents what you treasure/value. From the days of Cain and Abel to the days of Abraham to even the book of Malachi, pple have offered these things that represent money to God and He has always received them in heaven as the one to whom they offered.
E.g. GOD ACCEPTED ABEL'S OFFERING.

"When you give, you're sending money to heaven".
What does that mean?
We all know that you don't spend naira or dollars in heaven.
It simply means, HEAVEN KEEPS RECORDS OF EVERY LITTLE SACRIFICE OF GOD'S CHILDREN.
And there are blessings attached to our giving according to scriptures.

vooks:
Anita did more than give birth, she ran the London branch. It is quite ret@rded claiming you are the MoG, that you wer called and not her when you fall out yet you trusted an uncalled woman with a significant arm of your ministry

that is so true.
The most annoying part of this situation is the IGNORANCE of people.
Hence a lot of senseless comments.
Members of this family & old members of blw are quiet & praying that the moG will put his home together again.
This woman was nt just a wife.
The moG married a powerful woman who is simply tired of PRETENDING & SUFFERING in a bid to save her image.
She co authored rhapsody of realities for years, served as the REGIONAL PASTOR of Christ Embassy UK/EUROPE, was the ministry's director of International Office & a spiritual mother to many.
Her father was one of the FIRST MAJOR FINANCIAL PARTNERS the ministry had when it began.
Her family money build the very foundations of Christ Embassy as you know it today.
Somebody has been emotionally crushed to the extent of walking away & pple are here talking nonsense

Chidoks:
Woman, your husband is not talking.emulate him and keep shut.every marriage has it's challenges.if your way out is divorce, go ahead and enjoy it but please stop being lousy about it.keep it to yourself.

how na ?
Her husband who belittled this woman publicly and in his church?
Many pple expected her to expose her grieviances but She held back.
This is the first time She's speaking publicly for over a year now.
And She's merely encouraging emotionally abused persons thru her blog using few tips from her life.
Whether or nt you agree, this woman has displayed maturity!

Toks2008:
Sorry zodiac is far from star gazing but its simply about understanding the nature of pple in relation to their birth period.

I know thesse stories and i still maintain she acted unreasonably.

my opinion

ok Sir. I've heard you.
i maintain that her decision is reasonable enuf.
That was no marriage anyways.
The moG has proven that neither needs or value this woman.
As for the church, Christ Embassy is moving on. From glory to glory.
Anita Ebhodaghe is waxing stronger as well. Jesus will take care of his daughter. Restore peace and joy to her again.
Marriage is nt by force.

Toks2008:
Apparently you seem to be missing my point.

Please who do we blame for her flowing with the tide?

Was it not their decision that she takes charge of the UK branch?

Was it not obvious that what she is complaining about have always been there for years?

Did anyone stop her from coming to Nigeria from time to time to be with her hubby and all she is complaining about now was actually tolerated by her for too long and please whose fault is that?

See you know no jack and i advice you to go read the story very well.

For your information, this may sound weird to you but i have observed the personalities of some ladies who were born within some period and i know 5 ladies who exhibited same behavior. YES they are Pisces women and before you start ranting about how zodiac is condemned in the bible please go read again, astrology,star gazing or fortune telling is not the same as zodiac characteristics.

Pisces women are very mysterious people and they are so complicated because they have a funny way of flowing with "things" they latter complain of.

I repeat, i know 5 ladies who just decide to leave their hubby complaining of stuffs that they claimed they tolerated for so long and then you begin to wonder why they tolerated that long? In-fact they can break up their marriage over issues that can easily be resolved.

They are very very ideal as a woman but that crazy nature is their problem as they tend to complicate their relationships with their own hands and they become so melodramatic that you begin to wonder. Let me stop here.

the 3 wisemen that brought gifts to Jesus were astrologers and thats why they read the stars. I have no problem with that.
Yes, women hav various temperaments.
But anyone who is close to this family or has been in blw for many years will understand that this woman was subjected to emotional frustration.
She tried severally to get elders to intervene including Pst Chris' father(who has passed on).
She was stopped from coming back home.
SHE WAS PRACTICALLY MADE A STRANGER IN HER OWN HOME. THOSE WHO KNOW, KNOW THIS CLEARLY.
All She wanted & cried out for years was a chance to be his wife and nt just a senior pastor.
The union died a longed time ago. Her husband obviously doesnt love her but needed her to maintain a good public image.
SINCE IT HAS DAWNED ON HER THAT SHE REALLY IS NT WANTED, LET HER BE FREE BIKO & live the rest of her life wit family and friends who care.
Listen! There are pple who are quiet. Yet know wats rili goin on

coolscott:
itoese

Of course.
Although I believe pastor Chris is to blame because he is the man in the relationship, it is clear when pastors' wives do this all they are demanding is "love" as a wife should have it.
All she is crying out is "Love me!"
And that is a natural cry because that is how women were wired and that is why God commanded men to "Love your wives".

Pastor Chris played the "I will show you who is the boss in this relationship" card till the end.

When God comes to his garden in the end, God will ask the parties involved. But I believe just like He asked Adam, He will first ask pastor Chris "What happened here" because He knows who the head is, who He has put in charge and therefore, where the buck stops.

thank you for that wise comment.
Its funny hw in africa when men oppress their wives, it is treated as notin and even Christians are being led to bliv this nonsense. If you are nt ready to be faithful and accountable, then dnt marry a godly woman! Since this divorce the moG has used mainly oppression to force this woman back and he has the full support of nigerians.
And you wonder why african leaders do rubbish and easily get away wit it. WE ARE GULLIBLE.
After 15 years of painful endurance, God will judge.
Seperation is permitted in scriptures. Our Lord Jesus and the apostle Paul gave conditions for divorce. Go and study scriptures.
NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO MAKE ANOTHER PERSONS LIFE MISERABLE!

cotolscott:
itoese

Of course.
Although I believe pastor Chris is to blame because he is the man in the relationship, it is clear when pastors' wives do this all they are demanding is "love" as a wife should have it.
All she is crying out is "Love me!"
And that is a natural cry because that is how women were wired and that is why God commanded men to "Love your wives".

Pastor Chris played the "I will show you who is the boss in this relationship" card till the end.

When God comes to his garden in the end, God will ask the parties involved. But I believe just like He asked Adam, He will first ask pastor Chris "What happened here" because He knows who the head is, who He has put in charge and therefore, where the buck stops.

This is wisdom!
Thank you.
A lot of manipulation prevails in countries like Nigeria because pple encourage nonsense.
A man of God practically ruins the emotional life of his wife for 15 years. I mean it is clear and glaring and all pple can say is "go back" "you hav failed God" & all that rubbish.
Where is your conscience?
The moG handled this matter like a Nigerian. He practically humiliated this woman in a bid to save his image and sadly, its working.
God will judge!
As for Anita Ebhodaghe, God will take care of her.

Toks2008:
Did you actually go through the explicit reasons why she filed for a divorce?

i almost puked when i did.

She first added infidelity then she replaced it with improper conduct.

The most laughable one was that she complained that pastor chris neglected her in uk abeg help me ask her why she no fit come meet her husband from time to time?

See i followed this issue closely and IN MY OPINION,SHE is only making a mockery of herself and not pastor chris.

hilary clinton who was not eveen a minister of God stood by her hubby during the sex scandal but here we have a reverend trying to destroy her own marriage with her own hands.smh

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This is the first time this woman is speaking about this issue publicly. So that nonsense of She first said this, then said that is an expression of how gullible and unreasonable some pple are. The truth came out thru details gotten from her divorce papers and asking questions to close family sources. But She was silent. While her husband kept reducing her publicly to save his image. SHE HAS BEEN QUIET. Even now She's talking, She's not even going into details. lolz! which kind of woman does that? some persons dont just like admitting the truth. Anita handled this matter with great respect for the man of God even though She was completely humiliated publicly by him after 15 years of an emotionally abusive marriage. Any reasonable fellow will salute her courage. YOU DONT KNOW THIS WOMAN, SO SHUT UP!